Growing up on our small six-acre farm in Washington was wonderful. As a child, I enjoyed many hours and days of leisure. This was back in the day before the information age. One phone connected to a wall and five channels on the TV (and I was the remote control). I had a pogo stick, a skateboard, a bike and a horse. What else could you need?   One of my favorite memories was rolling down a small hill in our front yard. It was probably only a four-foot incline, but for a young one like me it was a delight. I spent hours lying in the grass, watching butterflies and bees, looking up at tall pine branches hanging overhead, or simply watching the sky.    Today we’re going to think about enjoying the little, and sometimes unexpected, aspects of life.   ______________________________________________________ Follow Gem on Instagram and grab a copy of her new book Hold That Thought. You can also join her in the Replenish Community.

Growing up on our small six-acre farm in Washington was wonderful. As a child, I enjoyed many hours and days of leisure. This was back in the day before the information age. One phone connected to a wall and five channels on the TV (and I was the remote control). I had a pogo stick, a skateboard, a bike and a horse. What else could you need? One of my favorite memories was rolling down a small hill in our front yard. It was probably only a four-foot incline, but for a young one like me it was a delight. I spent hours lying in the grass, watching butterflies and bees, looking up at tall pine branches hanging overhead, or simply watching the sky.  Today we’re going to think about enjoying the little, and sometimes unexpected, aspects of life. ______________________________________________________ Follow Gem on <a href="https://www.instagram.com/gemfadling/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Instagram</a> and grab a copy of her new book <a href="https://amzn.to/35mPuP9" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Hold That Thought</a>. You can also join her in the <a href="http://unhurriedliving.com/replenish" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Replenish Community.</a>

Enjoying the Unexpected

Today I’m sharing a timely replay from the Unhurried Living Podcast. I interviewed K.J. Ramsey on her book This Too Shall Last: Finding Grace When Suffering Lingers.   The entire episode will play, including an introduction of K.J., so for now, I’ll leave you with this. You are not alone in your suffering and K.J. is an expert on this, having suffered physically for years. Listen and take heart. K.J. Ramsey is a trauma-informed licensed professional counselor and author whose work offers space to see every part of our souls and stories as sacred. She holds degrees from Covenant College and Denver Seminary and is the author of This Too Shall Last: Finding Grace When Suffering Lingers and The Lord is My Courage: Stepping Through the Shadows of Fear Toward the Voice of Love.   ______________________________________________________ Follow Gem on Instagram and grab a copy of her new book Hold That Thought. You can also join her in the Replenish Community. 

Today I’m sharing a timely replay from the Unhurried Living Podcast. I interviewed K.J. Ramsey on her book This Too Shall Last: Finding Grace When Suffering Lingers. The entire episode will play, including an introduction of K.J., so for now, I’ll leave you with this. You are not alone in your suffering and K.J. is an expert on this, having suffered physically for years. Listen and take heart. <a href="https://www.kjramsey.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">K.J. Ramsey</a> is a trauma-informed licensed professional counselor and author whose work offers space to see every part of our souls and stories as sacred. She holds degrees from Covenant College and Denver Seminary and is the author of <a href="https://www.kjramsey.com/thistooshalllast" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">This Too Shall Last: Finding Grace When Suffering Lingers</a> and <a href="https://www.kjramsey.com/thelordismycourage" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">The Lord is My Courage: Stepping Through the Shadows of Fear Toward the Voice of Love</a>. ______________________________________________________ Follow Gem on <a href="https://www.instagram.com/gemfadling/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Instagram</a> and grab a copy of her new book <a href="https://amzn.to/35mPuP9" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Hold That Thought</a>. You can also join her in the <a href="http://unhurriedliving.com/replenish" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Replenish Community.</a>

Finding Grace When Suffering Lingers (K.J. Ramsey)

