Hello, it's Paula Sweet here from Your Absolute Mind, the podcast where we dig deep into all things mental health, with a particular focus on the journey towards mental wellness. In this episode, I take a detailed look at the language we use when we talk about mental health. I delve into the subtle but significant difference between saying "I feel anxious" and "I have anxiety". While these phrases might seem similar, they paint vastly different pictures of our mental health landscape. Throughout this conversation, I break down these two statements and explore how they can impact not only our personal perception of our mental health but also how others might understand us. As I guide you through this discussion, we examine how such linguistic subtleties might shape our experiences and even influence our relationship with our mental health. The discussion isn't limited to anxiety. I extend the conversation to include conditions like depression, ADHD, and other mental health disorders. Together, we consider how saying "I feel..." rather than "I have..." or "I am..." can serve as a reminder that our current state is changeable and not a permanent fixture of our identities. Finally, I invite you to reflect on the words you use when talking about your mental health and how small changes in language can help shape our reality in a more positive and empowering way. Join me as we explore these themes and together use language to promote a healthier conversation around mental health. And remember to check ouT http://absolutemind.app Our mental health app which gives you an easy way to become mentally healthy.

Hello, it's Paula Sweet here from Your Absolute Mind, the podcast where we dig deep into all things mental health, with a particular focus on the journey towards mental wellness. In this episode, I take a detailed look at the language we use when we talk about mental health. I delve into the subtle but significant difference between saying "I feel anxious" and "I have anxiety". While these phrases might seem similar, they paint vastly different pictures of our mental health landscape. Throughout this conversation, I break down these two statements and explore how they can impact not only our personal perception of our mental health but also how others might understand us. As I guide you through this discussion, we examine how such linguistic subtleties might shape our experiences and even influence our relationship with our mental health. The discussion isn't limited to anxiety. I extend the conversation to include conditions like depression, ADHD, and other mental health disorders. Together, we consider how saying "I feel..." rather than "I have..." or "I am..." can serve as a reminder that our current state is changeable and not a permanent fixture of our identities. Finally, I invite you to reflect on the words you use when talking about your mental health and how small changes in language can help shape our reality in a more positive and empowering way. Join me as we explore these themes and together use language to promote a healthier conversation around mental health. And remember to check ouT <a href="http://absolutemind.app" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">http://absolutemind.app</a> Our mental health app which gives you an easy way to become mentally healthy.

276 - How Our Words Shape Our Reality: The Language of Mental Health

On this episode of 'Your Absolute Mind', I'm your host, Paula Sweet, and we had a chat about how having too many choices and trying to personalise everything could be messing with our mental health. We live in a world full of options, right? From our clothes to our coffee orders, everything is about what suits me'. This extends to our mental health too, and while it's great that we're acknowledging our personal battles, there's a downside - we start stressing about making the 'perfect' choice. Now, here's a thought: what if we need a bit more standardisation rather than personalisation? It sounds weird, I know. But just like a daily routine can provide some structure to our lives, maybe it could do the same for our mental health. Simple stuff like exercising regularly, getting enough sleep, or practising mindfulness can act as a safety net for our mental health. Looking beyond mental health, think about how successful organisations like the military or big corporations have used standardisation to thrive. They've cut down the choices to increase efficiency and reduce stress. It's like Apple, for example, offering a limited range of products but still being a major hit. So, coming back to mental health, maybe it's time we stop overthinking and start focusing on what we know works. Things like working out regularly, eating balanced meals, getting plenty of sleep, practising mindfulness, and keeping in touch with our friends and family. Now, before we wrapped up the episode, I shared what I consider the non-negotiables for mental health: sleep, meditation, staying hydrated, and moving around. These are simple but super effective. The goal here is not to personalise everything, but to keep it simple and consistent. After all, it's the small, everyday actions that lead to big changes. So let's chill on the personalisation a bit and focus on the basics. Remember, looking after our mental health doesn't need to be complicated or fancy. Stick to the basics, keep it simple, and stay consistent. Thanks for tuning into 'Your Absolute Mind', and catch you next time.  Take care and stay strong!  Remember, if you're ready to look after your mental health in a simple way each day, check out https://www.absolutemind.app

On this episode of 'Your Absolute Mind', I'm your host, Paula Sweet, and we had a chat about how having too many choices and trying to personalise everything could be messing with our mental health. We live in a world full of options, right? From our clothes to our coffee orders, everything is about what suits me'. This extends to our mental health too, and while it's great that we're acknowledging our personal battles, there's a downside - we start stressing about making the 'perfect' choice. Now, here's a thought: what if we need a bit more standardisation rather than personalisation? It sounds weird, I know. But just like a daily routine can provide some structure to our lives, maybe it could do the same for our mental health. Simple stuff like exercising regularly, getting enough sleep, or practising mindfulness can act as a safety net for our mental health. Looking beyond mental health, think about how successful organisations like the military or big corporations have used standardisation to thrive. They've cut down the choices to increase efficiency and reduce stress. It's like Apple, for example, offering a limited range of products but still being a major hit. So, coming back to mental health, maybe it's time we stop overthinking and start focusing on what we know works. Things like working out regularly, eating balanced meals, getting plenty of sleep, practising mindfulness, and keeping in touch with our friends and family. Now, before we wrapped up the episode, I shared what I consider the non-negotiables for mental health: sleep, meditation, staying hydrated, and moving around. These are simple but super effective. The goal here is not to personalise everything, but to keep it simple and consistent. After all, it's the small, everyday actions that lead to big changes. So let's chill on the personalisation a bit and focus on the basics. Remember, looking after our mental health doesn't need to be complicated or fancy. Stick to the basics, keep it simple, and stay consistent. Thanks for tuning into 'Your Absolute Mind', and catch you next time.  Take care and stay strong!  Remember, if you're ready to look after your mental health in a simple way each day, check out <a href="https://absolutemind.app" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://www.absolutemind.app</a>

275 - Don't take Your Mental Health Personally

Welcome to a transformative episode of "Your Absolute Mind." Today I wanted to challenge the notion of mental health as an uncontrollable force, shedding light on our potential influence over it. Our mental health isn't just a product of uncontrollable factors; our habits, activities, and lifestyle choices play a pivotal role too. With an insightful garden analogy, I hope to inspire you to take proactive steps towards nurturing your mental wellbeing. The episode concludes with a simple yet impactful hydration challenge that underscores the power of small, consistent actions. So, join me on this empowering journey towards mental wellness, where you aren't just a passenger, but an active participant. And, I'll run another small but powerful challenge each week for the next 5 weeks giving you small steps to become mentally healthy.

Welcome to a transformative episode of "Your Absolute Mind." Today I wanted to challenge the notion of mental health as an uncontrollable force, shedding light on our potential influence over it. Our mental health isn't just a product of uncontrollable factors; our habits, activities, and lifestyle choices play a pivotal role too. With an insightful garden analogy, I hope to inspire you to take proactive steps towards nurturing your mental wellbeing. The episode concludes with a simple yet impactful hydration challenge that underscores the power of small, consistent actions. So, join me on this empowering journey towards mental wellness, where you aren't just a passenger, but an active participant. And, I'll run another small but powerful challenge each week for the next 5 weeks giving you small steps to become mentally healthy.

