Tonight I'm answering a question from Heather who posted it in a thread in our Women Making Marriages Work (WMMW) FB Group. This is her question: "How about advice on healing from an emotionally and mentally abusive (and neglectful) marriage? For 8 years I played the part of a good wife as best I could and went out of my way to do far more than anyone I knew did for their husbands or partners. I worked until I was in desperate pain and then kept going so I wouldn't disappoint him. (Serious health issues here) He has changed, like actual real change, but it just feels like he hurt me too deeply for too long and just killed the possibility of ever loving him again. And how can I even try without the fear of him turning back into the person he was?" Anyone in pain in their relationship that doesn't know how to move forward needs to listen to this. Talk soon, Meg Masterclass: https://joinnow.live/s/srs3OI Free Breakthrough Call: http://workwithmeg.com/talk

Tonight I'm answering a question from Heather who posted it in a thread in our Women Making Marriages Work (WMMW) FB Group. This is her question: "How about advice on healing from an emotionally and mentally abusive (and neglectful) marriage? For 8 years I played the part of a good wife as best I could and went out of my way to do far more than anyone I knew did for their husbands or partners. I worked until I was in desperate pain and then kept going so I wouldn't disappoint him. (Serious health issues here) He has changed, like actual real change, but it just feels like he hurt me too deeply for too long and just killed the possibility of ever loving him again. And how can I even try without the fear of him turning back into the person he was?" Anyone in pain in their relationship that doesn't know how to move forward needs to listen to this. Talk soon, Meg Masterclass: https://joinnow.live/s/srs3OI Free Breakthrough Call: <a href="http://workwithmeg.com/talk" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">http://workwithmeg.com/talk</a>

HOW DO YOU HEAL BEING HURT TOO DEEPLY FOR TOO LONG?

DON'T BE LIKE ME.... Friends, I come here with an admission of guilt as it pertains to avoiding doing what needed to be done. And, I knew better, I just didn't do it. So. Don't be me. Watch and learn and here's the Masterclass: https://joinnow.live/s/srs3OI Talk soon, Meg

DON'T BE LIKE ME.... Friends, I come here with an admission of guilt as it pertains to avoiding doing what needed to be done. And, I knew better, I just didn't do it. So. Don't be me. Watch and learn and here's the Masterclass: https://joinnow.live/s/srs3OI Talk soon, Meg

DON'T BE LIKE ME....

Tonight I'm mapping out the exact pathway you went down to lose connection with your husband and what it is that you both really want. Then we're going to talk about what exactly you can do to get drastically different results. Looking forward to it, Meg

Tonight I'm mapping out the exact pathway you went down to lose connection with your husband and what it is that you both really want. Then we're going to talk about what exactly you can do to get drastically different results. Looking forward to it, Meg

DISTANCE AND ISOLATION: THE RETURN TO CONNECTION

Tonight I'm unpacking what your feelings are telling you, how to know what you don't want, so that you can design and then create what you do want. And most importantly, how to make a bridge from the old life, that isn't working for you the way you wish it would, into the new one. Here's the Masterclass Link so that you can learn more of the skills you need to 'cross over': http://bit.ly/mrwmasterclass Talk soon, Meg

Tonight I'm unpacking what your feelings are telling you, how to know what you don't want, so that you can design and then create what you do want. And most importantly, how to make a bridge from the old life, that isn't working for you the way you wish it would, into the new one. Here's the Masterclass Link so that you can learn more of the skills you need to 'cross over': <a href="http://bit.ly/mrwmasterclass" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">http://bit.ly/mrwmasterclass</a> Talk soon, Meg

WHEN YOU ARE IN PAIN, WHEN YOU HAVE TRAUMA, WHEN YOU CAN'T MAKE THINGS WORK

Talking tonight about what complaints are, why we have them and what to do to turn them into something that serves a purpose. Let's do this, Meg PS. Masterclass Link: http://bit.ly/mrwmasterclass

Talking tonight about what complaints are, why we have them and what to do to turn them into something that serves a purpose. Let's do this, Meg PS. Masterclass Link: <a href="http://bit.ly/mrwmasterclass" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">http://bit.ly/mrwmasterclass</a>