Jodie Niznik

I recently had the pleasure of spending a weekend with my friend, teacher and leader, Jodie Niznik. We talked about fruitfulness inspired by God, as compared to productivity inspired by me…which can sometimes lead to over-giving.   We often think we need to accomplish things by direct action. But fruitfulness works a little differently. Jodie and I dig into that and I trust you’ll find some nuggets to tuck away as well as some new action steps. Jodie Niznik, a graduate of Dallas Theological Seminary, helps people create space for God in their lives through her Scripture meditation podcast entitled "So Much More", and equips them to take another step with Jesus through her Real People, Real Faith Bible studies and teaching. She served in pastoral ministry for over twelve years. Her calling and passion is to equip people to create space for God in their lives and take another step in their journey with Jesus. Jodie is married to Tim. They have two adult daughters and a very poorly trained Yorkie-poo. You can connect with her at jodieniznik.com and on Instagram.   ______________________________________________________ Follow Gem on Instagram and grab a copy of her new book Hold That Thought. You can also join her in the Replenish Community.

I recently had the pleasure of spending a weekend with my friend, teacher and leader, Jodie Niznik. We talked about fruitfulness inspired by God, as compared to productivity inspired by me…which can sometimes lead to over-giving. We often think we need to accomplish things by direct action. But fruitfulness works a little differently. Jodie and I dig into that and I trust you’ll find some nuggets to tuck away as well as some new action steps. Jodie Niznik, a graduate of Dallas Theological Seminary, helps people create space for God in their lives through her <a href="https://somuchmorecreatingspace.libsyn.com/website" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Scripture meditation podcast</a> entitled "So Much More", and equips them to take another step with Jesus through her <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Jodie-Niznik/e/B08L6ZTQ8L%3Fref=dbs_a_mng_rwt_scns_share" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Real People, Real Faith Bible studies</a> and teaching. She served in pastoral ministry for over twelve years. Her calling and passion is to equip people to create space for God in their lives and take another step in their journey with Jesus. Jodie is married to Tim. They have two adult daughters and a very poorly trained Yorkie-poo. You can connect with her at <a href="http://www.jodieniznik.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">jodieniznik.com</a> and on <a href="https://www.instagram.com/creatingspaceforgod/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Instagram</a>. ______________________________________________________ Follow Gem on <a href="https://www.instagram.com/gemfadling/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Instagram</a> and grab a copy of her new book <a href="https://amzn.to/35mPuP9" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Hold That Thought</a>. You can also join her in the <a href="http://unhurriedliving.com/replenish" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Replenish Community.</a>

Fruit That Lasts (Jodie Niznik)

What is the purpose of a sabbatical and how is it even possible? Great questions that I answer today as Alan and I prepare for our 3rd annual monthly sabbatical in July. Listen in as I share how we plan for, engage in and promote this kind of soulful rest. Our  categories of our engagement include: Rest. Play. Relationships. Reading. Prayer. Unplugging. Beauty. Refilling.

What is the purpose of a sabbatical and how is it even possible? Great questions that I answer today as Alan and I prepare for our 3rd annual monthly sabbatical in July. Listen in as I share how we plan for, engage in and promote this kind of soulful rest. Our  categories of our engagement include: Rest. Play. Relationships. Reading. Prayer. Unplugging. Beauty. Refilling.

Sabbatical: Rest, Play, Relationship

A few months ago a semi-prominent newscaster made a flippant comment about women over 50 not being in their prime. He gave examples from a google search that said women in their twenties and thirties are in their prime. Of course, being a woman over 50, I had some very strong feelings about this dismissive statement.   I wanted to say something via social media or email in real time about his comment, but decided not to enter the fray of reactive dialogue.   But time passed, and I forgot about the newscaster’s comment, until recently when I saw a movie in which a man spoke endearingly to a woman over 50, “You look like you’re in your prime to me.” A sweet and heartfelt statement at just the right time in their story.   So I thought about the word “prime” again. What does that even mean? I looked it up. This is where we’re headed…   ______________________________________________________ Follow Gem on Instagram and grab a copy of her new book Hold That Thought. You can also join her in the Replenish Community.

