Shelli Gordon's guest appearances

Shelli Gordon

Marathon Talk

The Running for Real Podcast

Trail Outlaws Podcast

Running Your Stories

Run to the Hills

Chrissie Wellington

Dan Robinson

Jeff Galloway

Dean Karnazes

Lauren Fleshman

Luke Tyburski

Sanjay Rawal

Greg McMillan

Amelia Boone

Tina Muir

Ryan Hall

Mario Fraioli

Steve Magness

Hayley Carruthers

Jess Trengove

OwlTail

On this weeks show, what the Valencia! It’s records galore! A new 10k men’s world record, crazy fast debuts and the fastest top 4 women ever! Mo Farah is back on the track for Tokyo 2020, Martin interview's Spine Ultra finisher Shelli Gordon and you wear your kit around the world and rate your runs.

On this weeks show, what the Valencia! It’s records galore! A new 10k men’s world record, crazy fast debuts and the fastest top 4 women ever! Mo Farah is back on the track for Tokyo 2020, Martin interview's Spine Ultra finisher Shelli Gordon and you wear your kit around the world and rate your runs.

Episode 517 - Shelli Gordon

Huge thanks to Shelli for chatting about this sensitive subject. This episode talks about some of the difficulties of mental health, "it's OK not to be OK". The episode had been planned for some time but we discussed whether to postpone in light of another tragedy in the running community. However we feel that it is very important not to delay talking about mental health. If we can reach just one more person and help them or encourage you to help one other person then it is very worthwhile. If you do not feel OK please do not hesitate to contact one of the amazing resources out there. Charities such as CALM, Andy's Man Club, Papyrus, Samaritans or contact your GP. Please be lovely to each other. https://www.thecalmzone.net http://andysmanclub.co.uk https://papyrus-uk.org https://www.samaritans.org

Huge thanks to Shelli for chatting about this sensitive subject. This episode talks about some of the difficulties of mental health, "it's OK not to be OK". The episode had been planned for some time but we discussed whether to postpone in light of another tragedy in the running community. However we feel that it is very important not to delay talking about mental health. If we can reach just one more person and help them or encourage you to help one other person then it is very worthwhile. If you do not feel OK please do not hesitate to contact one of the amazing resources out there. Charities such as CALM, Andy's Man Club, Papyrus, Samaritans or contact your GP. Please be lovely to each other. <a href="https://www.thecalmzone.net" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://www.thecalmzone.net</a> <a href="http://andysmanclub.co.uk" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">http://andysmanclub.co.uk</a> <a href="https://papyrus-uk.org" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://papyrus-uk.org</a> <a href="https://www.samaritans.org" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://www.samaritans.org</a>

Shelli Gordon - Mental Health in Running! 

