Hey Sweet Teas, I know I have been gone for a minute. I had this episode uploaded a while ago and then took it down. I am putting it back up as we have decided to move the platforms we use to Youtube with videos every Monday, Wednesda  and Friday. I hope you will forgive me for my absence and follow me on this journey. You will get to see and interact with the woman behind the camera more. I felt this was the next step necessary in this journey. So if you have been looking for me that is where I have been and will continue to be. This is the last episode of this kind. Please click the link below to follow me on my journey. I hope to see you all there!!!😘😘😘Linktr.ee/tafieastokes

Hey Sweet Teas,  I know I have been gone for a minute. I had this episode uploaded a while ago and then took it down. I am putting it back up as we have decided to move the platforms we use to Youtube with videos every Monday, Wednesda  and Friday.  I hope you will forgive me for my absence and follow me on this journey. You will get to see and interact with the woman behind the camera more. I felt this was the next step necessary in this journey. So if you have been looking for me that is where I have been and will continue to be. This is the last episode of this kind. Please click the link below to follow me on my journey. I hope to see you all there!!!😘😘😘 <a href="http://Linktr.ee/tafieastokes" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Linktr.ee/tafieastokes</a>

Tea And Talk Moving to YouTube!!

Tea And Talk email: teaandtalksd@gmail.com 

Tea And Talk email: teaandtalksd@gmail.com

Importance Of Dealing With Issues Head On

Choose what works for you and your relationship.Tea And Talk IG:@teaandtalksdTea And Talk Email:Teaandtalksd@gmail.com 

Choose what works for you and your relationship. Tea And Talk IG:@teaandtalksd Tea And Talk Email:Teaandtalksd@gmail.com

The Importance Of Time In Relationships

What does showing up as the main character in your life mean to you? 1. I am in control.2. Being the main character is getting everything you want. 3. You write the plot twist.4. Don't be easily influenced by your surroundings. 5. Set your boundaries and be clear with them.6. Do what you do and love it.7. Be intentional with the decisions you make.8. Show up as 100 percent you each and every time. 9. Walk into spaces and take up space. I would love to hear what things you do to show up as the main character in your life.  Tea And Talk IG: @teaandtalksdTea And Talk Email: Teaandtalksd@gmail.com 

What does showing up as the main character in your life mean to you? 1. I am in control. 2. Being the main character is getting everything you want. 3. You write the plot twist. 4. Don't be easily influenced by your surroundings. 5. Set your boundaries and be clear with them. 6. Do what you do and love it. 7. Be intentional with the decisions you make. 8. Show up as 100 percent you each and every time. 9. Walk into spaces and take up space. I would love to hear what things you do to show up as the main character in your life. Tea And Talk IG: @teaandtalksd Tea And Talk Email: Teaandtalksd@gmail.com

How To Be The Main Character In Your Life

 So I know you are wondering well how do I do the basic prep to be the best wife I can. I have 12 tips (because 13 is unlucky and I didn't want this episode to be hella long lol)  1. Communication styles 2. Love language  3. Keep it in the marriage  4. Stop comparing  5. Construct your perfect marriage 6. Don't lose yourself  7. Prioritize sex  8. Give him space  9. Support his goals  10. Be his best friend 11. Don't criticize  12. Have fun Tea And Talk IG: @teaandtalksdTea And Talk Email: Teaandtalksd@gmail.com 

So I know you are wondering well how do I do the basic prep to be the best wife I can. I have 12 tips (because 13 is unlucky and I didn't want this episode to be hella long lol)  1. Communication styles  2. Love language  3. Keep it in the marriage  4. Stop comparing  5. Construct your perfect marriage  6. Don't lose yourself  7. Prioritize sex  8. Give him space  9. Support his goals  10. Be his best friend  11. Don't criticize 12. Have fun Tea And Talk IG: @teaandtalksd Tea And Talk Email: Teaandtalksd@gmail.com

