Ranked #1
How to Open up Your Relationship
How to Open up Your Relationship
In the sister episode to “Opening up Our Relationships” we focus on the methods and tools we suggest for having the safe... Read more
12 Jan 2019
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47mins
Ranked #2
Two Questions One Episode
Two Questions One Episode
This week we had two wonderful listener questions but they were both too long to be an intro and not long enough to be f... Read more
25 Jan 2020
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54mins
Ranked #3
Jealousy Live at APW
Jealousy Live at APW
Our 30th episode was taped live at APW with our fans. We discuss the structure of jealously and answer listener question... Read more
12 Jul 2019
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1hr 29mins
Ranked #4
Romantic Objectification
Romantic Objectification
In this episode we critically examine the cultural narratives around romance. We pay special attention to how those idea... Read more
4 Aug 2018
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57mins
Ranked #5
Professor Sex and STI's
Professor Sex and STI's
This week Angel Kalafatis-Russell aka Professor Sex of ProfessorSex.com joins us to discuss the ethics of STI testing, t... Read more
7 Dec 2019
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1hr 42mins
Ranked #6
The One Eggplant Policy
The One Eggplant Policy
Short version: We’ve got a survivor pod update and we talk about the seemingly ever present one eggplant policy. Long Ve... Read more
24 Aug 2019
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1hr 9mins
Ranked #7
Autonomy is Not a Cudgel
Autonomy is Not a Cudgel
In this episode of Probably Poly we introduce our new cohost and tackle the issue of how invoking rights discourse, such... Read more
12 Jul 2018
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54mins
Ranked #8
Rules for Leadership Dating Members in our Communities
Rules for Leadership Dating Members in our Communities
Join us for our 1-year anniversary, as we discuss how members of leadership can more safely engage in relationships with... Read more
18 May 2019
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53mins
Ranked #9
How Believing In Good And Evil is Antisocial
How Believing In Good And Evil is Antisocial
This week we talk in depth about the origins and functions of moral language, words like “good” and “evil”, “bad” and “g... Read more
7 Sep 2019
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57mins
Ranked #10
Discussing Franklin Veaux
Discussing Franklin Veaux
This week instead of theory we talk news. As many of your know by now Franklin Veaux has been accused of abuse by a six ... Read more
23 Feb 2019
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46mins
Ranked #11
Questions to Ask Before Coming Out
Questions to Ask Before Coming Out
This week we discuss evaluating who and when you should come out to with our guest Sarah Neal who provides a set of ques... Read more
8 Apr 2019
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48mins
Ranked #12
Blame Management
Blame Management
In this episode we introduce our new format, discuss the newly released survivor stories from the polyamory’s #metoo sur... Read more
1 Jun 2019
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43mins
Ranked #13
What is Free Will Anyway?
What is Free Will Anyway?
ost people say they have it, but have you ever asked yourself what you mean when you say you have free will, what it mea... Read more
28 Sep 2019
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47mins
Ranked #14
Effort & Gratitude
Effort & Gratitude
In this episode we discuss, well basically every facet of effort and reviving effort, or gratitude. We look at why we mi... Read more
11 Jan 2020
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1hr 24mins
Ranked #15
Ending vs Transitioning Relationships
Ending vs Transitioning Relationships
What’s the difference between ending a relationship and transitioning one? If you do transition a relationship what are ... Read more
9 Nov 2018
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40mins
Ranked #16
Communication is Haaarrrrdd
Communication is Haaarrrrdd
Have you ever wondered why people tell more negative stories then positive stories? Or, wonder what the most commonly mi... Read more
30 Sep 2018
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53mins
Ranked #17
Objectification Overview
Objectification Overview
Mandee Conant returns and we all discus the meaning of objectification, how we want to use it on the show, and how the c... Read more
25 Jul 2018
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54mins
Ranked #18
Hidden Disabilities and Polyamorous Communities
Hidden Disabilities and Polyamorous Communities
This week we respond to a listener question about how to work with neurodivergent members of our communities in a way th... Read more
12 Oct 2019
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57mins
Ranked #19
Opening Up Our Relationships
Opening Up Our Relationships
Join us this week to hear our thoughts and stories on opening up our own relationships, well Mandee and mine at any rate... Read more
1 Dec 2018
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50mins
Ranked #20
What Does Commitment Really Mean
What Does Commitment Really Mean
What does it mean to you? Is it different for monogamous and non-monogamous communities? If so how? What is the differen... Read more
17 Oct 2018
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51mins