A few months ago a semi-prominent newscaster made a flippant comment about women over 50 not being in their prime. He gave examples from a google search that said women in their twenties and thirties are in their prime. Of course, being a woman over 50, I had some very strong feelings about this dismissive statement. I wanted to say something via social media or email in real time about his comment, but decided not to enter the fray of reactive dialogue. But time passed, and I forgot about the newscaster’s comment, until recently when I saw a movie in which a man spoke endearingly to a woman over 50, “You look like you’re in your prime to me.” A sweet and heartfelt statement at just the right time in their story. So I thought about the word “prime” again. What does that even mean? I looked it up. This is where we’re headed… ______________________________________________________ Follow Gem on <a href="https://www.instagram.com/gemfadling/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Instagram</a> and grab a copy of her new book <a href="https://amzn.to/35mPuP9" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Hold That Thought</a>. You can also join her in the <a href="http://unhurriedliving.com/replenish" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Replenish Community.</a>

The Prime of Life

During the first few months of this year I was in a season that one of my pastor’s helped me to name as “reset.” Prior to that I was rumbling along at an accelerated pace and I came to realize it was too much for me. My body and soul spoke loudly at the same time and said, “Enough!”   A while back I was sharing with my spiritual director about this reset, a big shift I feel occurring in this, my 59th year of my life. The big 6-0 is looming ahead of me in early 2024 and it's giving me pause.    I still feel young and vibrant inside, and I know that age is just a number, and yet there is no doubt about it--I will be entering the final third of my life.   So this week we are talking about the quality of our life. Have we lived how we want to live - both for ourselves and for God.   ______________________________________________________ Follow Gem on Instagram and grab a copy of her new book Hold That Thought. You can also join her in the Replenish Community.

During the first few months of this year I was in a season that one of my pastor’s helped me to name as “reset.” Prior to that I was rumbling along at an accelerated pace and I came to realize it was too much for me. My body and soul spoke loudly at the same time and said, “Enough!” A while back I was sharing with my spiritual director about this reset, a big shift I feel occurring in this, my 59th year of my life. The big 6-0 is looming ahead of me in early 2024 and it's giving me pause.  I still feel young and vibrant inside, and I know that age is just a number, and yet there is no doubt about it--I will be entering the final third of my life. So this week we are talking about the quality of our life. Have we lived how we want to live - both for ourselves and for God. ______________________________________________________ Follow Gem on <a href="https://www.instagram.com/gemfadling/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Instagram</a> and grab a copy of her new book <a href="https://amzn.to/35mPuP9" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Hold That Thought</a>. You can also join her in the <a href="http://unhurriedliving.com/replenish" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Replenish Community.</a>

What is the Quality of Your Life?

Every once in a while, I like to reflect on all God has taught me over the previous few months or years. In many ways, that‘s what both my books, What Does Your Soul Love? and Hold That Thought are—a gathering of life lessons learned at the feet of Jesus.   Recently I journaled my current, central paradigms. I am grateful for the grace of God shining a light on these important areas. Each of these informs how I view God, myself and others. Over time, I long to grow in love in all three of these relationships. ______________________________________________________ Follow Gem on Instagram and grab a copy of her new book Hold That Thought. You can also join her in the Replenish Community.

Every once in a while, I like to reflect on all God has taught me over the previous few months or years. In many ways, that‘s what both my books, <a href="https://www.amazon.com/What-Does-Your-Soul-Love/dp/083084659X/ref=tmm_hrd_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&amp;qid=1680028612&amp;sr=8-2" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">What Does Your Soul Love?</a> and <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Hold-That-Thought-Sorting-Through/dp/083083169X/ref=tmm_pap_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&amp;qid=1680028612&amp;sr=8-1" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Hold That Thought</a> are—a gathering of life lessons learned at the feet of Jesus. Recently I journaled my current, central paradigms. I am grateful for the grace of God shining a light on these important areas. Each of these informs how I view God, myself and others. Over time, I long to grow in love in all three of these relationships. ______________________________________________________ Follow Gem on <a href="https://www.instagram.com/gemfadling/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Instagram</a> and grab a copy of her new book <a href="https://amzn.to/35mPuP9" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Hold That Thought</a>. You can also join her in the <a href="http://unhurriedliving.com/replenish" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Replenish Community.</a>

Seven Central Paradigms

It is easy to carry the weight of the world on your shoulders these days because we can see and hear what is going on in most corners of our planet. Psychologically, emotionally, relationally and even physically, this is too much to bear. Postlethwaite’s poetic invitation is to create a clearing inside our own dense forest, and…wait. Wait as a song is given to us (I would add “by God”). Then we will know how to serve. This is an unhurried invitation isn't it? The temptation is always to keep moving forward, mostly at breakneck pace. There is so much to do! There are so many needs! How will it ever get done? But unhurried leadership takes on a different view. Unhurried leadership knows that we must fill up with what we would pour out.  Follow Gem on Instagram and grab a copy of her new book Hold That Thought. You can also join her in the Replenish Community.