THE GIFT OF KNOWING WHAT YOU DON'T WANT

Talking tonight about the most common problem we have in our clients. Which, is, essentially, a real/perceived need to control/manage the environment around us until we are gripping so tightly that we have some sort of meltdown. Internal or external. Large or Larger.  Then, with that blow out, we find our feet, have some respite for awhile, until... we're back in that same cycle.  Masterclass: http://bit.ly/mrwmasterclass  It's going to be a great conversation, Meg

Talking tonight about the most common problem we have in our clients. Which, is, essentially, a real/perceived need to control/manage the environment around us until we are gripping so tightly that we have some sort of meltdown. Internal or external. Large or Larger. Then, with that blow out, we find our feet, have some respite for awhile, until... we're back in that same cycle. Masterclass: <a href="http://bit.ly/mrwmasterclass" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">http://bit.ly/mrwmasterclass</a> It's going to be a great conversation, Meg

HITTING THE RESET BUTTON: THE ANTIDOTE TO BEING THE 'CONTROLLER/MANAGER' IN YOUR HOUSE

Hi WMMW,   Talking tonight about dating our husbands/partners in lockdown, or quarantine, or covid-19 in general.   If you're feeling low in energy, this is for you. If you're feeling disconnected from your significant other, this is for you. If you're on a downward spiral into disconnect, this is for you.   Please share how you remain connected in the comments below, Meg PS Masterclass: http://bit.ly/mrwmasterclass

Hi WMMW,   Talking tonight about dating our husbands/partners in lockdown, or quarantine, or covid-19 in general.   If you're feeling low in energy, this is for you. If you're feeling disconnected from your significant other, this is for you. If you're on a downward spiral into disconnect, this is for you.   Please share how you remain connected in the comments below, Meg PS Masterclass: <a href="http://bit.ly/mrwmasterclass" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">http://bit.ly/mrwmasterclass</a>

CONNECTING THROUGH DATE NIGHTS

On the 29th of May, I posted a question in the WMMW Facebook group. It said "Fill in the blank: 'I can't be in a healthy masterful marriage because I haven't ______________ yet.'" The responses I received were themed, and tonight I'm going to talk about why they were themed in the way that they were. I'll also cover the antidote that will allow you to give/receive a healthy, masterful marriage. Meg PS. Masterclass Link: http://bit.ly/mrwmasterclass

On the 29th of May, I posted a question in the WMMW Facebook group. It said "Fill in the blank: 'I can't be in a healthy masterful marriage because I haven't ______________ yet.'" The responses I received were themed, and tonight I'm going to talk about why they were themed in the way that they were. I'll also cover the antidote that will allow you to give/receive a healthy, masterful marriage. Meg PS. Masterclass Link: <a href="http://bit.ly/mrwmasterclass" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">http://bit.ly/mrwmasterclass</a>

COMING HOME TO YOURSELF

We're being called to grow in our hearts and minds across many relationships right now. In our marriage, in our parenting - yes, always. But also in our community through COVID-19, through Black Lives Matter, through voting and many other issues that are now up in the general conciousness. We are being called to learn and grow like never before. I love this. And I have also noticed that to be able to show up as allies and advocates across all these spaces, we need to have energy to do so lovingly. Without energy we blame, criticize, defend and disconnect. We close ourselves off to others, and aren't available to reconnect. This isn't serving our marriage, our children, our communities. So tonight - I'm lifting the lid on how to build a surplus of energy that allows you to show up in the way that you are called to. With integrity and connection. Meg PS: Here's my Masterclass link: http://bit.ly/mrwmasterclass

We're being called to grow in our hearts and minds across many relationships right now. In our marriage, in our parenting - yes, always. But also in our community through COVID-19, through Black Lives Matter, through voting and many other issues that are now up in the general conciousness. We are being called to learn and grow like never before. I love this. And I have also noticed that to be able to show up as allies and advocates across all these spaces, we need to have energy to do so lovingly. Without energy we blame, criticize, defend and disconnect. We close ourselves off to others, and aren't available to reconnect. This isn't serving our marriage, our children, our communities. So tonight - I'm lifting the lid on how to build a surplus of energy that allows you to show up in the way that you are called to. With integrity and connection. Meg PS: Here's my Masterclass link: <a href="http://bit.ly/mrwmasterclass" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">http://bit.ly/mrwmasterclass</a>

