CatLady chats with Matthew Phifer on narcissism - what it is, and what to look out for. Matthew Phifer, M.Ed., is a therapist, speaker, trainer, and toxic relationship, narcissism, trauma, and emotional abuse expert. Visit him at https://www.mattphifercoaching.com/

CatLady chats with Matthew Phifer on narcissism - what it is, and what to look out for. Matthew Phifer, M.Ed., is a therapist, speaker, trainer, and toxic relationship, narcissism, trauma, and emotional abuse expert. Visit him at <a href="https://www.mattphifercoaching.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://www.mattphifercoaching.com/</a>

Toxic Relationship Expert:  Matthew Phifer

Does CatLady know the alleged new "covid dating terms" that Conal found on the internet?

Does CatLady know the alleged new "covid dating terms" that Conal found on the internet?

Covid Dating Terms

CatLady is very protective of her brand is not okay people mistaking her for Conal.

CatLady is very protective of her brand is not okay people mistaking her for Conal.

Star of the Show: Conal

CatLady updates Conal (with facts and figures!) on how voice memo-ing on Bumble is going.

CatLady updates Conal (with facts and figures!) on how voice memo-ing on Bumble is going.

Bumbling Voice Messages

After we stopped recording, another message came through from CatLady's future husband, and Conal comes to a terrible realization. With special guest, Conal's girlfriend Beth.

After we stopped recording, another message came through from CatLady's future husband, and Conal comes to a terrible realization. With special guest, Conal's girlfriend Beth.

BONUS:   Hot Mic!

Conal gives us an update on how Tinder is going

Conal gives us an update on how Tinder is going

He's SO Good at Online Dating

CatLady accepted Suborno's challenge from 2 weeks ago and redownloaded Bumble and used only voice memos.

CatLady accepted Suborno's challenge from 2 weeks ago and redownloaded Bumble and used only voice memos.

Challenge Accepted

CatLady helps Conal get set up on Tinder to swipe for her.  

CatLady helps Conal get set up on Tinder to swipe for her.

You Will Find Me a Husband

CatLady and Conal talk with Suborno (Brown Bear) from the Online Dating Laid Bear podcast about his dating experiences over in the UK.    Check out his podcast at:  https://www.onlinedatinglaidbear.com/podcast/

CatLady and Conal talk with Suborno (Brown Bear) from the Online Dating Laid Bear podcast about his dating experiences over in the UK.    Check out his podcast at:  <a href="https://www.onlinedatinglaidbear.com/podcast/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://www.onlinedatinglaidbear.com/podcast/</a>

Special Guest:   Suborno AKA Brown Bear

One of us has tips on how to date on the road.

One of us has tips on how to date on the road.

Dating on the Road

Soon2BeCatLady, Conal, and BenJamin discuss dating, online dating, relationships, etc. and answer listener questions every Monday.Soon2BeCatLady is best known for her online dating blog: soon2becatlady.comConal lives in Philadelphia.Benjamin Kruse is the co-host of Minnesota’s morning podcast Up and at ’Em.

You'd think it would go without saying..

Pro Tip:  Don't Buy Used Condoms

On Monday, we didn't know Conal's girlfriend was secretly listening in and taking the quiz herself.  She came in after the fact and had a few things to say about it.

On Monday, we didn't know Conal's girlfriend was secretly listening in and taking the quiz herself.  She came in after the fact and had a few things to say about it.

BONUS!!   Conal's Girlfriend

CatLady and Conal take a very official Buzzfeed quiz to find out if they are actually any good at dating.

CatLady and Conal take a very official Buzzfeed quiz to find out if they are actually any good at dating.

Are We Actually Any Good At Dating

I Could Be a Sugar Baby

CatLady and Conal talk about made up holidays and Hamilton.

CatLady and Conal talk about made up holidays and Hamilton.

Everything In Common

CatLady and Conal discuss online dating safety!

CatLady and Conal discuss online dating safety!

You Can Never Be TOO Careful

CatLady and Conal are once again joined by Brian Belefant to talk about rules of real estate that apply to dating as well! http://spousehunting.net

CatLady and Conal are once again joined by Brian Belefant to talk about rules of real estate that apply to dating as well! <a href="http://spousehunting.net" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">http://spousehunting.net</a>

Dating is like Buying a House - Part 2

CatLady explains how to get a guest spot on her show after getting an email from Brian Belefant, author of "Spouse Hunting:  How To Use the Rules of Real Estate to Find the Love of Your Life". Brian tells us how dating is like buying a house. Buy the book on Amazon - or at spousehunting.net!  Part 1 of 2.

CatLady explains how to get a guest spot on her show after getting an email from Brian Belefant, author of "Spouse Hunting:  How To Use the Rules of Real Estate to Find the Love of Your Life". Brian tells us how dating is like buying a house. Buy the book on Amazon - or at <a href="http://spousehunting.net" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">spousehunting.net</a>!  Part 1 of 2.

Dating Is Like Buying a House - Part 1

Liking Yourself and Listening to Your Gut!

CatLady and Conal talk about when it's appropriate to acknowledge a female has chesticles, double standards, among other things.

CatLady and Conal talk about when it's appropriate to acknowledge a female has chesticles, double standards, among other things.

Women have Boobs?!

Had a blast blowing through this one. Very funny.

Great Binge

Great show👍🏾

Soon2BeCatLady, Conal, and BenJamin discuss dating, online dating, relationships, etc. and answer listener questions every Monday. Soon2BeCatLady is best known for her online dating blog: <a href="http://soon2becatlady.com" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">soon2becatlady.com</a> Conal lives in Philadelphia. Benjamin Kruse is the co-host of Minnesota’s morning podcast Up and at ’Em.

Nothing In Common

Religion and Sex

No Chill

Stop Hitting on Me

We Need to Talk

CatLady, Conal, and Benjamin review dating profiles and discuss telling your man you're going to a sperm bank.

CatLady, Conal, and Benjamin review dating profiles and discuss telling your man you're going to a sperm bank.

Dating Profile Reviews

Common Sense Red Flags

Oblivious

Is Age But a Number in Dating?

Fart Date

28: This is all your fault for not sending questions m.

CatLady tell the guys about her Twitter Enemy #1, who is a total douche-canoe.

CatLady tell the guys about her Twitter Enemy #1, who is a total douche-canoe.

CatLady's arch-nemesis

CatLady and Conal, without actually planning this, con Ben into signing up for a dating app. Also - a question about dating after loss.

CatLady and Conal, without actually planning this, con Ben into signing up for a dating app. Also - a question about dating after loss.

Tricking Ben into Dating Apps

My Ex was Crazy

Dating Game Theory

CatLady tests Conal and Ben's knowledge on new dating terms.  They also talk about online dating profile pics.

CatLady tests Conal and Ben's knowledge on new dating terms.  They also talk about online dating profile pics.

New Dating Terminology

Blind Dates and Set-Ups

Catlady, Conal, and Benjamin talk dick pics, and Instagram.  They also answer some questions. 

Catlady, Conal, and Benjamin talk dick pics, and Instagram.  They also answer some questions.

NIC 25:  Hey Baby, What's Your Instagram!?

Alternative Dating Apps

Mixed Messages and Spanx

Tinder Swap Update

The best podcast episodes about true crime. For any thrill seeking podcast listeners who just can't get enough of the captivating stories of murderers and criminals. This topic has all the best episodes from many different true crime podcasts.  Add episodes you're interested into your queue below!

Best True Crime Podcasts

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