It is easy to carry the weight of the world on your shoulders these days because we can see and hear what is going on in most corners of our planet. Psychologically, emotionally, relationally and even physically, this is too much to bear. Postlethwaite’s poetic invitation is to create a clearing inside our own dense forest, and…wait. Wait as a song is given to us (I would add “by God”). Then we will know how to serve. This is an unhurried invitation isn't it? The temptation is always to keep moving forward, mostly at breakneck pace. There is so much to do! There are so many needs! How will it ever get done? But unhurried leadership takes on a different view. Unhurried leadership knows that we must fill up with what we would pour out.  Follow Gem on <a href="https://www.instagram.com/gemfadling/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Instagram</a> and grab a copy of her new book <a href="https://amzn.to/35mPuP9" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Hold That Thought</a>. You can also join her in the <a href="http://unhurriedliving.com/replenish" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Replenish Community.</a>

Create a Clearing

Welcome to this bonus episode of ICDT. Today I’m sharing a conversation I had with my husband, Alan, on the UL Podcast. We are talking about PACE our new certificate in leadership and soul care.We’ll share our experience and passion with walking alongside leaders for many years. We care very much about the sustainability of our influence over time…spiritually, relationally and vocationally.I think you’ll find lots of encouragement and reminders within our dialogue. Of course, I’m inviting you to consider PACE, but more than that, I’m inviting you to remember what it is to be an unhurried leader. We are on this journey together and I want to inspire you as much as I possibly can. 

Welcome to this bonus episode of ICDT. Today I’m sharing a conversation I had with my husband, Alan, on the UL Podcast. We are talking about <a href="https://www.unhurriedliving.com/pace" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">PACE our new certificate in leadership and soul care</a>.We’ll share our experience and passion with walking alongside leaders for many years. We care very much about the sustainability of our influence over time…spiritually, relationally and vocationally.I think you’ll find lots of encouragement and reminders within our dialogue. Of course, I’m inviting you to consider <a href="https://www.unhurriedliving.com/pace" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">PACE</a>, but more than that, I’m inviting you to remember what it is to be an unhurried leader. We are on this journey together and I want to inspire you as much as I possibly can.

PACE: Leadership and Soul Care

Today we are pondering the idea of the heart. And, for this conversation, I’m defining the heart as the inner person, that deepest place within ourselves where we interact on the central aspects of life in connection to God. This is an important idea and I’m so glad you are engaging with me today.   I’m Gem Fadling and it’s time for ICDT. ___________________________________________________________   Follow Gem on Instagram and grab a copy of her new book Hold That Thought. You can also join her in the Replenish Community.

Today we are pondering the idea of the heart. And, for this conversation, I’m defining the heart as the inner person, that deepest place within ourselves where we interact on the central aspects of life in connection to God. This is an important idea and I’m so glad you are engaging with me today. I’m Gem Fadling and it’s time for ICDT. ___________________________________________________________ Follow Gem on <a href="https://www.instagram.com/gemfadling/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Instagram</a> and grab a copy of her new book <a href="https://amzn.to/35mPuP9" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Hold That Thought</a>. You can also join her in the <a href="http://unhurriedliving.com/replenish" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Replenish Community.</a>

It's All About the Heart

I Can Do That! is hosted by Gem Fadling, spiritual formation coach, author and founding partner of Unhurried Living. With 30 years’ experience in spiritual formation, Gem helps people grow by combining grounded optimism with practical spirituality. This effective dynamic will guide you onto the path of discernment so that you can transform your desires into habits. In each episode Gem will share one practical idea, with one simple takeaway. Together, we’ll grow at the pace of transformation, and you’ll move into your day, saying to yourself, “I can do that!”http://unhurriedliving.com/gem