Tips To Be The Best Wife

12 Things To Do To Prep1. Demolish insecurities  2. Heal  3. Be mindful of those around  4. Be selfless  5. Learn how to say sorry 6. Stop posting  7. Be clear with your expectations8. Establish good habits 9. Set intentions These are some things I find important in prepping for marriage. I'd love to hear what is important to you when you are prepping for marriage.  Tea And Talk IG: @teaandtalksdTea And Talk Email: Teaandtalksd@gmail.com 

12 Things To Do To Prep 1. Demolish insecurities 2. Heal 3. Be mindful of those around 4. Be selfless 5. Learn how to say sorry 6. Stop posting 7. Be clear with your expectations 8. Establish good habits 9. Set intentions These are some things I find important in prepping for marriage. I'd love to hear what is important to you when you are prepping for marriage.  Tea And Talk IG: @teaandtalksd Tea And Talk Email: Teaandtalksd@gmail.com

Tips To Prep For Your Perfect Marriage

Burnout is when your body physically, mentally, emotionally, spiritually can no longer adapt. How do you know when you are burnt out?: 1. Emotional numbness2. Detachment  3. Low creativity 4. Loss of purpose 5. You feel you are running no where6. You feel tired and fatigue7. Losing interest in things you love8. Low or no motivation9. Losing track of time 10. Loss of appetite11. Confusion What leads to burnout?: 1. Feeling underappreciated 2. Doing unfilling things 3. Not making time for yourself 4. Slow resultsTips in dealing with burnout: 1. Speak up and ask for help 2. Set boundaries with yourself 3. Self love4. Self careIf you have experienced burnout I'd love to know what tips and tricks you used to help you reset and heal from the burnout and what were the causes of your burnout. Tea And Talk Email:Teaandtalksd@gmail.comTea And Talk IG: @teaandtalksdTea And Talk Youtube: https://youtube.com/channel/UCvuZavE-KDKfP2EsxUILKZgVIDEOS COMING SOON...

Burnout is when your body physically, mentally, emotionally, spiritually can no longer adapt. How do you know when you are burnt out?: 1. Emotional numbness 2. Detachment  3. Low creativity 4. Loss of purpose 5. You feel you are running no where 6. You feel tired and fatigue 7. Losing interest in things you love 8. Low or no motivation 9. Losing track of time 10. Loss of appetite 11. Confusion What leads to burnout?: 1. Feeling underappreciated 2. Doing unfilling things 3. Not making time for yourself 4. Slow results Tips in dealing with burnout: 1. Speak up and ask for help 2. Set boundaries with yourself 3. Self love 4. Self care If you have experienced burnout I'd love to know what tips and tricks you used to help you reset and heal from the burnout and what were the causes of your burnout. Tea And Talk Email:Teaandtalksd@gmail.com Tea And Talk IG: @teaandtalksd Tea And Talk Youtube: <a href="https://youtube.com/channel/UCvuZavE-KDKfP2EsxUILKZg" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://youtube.com/channel/UCvuZavE-KDKfP2EsxUILKZg</a> VIDEOS COMING SOON...

Tips For Dealing With Burnout

Tea And Talk:A Self Development PodcastSexual HealingWhat we were told as young ladies was not our fault. It was not a reflection of us by any means and was most definitely a reflection of the ones who were telling us. "Don't wear that, you look too fast." "We are having company, cover up." "Stop switching and walking like you grown." Like what? This is the start of the sexual trauma that we experienced. It was from the people that thought they were helping but instead creating wounds for us to then deal with in adulthood.  Make sure to join the Tea And Talk email list. http://linktr.ee/tafiea.stokesJoin the Tea Party VIP Group for more Tea And Talk, early access to episodes, merchandise and more. http://linktr.ee/tafieastokesBe sure to leave us a review to help us get noticed even more. Share, comment and like.Find us on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/tafiea_stokes/