Understanding Suicide Everyone is affected by suicide. Whether you’ve had personal struggles, had an acquaintance or loved one take his or her life, or been generally aware and worried about the increased rates of suicide in the world, understanding suicide can benefit you. Suicide is understandably a topic that isn’t often spoken much about. It may be embarrassing or painful to openly discuss the effects of suicide. But it does not need to be that way. The stigma of suicide can be changed, and will, with increased discussion. Shelli Gordon was directly affected when her partner Tony took his own life just last year. As a former police officer and with a psychology degree, Shelli was completely taken by surprise; with no signs of Tony’s intention. Since that time, Shelli has taken it upon herself to raise awareness, open the doors to increased discussion, and be involved to help others understand suicide. She uses running as a platform to break the stigma surrounding suicide by opening her running store to everyone, running to cope, and speaking to the running community. Suicide Isn’t Selfish One of the first misconceptions about suicide is that it is a selfish act. “For that person in that moment, there isn’t another way out,” says Shelli. When someone takes their own life, they are often trying to make things better for the people they are leaving behind. They mistakenly believe that the people they are leaving behind are better off without them, and they don’t see a different solution. Talking About Suicide It can be very difficult to talk with someone who has had a loved one take their own life. Especially older generations who may have lost children, coping is hard. When you speak to them, phrase suicide as “taking his or her life” rather than “committing suicide.”  Suicide can have a negative connotation especially when it’s paired with “commit.” To avoid framing suicide as a crime, it’s better not to use the word commit. How do I Talk to Someone that has Suicidal Thoughts? First and foremost, do your best to let people know that you are there for them and that you love them. Check up on them as frequently as you feel is good, and make sure you talk about a variety of things. It’s important for people to know that you care about their opinions and value their thoughts. Shelli gives great advice to go on a walk with someone and speak with them. This way you don’t have to maintain constant eye contact. Sometimes just talking about anything can help them. If you have a teenager that you are concerned about, keep a close watch on them. Sometimes a person can seem to be getting better or happier right before they take their life. This is a result of finally making a decision. Stay close to them, and continue to talk with them. There are many resources online as well in understanding and helping those with suicidal thoughts. Using Running Running is a wonderful way to combat suicide. Get out into the fresh air and move your body to feel alive and apart of this world. Running can be a good tool to push yourself and to reach for new goals. These things give us more reasons to live, whether you want to run one mile or three hundred. Run with someone. The community is large and growing. Even if you don’t feel like speaking with someone one-on-one, being in a group of runners can boosts your spirits. Life is Better with You in it If you have thoughts that life would be better without you in it, get help immediately. Know that in every case, the people around you will not be better off if you take your own life. Although you may feel that people misunderstand you, there are other solutions. Life can get better. Healing is possible. You can live a life without suicidal thoughts. There are people that love you and want you to be here. If you feel comfortable, speak to someone you trust about your struggles. If you are scared to tell the people you know, there are many support outlets, including some that are linked at the end of this article. Call or message these people. They can help. You are a unique person. You are needed in this world to make it a more diverse and beautiful place. Wherever you are on your journey, there is hope and help and happiness.   Help Resources US National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: 1-800-273-8255 Suicide Prevention Helpline In the UK CALM MIND Jasmin Paris on Twitter   For these little series of episodes I am not having sponsors because I want you to just get this information and concentrate on that because it is GOOD information. I want people to be able to feel loved, seen, and heard with these episodes. All I ask is that if you feel so cheeky to start supporting me on Patreon, it would be able to help me a lot! You get access to bonus interviews and upcoming guests, to where you could ask them a question. Running 4 Real Patreon Page. Thank you SO much!!  Thanks for Listening! I hope you enjoyed today's episode. To share your thoughts: Leave a note in the comment section below. Join the Running for Real Facebook Group and share your thoughts on the episode (or future guests you would like to hear from) Share this show on Twitter, Facebook, Instagram, or Pinterest. To help out the show: Leave an honest review on iTunes. Your ratings and reviews will really help me climb up the iTunes rankings and I promise, I read every single one. Not sure how to leave a review or subscribe, you can find out here. Thank you to Shelli, I look forward to hearing your thoughts on the show.