Aundi Kolber

When it comes to difficult circumstances, we’ve all heard the platitudes: “No pain, no gain.” “What doesn’t kill you makes you stronger.” But if we spend our lives trying to be “the strong one,” we become exhausted, burned-out, and disconnected from our truest selves.What if it were different? Could there be a different way to be strong? Could strength mean more than pushing on and pushing through pain, bearing every heavy burden on our own? What if, instead, true strength were more like the tide: soft and bold, fierce and gentle, moving together as one powerful force? Today I am talking with Aundi Kolber on her latest book, Strong Like Water as we look at strength and pain and where our strength truly comes from. Follow Gem on Instagram and grab a copy of her new book Hold That Thought. You can also join her in the Replenish Community.

When it comes to difficult circumstances, we’ve all heard the platitudes: “No pain, no gain.” “What doesn’t kill you makes you stronger.” But if we spend our lives trying to be “the strong one,” we become exhausted, burned-out, and disconnected from our truest selves. What if it were different? Could there be a different way to be strong? Could strength mean more than pushing on and pushing through pain, bearing every heavy burden on our own? What if, instead, true strength were more like the tide: soft and bold, fierce and gentle, moving together as one powerful force? Today I am talking with <a href="https://aundikolber.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Aundi Kolber</a> on her latest book, <a href="https://aundikolber.com/strong-like-water/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Strong Like Water</a> as we look at strength and pain and where our strength truly comes from. Follow Gem on <a href="https://www.instagram.com/gemfadling/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Instagram</a> and grab a copy of her new book <a href="https://amzn.to/35mPuP9" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Hold That Thought</a>. You can also join her in the <a href="http://unhurriedliving.com/replenish" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Replenish Community.</a>

Strong Like Water (Aundi Kolber)

If we were to only believe the 24-hour news cycle, we would think there is very little peace in the world. Yes, there are dramatic and traumatic things going on around the planet. But right in the middle of all that, many people are simply living their lives--loving their families, working hard and serving others.   We can choose to be people of peace right in the middle of a contentious, distracted and overwhelmed culture. And I would argue this is absolutely necessary.   Today we’re looking at a scripture passage that gives us beautiful counsel for extending peace to everyone, no matter the circumstance. And there’s a surprising twist that generously benefits us as we do.    I’m Gem Fadling and it’s time for ICDT. ________________________________________________ Follow Gem on Instagram and grab a copy of her new book Hold That Thought. You can also join her in the Replenish Community.

If we were to only believe the 24-hour news cycle, we would think there is very little peace in the world. Yes, there are dramatic and traumatic things going on around the planet. But right in the middle of all that, many people are simply living their lives--loving their families, working hard and serving others. We can choose to be people of peace right in the middle of a contentious, distracted and overwhelmed culture. And I would argue this is absolutely necessary. Today we’re looking at a scripture passage that gives us beautiful counsel for extending peace to everyone, no matter the circumstance. And there’s a surprising twist that generously benefits us as we do.  I’m Gem Fadling and it’s time for ICDT. ________________________________________________ Follow Gem on <a href="https://www.instagram.com/gemfadling/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Instagram</a> and grab a copy of her new book <a href="https://amzn.to/35mPuP9" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Hold That Thought</a>. You can also join her in the <a href="http://unhurriedliving.com/replenish" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Replenish Community.</a>

Be a Promoter of Peace

We begin with a reading from 1 Thes 5:14:“And we urge you, brothers and sisters, warn those who are idle and disruptive, encourage the disheartened, help the weak, be patient with everyone.” (1 Thes. 5:14) It would be easy to simply gloss over this, ignoring the relational nuances or to turn it into some rigid formula for the control freak within. Rather than either of those, I like to think of this as wise counsel for truly seeing others and responding in ways that might actually help them make their way. We’ll simply take each phrase on its face as we move through the verse. Connect with Gem on Instagram or visit her at the Unhurried Living website.