Tea And Talk: A Self Development Podcast Sexual Healing What we were told as young ladies was not our fault. It was not a reflection of us by any means and was most definitely a reflection of the ones who were telling us. "Don't wear that, you look too fast." "We are having company, cover up." "Stop switching and walking like you grown." Like what? This is the start of the sexual trauma that we experienced. It was from the people that thought they were helping but instead creating wounds for us to then deal with in adulthood.  Make sure to join the Tea And Talk email list. <a href="http://linktr.ee/tafiea.stokes" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">http://linktr.ee/tafiea.stokes</a> Join the Tea Party VIP Group for more Tea And Talk, early access to episodes, merchandise and more. <a href="http://linktr.ee/tafieastokes" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">http://linktr.ee/tafieastokes</a> Be sure to leave us a review to help us get noticed even more. Share, comment and like. Find us on Instagram <a href="https://www.instagram.com/tafiea_stokes/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://www.instagram.com/tafiea_stokes/</a>

Tips To Sexually Heal

Tea And Talk:A Self Development PodcastBlack SheepThe black sheep is not so bad. What that says about you is that you are unique, you stand out and you don't run with the herd. There is absolutely nothing wrong with that. Embrace that shit. Do not allow anyone to tell you any different because they fit in. Don't let them shrink who you are, your creativity, your personality and the magnitude of YOU into a box that everyone can fit in. Keep being the black sheep and embrace that part of you.Make sure to join the Tea And Talk email list. http://linktr.ee/tafiea.stokesJoin the Tea Party VIP Group for more Tea And Talk, early access to episodes, merchandise and more. http://linktr.ee/tafieastokesBe sure to leave us a review to help us get noticed even more. Share, comment and like.Find us on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/tafiea_stokes/

Tea And Talk: A Self Development Podcast Black Sheep The black sheep is not so bad. What that says about you is that you are unique, you stand out and you don't run with the herd. There is absolutely nothing wrong with that. Embrace that shit. Do not allow anyone to tell you any different because they fit in. Don't let them shrink who you are, your creativity, your personality and the magnitude of YOU into a box that everyone can fit in. Keep being the black sheep and embrace that part of you. Make sure to join the Tea And Talk email list. <a href="http://linktr.ee/tafiea.stokes" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">http://linktr.ee/tafiea.stokes</a> Join the Tea Party VIP Group for more Tea And Talk, early access to episodes, merchandise and more. <a href="http://linktr.ee/tafieastokes" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">http://linktr.ee/tafieastokes</a> Be sure to leave us a review to help us get noticed even more. Share, comment and like. Find us on Instagram <a href="https://www.instagram.com/tafiea_stokes/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://www.instagram.com/tafiea_stokes/</a>

Benefits Of Being The Black Sheep

Tea And Talk:A Self Development PodcastOver Ya HeadDo you notice that some people take your past or take what they do for you and then try to hold it over your head? It can be a way for them to brag or a way to manipulate into doing something for them.You have to be careful of who you allow into your life, who you tell your past to and who you allow to do you "favors" because you never know what their motive will be. Make sure to join the Tea And Talk email list. http://linktr.ee/tafiea.stokesJoin the Tea Party VIP Group for more Tea And Talk, early access to episodes, merchandise and more. http://linktr.ee/tafieastokesBe sure to leave us a review to help us get noticed even more. Share, comment and like.Find us on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/tafiea_stokes/

Tea And Talk: A Self Development Podcast Over Ya Head Do you notice that some people take your past or take what they do for you and then try to hold it over your head? It can be a way for them to brag or a way to manipulate into doing something for them. You have to be careful of who you allow into your life, who you tell your past to and who you allow to do you "favors" because you never know what their motive will be. Make sure to join the Tea And Talk email list. <a href="http://linktr.ee/tafiea.stokes" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">http://linktr.ee/tafiea.stokes</a> Join the Tea Party VIP Group for more Tea And Talk, early access to episodes, merchandise and more. <a href="http://linktr.ee/tafieastokes" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">http://linktr.ee/tafieastokes</a> Be sure to leave us a review to help us get noticed even more. Share, comment and like. Find us on Instagram <a href="https://www.instagram.com/tafiea_stokes/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://www.instagram.com/tafiea_stokes/</a>