BUILDING THE ENERGY TO SHOW UP DIFFERENTLY IN RELATIONSHIPS AND LIFE

Hi WMMW, Talking tonight about failure and all the bits and pieces that failure represents. You're not going to want to miss this, Meg PS. Masterclass Link: https://bit.ly/mrwmasterclass

Hi WMMW, Talking tonight about failure and all the bits and pieces that failure represents. You're not going to want to miss this, Meg PS. Masterclass Link: <a href="https://bit.ly/mrwmasterclass" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://bit.ly/mrwmasterclass</a>

WHAT TO DO WHEN YOU ARE FAILING

Meg is an authority on positive relationships.She works with women around the world to guide them to positive relationships with themselves, their kids and their husbands.

I get so much from her teachings but the quality of the audio makes it difficult to listen to. The prerecorded intro sounds great but when the individual episode starts  it has a kind of scratchy background noise that is uncomfortable and hurts my head and ears! I want to listen to all of them and I really wish there was some way to improve the sound.

Sound quality

I’ve been following Meg Tuohey on FB for about a year and simply from applying her philosophies on marriage and self care my marriage has done a complete 180...(because I HAVE done a 180!!) So very thankful for the wisdom, insight, and practical life application I have learned. I highly recommend this podcast to anyone who is ready to access their best life and truest joy!

This podcast is life changing & life giving!

Meg is an authority on positive relationships. She works with women around the world to guide them to positive relationships with themselves, their kids and their husbands.

Meg Tuohey - Making  Relationships Work

This old adage is tossed around all too frequently - and while it has SOME truth, the real truth? We use it to AVOID doing our OWN work. Let's discuss! Here is the link to the Masterclass - https://bit.ly/2rXCt7K Free Facebook Support Group- https://www.facebook.com/groups/WomenMakingMarriagesWork/

This old adage is tossed around all too frequently - and while it has SOME truth, the real truth? We use it to AVOID doing our OWN work. Let's discuss! Here is the link to the Masterclass - <a href="https://bit.ly/2rXCt7K" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://bit.ly/2rXCt7K</a> Free Facebook Support Group- <a href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/WomenMakingMarriagesWork/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://www.facebook.com/groups/WomenMakingMarriagesWork/</a>

MYTH BUSTING: "YOU CAN'T CHANGE HIM"

Many people, very often women, use a part of their personality that we call 'The Controller/Scolder' to run their marriage (and perhaps their life). We're going to explore this part of your personality and talk about why you use it, what you're trying to achieve when you activate it, and what the antidote is. This is a deep dive into understanding self, and to understand others. You're not going to want to miss this! xo, Meg P.S here's my Masterclass:  https://bit.ly/2rXCt7K

Many people, very often women, use a part of their personality that we call 'The Controller/Scolder' to run their marriage (and perhaps their life). We're going to explore this part of your personality and talk about why you use it, what you're trying to achieve when you activate it, and what the antidote is. This is a deep dive into understanding self, and to understand others. You're not going to want to miss this! xo, Meg P.S here's my Masterclass: <a href="https://bit.ly/2rXCt7K?fbclid=IwAR0KH0R_KySFV_fkY8MzL-j8rx4X5JFe8QTiEMKoWDK0lUdmIpnhwAWo0V8" rel="nofollow" target="_blank"> https://bit.ly/2rXCt7K</a>

DO YOU USE THE ‘CONTROLLER/SCOLDER' IN YOUR MARRIAGE?

So… this is going to be a big topic for you and your brain. I’m going to pull the curtain back on the resistances, defensiveness, the blaming and justification your brain gives you EVERY.SINGLE.TIME you go to make the decision to live your life differently. Whether it’s to connect more deeply to yourself, or to repair and rebirth your marriage I’ll take you through the Top 4 defenses/resistances you and your brain will use to STOP that transformation every.single.time. AND…. I’m going to give you the antidote. Because I love you. Xo, Meg PS. To learn more about our model, here's a the link to my Masterclass:  https://bit.ly/2rXCt7K