274 - Take Charge Of Your Mental Health - Challenge Week 1

In this episode of "Your Absolute Mind," we uncover the secrets to building a healthy mind. Discover the power of simplicity and small daily steps that can make a huge difference in your mental well-being. 🏠 Establishing healthy routines is a key foundation of mental health. From bedtime routines that promote restful sleep to morning routines that set a positive tone for the day, simple practices can transform your nights and reduce anxiety. ⏰ Fixing your morning routine can help improve your bedtime routine. By waking up earlier and starting your day positively, you create a peaceful evening and reduce morning chaos. It's all about consistency and finding routines that work for you. 🚶 Exercise and movement play a vital role in mental health. Engaging in just 10 to 20 minutes of physical activity each day, such as walking or dancing, can have significant positive effects on your well-being. 💦 Staying hydrated is essential for mental clarity. Keep a water bottle handy and sip throughout the day. Proper hydration can help prevent anxious feelings triggered by dehydration. 🧘 Mindfulness and meditation don't have to be time-consuming. Taking a few minutes each day to be present in the moment through deep breathing or guided meditation can bring about a sense of calm and clarity. 🤝 Connection with loved ones is crucial for our well-being. Nurture your relationships through heartfelt conversations, text messages, or shared moments. These connections nourish our souls and make us feel supported. 🍎 Nutrition plays a role in mental health. Incorporating simple, nutritious meals into your day can have a significant impact on your overall well-being. 📱 Simplify your mental health journey with the "Your Absolute Mind" app. It provides daily meditations, mood tracking, and coping strategies from therapy, making mental health accessible and easy. Check it Out Here: http://www.absolutemind.app

In this episode of "Your Absolute Mind," we uncover the secrets to building a healthy mind. Discover the power of simplicity and small daily steps that can make a huge difference in your mental well-being. 🏠 Establishing healthy routines is a key foundation of mental health. From bedtime routines that promote restful sleep to morning routines that set a positive tone for the day, simple practices can transform your nights and reduce anxiety. ⏰ Fixing your morning routine can help improve your bedtime routine. By waking up earlier and starting your day positively, you create a peaceful evening and reduce morning chaos. It's all about consistency and finding routines that work for you. 🚶 Exercise and movement play a vital role in mental health. Engaging in just 10 to 20 minutes of physical activity each day, such as walking or dancing, can have significant positive effects on your well-being. 💦 Staying hydrated is essential for mental clarity. Keep a water bottle handy and sip throughout the day. Proper hydration can help prevent anxious feelings triggered by dehydration. 🧘 Mindfulness and meditation don't have to be time-consuming. Taking a few minutes each day to be present in the moment through deep breathing or guided meditation can bring about a sense of calm and clarity. 🤝 Connection with loved ones is crucial for our well-being. Nurture your relationships through heartfelt conversations, text messages, or shared moments. These connections nourish our souls and make us feel supported. 🍎 Nutrition plays a role in mental health. Incorporating simple, nutritious meals into your day can have a significant impact on your overall well-being. 📱 Simplify your mental health journey with the "Your Absolute Mind" app. It provides daily meditations, mood tracking, and coping strategies from therapy, making mental health accessible and easy. Check it Out Here: <a href="https://absolutemind.app" rel="noopener nofollow" target="_blank">http://www.absolutemind.app</a>

273 - 6 Ways To Transform Your Mental Health

Join me, Paula Sweet, your seasoned hypnotherapist host, as I delve into The Truth About Hypnosis on this latest episode of 'Your Absolute Mind' podcast! Are you skeptical about hypnosis, viewing it as an illusion or some kind of sorcery? Or are you curious about its scientific validity and possible benefits? In this episode, I reveal how hypnosis is indeed a REAL phenomenon that's part and parcel of our everyday life. Surprised? Tune in as I show you how hypnosis subtly weaves itself into our daily routines, be it during a casual commute or while engrossed in a TV show! I'll take you behind the scenes to unveil the science and reality of hypnosis, exploring its powerful potential in managing depression, enhancing the benefits of traditional therapies, alleviating pain, reversing skin disorders, and even more! Listen as I unpack the intriguing interplay between your conscious and subconscious mind, revealing how suggestions sneak past the 'bouncers' of your mind. Yes, that's why you're humming that tune you 'never' heard on the radio! I'll give you a backstage pass to the inner workings of the brain, comparing it to a bustling nightclub, and uncover the truth behind hypnosis! As your guide, I'll lead you through the mysterious world of the hypnotic trance, unveiling its potent potential in goal setting and managing PTSD. Tune in as I reveal why cutting-edge fields like VR and AR are racing to replicate what our minds, coupled with a skilled hypnotherapist, do daily. So, come along with me and let's dispel the fear of hypnosis together! Experience this natural state of profound relaxation and heightened learning which could be transformative for personal development. Plus, don't forget to explore hundreds of free hypnosis sessions available in my podcast backlog. It's time to unlock the untapped power of your mind! 🔓💡  As promised, the link to the various hypnosis studies: HERE!

Join me, Paula Sweet, your seasoned hypnotherapist host, as I delve into The Truth About Hypnosis on this latest episode of 'Your Absolute Mind' podcast! Are you skeptical about hypnosis, viewing it as an illusion or some kind of sorcery? Or are you curious about its scientific validity and possible benefits? In this episode, I reveal how hypnosis is indeed a REAL phenomenon that's part and parcel of our everyday life. Surprised? Tune in as I show you how hypnosis subtly weaves itself into our daily routines, be it during a casual commute or while engrossed in a TV show! I'll take you behind the scenes to unveil the science and reality of hypnosis, exploring its powerful potential in managing depression, enhancing the benefits of traditional therapies, alleviating pain, reversing skin disorders, and even more! Listen as I unpack the intriguing interplay between your conscious and subconscious mind, revealing how suggestions sneak past the 'bouncers' of your mind. Yes, that's why you're humming that tune you 'never' heard on the radio! I'll give you a backstage pass to the inner workings of the brain, comparing it to a bustling nightclub, and uncover the truth behind hypnosis! As your guide, I'll lead you through the mysterious world of the hypnotic trance, unveiling its potent potential in goal setting and managing PTSD. Tune in as I reveal why cutting-edge fields like VR and AR are racing to replicate what our minds, coupled with a skilled hypnotherapist, do daily. So, come along with me and let's dispel the fear of hypnosis together! Experience this natural state of profound relaxation and heightened learning which could be transformative for personal development. Plus, don't forget to explore hundreds of free hypnosis sessions available in my podcast backlog. It's time to unlock the untapped power of your mind! 🔓💡  As promised, the link to the various hypnosis studies: <a href="https://positivepsychology.com/hypnotherapy/" rel="noopener nofollow" target="_blank">HERE!</a>

272 - The Truth About How Hypnosis Works

Join me, Paula Sweet, on another riveting episode of "Your Absolute Mind: Becoming Mentally Healthy." Together, we'll delve into the future, or rather, our AI-driven present, exploring how advanced technologies like GPT chatbots are reshaping the landscape of mental health care. Sounds too futuristic? Think again! In this episode, we'll discover how AI isn't just making our lives easier, it's also stepping up to help us navigate complex mental health issues. But before you start wondering, let me clarify - no, these chatbots aren't here to replace our therapists! Let's go deeper as I unfold how AI tools are augmenting traditional therapy, making mental health services more attainable than ever before. Picture this - 24/7 accessible support, non-judgmental, and immediate responses to help cope with anxiety, depression, and other challenges. However, there's more to the story. The potential for misuse of AI is immense and it's important we tread carefully, ensuring ethical and privacy considerations are taken into account. I'll share why it's critical for us to question, demand transparency, and make informed choices. So, gear up to explore this new frontier with me, standing on the precipice of the AI revolution in mental health. This exciting journey brings a future that's more accessible, intuitive, and personal to mental health care. Remember, until I'm replaced by an AI-generated avatar, it's just me, the real Paula, here in Your Absolute Mind. Stay tuned!

Join me, Paula Sweet, on another riveting episode of "Your Absolute Mind: Becoming Mentally Healthy." Together, we'll delve into the future, or rather, our AI-driven present, exploring how advanced technologies like GPT chatbots are reshaping the landscape of mental health care. Sounds too futuristic? Think again! In this episode, we'll discover how AI isn't just making our lives easier, it's also stepping up to help us navigate complex mental health issues. But before you start wondering, let me clarify - no, these chatbots aren't here to replace our therapists! Let's go deeper as I unfold how AI tools are augmenting traditional therapy, making mental health services more attainable than ever before. Picture this - 24/7 accessible support, non-judgmental, and immediate responses to help cope with anxiety, depression, and other challenges. However, there's more to the story. The potential for misuse of AI is immense and it's important we tread carefully, ensuring ethical and privacy considerations are taken into account. I'll share why it's critical for us to question, demand transparency, and make informed choices. So, gear up to explore this new frontier with me, standing on the precipice of the AI revolution in mental health. This exciting journey brings a future that's more accessible, intuitive, and personal to mental health care. Remember, until I'm replaced by an AI-generated avatar, it's just me, the real Paula, here in Your Absolute Mind. Stay tuned!