Motive Or Kindness

Tea And Talk is dedicated to helping married black women deconstruct the barriers holding her back in life and marriage, reconstruct a stronger and solid foundation for growth and development and put those things into action to step into wifehood wiser and more confidently. As a wife we can loose ourselves in the mad dash as well as not understand the proper skills necessary to be great at this wife thang. Things can become blurry when you try to separate the daily hats you wear from who you are at the core. This podcast is meant to help give you a bit of clarity and some of the skills you need and which I have learned and used over the last 9 years of marriage.I hope to help you find what you have been missing to step out in the world as a new, purposeful and authentic version of yourself while killing it as a wife! Click the link to listen and interact on my YouTube channel. Linktr.ee/tafieastokes

Reconnecting To Your PartnerJust because you get disconnected from your partner doesn't mean it has to be for an extended period of time. Keep it temporary and as soon as you notice it do whatever it is that you need to do to reconnect. Keep nurturing that relationship so that it continues to bloom and flourish on a daily.Make sure to join the Tea And Talk email list. http://linktr.ee/tafiea.stokesJoin the Tea Party VIP Group for more Tea And Talk, early access to episodes, merchandise and more. http://linktr.ee/tafieastokesBe sure to leave us a review to help us get noticed even more. Share, comment and like.Find us on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/tafiea_stokes/

Reconnecting To Your Partner Just because you get disconnected from your partner doesn't mean it has to be for an extended period of time. Keep it temporary and as soon as you notice it do whatever it is that you need to do to reconnect. Keep nurturing that relationship so that it continues to bloom and flourish on a daily. Make sure to join the Tea And Talk email list. <a href="http://linktr.ee/tafiea.stokes" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">http://linktr.ee/tafiea.stokes</a> Join the Tea Party VIP Group for more Tea And Talk, early access to episodes, merchandise and more. <a href="http://linktr.ee/tafieastokes" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">http://linktr.ee/tafieastokes</a> Be sure to leave us a review to help us get noticed even more. Share, comment and like. Find us on Instagram <a href="https://www.instagram.com/tafiea_stokes/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://www.instagram.com/tafiea_stokes/</a>

How To Reconnect With Your Partner

Tea And Talk:A Self Development PodcastStop Telling Them Your BusinessHold on sis... You may be excited to tell everyone about your next project, your job promotions, your business venture or whatever but put the brakes on. Sometimes it isn't even worth your energy, time or breath to even speak the words. Some people will be so happy for you and so proud of you while the majority will hate on you, belittle you, make you doubt yourself and laugh at you. Sometimes it is better off that you keep your successes, your goals, your projects to yourself. Let your success be the noise. Make sure to join the Tea And Talk email list. http://linktr.ee/tafiea.stokesJoin the Tea Party VIP Group for more Tea And Talk, early access to episodes, merchandise and more. http://linktr.ee/tafieastokesBe sure to leave us a review to help us get noticed even more. Share, comment and like.Find us on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/tafiea_stokes/

Tea And Talk: A Self Development Podcast Stop Telling Them Your BusinessHold on sis... You may be excited to tell everyone about your next project, your job promotions, your business venture or whatever but put the brakes on.  Sometimes it isn't even worth your energy, time or breath to even speak the words. Some people will be so happy for you and so proud of you while the majority will hate on you, belittle you, make you doubt yourself and laugh at you. Sometimes it is better off that you keep your successes, your goals, your projects to yourself. Let your success be the noise. Make sure to join the Tea And Talk email list. <a href="http://linktr.ee/tafiea.stokes" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">http://linktr.ee/tafiea.stokes</a> Join the Tea Party VIP Group for more Tea And Talk, early access to episodes, merchandise and more. <a href="http://linktr.ee/tafieastokes" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">http://linktr.ee/tafieastokes</a> Be sure to leave us a review to help us get noticed even more. Share, comment and like. Find us on Instagram <a href="https://www.instagram.com/tafiea_stokes/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://www.instagram.com/tafiea_stokes/</a>