So… this is going to be a big topic for you and your brain. I’m going to pull the curtain back on the resistances, defensiveness, the blaming and justification your brain gives you EVERY.SINGLE.TIME you go to make the decision to live your life differently. Whether it’s to connect more deeply to yourself, or to repair and rebirth your marriage I’ll take you through the Top 4 defenses/resistances you and your brain will use to STOP that transformation every.single.time. AND…. I’m going to give you the antidote. Because I love you. Xo, Meg PS. To learn more about our model, here's a the link to my Masterclass: <a href="https://bit.ly/2rXCt7K?fbclid=IwAR0-IrKjqDRToJNJYKQMmR0D9ZU9DbhjwWfW12sOwT-8fmvn_G7adtuOjkI" rel="nofollow" target="_blank"> https://bit.ly/2rXCt7K</a>

YOUR BRAIN ISN’T ALLOWING YOU TO HAVE THE LIFE OR MARRIAGE YOU WANT...

Tonight we're covering how and when and why our brains bring us data points. How that can serve us as we build and create something important, and NOT serve us when we are unfocused and looking to confirm our hypotheses about our husbands. Let's unpack this. Meg

Tonight we're covering how and when and why our brains bring us data points. How that can serve us as we build and create something important, and NOT serve us when we are unfocused and looking to confirm our hypotheses about our husbands. Let's unpack this. Meg

YOUR BRAIN LEADS YOU IN THE DIRECTION YOU POINT IT

Talking about Couples Counseling. The good, the bad and the low efficacy that most counsellors have in this space - and why. Here is the link to the Masterclass- https://bit.ly/2rXCt7K Free Facebook Support Group- https://www.facebook.com/groups/WomenMakingMarriagesWork/permalink/2193989734245188/

Talking about Couples Counseling. The good, the bad and the low efficacy that most counsellors have in this space - and why. Here is the link to the Masterclass- <a href="https://bit.ly/2rXCt7K" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://bit.ly/2rXCt7K</a> Free Facebook Support Group- <a href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/WomenMakingMarriagesWork/permalink/2193989734245188/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://www.facebook.com/groups/WomenMakingMarriagesWork/permalink/2193989734245188/</a>

WHY COUPLES COUNSELING ISN'T WORKING

I am answering a question from a wonderful woman in my FB Group Women Making Marriages Work about what to do when you don't like feeling anger and hatred towards your husband, and you don't know what to do when you are the only one who wants to make it work. I'm going to get really clear with you on your choices here, and what you can create IF you choose to be vulnerable and courageous. xo, Meg PS. If you want to know more about my Masterclass, here's the link: http://bit.ly/mrwmasterclass

I am answering a question from a wonderful woman in my FB Group Women Making Marriages Work about what to do when you don't like feeling anger and hatred towards your husband, and you don't know what to do when you are the only one who wants to make it work. I'm going to get really clear with you on your choices here, and what you can create IF you choose to be vulnerable and courageous. xo, Meg PS. If you want to know more about my Masterclass, here's the link: <a href="http://bit.ly/mrwmasterclass" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">http://bit.ly/mrwmasterclass</a>

WHAT TO DO WHEN YOU HAVE ANGER AND HATRED TOWARDS YOUR HUSBAND, AND YOU ARE AT YOUR LAST 'OPTION'....

Want to understand how these work? Where they come from?  What to do about them in YOUR marriage?  Tune in. Then let's talk.  xo,  Meg 

Want to understand how these work? Where they come from?  What to do about them in YOUR marriage?  Tune in. Then let's talk.  xo,  Meg

TOXIC RELATIONSHIP PATTERNS

Answering a question from Women Making Marriages Work today, from Lyndsey, who wonders how to navigate being married to a husband who stonewalls anytime she tries to talk through issues. Lyndsey has tried everything and feels like however, she approaches it, she will have his same reaction of stonewalling for days afterward. I'm going to unpack this, and talk to you about where it's coming from, why people use this strategy and the dangers of not interrupting this cycle (also where to go to begin to do it differently). xo, Meg

Answering a question from Women Making Marriages Work today, from Lyndsey, who wonders how to navigate being married to a husband who stonewalls anytime she tries to talk through issues. Lyndsey has tried everything and feels like however, she approaches it, she will have his same reaction of stonewalling for days afterward. I'm going to unpack this, and talk to you about where it's coming from, why people use this strategy and the dangers of not interrupting this cycle (also where to go to begin to do it differently). xo, Meg

WHAT TO DO WHEN YOU CAN'T GET THROUGH TO SOMEONE WHO IS STONEWALLING

I'm answering a WMMW work community member question from Yvette today, who wants to know how to influence her husband who is using denial as a coping mechanism. Denial is made up of avoidance and active resistance to growing/taking responsibility and doing hard things - I'll take you through all of this, and more. The holidays are fast approaching, and now is the time for leadership. Let's do this friends!