271 - AI and Our Mental Health. Friend or Foe

In this podcast, we're talking about the startling truth behind "little" lies and mental health.  We all tell "little" lies from time to time, and we usually don't even realise it. But the truth is, these little lies can have serious consequences for our mental health. In this podcast, we're going to be discussing the effects of little lies on our mental health and how, to tell the truth when it matters most. So whether you're struggling with mental health or you just want to be more truthful in your relationships, this video is for you! We'll be discussing the effects of little lies on our mental health and how, to tell the truth when it matters most. 

In this podcast, we're talking about the startling truth behind "little" lies and mental health.  We all tell "little" lies from time to time, and we usually don't even realise it. But the truth is, these little lies can have serious consequences for our mental health. In this podcast, we're going to be discussing the effects of little lies on our mental health and how, to tell the truth when it matters most. So whether you're struggling with mental health or you just want to be more truthful in your relationships, this video is for you! We'll be discussing the effects of little lies on our mental health and how, to tell the truth when it matters most.

270 - Uncovering the Startling Truth Behind "Little" Lies and Mental Health

In this episode of "Your Absolute Mind," hosted by Paula Sweet, we delve into the often-overlooked topic of maintaining strong emotional connections with our loved ones. We break down the importance of these bonds, the consequences of neglecting them, and how to rekindle these relationships. Emotional bonds serve as our guides through life, offering comfort and understanding in difficult times. However, when these connections start to weaken, feelings of isolation and loneliness can pervade, negatively impacting mental health. To reconnect, it's crucial to acknowledge the disconnection, reach out and be vulnerable through open and honest communication. Paula Sweet highlights the importance of consistent small acts of kindness, patience, and making time for your loved ones as key steps towards rebuilding these critical bonds. Through this discussion, we're reminded that our relationships significantly enrich our lives and mental well-being.

In this episode of "Your Absolute Mind," hosted by Paula Sweet, we delve into the often-overlooked topic of maintaining strong emotional connections with our loved ones. We break down the importance of these bonds, the consequences of neglecting them, and how to rekindle these relationships. Emotional bonds serve as our guides through life, offering comfort and understanding in difficult times. However, when these connections start to weaken, feelings of isolation and loneliness can pervade, negatively impacting mental health. To reconnect, it's crucial to acknowledge the disconnection, reach out and be vulnerable through open and honest communication. Paula Sweet highlights the importance of consistent small acts of kindness, patience, and making time for your loved ones as key steps towards rebuilding these critical bonds. Through this discussion, we're reminded that our relationships significantly enrich our lives and mental well-being.

269 - Our Need For Connection For Our Mental Health

In this episode of Your Absolute Mind, I, delve into the crucial concept of boundaries. These invisible lines that we draw around our personal physical and emotional spaces have become a buzzword in the world of mental health. They aren't just metaphorical demarcations but symbols of respect defining our comfort zones. I argue that setting boundaries significantly contributes to our mental health. Picture yourself as a country with defined borders, in control of who or what can infiltrate your territory. By doing so, we can regulate the flow of stress, demands, and expectations, thus preventing burnout and maintaining a healthier life balance. Furthermore, establishing boundaries enhances self-esteem and assertiveness. They empower autonomy, enabling us to make confident decisions and foster a strong sense of independence. Surprisingly, they also improve relationships by clarifying expectations, reducing misunderstandings, and promoting mutual respect. I offer practical advice for setting boundaries. This includes recognizing and expressing one's feelings and needs, being clear and assertive when communicating boundaries, practicing self-care, and accepting that setting boundaries is an ongoing process that requires adjustment as life circumstances change. I conclude the episode with an important takeaway: setting boundaries is an act of self-love and self-respect. I encourage you to slowly incorporate these strategies, beginning with small, manageable steps. The boundaries we set are crucial to our mental well-being, and as I always remind you, "Your mind is absolutely yours, and so are your boundaries." For more mental health support make sure you check out Your Absolute Mind in the app store and Google Play store where I've created a simple mental health app which helps you to build positive mental health habits

In this episode of Your Absolute Mind, I, delve into the crucial concept of boundaries. These invisible lines that we draw around our personal physical and emotional spaces have become a buzzword in the world of mental health. They aren't just metaphorical demarcations but symbols of respect defining our comfort zones. I argue that setting boundaries significantly contributes to our mental health. Picture yourself as a country with defined borders, in control of who or what can infiltrate your territory. By doing so, we can regulate the flow of stress, demands, and expectations, thus preventing burnout and maintaining a healthier life balance. Furthermore, establishing boundaries enhances self-esteem and assertiveness. They empower autonomy, enabling us to make confident decisions and foster a strong sense of independence. Surprisingly, they also improve relationships by clarifying expectations, reducing misunderstandings, and promoting mutual respect. I offer practical advice for setting boundaries. This includes recognizing and expressing one's feelings and needs, being clear and assertive when communicating boundaries, practicing self-care, and accepting that setting boundaries is an ongoing process that requires adjustment as life circumstances change. I conclude the episode with an important takeaway: setting boundaries is an act of self-love and self-respect. I encourage you to slowly incorporate these strategies, beginning with small, manageable steps. The boundaries we set are crucial to our mental well-being, and as I always remind you, "Your mind is absolutely yours, and so are your boundaries." For more mental health support make sure you check out Your Absolute Mind in the app store and Google Play store where I've created a simple mental health app which helps you to build positive mental health habits

268 - Setting your Boundaries For Your Mental Health

In this episode of Your Absolute Mind podcast, I highlight the crucial need to disconnect in our fast-paced world for improved mental health. I explore three types of disconnects: social media and news, electronics, and digital communication. Understand how constant exposure to information overload can lead to stress, anxiety, and depression. Disconnecting allows our minds to reset and refocus. Setting boundaries and engaging in tech-free activities significantly benefit mental health. Real-life connections provide warmth and intimacy that digital communication lacks, enhancing relationships and overall well-being. Implementing gradual disconnections leads to a healthier mental space and a more meaningful life. Disconnecting is about being present, mindful, and recharging in a wholesome way. Remember, it's a gentle self-care practice that promotes mental well-being. Join us to learn more about the power of disconnecting to help all become mentally healthy. 

In this episode of Your Absolute Mind podcast, I highlight the crucial need to disconnect in our fast-paced world for improved mental health. I explore three types of disconnects: social media and news, electronics, and digital communication. Understand how constant exposure to information overload can lead to stress, anxiety, and depression. Disconnecting allows our minds to reset and refocus. Setting boundaries and engaging in tech-free activities significantly benefit mental health. Real-life connections provide warmth and intimacy that digital communication lacks, enhancing relationships and overall well-being. Implementing gradual disconnections leads to a healthier mental space and a more meaningful life. Disconnecting is about being present, mindful, and recharging in a wholesome way. Remember, it's a gentle self-care practice that promotes mental well-being. Join us to learn more about the power of disconnecting to help all become mentally healthy.

267 - 3 Ways to Disconnect to Improve Your Mental Health

Become Mentally Healthy with Your Absolute Mind: Mental health tips, tools and strategies to allow you to become mentally healthy. Including hypnotherapy and meditation as part of the growing proven toolkit to improve your mind health.Within each podcast, we aim to offer practical tips and tools to help you on your path to becoming mentally healthy, become more mindful and assist you in overcoming an ever-growing variety of mental issues that affect people's lives. "We believe we can transform the world by inspiring, educating and motivating people to become mentally healthy."

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Become Mentally Healthy with Your Absolute Mind: Mental health tips, tools and strategies to allow you to become mentally healthy. Including hypnotherapy and meditation as part of the growing proven toolkit to improve your mind health. Within each podcast, we aim to offer practical tips and tools to help you on your path to becoming mentally healthy, become more mindful and assist you in overcoming an ever-growing variety of mental issues that affect people's lives. "We believe we can transform the world by inspiring, educating and motivating people to become mentally healthy."