Why You Should Move In Silence

Tea And Talk:A Self Development PodcastBad Day...Really?When we wake up and start our days off on a bad note and then speak more negative things into the atmosphere, we are actually turning that bad moment into a bad day. You have to have the mindset and the skills to know how to change the trajectory of your day. You have to know how to get in the driver seat and steer your day in the direction that you want it to go in.  Make sure to join the Starting To Heal Your Emotional Wounds and Trauma Course https://www.teaandtalksd.com/healing-starter-bundle?coupon=COURSESALE99Tea And Talk email list. http://linktr.ee/tafiea.stokesJoin the Tea Party VIP Group for more Tea And Talk, early access to episodes, merchandise and more. http://linktr.ee/tafieastokesBe sure to leave us a review to help us get noticed even more. Share, comment and like.Find us on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/tafiea_stokes/

Tea And Talk: A Self Development Podcast Bad Day...Really? When we wake up and start our days off on a bad note and then speak more negative things into the atmosphere, we are actually turning that bad moment into a bad day. You have to have the mindset and the skills to know how to change the trajectory of your day. You have to know how to get in the driver seat and steer your day in the direction that you want it to go in.  Make sure to join the Starting To Heal Your Emotional Wounds and Trauma Course <a href="https://www.teaandtalksd.com/healing-starter-bundle?coupon=COURSESALE99" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://www.teaandtalksd.com/healing-starter-bundle?coupon=COURSESALE99</a>Tea And Talk email list. <a href="http://linktr.ee/tafiea.stokes" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">http://linktr.ee/tafiea.stokes</a> Join the Tea Party VIP Group for more Tea And Talk, early access to episodes, merchandise and more. <a href="http://linktr.ee/tafieastokes" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">http://linktr.ee/tafieastokes</a> Be sure to leave us a review to help us get noticed even more. Share, comment and like. Find us on Instagram <a href="https://www.instagram.com/tafiea_stokes/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://www.instagram.com/tafiea_stokes/</a>

How To Change Your Bad Day

Tea And Talk:A Self Development PodcastDeserted Island When people leave your life, yes it can cause you to feel a bit sad or isolated. There is always a silver lining. Maybe those people got removed from your life to make room for people who are actually going to feed your soul and for growth. Maybe those people got removed from your life because they aren't meant to come with you on your glow up.Take is as a blessing in disguise. Everything happens for a reason. The universe doesn't make mistakes. Make sure to join the Tea And Talk email list. http://linktr.ee/tafiea.stokesJoin the Tea Party VIP Group for more Tea And Talk, early access to episodes, merchandise and more. http://linktr.ee/tafieastokesBe sure to leave us a review to help us get noticed even more. Share, comment and like.Find us on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/tafiea_stokes/

Tea And Talk: A Self Development Podcast Deserted Island When people leave your life, yes it can cause you to feel a bit sad or isolated. There is always a silver lining. Maybe those people got removed from your life to make room for people who are actually going to feed your soul and for growth. Maybe those people got removed from your life because they aren't meant to come with you on your glow up. Take is as a blessing in disguise. Everything happens for a reason. The universe doesn't make mistakes. Make sure to join the Tea And Talk email list. <a href="http://linktr.ee/tafiea.stokes" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">http://linktr.ee/tafiea.stokes</a> Join the Tea Party VIP Group for more Tea And Talk, early access to episodes, merchandise and more. <a href="http://linktr.ee/tafieastokes" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">http://linktr.ee/tafieastokes</a> Be sure to leave us a review to help us get noticed even more. Share, comment and like. Find us on Instagram <a href="https://www.instagram.com/tafiea_stokes/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://www.instagram.com/tafiea_stokes/</a>

Are They There For A Reason, Season or Lesson?

Why They Don't Support You  Join me as I discuss why those closest to you aren't your fans. Ever wonder why strangers support you more than those that claim they love and support you?  Listen to this latest episode and get my perspective on why. Click the link linktr.ee/tafieastokes to listen to the latest episode of Tea And Talk: A Self Development Podcast,  and to join the Tea Party VIP Group. The Tea Party is where you get even more Tea And Talk including early episodes, gifts and more. Feel free to email me with any questions, concerns, comments, etc at teaandtalksd@gmail.com. 