I'm answering a WMMW work community member question from Yvette today, who wants to know how to influence her husband who is using denial as a coping mechanism. Denial is made up of avoidance and active resistance to growing/taking responsibility and doing hard things - I'll take you through all of this, and more. The holidays are fast approaching, and now is the time for leadership. Let's do this friends!

MY HUSBAND LIVES IN DENIAL. DENIAL OF EVERYTHING THAT HURTS, THAT DOESN'T WORK, AND THAT DOESN'T SERVE. What do I do?

Do mental health problems live in your marriage? Do you find yourself tiptoeing around those issues and trying to avoid triggering the protective responses that are connected to them? Is this having an impact on your marriage in the worst possible way - where those mental health problems become the primary source of decision making for each of you (through trying to avoid their triggering) and you can't solve ANY real issues, because you can't respond freely, or talk openly. And if you try to bring up your problems or concerns, it always ends terribly. Where your beloved is tripped into old patterns of feeling depressed, not good enough, lonely, isolated, anxious and in an altogether downward spiral? If so, you're not alone. This is incredibly common in a marriage and common within this group. I'm answering this question from our WMMW Closed FB Group tonight. See you there, Meg

Do mental health problems live in your marriage? Do you find yourself tiptoeing around those issues and trying to avoid triggering the protective responses that are connected to them? Is this having an impact on your marriage in the worst possible way - where those mental health problems become the primary source of decision making for each of you (through trying to avoid their triggering) and you can't solve ANY real issues, because you can't respond freely, or talk openly. And if you try to bring up your problems or concerns, it always ends terribly. Where your beloved is tripped into old patterns of feeling depressed, not good enough, lonely, isolated, anxious and in an altogether downward spiral? If so, you're not alone. This is incredibly common in a marriage and common within this group. I'm answering this question from our WMMW Closed FB Group tonight. See you there, Meg

MENTAL HEALTH IN MARRIAGES - TALKING, PTSD, BIPOLAR, DEPRESSION & ANXIETY

We are going to unpack the most simple yet HARD skill to bring to a marriage in crisis. I'll describe what it is, how it works and how to do it (and where to go to get help if you need it). Meg

We are going to unpack the most simple yet HARD skill to bring to a marriage in crisis. I'll describe what it is, how it works and how to do it (and where to go to get help if you need it). Meg

THE MOST IMPORTANT SKILL YOU NEED TO CHANGE YOU MARRIAGE

Today we are talking about when you are TERRIFIED of being divorced. And exactly how that affects your marriage. Hint: This fear does what ALL fears do - it makes you show up smaller, with less certainty and confidence - even to the point where you LOSE your identity. And when you've lost your identity, how do you know what you even WANT in your life/marriage. It's a big topic, and it's going to be fun to talk it through!

Today we are talking about when you are TERRIFIED of being divorced. And exactly how that affects your marriage. Hint: This fear does what ALL fears do - it makes you show up smaller, with less certainty and confidence - even to the point where you LOSE your identity. And when you've lost your identity, how do you know what you even WANT in your life/marriage. It's a big topic, and it's going to be fun to talk it through!

WHEN YOU ARE TERRIFIED OF BEING DIVORCED: WHAT HAPPENS IN YOUR MARRIAGE THEN?