We begin with a reading from 1 Thes 5:14:“And we urge you, brothers and sisters, warn those who are idle and disruptive, encourage the disheartened, help the weak, be patient with everyone.” (1 Thes. 5:14) It would be easy to simply gloss over this, ignoring the relational nuances or to turn it into some rigid formula for the control freak within. Rather than either of those, I like to think of this as wise counsel for truly seeing others and responding in ways that might actually help them make their way. We’ll simply take each phrase on its face as we move through the verse. Connect with <a href="https://www.instagram.com/gemfadling/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Gem on Instagram</a> or visit her at the <a href="https://www.unhurriedliving.com/gem" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Unhurried Living</a> website.

Warn, Encourage, Help

Awhile back, during an overnight retreat, I chose to peruse the notes from my first spiritual direction training. I had two folders with worksheets, practices, and handwritten notes from multiple lectures. My plan was to read through everything, so I could remember and glean from the spiritual wisdom contained in those pages. I made it through only half of one handwritten notebook. I barely scratched the surface. Reading through my notes in a soulful way turned out to be a much slower process than I had anticipated. That time was so rich. I was able to soak in the goodness of God and reflect on how he had used those teachings to carry me through the next ten years. The lessons I reflected on were like a rototiller, cultivating the soil of my soul’s garden. I was ready to receive what was offered, and it truly prepared me for all of the work that followed over the decade since then. I thought I would share with you ten seeds of wisdom from my notes. My hope is that one or two of these ideas will connect with you right where you are. Connect with Gem on Instagram or visit her at the Unhurried Living website.

Awhile back, during an overnight retreat, I chose to peruse the notes from my first spiritual direction training. I had two folders with worksheets, practices, and handwritten notes from multiple lectures. My plan was to read through everything, so I could remember and glean from the spiritual wisdom contained in those pages. I made it through only half of one handwritten notebook. I barely scratched the surface. Reading through my notes in a soulful way turned out to be a much slower process than I had anticipated. That time was so rich. I was able to soak in the goodness of God and reflect on how he had used those teachings to carry me through the next ten years. The lessons I reflected on were like a rototiller, cultivating the soil of my soul’s garden. I was ready to receive what was offered, and it truly prepared me for all of the work that followed over the decade since then. I thought I would share with you ten seeds of wisdom from my notes. My hope is that one or two of these ideas will connect with you right where you are. Connect with <a href="https://www.instagram.com/gemfadling/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Gem on Instagram</a> or visit her at the <a href="https://www.unhurriedliving.com/gem" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Unhurried Living</a> website.

Bridled by Love

Kristi Gaultiere

Today I’m talking with Dr. Kristi Gaultiere and we’ll be discussing our journey toward emotional and spiritual growth.I’ve known Kristi for many years. She and her husband have a ministry called Soul Shepherding and their mission is similar to Unhurried Living. They care for and train Christian leaders with a focus on pastors and spiritual directors. Kristi and her husband are both therapists and authors and I’m delighted to share this conversation on transformation over a lifetime.

Today I’m talking with Dr. <a href="https://www.soulshepherding.org/about-us/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Kristi Gaultiere</a> and we’ll be discussing our journey toward emotional and spiritual growth.I’ve known Kristi for many years. She and her husband have a ministry called <a href="" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Soul Shepherding</a> and their mission is similar to Unhurried Living. They care for and train Christian leaders with a focus on pastors and spiritual directors. Kristi and her husband are both therapists and authors and I’m delighted to share this conversation on transformation over a lifetime.

Journey of the Soul (Kristi Gaultiere)

Gem shares lessons learned from taking a break from Podcast recording and what's in store for I Can Do That! Podcast. 

Gem shares lessons learned from taking a break from Podcast recording and what's in store for I Can Do That! Podcast.