Becoming Mentally Healthy by Paula Sweet at Absolute Mind

Hello and welcome to todays episode of the absolute mind podcasts. Today i'm talking all about motivation to exercise. This is something close to my heart as I know all too well how easy it is to lose motivation during different times of life. But if you can get yourself a well planned strategy you can keep your motivation levels up.   If you like these podcasts and want to help keep me motivated and help other people find me then please do leave a review, the more reviews the more likely I am to be found by people who may need these types of podcasts. You can also stay connected with me on my instagram account where I update daily with stories and photos so give me a follow and stay in touch :0)  https://www.instagram.com/paula_sweet_absolute_woman/ Ladies, I have also created a facebook group just for women, its a platform for accountability, support, motivation, health tips, organisational tips you name it its on there and if its not give me a shout tell me what you want :0) so check that one out too  https://www.facebook.com/groups/AbsoluteWoman Check out the weight loss hypnosis packager here a highly reduced price of £19 just for podcast listeners: www.absolutemind.co.uk/offer Also check out the online Anxiety course  Anxiety course  www.absolutemind.co.uk/free-anxiety-course/ Bespokse Hypnosis £70 email direct paula@paulasweet.co.uk

Hello and welcome to todays episode of the absolute mind podcasts. Today i'm talking all about motivation to exercise. This is something close to my heart as I know all too well how easy it is to lose motivation during different times of life. But if you can get yourself a well planned strategy you can keep your motivation levels up.   If you like these podcasts and want to help keep me motivated and help other people find me then please do leave a review, the more reviews the more likely I am to be found by people who may need these types of podcasts. You can also stay connected with me on my instagram account where I update daily with stories and photos so give me a follow and stay in touch :0)  <a href="https://www.instagram.com/paula_sweet_absolute_woman/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://www.instagram.com/paula_sweet_absolute_woman/</a> Ladies, I have also created a facebook group just for women, its a platform for accountability, support, motivation, health tips, organisational tips you name it its on there and if its not give me a shout tell me what you want :0) so check that one out too  <a href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/AbsoluteWoman" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://www.facebook.com/groups/AbsoluteWoman</a> Check out the weight loss hypnosis packager here a highly reduced price of £19 just for podcast listeners: <a href="http://www.absolutemind.co.uk/offer" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.absolutemind.co.uk/offer</a> Also check out the online Anxiety course  Anxiety course <a href="https://academy.absolutemind.co.uk/courses/the-free-anxiety-course" rel="nofollow" target="_blank"> www.absolutemind.co.uk/free-anxiety-course/</a> Bespokse Hypnosis £70 email direct <a href="mailto:paula@paulasweet.co.uk">paula@paulasweet.co.uk</a>

173 - Motivation To Exercise

Have you been trying to lose that extra few pounds for the past few years? Feeling like you're constantly battling to shift those stubborn pesky pounds. We all at some point in our lives have a bit of a struggle with our weight, whether its losing weight or eat more healthy we are all controlled by that pesky thing it’s been an issue for many many years in society and now it’s time to make a change. The world is steadily becoming obese and many people don’t know where to turn for help. This Audio will guide you with practical tips, advice and a FREE Hypnosis session

Have you been trying to lose that extra few pounds for the past few years? Feeling like you're constantly battling to shift those stubborn pesky pounds. We all at some point in our lives have a bit of a struggle with our weight, whether its losing weight or eat more healthy we are all controlled by that pesky thing it’s been an issue for many many years in society and now it’s time to make a change. The world is steadily becoming obese and many people don’t know where to turn for help. This Audio will guide you with practical tips, advice and a FREE Hypnosis session

03: Relaxed And Controlled Weight Loss And Weight Management 

 Todays podcast is one that I have decided to re visit, weight is a big issue across the globe these days and it was a programme all about sugar that I recently watched that has made me want to go back to this. Find out some tips to help you getting started losing weight and continue with hypnosis for longer results.

Todays podcast is one that I have decided to re visit, weight is a big issue across the globe these days and it was a programme all about sugar that I recently watched that has made me want to go back to this. Find out some tips to help you getting started losing weight and continue with hypnosis for longer results.

108: Losing Weight With Hypnosis

Todays podcast is this weeks first instalment on the discussion of depression. Today I discuss making the first tiny steps to getting yourself on track and beating depression.

Todays podcast is this weeks first instalment on the discussion of depression. Today I discuss making the first tiny steps to getting yourself on track and beating depression.

61 - The First Steps To Getting Yourself Out Of Depression

This weeks podcasts discussion is focused on Teens. If you have a teenager suffering from lack of self confidence and struggling to succeed in school then use these helpful tips to guide them in the right direction. Each podcast will finish with a different self confidence hypnosis which your teenager can listen to in their own time. If you are a teen yourself or your simply suffering from lack of self confidence then this podcast could help you too.

This weeks podcasts discussion is focused on Teens. If you have a teenager suffering from lack of self confidence and struggling to succeed in school then use these helpful tips to guide them in the right direction. Each podcast will finish with a different self confidence hypnosis which your teenager can listen to in their own time. If you are a teen yourself or your simply suffering from lack of self confidence then this podcast could help you too.

71: Self Confidence For Teenagers

Today's podcast is all about living a more positive life, if you wake each morning and believe you're going to have a wonderful day you are more likely to have that wonderful day. Start your positive thinking today and start seeing changes in how you feel day by day.

Today's podcast is all about living a more positive life, if you wake each morning and believe you're going to have a wonderful day you are more likely to have that wonderful day. Start your positive thinking today and start seeing changes in how you feel day by day.

35: Positive Thinking For Happier Days 

Welcome to podcast 114 covering insomnia and sleep problems. Did you know that a lack of sleep can cause many problems not only to your mental state but to your physical health too? Insomnia is one of the biggest issues we deal with in our practice with 1-2-1 sessions and we have helped many clients overcome this issue with techniques you can do easily yourself allowing you to gain control over your sleep patterns. AMAZING OFFER CHECK OUT THE SLEEP PLAN www.absolutemind.co.uk/sleep With easy techniques and hypnosis, you can begin to sleep better and feel refreshed every morning ready to take on the world head on! The podcast cover a hypnosis session as always but to allow us to offer you some real value we have also compiled a package for you to purchase which gives you 2 x hypnosis session both with binaural background tracks, 2 x mindfulness tracks, a 10 step actionable plan for the best possible chance of a great nights sleep. You can see this sleep plan here www.absolutemind.co.uk/sleep

Welcome to podcast 114 covering insomnia and sleep problems. Did you know that a lack of sleep can cause many problems not only to your mental state but to your physical health too? Insomnia is one of the biggest issues we deal with in our practice with 1-2-1 sessions and we have helped many clients overcome this issue with techniques you can do easily yourself allowing you to gain control over your sleep patterns. <a href="http://www.absolutemind.co.uk/sleep/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">AMAZING OFFER CHECK OUT THE SLEEP PLAN</a> <a href="http://www.absolutemind.co.uk/sleep" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.absolutemind.co.uk/sleep</a> With easy techniques and hypnosis, you can begin to sleep better and feel refreshed every morning ready to take on the world head on! The podcast cover a hypnosis session as always but to allow us to offer you some real value we have also compiled a package for you to purchase which gives you 2 x hypnosis session both with binaural background tracks, 2 x mindfulness tracks, a 10 step actionable plan for the best possible chance of a great nights sleep. You can see this <a href="http://www.absolutemind.co.uk" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">sleep plan here</a> <a href="http://www.absolutemind.co.uk/sleep" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.absolutemind.co.uk/sleep</a>