About 90% of the women I work with tell me their husband has stopped communicating with them, and responds only in 'task' related conversations, or will answer in short, often curt answers.  There seems to be no vulnerability, no marriage leadership and no way of getting the marriage back on track.  Let's unpack this tonight! xo, Meg Ps: Here is the Masterclass link: http://bit.ly/mrwmasterclass

About 90% of the women I work with tell me their husband has stopped communicating with them, and responds only in 'task' related conversations, or will answer in short, often curt answers.  There seems to be no vulnerability, no marriage leadership and no way of getting the marriage back on track.  Let's unpack this tonight! xo, Meg Ps: Here is the Masterclass link: <a href="https://bit.ly/mrwmasterclass?fbclid=IwAR0qQ6hu6F1WBBcskaDroeOH6ZBtYq69TOIrQR9HL51swNhwqzDaSexplXk" rel="noopener nofollow" target="_blank">http://bit.ly/mrwmasterclass</a>

MY HUSBAND WON'T TALK TO ME SO HOW CAN WE HEAL OUR MARRAIGE?

SEX &amp; INTIMACY - WHEN IT's JUST.NOT.WORKING/HAPPENING  And you don't know why? And it feels TERRIBLE in some ways.... And maybe you don't mind tooo much about missing out on sex (one less thing to do) in other ways..... But you are REALLY missing your friend (husband).... And no matter what you do... it's not working to come closer together. WHY. And HOW. And WHAT HAPPENS NEXT? Here is the link to the Masterclass - http://bit.ly/mrwmasterclass Please feel free to join our free, private Facebook Community - here's a link to join us https://www.facebook.com/groups/WomenMakingMarriagesWork/

SEX &amp; INTIMACY - WHEN IT's JUST.NOT.WORKING/HAPPENING  And you don't know why? And it feels TERRIBLE in some ways.... And maybe you don't mind tooo much about missing out on sex (one less thing to do) in other ways..... But you are REALLY missing your friend (husband).... And no matter what you do... it's not working to come closer together. WHY. And HOW. And WHAT HAPPENS NEXT? Here is the link to the Masterclass - <a href="http://bit.ly/mrwmasterclass" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">http://bit.ly/mrwmasterclass</a> Please feel free to join our free, private Facebook Community - here's a link to join us <a href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/WomenMakingMarriagesWork/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://www.facebook.com/groups/WomenMakingMarriagesWork/</a>

SEX & INTIMACY - WHEN IT's JUST.NOT.WORKING/HAPPENING 

When an affair is revealed, there are ALWAYS huge emotions, and all that has been simmering under the surfaces erupts. What happens next is a circular conversation where NOTHING is truly resolved. Mostly because the formula of HOW to resolve it is unknown to the couple. Today we are talking about common emotional consequences for the Hurt Person - that is, the person who didn't have the affair: Imagining the details of the affair Reliving the moment the affair was revealed Avoidance and Numbing Detachment/Disassociation/Isolation/Sense of limited future Impairment of Sexuality and Intimacy Hyper-arousal Hyper vigilance/Anger Fits &amp; Irritability/Sleep Disorders Exaggerated/Strong Startle Response During the time of an affair reveal EVERYTHING is unstable. There is NO safe place to land. The Hurt Person worries that it is not possible to truly recover.... The Hurt Person worries that they will always feel a sense of betrayal and hesitancy to recommit.... The Hurt Person worries they will never feel safe again.... It's an intense time in a marriage. Often times counseling is sought, but mostly that counseling is INEFFECTIVE at genuinely healing the jagged edges of the betrayal so the marriage can be stronger than ever. Join me to find out where to start to TRULY recover and repair a marriage that has been marked by an affair. xo, Meg PS. To learn more about our model, here's a the link to my Masterclass:  https://bit.ly/2rXCt7K

When an affair is revealed, there are ALWAYS huge emotions, and all that has been simmering under the surfaces erupts. What happens next is a circular conversation where NOTHING is truly resolved. Mostly because the formula of HOW to resolve it is unknown to the couple. Today we are talking about common emotional consequences for the Hurt Person - that is, the person who didn't have the affair: Imagining the details of the affair Reliving the moment the affair was revealed Avoidance and Numbing Detachment/Disassociation/Isolation/Sense of limited future Impairment of Sexuality and Intimacy Hyper-arousal Hyper vigilance/Anger Fits &amp; Irritability/Sleep Disorders Exaggerated/Strong Startle Response During the time of an affair reveal EVERYTHING is unstable. There is NO safe place to land. The Hurt Person worries that it is not possible to truly recover.... The Hurt Person worries that they will always feel a sense of betrayal and hesitancy to recommit.... The Hurt Person worries they will never feel safe again.... It's an intense time in a marriage. Often times counseling is sought, but mostly that counseling is INEFFECTIVE at genuinely healing the jagged edges of the betrayal so the marriage can be stronger than ever. Join me to find out where to start to TRULY recover and repair a marriage that has been marked by an affair. xo, Meg PS. To learn more about our model, here's a the link to my Masterclass: <a href="https://bit.ly/2rXCt7K?fbclid=IwAR0-IrKjqDRToJNJYKQMmR0D9ZU9DbhjwWfW12sOwT-8fmvn_G7adtuOjkI" rel="nofollow" target="_blank"> https://bit.ly/2rXCt7K</a>