Understanding Suicide Everyone is affected by suicide. Whether you’ve had personal struggles, had an acquaintance or loved one take his or her life, or been generally aware and worried about the increased rates of suicide in the world, understanding suicide can benefit you. Suicide is understandably a topic that isn’t often spoken much about. It may be embarrassing or painful to openly discuss the effects of suicide. But it does not need to be that way. The stigma of suicide can be changed, and will, with increased discussion. Shelli Gordon was directly affected when her partner Tony took his own life just last year. As a former police officer and with a psychology degree, Shelli was completely taken by surprise; with no signs of Tony’s intention. Since that time, Shelli has taken it upon herself to raise awareness, open the doors to increased discussion, and be involved to help others understand suicide. She uses running as a platform to break the stigma surrounding suicide by opening her running store to everyone, running to cope, and speaking to the running community. Suicide Isn’t Selfish One of the first misconceptions about suicide is that it is a selfish act. “For that person in that moment, there isn’t another way out,” says Shelli. When someone takes their own life, they are often trying to make things better for the people they are leaving behind. They mistakenly believe that the people they are leaving behind are better off without them, and they don’t see a different solution. Talking About Suicide It can be very difficult to talk with someone who has had a loved one take their own life. Especially older generations who may have lost children, coping is hard. When you speak to them, phrase suicide as “taking his or her life” rather than “committing suicide.”  Suicide can have a negative connotation especially when it’s paired with “commit.” To avoid framing suicide as a crime, it’s better not to use the word commit. How do I Talk to Someone that has Suicidal Thoughts? First and foremost, do your best to let people know that you are there for them and that you love them. Check up on them as frequently as you feel is good, and make sure you talk about a variety of things. It’s important for people to know that you care about their opinions and value their thoughts. Shelli gives great advice to go on a walk with someone and speak with them. This way you don’t have to maintain constant eye contact. Sometimes just talking about anything can help them. If you have a teenager that you are concerned about, keep a close watch on them. Sometimes a person can seem to be getting better or happier right before they take their life. This is a result of finally making a decision. Stay close to them, and continue to talk with them. There are many resources online as well in understanding and helping those with suicidal thoughts. Using Running Running is a wonderful way to combat suicide. Get out into the fresh air and move your body to feel alive and apart of this world. Running can be a good tool to push yourself and to reach for new goals. These things give us more reasons to live, whether you want to run one mile or three hundred. Run with someone. The community is large and growing. Even if you don’t feel like speaking with someone one-on-one, being in a group of runners can boosts your spirits. Life is Better with You in it If you have thoughts that life would be better without you in it, get help immediately. Know that in every case, the people around you will not be better off if you take your own life. Although you may feel that people misunderstand you, there are other solutions. Life can get better. Healing is possible. You can live a life without suicidal thoughts. There are people that love you and want you to be here. If you feel comfortable, speak to someone you trust about your struggles. If you are scared to tell the people you know, there are many support outlets, including some that are linked at the end of this article. Call or message these people. They can help. You are a unique person. You are needed in this world to make it a more diverse and beautiful place. Wherever you are on your journey, there is hope and help and happiness.   Help Resources US National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: 1-800-273-8255 <a href="https://suicidepreventionlifeline.org/" rel="noopener nofollow" target="_blank">Suicide Prevention Helpline</a> In the UK <a href="https://www.thecalmzone.net/" rel="noopener nofollow" target="_blank">CALM</a> <a href="https://www.mind.org.uk/" rel="noopener nofollow" target="_blank">MIND</a> <a href="https://twitter.com/jasminkparis?lang=en" rel="noopener nofollow" target="_blank">Jasmin Paris on Twitter</a> For these little series of episodes I am not having sponsors because I want you to just get this information and concentrate on that because it is GOOD information. I want people to be able to feel loved, seen, and heard with these episodes. All I ask is that if you feel so cheeky to start supporting me on Patreon, it would be able to help me a lot! You get access to bonus interviews and upcoming guests, to where you could ask them a question. <a href="https://www.patreon.com/running4real" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" target="_blank">Running 4 Real Patreon Page</a>. Thank you SO much!! Thanks for Listening! I hope you enjoyed today's episode. To share your thoughts: Leave a note in the comment section below. Join the <a href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/runningforrealfocus/" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" target="_blank">Running for Real Facebook Group</a> and share your thoughts on the episode (or future guests you would like to hear from) Share this show on <a href="https://twitter.com/tinamuir" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" target="_blank">Twitter</a>, <a href="https://www.facebook.com/runningforreal" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" target="_blank">Facebook</a>, <a href="http://instagram.com/tinamuir88" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" target="_blank">Instagram</a>, or <a href="https://www.pinterest.com/tinamuir88" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" target="_blank">Pinterest</a>. To help out the show: Leave an honest <a href="https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/running-for-real-podcast-celebrating-runner-highs-embracing/id1225735334" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" target="_blank">review on iTunes</a>. Your ratings and reviews will really help me climb up the iTunes rankings and I promise, I read every single one. Not sure how to leave a review or subscribe, <a href="http://tinamuir.com/subscribe" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" target="_blank">you can find out here.</a> Thank you to Shelli, I look forward to hearing your thoughts on the show.

Beyond Running: Suicide with Shelli Gordon -R4R 143