Taking a Break

Suzanne Stabile

Most of us have no idea how others see or process their experiences. And that can make relationships difficult.  Understanding the motivations and dynamics of our different personality types can be the key that unlocks sometimes mystifying behavior in others―and in ourselves.   Suzanne Stabile’s book, The Path Between Us looks at the nine Enneagram types and how they behave and experience relationships.   Today I’m sharing a portion of my Replenish conversation with Suzanne. We all desire healthier relationships and Suzanne can help point the way. The question I asked Suzanne for this I Can Do That! Podcast episode is this: What is a unique challenge for each Enneagram type in relationships? Connect with Gem on Instagram and learn more on the Unhurried Living website and the Replenish Community.Learn about her new book, Hold That Thought: Sorting Through the Voices in Our Heads

Most of us have no idea how others see or process their experiences. And that can make relationships difficult.  Understanding the motivations and dynamics of our different personality types can be the key that unlocks sometimes mystifying behavior in others―and in ourselves.   <a href="https://www.theenneagramjourney.org/suzanne-stabile" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Suzanne Stabile</a>’s book, <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Path-Between-Us-Enneagram-Relationships/dp/0830846425" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">The Path Between Us</a> looks at the nine Enneagram types and how they behave and experience relationships.   Today I’m sharing a portion of my <a href="https://www.unhurriedliving.com/replenish" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Replenish</a> conversation with Suzanne. We all desire healthier relationships and Suzanne can help point the way. The question I asked Suzanne for this I Can Do That! Podcast episode is this: What is a unique challenge for each Enneagram type in relationships? Connect with <a href="https://www.instagram.com/gemfadling/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Gem on Instagram</a> and learn more on the <a href="https://dashboard.simplecast.com/accounts/c807b8df-15a1-423a-8649-9db69f7aa374/shows/2a294677-14cc-4597-8409-8efcedfed2cd/episodes/1ff79710-f260-475a-8a39-22315b98892e/www.unhurriedliving.com/gem" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Unhurried Living website</a> and the <a href="https://www.unhurriedliving.com/replenish" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Replenish Community</a>.Learn about her new book, <a href="https://dashboard.simplecast.com/accounts/c807b8df-15a1-423a-8649-9db69f7aa374/shows/2a294677-14cc-4597-8409-8efcedfed2cd/episodes/c6bd1beb-251f-42f0-92ea-21c6790a5380/www.unhurriedliving.com/holdthatthought" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Hold That Thought: Sorting Through the Voices in Our Heads</a>

Enneagram Wisdom for Relating with Others (Suzanne Stabile)

As was typical of a season long ago, there was a pile of little boys in the back of my red minivan. We were driving down the street toward our home when I noticed some unusual dark grey storm clouds in the sky. Behind the clouds was a glowing blue sky, with splashes of pink and gold.It was the beginning of sunset, and, evidently, my then 4-year-old son had never seen a sky exactly like that before.“I never saw today!” he exclaimed as he peered out the van window, reacting to the sky.The wonder in his voice floored me. The only way he could think of to describe this amazing sky which he had never seen before was, “I never saw today!”What did his exclamation do for my mama’s heart? We’ll that’s where we’re headed.I’m Gem Fadling and it’s time for ICDT. Connect with Gem on Instagram and learn more on the Unhurried Living website and the Replenish Community.Learn about her new book, Hold That Thought: Sorting Through the Voices in Our Heads

As was typical of a season long ago, there was a pile of little boys in the back of my red minivan. We were driving down the street toward our home when I noticed some unusual dark grey storm clouds in the sky. Behind the clouds was a glowing blue sky, with splashes of pink and gold.It was the beginning of sunset, and, evidently, my then 4-year-old son had never seen a sky exactly like that before.“I never saw today!” he exclaimed as he peered out the van window, reacting to the sky.The wonder in his voice floored me. The only way he could think of to describe this amazing sky which he had never seen before was, “I never saw today!”What did his exclamation do for my mama’s heart? We’ll that’s where we’re headed.I’m Gem Fadling and it’s time for ICDT. Connect with <a href="https://www.instagram.com/gemfadling/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Gem on Instagram</a> and learn more on the <a href="https://dashboard.simplecast.com/accounts/c807b8df-15a1-423a-8649-9db69f7aa374/shows/2a294677-14cc-4597-8409-8efcedfed2cd/episodes/1ff79710-f260-475a-8a39-22315b98892e/www.unhurriedliving.com/gem" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Unhurried Living website</a> and the <a href="https://www.unhurriedliving.com/replenish" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Replenish Community</a>.Learn about her new book, <a href="https://dashboard.simplecast.com/accounts/c807b8df-15a1-423a-8649-9db69f7aa374/shows/2a294677-14cc-4597-8409-8efcedfed2cd/episodes/c6bd1beb-251f-42f0-92ea-21c6790a5380/www.unhurriedliving.com/holdthatthought" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Hold That Thought: Sorting Through the Voices in Our Heads</a>