114: Better Sleep Insomnia Plan Hypnosis

This is episode number 136 of the Absolute Mind podcast and this show is all about dealing with fear and unhelpful emotions This was another request from the Facebook audience so thank you so much appointment through and allowing me to create content that will hopefully help you in some way. http://www.absolutemind.co.uk/offer Please do bear in mind that Paula and I created this podcast to be of some insight and some sort of assistance but by no means a way to treat conditions on their own. If you do have any deep-rooted conditions or ailments that you'd like some assistance with on a one-to-one professional approach, then please feel free to contact either me or Paula on Facebook or directly through the website and we can arrange sessions that way or via Skype, whatever suits. So let's get to some tips and understanding about dealing with general fear. Awareness: The very fact that you're listening to his podcast means that you should have awareness of the U have some irrational fears or unhelpful thoughts that you'd like to deal with. The key here is to be aware that fear is just a feeling. That sounds strange but we've been having them for years, and feelings perfectly safe. What Scares You? This is time to identify and understand what is specifically that scares you. think about the situations where you have become fearful and emotions begin to run high, and see if you can notice patterns and really identify what is the actually scares you. Talk to Someone Here is an interesting angle. If you're fearful about something you have some unwanted emotions, open up and speak to someone you trust them like. The interesting part is if you feel silly by talking about these fears then perhaps you already know, that there is nothing to fear because even you know it's rational. however, running it passed someone else can really help you give perspective. In fact, you are able to get some perspective even on your own. Think about someone who you like and know and someone who is on the surface at least a balanced thinker. Ask yourself, "what would x  be thinking about the situation?" This technique is a wafer you to delve into another person's perspective. It can be remarkable how different the answer becomes. Ultimately this will allow you to begin to relieve some of those fears. You Are What You Eat I hate to always bring diet into psychological and emotional issues. But there is a direct correlation to how a person feels and what is they put into their body. have a think, is your body in a state of nourishment where it's able to repair and look after itself? Or is your body being challenged in battle, bombarded every day with foods that it's difficult to process and rebuild from? The body is an amazing thing, but the body and mind are one thing. We all know that what we eat we become. I haven't met a balanced controlled thinker who lived on beige or fried foods, sugary snacks and energy drinks. The two simply don't go hand-in-hand. Caffeine I know I sort of touched on caffeine in the paragraph above, by really can't say this enough. Anything that stimulates you, caffeine, energy drinks etc, in dramatically affect the way a person feels and thinks. caffeine is a known mental stimulant, and if you're in the habit of thinking negatively or fearfully, then caffeine will only exacerbate the issue. I'm not suggesting that caffeine is the cause. But absurdly suggesting that if you are feeling anxious fearful or full of emotion, the caffeine can have a negative effect. Use The Right Questions If you've heard this podcast before, you'll know how much I recommend using an understanding the right kinds of questions when dealing with any issue. Let's dive into a little touch of science. whenever you ask yourself a question, whatever it is, there's a part of your brain (Reticular Activating System) that seeks to answer your questions and make you right. Let me give you an example. Perhaps you're talking to a friend about an old 1980s movie, the name of the main actor simply slips out of your mind, you're going over and over saying what's the guy's name, what was he called again?....Your memory seems to have failed you, but wait a minute something very strange happens hours and sometimes even days later. The answer seems to appear like a bolt out of the blue. This is your RAS answering a question that you've asked. Your memory seems to have failed you, but wait a minute something very strange happens hours and sometimes even days later. The answer seems to appear like a bolt out of the blue. This is your RAS answering a question that you've asked. So it's time to start to get clever with your questions. questions like: What can I do today that will make me feel less fearful? What resources can I find inside to help me deal with this irrational fear? What small dietary changes can I make right now that will allow me to feel less fearful? questions really are the answer, so really have a think about the types of questions you're asking yourself. Questions like will this ever go away, can I take this much more, is this can get worse, these are all examples of questions that now you understand how your brain works will be more can prove disastrous. It's time for you to take control of your own questions and therefore your own emotions. I'm not suggesting the questions are the be all and end all. But I am suggesting it's something you can start to do right now and have a dramatic effect on the way you feel.

This is episode number 136 of the Absolute Mind podcast and this show is all about dealing with fear and unhelpful emotions This was another request from the Facebook audience so thank you so much appointment through and allowing me to create content that will hopefully help you in some way. <a href="http://www.absolutemind.co.uk/offer" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">http://www.absolutemind.co.uk/offer</a> Please do bear in mind that Paula and I created this podcast to be of some insight and some sort of assistance but by no means a way to treat conditions on their own. If you do have any deep-rooted conditions or ailments that you'd like some assistance with on a one-to-one professional approach, then please feel free to contact either me or Paula on Facebook or directly through the website and we can arrange sessions that way or via Skype, whatever suits. So let's get to some tips and understanding about dealing with general fear. Awareness: The very fact that you're listening to his podcast means that you should have awareness of the U have some irrational fears or unhelpful thoughts that you'd like to deal with. The key here is to be aware that fear is just a feeling. That sounds strange but we've been having them for years, and feelings perfectly safe. What Scares You? This is time to identify and understand what is specifically that scares you. think about the situations where you have become fearful and emotions begin to run high, and see if you can notice patterns and really identify what is the actually scares you. Talk to Someone Here is an interesting angle. If you're fearful about something you have some unwanted emotions, open up and speak to someone you trust them like. The interesting part is if you feel silly by talking about these fears then perhaps you already know, that there is nothing to fear because even you know it's rational. however, running it passed someone else can really help you give perspective. In fact, you are able to get some perspective even on your own. Think about someone who you like and know and someone who is on the surface at least a balanced thinker. Ask yourself, "what would x  be thinking about the situation?" This technique is a wafer you to delve into another person's perspective. It can be remarkable how different the answer becomes. Ultimately this will allow you to begin to relieve some of those fears. You Are What You Eat I hate to always bring diet into psychological and emotional issues. But there is a direct correlation to how a person feels and what is they put into their body. have a think, is your body in a state of nourishment where it's able to repair and look after itself? Or is your body being challenged in battle, bombarded every day with foods that it's difficult to process and rebuild from? The body is an amazing thing, but the body and mind are one thing. We all know that what we eat we become. I haven't met a balanced controlled thinker who lived on beige or fried foods, sugary snacks and energy drinks. The two simply don't go hand-in-hand. Caffeine I know I sort of touched on caffeine in the paragraph above, by really can't say this enough. Anything that stimulates you, caffeine, energy drinks etc, in dramatically affect the way a person feels and thinks. caffeine is a known mental stimulant, and if you're in the habit of thinking negatively or fearfully, then caffeine will only exacerbate the issue. I'm not suggesting that caffeine is the cause. But absurdly suggesting that if you are feeling anxious fearful or full of emotion, the caffeine can have a negative effect. Use The Right Questions If you've heard this podcast before, you'll know how much I recommend using an understanding the right kinds of questions when dealing with any issue. Let's dive into a little touch of science. whenever you ask yourself a question, whatever it is, there's a part of your brain (Reticular Activating System) that seeks to answer your questions and make you right. Let me give you an example. Perhaps you're talking to a friend about an old 1980s movie, the name of the main actor simply slips out of your mind, you're going over and over saying what's the guy's name, what was he called again?....Your memory seems to have failed you, but wait a minute something very strange happens hours and sometimes even days later. The answer seems to appear like a bolt out of the blue. This is your RAS answering a question that you've asked. Your memory seems to have failed you, but wait a minute something very strange happens hours and sometimes even days later. The answer seems to appear like a bolt out of the blue. This is your RAS answering a question that you've asked. So it's time to start to get clever with your questions. questions like: What can I do today that will make me feel less fearful? What resources can I find inside to help me deal with this irrational fear? What small dietary changes can I make right now that will allow me to feel less fearful? questions really are the answer, so really have a think about the types of questions you're asking yourself. Questions like will this ever go away, can I take this much more, is this can get worse, these are all examples of questions that now you understand how your brain works will be more can prove disastrous. It's time for you to take control of your own questions and therefore your own emotions. I'm not suggesting the questions are the be all and end all. But I am suggesting it's something you can start to do right now and have a dramatic effect on the way you feel.

136 - Dealing with Fear and Unhelpful Emotions

Today's podcast is all about how negative self talk can have a massive impact on your quality of life. Have you ever stopped and realised when you tell yourself to not feel a certain way you suddenly start feeling the way you told yourself not to? if you're suffering from negative self talk and allowing it to impact your life then you need to start making changes today.

Today's podcast is all about how negative self talk can have a massive impact on your quality of life. Have you ever stopped and realised when you tell yourself to not feel a certain way you suddenly start feeling the way you told yourself not to? if you're suffering from negative self talk and allowing it to impact your life then you need to start making changes today.