Why They Don't Support You Join me as I discuss why those closest to you aren't your fans. Ever wonder why strangers support you more than those that claim they love and support you?  Listen to this latest episode and get my perspective on why. Click the link <a href="http://linktr.ee/tafieastokes" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">linktr.ee/tafieastokes</a> to listen to the latest episode of Tea And Talk: A Self Development Podcast,  and to join the Tea Party VIP Group. The Tea Party is where you get even more Tea And Talk including early episodes, gifts and more. Feel free to email me with any questions, concerns, comments, etc at teaandtalksd@gmail.com.

Why Your Loved Ones Don't Support You

Put It In A VisionWhat book have you read that has left a lasting impression on you? The book The Secret by Rhonda Byrnes is a book that totally changed the trajectory of my life. This book has helped me to get the job, salary and home that I wanted. How do you untangle all of the thoughts that are going on in your head? Do you write them down, do you record them? 2 solutions work for me:1. Journal and being very detailed in doing so 2. Create a vision board      a. Get a poster board     b. Get a pair of scissors     c. Get glue and or tape     d. Collect magazines     e. Gather your favorite snacks      f. Get to itWhat is it that you want to manifest? What steps do you take to get you closer to the goals that you want to accomplish? Make sure to join the Tea And Talk email list. http://linktr.ee/tafiea.stokesJoin the Tea Party VIP Group for more Tea And Talk, early access to episodes, merchandise and more. http://linktr.ee/tafieastokesBe sure to leave us a review to help us get noticed even more. Share, comment and like.Find us on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/tafiea_stokes/

Put It In A Vision What book have you read that has left a lasting impression on you? The book The Secret by Rhonda Byrnes is a book that totally changed the trajectory of my life. This book has helped me to get the job, salary and home that I wanted.  How do you untangle all of the thoughts that are going on in your head? Do you write them down, do you record them? 2 solutions work for me: 1. Journal and being very detailed in doing so 2. Create a vision board      a. Get a poster board      b. Get a pair of scissors      c. Get glue and or tape      d. Collect magazines      e. Gather your favorite snacks      f. Get to it What is it that you want to manifest? What steps do you take to get you closer to the goals that you want to accomplish? Make sure to join the Tea And Talk email list. <a href="http://linktr.ee/tafiea.stokes" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">http://linktr.ee/tafiea.stokes</a> Join the Tea Party VIP Group for more Tea And Talk, early access to episodes, merchandise and more. <a href="http://linktr.ee/tafieastokes" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">http://linktr.ee/tafieastokes</a> Be sure to leave us a review to help us get noticed even more. Share, comment and like. Find us on Instagram <a href="https://www.instagram.com/tafiea_stokes/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://www.instagram.com/tafiea_stokes/</a>

Manifest Your Vision

Love LanguageIntimacy is one thing but to be able to identify your love language as well as speak your spouse's love language will bring you and your spouse even closer.The 5 Love Languages:Words of affirmationsQuality timeActs of serviceGiftsTouchClick the link linktr.ee/tafieastokes to join the Tea Party VIP Group. The Tea Party is where you get even more Tea And Talk including early episodes, gifts and more. Feel free to email me with any questions, concerns, comments, etc at teaandtalksd@gmail.com.

Love LanguageIntimacy is one thing but to be able to identify your love language as well as speak your spouse's love language will bring you and your spouse even closer. The 5 Love Languages: <ol><li>Words of affirmations</li></ol><ol><li>Quality time</li></ol><ol><li>Acts of service</li></ol><ol><li>Gifts</li></ol><ol><li>Touch</li></ol> Click the link <a href="http://linktr.ee/tafieastokes" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">linktr.ee/tafieastokes</a> to join the Tea Party VIP Group. The Tea Party is where you get even more Tea And Talk including early episodes, gifts and more. Feel free to email me with any questions, concerns, comments, etc at teaandtalksd@gmail.com.

What Is A Love Language?