See the Day

As a part of my living room décor, I have two bowls of rocks. Of course this is lovelier than it sounds. The bowls are glass antiques from my Aunt Ruth’s collection and the rocks are all polished and colorful.But these aren’t just rocks. They represent a bowlful of treasured memories created with my dad. Markers of time spent together.I’m Gem Fadling and it’s time for ICDT.  Connect with Gem on Instagram and learn more on the Unhurried Living website and the Replenish Community.Learn about her new book, Hold That Thought: Sorting Through the Voices in Our Heads

As a part of my living room décor, I have two bowls of rocks. Of course this is lovelier than it sounds. The bowls are glass antiques from my Aunt Ruth’s collection and the rocks are all polished and colorful.But these aren’t just rocks. They represent a bowlful of treasured memories created with my dad. Markers of time spent together.I’m Gem Fadling and it’s time for ICDT. Connect with <a href="https://www.instagram.com/gemfadling/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Gem on Instagram</a> and learn more on the <a href="https://dashboard.simplecast.com/accounts/c807b8df-15a1-423a-8649-9db69f7aa374/shows/2a294677-14cc-4597-8409-8efcedfed2cd/episodes/1ff79710-f260-475a-8a39-22315b98892e/www.unhurriedliving.com/gem" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Unhurried Living website</a> and the <a href="https://www.unhurriedliving.com/replenish" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Replenish Community</a>.Learn about her new book, <a href="https://dashboard.simplecast.com/accounts/c807b8df-15a1-423a-8649-9db69f7aa374/shows/2a294677-14cc-4597-8409-8efcedfed2cd/episodes/c6bd1beb-251f-42f0-92ea-21c6790a5380/www.unhurriedliving.com/holdthatthought" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Hold That Thought: Sorting Through the Voices in Our Heads</a>

Altars of Remembrance

In our book, What Does Your Soul Love?, I shared a few nuggets of wisdom from one of my mentors, Abbot David Geraets. But there’s one nugget I didn’t put into the book, and I’d like to offer it to you today.  A nugget about silence. Connect with Gem on Instagram and learn more on the Unhurried Living websiteLearn about her new book, Hold That Thought: Sorting Through the Voices in Our Heads

In our book, <a href="https://amzn.to/328MuPg" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">What Does Your Soul Love?</a>, I shared a few nuggets of wisdom from one of my mentors, Abbot David Geraets. But there’s one nugget I didn’t put into the book, and I’d like to offer it to you today.  A nugget about silence. Connect with <a href="https://www.instagram.com/gemfadling/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Gem on Instagram</a> and learn more on the <a href="https://dashboard.simplecast.com/accounts/c807b8df-15a1-423a-8649-9db69f7aa374/shows/2a294677-14cc-4597-8409-8efcedfed2cd/episodes/1ff79710-f260-475a-8a39-22315b98892e/www.unhurriedliving.com/gem" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Unhurried Living website</a>Learn about her new book, <a href="https://dashboard.simplecast.com/accounts/c807b8df-15a1-423a-8649-9db69f7aa374/shows/2a294677-14cc-4597-8409-8efcedfed2cd/episodes/c6bd1beb-251f-42f0-92ea-21c6790a5380/www.unhurriedliving.com/holdthatthought" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Hold That Thought: Sorting Through the Voices in Our Heads</a>

Timely Silence

I Can Do That! is hosted by Gem Fadling, spiritual formation coach, author and founding partner of Unhurried Living. With 30 years’ experience in spiritual formation, Gem helps people grow by combining grounded optimism with practical spirituality. This effective dynamic will guide you onto the path of discernment so that you can transform your desires into habits. In each episode Gem will share one practical idea, with one simple takeaway. Together, we’ll grow at the pace of transformation, and you’ll move into your day, saying to yourself, “I can do that!” <a href="http://unhurriedliving.com/gem" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">http://unhurriedliving.com/gem</a>

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