32: Banish Negative Self Talk For A Happier Life 

This is episode 149 of the Absolute Mind podcasts and today I am covering how to sleep better. http://www.absolutemind.co.uk/freeanxietycourse  Please do bear in mind that we have created this podcast to be of some insight and some sort of assistance but by no means a way to treat conditions on their own. If you do have any deep-rooted conditions or ailments that you'd like some assistance with on a one-to-one professional approach, then please feel free to contact either me or Michael on Facebook or directly through the website and we can arrange sessions that way or via Skype, whatever suits. Sleep!  Bedtime should be something we all look forward to, being able to lay back forget the troubles of the day and rest, allowing our bodies to recharge, rejuvenate and let go of any stresses or strains. But when you struggle to drift off into a nice deep sleep its can have a massive impact on our everyday life. How Does Lack Of Sleep Affect You?  Sleep deprivation can leave you brain feeling exhausted meaning it cant perform its duties as well as it would with a good night sleep. In some cases, if sleep deprivation continues for long periods it's possible you could experience hallucinations, seeing or hearing things that aren't actually there but this is an extreme case of sleep deprivation. The most common side effects people experience are:  Exhaustion Forgetfulness Fatigue Sadness Stress Pessimism Anger/snappy Overeat/comfort eat Weight gain Irritability Lower libido Physically affects appearance  Now, these are just a few of the symptoms that most people experience and you may not experience all of them. Sometimes lack of sleep and anxiety go hand in hand and most anxiety sufferers find that bedtime is their worst time as all of their negative internal thoughts are in full swing at this time of the day. How Can You Start To Sleep Better?  There are many ways in which you can help yourself to sleep from taking action and changing how you do things and your routines, to natural remedies that I use in my own home to help my family sleep. What you do affects your sleep, our lifestyles are busy, hectic, fast-paced, stressful and so on. We have so many things spinning around in our heads on a daily basis, that sometimes we feel there's just not enough hours in a day to get rid of all the burdens of life. When we cant offload we try to go to sleep with stressful thoughts, emotions all still spinning around in our head and at this time of the day there are no distractions to take our thoughts away from whats bothering us so we spend hours trying to will ourselves to sleep, getting more and more frustrated that were not yet in the land of Nod. So how can you change that?  Relax - Begin to practice some relaxation techniques to allow the stress and the frustration to ease a little, a clear mind is a calm mind and a calm mind is able to switch off when needed. Things like meditation, mindfulness, diaphragmatic breathing (breathing through the belly and not the chest) Switch off - and by switch off I mean switch off all those ipads, laptops, phones, social media, emails, anything that stimulates your brain and keeps it on alert. Switch them off at least 1 hour before bed your brain and your body needs time to start the natural process of winding down. Change your light bulbs - around your home have dim orange lights that emulate a natural sunset for your body. Bright stark lights don't allow your body to realise its night time and can restrict the natural process of hibernation mode. even lights from laptops and tv's can prevent the natural process. Blackout - Have your room as dark as possible, this again will emulate the natural process of night time. So if you have any lights shining through your window try to get some blackout blinds or curtains and ditch any bright LED alarm clocks. Give your body a chance to do what it naturally needs to do. Ditch Caffeine - no caffeine after 1pm at the latest! caffeine is said to have a half-life of 5-6 hours meaning that after 5-6 hours of having a caffeinated drink there is still half of that caffeine in your system. caffeine is a stimulant and can prevent sleep as it stimulates the body and the mind keeping it on alert. Allow your body to get rid of any caffeine in its system before you go to bed. Exercise - Try exercising in the morning, getting up earlier and exercising can help when trying to sleep in the evening. it can also help with making you feel more awake and alert throughout the day when having exercised first thing, your body will be filled with the endorphins from a workout keeping you in a good mood throughout. Then come evening you will be feeling more tired than usual from getting up and moving! Plan - If work or jobs that need completing spill over into your night time and your finding that you are constantly thinking about what needs doing tomorrow when trying to sleep then try having a process where you plan the next days' jobs. Have a plan and allocate what jobs need completing in priority, how long you're going to spend on that job etc. This can allow your brain to switch off as you have already planned and know what to do. Magnesium - This is something I personally use for me and my family to help with a natural deep sleep. Magnesium salts in a nice warm bath can help to relax the body. MAgnesium is well known for its ability to relieve insomnia, studies have found that it helps to decrease Cortisol the stress hormone that can keep you awake at night. It also helps to relax muscles which can give you that calm sleepy feeling helping you to unwind at the end of the day. You can find the salts I use for my family  here  These are some techniques I have personally used and also given to many clients to help them to sleep better which have given drastic results. If you begin to change how you do things you will start to see results. Sleep is such a big factor in our health and our mindset so if you are struggling to sleep then try some of these techniques to hopefully allow you to start sleeping better.

This is episode 149 of the Absolute Mind podcasts and today I am covering how to sleep better. <a href="http://www.absolutemind.co.uk/freeanxietycourse" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">http://www.absolutemind.co.uk/freeanxietycourse </a> Please do bear in mind that we have created this podcast to be of some insight and some sort of assistance but by no means a way to treat conditions on their own. If you do have any deep-rooted conditions or ailments that you'd like some assistance with on a one-to-one professional approach, then please feel free to contact either me or Michael on Facebook or directly through the website and we can arrange sessions that way or via Skype, whatever suits. Sleep!  Bedtime should be something we all look forward to, being able to lay back forget the troubles of the day and rest, allowing our bodies to recharge, rejuvenate and let go of any stresses or strains. But when you struggle to drift off into a nice deep sleep its can have a massive impact on our everyday life. How Does Lack Of Sleep Affect You?  Sleep deprivation can leave you brain feeling exhausted meaning it cant perform its duties as well as it would with a good night sleep. In some cases, if sleep deprivation continues for long periods it's possible you could experience hallucinations, seeing or hearing things that aren't actually there but this is an extreme case of sleep deprivation. The most common side effects people experience are: <ul> <li>Exhaustion</li> <li>Forgetfulness</li> <li>Fatigue</li> <li>Sadness</li> <li>Stress</li> <li>Pessimism</li> <li>Anger/snappy</li> <li>Overeat/comfort eat</li> <li>Weight gain</li> <li>Irritability</li> <li>Lower libido</li> <li>Physically affects appearance</li> </ul> Now, these are just a few of the symptoms that most people experience and you may not experience all of them. Sometimes lack of sleep and anxiety go hand in hand and most anxiety sufferers find that bedtime is their worst time as all of their negative internal thoughts are in full swing at this time of the day. How Can You Start To Sleep Better?  There are many ways in which you can help yourself to sleep from taking action and changing how you do things and your routines, to natural remedies that I use in my own home to help my family sleep. What you do affects your sleep, our lifestyles are busy, hectic, fast-paced, stressful and so on. We have so many things spinning around in our heads on a daily basis, that sometimes we feel there's just not enough hours in a day to get rid of all the burdens of life. When we cant offload we try to go to sleep with stressful thoughts, emotions all still spinning around in our head and at this time of the day there are no distractions to take our thoughts away from whats bothering us so we spend hours trying to will ourselves to sleep, getting more and more frustrated that were not yet in the land of Nod. So how can you change that? <ol> <li>Relax - Begin to practice some relaxation techniques to allow the stress and the frustration to ease a little, a clear mind is a calm mind and a calm mind is able to switch off when needed. Things like meditation, mindfulness, diaphragmatic breathing (breathing through the belly and not the chest)</li> <li>Switch off - and by switch off I mean switch off all those ipads, laptops, phones, social media, emails, anything that stimulates your brain and keeps it on alert. Switch them off at least 1 hour before bed your brain and your body needs time to start the natural process of winding down.</li> <li>Change your light bulbs - around your home have dim orange lights that emulate a natural sunset for your body. Bright stark lights don't allow your body to realise its night time and can restrict the natural process of hibernation mode. even lights from laptops and tv's can prevent the natural process.</li> <li>Blackout - Have your room as dark as possible, this again will emulate the natural process of night time. So if you have any lights shining through your window try to get some blackout blinds or curtains and ditch any bright LED alarm clocks. Give your body a chance to do what it naturally needs to do.</li> <li>Ditch Caffeine - no caffeine after 1pm at the latest! caffeine is said to have a half-life of 5-6 hours meaning that after 5-6 hours of having a caffeinated drink there is still half of that caffeine in your system. caffeine is a stimulant and can prevent sleep as it stimulates the body and the mind keeping it on alert. Allow your body to get rid of any caffeine in its system before you go to bed.</li> <li>Exercise - Try exercising in the morning, getting up earlier and exercising can help when trying to sleep in the evening. it can also help with making you feel more awake and alert throughout the day when having exercised first thing, your body will be filled with the endorphins from a workout keeping you in a good mood throughout. Then come evening you will be feeling more tired than usual from getting up and moving!</li> <li>Plan - If work or jobs that need completing spill over into your night time and your finding that you are constantly thinking about what needs doing tomorrow when trying to sleep then try having a process where you plan the next days' jobs. Have a plan and allocate what jobs need completing in priority, how long you're going to spend on that job etc. This can allow your brain to switch off as you have already planned and know what to do.</li> <li>Magnesium - This is something I personally use for me and my family to help with a natural deep sleep. Magnesium salts in a nice warm bath can help to relax the body. MAgnesium is well known for its ability to relieve insomnia, studies have found that it helps to decrease Cortisol the stress hormone that can keep you awake at night. It also helps to relax muscles which can give you that calm sleepy feeling helping you to unwind at the end of the day. You can find the salts I use for my family <a href="https://www.amazon.co.uk/gp/product/B00477782K/ref=as_li_tl?ie=UTF8&amp;camp=1634&amp;creative=6738&amp;creativeASIN=B00477782K&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;tag=absolutemind1-21&amp;linkId=72c432ddaa75ce9b0a1cc2ecaf5d2d59" rel="nofollow" target="_blank"> here</a></li> </ol> These are some techniques I have personally used and also given to many clients to help them to sleep better which have given drastic results. If you begin to change how you do things you will start to see results. Sleep is such a big factor in our health and our mindset so if you are struggling to sleep then try some of these techniques to hopefully allow you to start sleeping better.