THE EMOTIONAL CONSEQUENCES OF DISCOVERING AN AFFAIR

Talking tonight about clarity and depth in relationships - the one you have with yourself (the only cake you get) and the one you have in your marriage (the cake you get to co-create). xo, Meg

Talking tonight about clarity and depth in relationships - the one you have with yourself (the only cake you get) and the one you have in your marriage (the cake you get to co-create). xo, Meg

THE CAKE METAPHOR & WHY IT'S SO IMPORTANT

How do we define it? Why is it important? How do we grow it? Here is the link for the Masterclass - https://bit.ly/2rXCt7K Here is the link to our free Facebook support group - https://www.facebook.com/groups/WomenMakingMarriagesWork/

How do we define it? Why is it important? How do we grow it? Here is the link for the Masterclass - <a href="https://bit.ly/2rXCt7K" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://bit.ly/2rXCt7K</a> Here is the link to our free Facebook support group - <a href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/WomenMakingMarriagesWork/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://www.facebook.com/groups/WomenMakingMarriagesWork/</a>

WHAT IS SAFETY WHEN IT COMES TO MARRIAGE?

This is a question I get every day. Where a husband who is out of ideas, out of skills and out of hope that his marriage can still work calls it quits.  In doing so, he relieves the tension he feels of being a 'failure' and truly believes there is no hope. The trouble with this decision is that there usually IS hope. Only he hasn't found the thing that works before calling it quits.  This is where YOU can step in...Let me talk you through how to do this. xo, Meg 

This is a question I get every day. Where a husband who is out of ideas, out of skills and out of hope that his marriage can still work calls it quits.  In doing so, he relieves the tension he feels of being a 'failure' and truly believes there is no hope. The trouble with this decision is that there usually IS hope. Only he hasn't found the thing that works before calling it quits.  This is where YOU can step in...Let me talk you through how to do this. xo, Meg

HE SAYS 'IT'S OVER'...IS IT?

Tonight we are going through a step-by-step, behind the curtains look at how we assess the health of your marriage. Bring a pen and paper, and let's do this.  xo,  Meg 

Tonight we are going through a step-by-step, behind the curtains look at how we assess the health of your marriage. Bring a pen and paper, and let's do this.  xo,  Meg

LET'S ASSESS: THE MARRIAGE CHECKLIST TO DETERMINE DISASTER OR MASTER

I’m sharing a story tonight about what I learned from Regional Australia and how they are coping with tough times. They have found a way to rebuild when a Superhero failed to swoop in and grant them the return of 400 jobs that were abruptly taken away from their community of 1200 people. Many moved away, but those that didn’t have found the antidote – and the way to rebuild after tremendous loss. Their learnings mirrors what you are searching for my loves, so tune in to see how you can use their growth in your own life and marriage. Xo, Meg P.S Here is the link to the Masterclass - http://bit.ly/mrwmasterclass

I’m sharing a story tonight about what I learned from Regional Australia and how they are coping with tough times. They have found a way to rebuild when a Superhero failed to swoop in and grant them the return of 400 jobs that were abruptly taken away from their community of 1200 people. Many moved away, but those that didn’t have found the antidote – and the way to rebuild after tremendous loss. Their learnings mirrors what you are searching for my loves, so tune in to see how you can use their growth in your own life and marriage. Xo, Meg P.S Here is the link to the Masterclass - <a href="http://bit.ly/mrwmasterclass" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">http://bit.ly/mrwmasterclass</a>

UNPACKING THE SUPERHERO THEORY AND HOW IT WILL SERVE YOUR MARRIAGE

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