Intimacy  4 types of intimacy:EmotionalMentalSpiritualPhysical2Click the link linktr.ee/tafieastokes to listen to the latest episode of Tea And Talk: A Self Development Podcast,  and to join the Tea Party VIP Group. The Tea Party is where you get even more Tea And Talk including early episodes, gifts and more. Feel free to email me with any questions, concerns, comments, etc at teaandtalksd@gmail.com

Intimacy  4 types of intimacy:<ol><li>Emotional</li><li>Mental</li><li>Spiritual</li><li>Physical2</li></ol> Click the link <a href="http://linktr.ee/tafieastokes" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">linktr.ee/tafieastokes</a> to listen to the latest episode of Tea And Talk: A Self Development Podcast,  and to join the Tea Party VIP Group. The Tea Party is where you get even more Tea And Talk including early episodes, gifts and more. Feel free to email me with any questions, concerns, comments, etc at teaandtalksd@gmail.com

What Is Intimacy?

I am a firm believer that if you are seeking love, love is also seeking you. I do not understand it when people say that they are looking for love. What does that even mean, looking? Looking how and looking where?Love is not and should not be a chore instead it is something that will come naturally. 1. Do not evaluate every potential as that person. 2. Understand exactly what is it that you  want.3. Live in the moment and in the present and appreciate it.4. Do not try to force situations. 5. Love and nourish yourself first.6. Exude love as much as possible.7. Date yourself.Are you looking for love or are you waiting for love to find you? I would love to hear from you and your point of view feel free to contact me. Linktr.ee/tafieastokes. Do not forget to join the VIP Tea Party and get even more Tea And Talk. 

I am a firm believer that if you are seeking love, love is also seeking you. I do not understand it when people say that they are looking for love. What does that even mean, looking? Looking how and looking where? Love is not and should not be a chore instead it is something that will come naturally. 1. Do not evaluate every potential as that person. 2. Understand exactly what is it that you  want. 3. Live in the moment and in the present and appreciate it. 4. Do not try to force situations. 5. Love and nourish yourself first. 6. Exude love as much as possible. 7. Date yourself. Are you looking for love or are you waiting for love to find you? I would love to hear from you and your point of view feel free to contact me. <a href="http://Linktr.ee/tafieastokes" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Linktr.ee/tafieastokes</a>. Do not forget to join the VIP Tea Party and get even more Tea And Talk.

How To Let Love Find You

Being Selfish Ain't Selfish Caring and loving on yourself is not selfish. Are you putting yourself as a priority? Would you consider yourself selfish? What are some things you are selfish about? You should be selfish about:1. Your time.2. Who has access to you.3. Your self-care.4. Saying no.5. Your peace.6. Your energy.Click the link linktr.ee/tafieastokes to join the Tea Party VIP Group. The Tea Party is where you get even more Tea And Talk including early episodes, gifts and more. Feel free to email me with any questions, concerns, comments, etc at teaandtalksd@gmail.com. 

Being Selfish Ain't Selfish Caring and loving on yourself is not selfish. Are you putting yourself as a priority? Would you consider yourself selfish? What are some things you are selfish about? You should be selfish about: 1. Your time. 2. Who has access to you. 3. Your self-care. 4. Saying no. 5. Your peace. 6. Your energy. Click the link <a href="http://linktr.ee/tafieastokes" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">linktr.ee/tafieastokes</a> to join the Tea Party VIP Group. The Tea Party is where you get even more Tea And Talk including early episodes, gifts and more. Feel free to email me with any questions, concerns, comments, etc at teaandtalksd@gmail.com.

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Tea And Talk is dedicated to helping married black women deconstruct the barriers holding her back in life and marriage, reconstruct a stronger and solid foundation for growth and development and put those things into action to step into wifehood wiser and more confidently. As a wife we can loose ourselves in the mad dash as well as not understand the proper skills necessary to be great at this wife thang. Things can become blurry when you try to separate the daily hats you wear from who you are at the core. This podcast is meant to help give you a bit of clarity and some of the skills you need and which I have learned and used over the last 9 years of marriage.I hope to help you find what you have been missing to step out in the world as a new, purposeful and authentic version of yourself while killing it as a wife! Click the link to listen and interact on my YouTube channel. <a href="http://Linktr.ee/tafieastokes" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Linktr.ee/tafieastokes</a>

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