149 - How To Sleep Better

Today's podcast is all about motivating yourself to exercise more, if you've got a distinct lack of motivation there are a few changes you can make to get yourself up and out to start seeing a difference. Thankfully getting motivated to exercise becomes easier the more you do it, so the sooner you start making a change the easier it will become.

Today's podcast is all about motivating yourself to exercise more, if you've got a distinct lack of motivation there are a few changes you can make to get yourself up and out to start seeing a difference. Thankfully getting motivated to exercise becomes easier the more you do it, so the sooner you start making a change the easier it will become.

22: Motivate Yourself To Exercise More

Todays podcast is this weeks second instalment on the discussion of anger. Today I discuss ways to control anger with simple relaxation techniques and ways of averting anger.

Todays podcast is this weeks second instalment on the discussion of anger. Today I discuss ways to control anger with simple relaxation techniques and ways of averting anger.

86: Controlling Anger 

Todays podcast is this weeks first instalment around becoming a parent and how your life will change, today i discuss how your relationships may change and what to expect. Having a baby means that life as you knew it is no longer, be prepared and keep calm with my relaxation hypnosis.

Todays podcast is this weeks first instalment around becoming a parent and how your life will change, today i discuss how your relationships may change and what to expect. Having a baby means that life as you knew it is no longer, be prepared and keep calm with my relaxation hypnosis.

76: How Relationships Change After A Baby 

This is session number 124 of the Absolute Mind podcast and this show is all about being lazy. This is something we can all feel like from time to time. But, for those of us who have this in a bad way. Life is hard. Where to start with Laziness. The first thing is first. You get what you expect. If you think you are lazy, then, ta daa. you will be. It's impossible to hold a belief about yourself about being lazy, only to find you start to get more things done. We're not wired that way. Your expectation creates your reality. So, in order for you to get past this, you have to give yourself a way out. This isn't talking positively to yourself, it isn't about positive affirmations. You're too clever for that the other voices will kick in and bring you right back down to level ground, quicker that you can say, "lazy butt". It's about reasons and changes. These can and will act as a placebo. You see, if you decide as of Monday (all new things start on a Monday). That you will start to drink 2L of water per day, because that will give you more energy and allow you to become more productive. This is a way you can generate a new belief that is in line with popular beliefs so you'll probably find that agreeable. Changes create changes. This means in order for you to make a sudden change, You, need to make a sudden change. the change you make doesn't need to be directly in relations to the desired change. Things like, cold or cooler showers are easy to do and make great "excuses/beliefs" to allow you to create other changes. Sayings like "since i've been doing X, i've found that Y". We're hard wired to accept X and Y saying and beliefs. So, use this and create them. Getting disturbed is a great motivator. Procrastination and laziness are symptoms of comfort. A strange saying but very true. Those who are "On the ball", use a belief held dear to them that keeps them pushing on. Top sports people keep pushing on because they decide once they are number one that a real world class number one would need to hold that title for several years to make it real. This keeps them pushing on. You see, it's nothing real, simply a story/reason that has the power. Acknowledge and accept This is another great way to just get stuff done. Don't fight it and question it. Simple acknowledge the lazy thinking and say "OK let's just get this done". Also, set yourself small targets but always hit or over achieve them. Think, if you ran 10k and felt tired, would YOU slow down or speed up on the final straight? Some of us take our foot off the gas. So, as I always say, practice makes permeant. Practice becoming a person who completes things. The accept part of this is really useful too. The voices in our heads can be a real bummer. Don't get into a fight with them, they will win. always have and always will. When a lazy thoughts about yourself comes in, simply think, "Up to know I would have don't x behaviour, but now I simply do y. Don't go too elaborate though. Just make a small impact for now and build upon it. Diet and exercise. Probably the worlds biggest paradox. If you eat highly nutritious foods, and exercise, you'll have more energy and motivation. Strange because calories are energy, but the wrong ones will sap our energy. Drink plenty of water and eat lots of good foods and notice how much better you begin to feel.

This is session number 124 of the Absolute Mind podcast and this show is all about being lazy. This is something we can all feel like from time to time. But, for those of us who have this in a bad way. Life is hard. Where to start with Laziness. The first thing is first. You get what you expect. If you think you are lazy, then, ta daa. you will be. It's impossible to hold a belief about yourself about being lazy, only to find you start to get more things done. We're not wired that way. Your expectation creates your reality. So, in order for you to get past this, you have to give yourself a way out. This isn't talking positively to yourself, it isn't about positive affirmations. You're too clever for that the other voices will kick in and bring you right back down to level ground, quicker that you can say, "lazy butt". It's about reasons and changes. These can and will act as a placebo. You see, if you decide as of Monday (all new things start on a Monday). That you will start to drink 2L of water per day, because that will give you more energy and allow you to become more productive. This is a way you can generate a new belief that is in line with popular beliefs so you'll probably find that agreeable. Changes create changes. This means in order for you to make a sudden change, You, need to make a sudden change. the change you make doesn't need to be directly in relations to the desired change. Things like, cold or cooler showers are easy to do and make great "excuses/beliefs" to allow you to create other changes. Sayings like "since i've been doing X, i've found that Y". We're hard wired to accept X and Y saying and beliefs. So, use this and create them. Getting disturbed is a great motivator. Procrastination and laziness are symptoms of comfort. A strange saying but very true. Those who are "On the ball", use a belief held dear to them that keeps them pushing on. Top sports people keep pushing on because they decide once they are number one that a real world class number one would need to hold that title for several years to make it real. This keeps them pushing on. You see, it's nothing real, simply a story/reason that has the power. Acknowledge and accept This is another great way to just get stuff done. Don't fight it and question it. Simple acknowledge the lazy thinking and say "OK let's just get this done". Also, set yourself small targets but always hit or over achieve them. Think, if you ran 10k and felt tired, would YOU slow down or speed up on the final straight? Some of us take our foot off the gas. So, as I always say, practice makes permeant. Practice becoming a person who completes things. The accept part of this is really useful too. The voices in our heads can be a real bummer. Don't get into a fight with them, they will win. always have and always will. When a lazy thoughts about yourself comes in, simply think, "Up to know I would have don't x behaviour, but now I simply do y. Don't go too elaborate though. Just make a small impact for now and build upon it. Diet and exercise. Probably the worlds biggest paradox. If you eat highly nutritious foods, and exercise, you'll have more energy and motivation. Strange because calories are energy, but the wrong ones will sap our energy. Drink plenty of water and eat lots of good foods and notice how much better you begin to feel.

124 - Extreme Laziness and Procrastination

Today's podcast is all about how self sabotage can have an impact on your relationships and your life, self sabotage is different to negative self talk and when you get on the spiral of self sabotage you can massively dampen your enjoyment in life.

Today's podcast is all about how self sabotage can have an impact on your relationships and your life, self sabotage is different to negative self talk and when you get on the spiral of self sabotage you can massively dampen your enjoyment in life.

33: Stop Self Sabotage Ruining Your Life

Todays podcast is this weeks final instalment talking about children and how your life will change. Today I discuss staying positive and feeling good about yourself once you've had children. 

Todays podcast is this weeks final instalment talking about children and how your life will change. Today I discuss staying positive and feeling good about yourself once you've had children.

80: Feeling Good About Yourself After Kids 

Today's podcast is all about focusing, its the second week of series discussions and this week will all focus on focusing. This podcast is a discussion about what focus is and the rest of the week will go further into detail. If you're finding it hard to focus on work, family, social, things that need to get done then this is perfect for you. 

Today's podcast is all about focusing, its the second week of series discussions and this week will all focus on focusing. This podcast is a discussion about what focus is and the rest of the week will go further into detail. If you're finding it hard to focus on work, family, social, things that need to get done then this is perfect for you.

41: Focusing Made Easy With Hypnosis 

This is session number 129 of the Absolute Mind podcast and this session is all about becoming a better version of you. Now this seems to be quite an abstract title and reason to want to listen to this, but you'd be extremely surprised that there are large numbers of people who just want to be better, yet they can't seem to describe what better is. So a better version of yourself really does sum it up. I'm going to give you six tips here of things you can do to try and make yourself a better, more enhanced version of yourself. Remember, don't try and think this as you are becoming perfect, it's simply a matter of improving and pushing yourself, because so much in life is about pushing yourself. Take education, exercise, and even mental quizzes are all ways of pushing ourselves beyond our own boundaries. And I think from a healthy psychological point of view this is a good thing. Tip 1: Be nice to yourself The very first part about becoming a better version of yourself is stopping the negative self talk. Sure, doubts and negative perceptions of yourself will creep in from time to time. But it's important to recognise when that happens and stop it in its tracks. Most of us, talk about ourselves negatively without even thinking about it. But as you’re problem you already aware by now have to listen to this show you'll understand that the brain does not recognise the difference between an imagined event or a real one. Therefore talking to yourself negative, and thinking of yourself negatively can only produce one thing. A negative you. Tip 2: Focus on what you want Now in order to consider creating a better version of you, you'll first need to know what is you want to better at or certainly achieve. Like all things in life, we improved by knowing the outcome and working towards that. Get clear on what it is you want, and more importantly why you want it, and what that will do for you when you have it. Tip 3: Use the power of I am We use the term “I am” all of the time without giving it a second thought. But there is power in that statement, power that you need to harness for all the right reasons. We know the negative connotations and how powerful they can be when a person says things like I am useless, I am rubbish, I'm stupid. They're not nice things to hear, because you realise by using the term I am people are really connecting with what they are saying. So as you can see, there's magic in that statement as long as you use that in the right way. so try terms like “I am in control” “I am confident” “I am learning” “I am always discovering new opportunities” “I am growing” “and I am becoming a better version of myself” Tip 4: Stop procrastination There's a saying that perfectionism is the mother of procrastination. Put simply, procrastination is just laziness but with a really nice word. Procrastination, or laziness is very easy to discover if you have no direction or focus on what is that you want. So get very clear on your goals, get very clear on your outcomes, and also get very clear on your schedules and make sure that you deliver on your outcomes and goals. Like anything, getting going on this is not easy. But everything that is worth doing isn’t. Tip 5: I never did mind about the little things This was a sentence I heard back in the late 90s in a film, and it really stuck with me. In its simplest terms, it means stop worrying about all the small things that life throws at us. And just get on with it. I know what you're saying, it's easier said than done, trust me it happens to me every day to. But it's about reframing, and recognising when it is happening because the small things are those that can drain us of our passion, tenacity and purpose. So don't sweat the small stuff and get on with your goals your purpose and what you want from life. Tip 6: Get comfortable with being uncomfortable This is all about learning new things. Doing things we've never done before, and really pushing our own boundaries. This really builds a sense of power and self-control that were achieving things that we have never tried before. There is no better feeling than achieving something that you've never tried, or even thought you could never do. I believe it's one of the meanings of life that we continually overcome challenge and adversity. To get used to setting yourself tasks where you feel uncomfortable, and get comfortable with that. Have some fun implementing some of the tips to become a better version of you.

This is session number 129 of the Absolute Mind podcast and this session is all about becoming a better version of you. Now this seems to be quite an abstract title and reason to want to listen to this, but you'd be extremely surprised that there are large numbers of people who just want to be better, yet they can't seem to describe what better is. So a better version of yourself really does sum it up. I'm going to give you six tips here of things you can do to try and make yourself a better, more enhanced version of yourself. Remember, don't try and think this as you are becoming perfect, it's simply a matter of improving and pushing yourself, because so much in life is about pushing yourself. Take education, exercise, and even mental quizzes are all ways of pushing ourselves beyond our own boundaries. And I think from a healthy psychological point of view this is a good thing. Tip 1: Be nice to yourself The very first part about becoming a better version of yourself is stopping the negative self talk. Sure, doubts and negative perceptions of yourself will creep in from time to time. But it's important to recognise when that happens and stop it in its tracks. Most of us, talk about ourselves negatively without even thinking about it. But as you’re problem you already aware by now have to listen to this show you'll understand that the brain does not recognise the difference between an imagined event or a real one. Therefore talking to yourself negative, and thinking of yourself negatively can only produce one thing. A negative you. Tip 2: Focus on what you want Now in order to consider creating a better version of you, you'll first need to know what is you want to better at or certainly achieve. Like all things in life, we improved by knowing the outcome and working towards that. Get clear on what it is you want, and more importantly why you want it, and what that will do for you when you have it. Tip 3: Use the power of I am We use the term “I am” all of the time without giving it a second thought. But there is power in that statement, power that you need to harness for all the right reasons. We know the negative connotations and how powerful they can be when a person says things like I am useless, I am rubbish, I'm stupid. They're not nice things to hear, because you realise by using the term I am people are really connecting with what they are saying. So as you can see, there's magic in that statement as long as you use that in the right way. so try terms like “I am in control” “I am confident” “I am learning” “I am always discovering new opportunities” “I am growing” “and I am becoming a better version of myself” Tip 4: Stop procrastination There's a saying that perfectionism is the mother of procrastination. Put simply, procrastination is just laziness but with a really nice word. Procrastination, or laziness is very easy to discover if you have no direction or focus on what is that you want. So get very clear on your goals, get very clear on your outcomes, and also get very clear on your schedules and make sure that you deliver on your outcomes and goals. Like anything, getting going on this is not easy. But everything that is worth doing isn’t. Tip 5: I never did mind about the little things This was a sentence I heard back in the late 90s in a film, and it really stuck with me. In its simplest terms, it means stop worrying about all the small things that life throws at us. And just get on with it. I know what you're saying, it's easier said than done, trust me it happens to me every day to. But it's about reframing, and recognising when it is happening because the small things are those that can drain us of our passion, tenacity and purpose. So don't sweat the small stuff and get on with your goals your purpose and what you want from life. Tip 6: Get comfortable with being uncomfortable This is all about learning new things. Doing things we've never done before, and really pushing our own boundaries. This really builds a sense of power and self-control that were achieving things that we have never tried before. There is no better feeling than achieving something that you've never tried, or even thought you could never do. I believe it's one of the meanings of life that we continually overcome challenge and adversity. To get used to setting yourself tasks where you feel uncomfortable, and get comfortable with that. Have some fun implementing some of the tips to become a better version of you.

129 - Becoming a Better Version of You

Todays podcast is this weeks fourth instalment on the discussion of anger. Today I discuss how t deal with somebody else's anger if you are the one being targeted.

Todays podcast is this weeks fourth instalment on the discussion of anger. Today I discuss how t deal with somebody else's anger if you are the one being targeted.

88: How To Handle Somebody Else's Anger

The Best Multi-Part Documentaries, with documentaries on Obama, Federer vs Nadal, the making of Star Wars, Netflix vs Blockbuster and more. Add episodes you're interested into your queue below!

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The best podcast episodes on romantic relationships. Episodes talk about the 5 love languages, intimacy, and the taboo topics of sexual desires and infidelity. This topic is a deep dive into the science and complexities that face us in our relationships with others. Add episodes you're interested into your queue below!