Counselors Tim Tedder and Sharon Tedder talk about gaslighting. What is it? How does it show up during infidelity? During affair recovery? What should you do if someone is gaslighting you?* Episode Resouces: https://www.affairhealing.com/podcast503.html

Counselors Tim Tedder and Sharon Tedder talk about gaslighting. What is it? How does it show up during infidelity? During affair recovery? What should you do if someone is gaslighting you? * Episode Resouces: <a href="https://www.affairhealing.com/podcast503.html" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://www.affairhealing.com/podcast503.html</a>

#503 Gaslighting - You Make Me Crazy

Counselors Tim Tedder and Jenn Gingras discuss unique issues to consider when dealing with someone who has had multiple affairs. Is there hope for recovery? What difference does it make to the betrayed partner? What does it mean to the involved partner? * Episode Resouces: https://www.affairhealing.com/podcast502.html

Counselors Tim Tedder and Jenn Gingras discuss unique issues to consider when dealing with someone who has had multiple affairs. Is there hope for recovery? What difference does it make to the betrayed partner? What does it mean to the involved partner? * Episode Resouces: <a href="https://www.affairhealing.com/podcast502.html" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://www.affairhealing.com/podcast502.html</a>

#502 Dealing with Multiple Affairs

Tim Tedder talks about what influences the choices and changes we make, with particular focus on decisions made in the aftermath of an affair. In the introduction, Tim and Sharon discuss life shifts resulting from COVID-19.* Episode notes and resources available at https://AffairHealing.com/podcast501

Tim Tedder talks about what influences the choices and changes we make, with particular focus on decisions made in the aftermath of an affair. In the introduction, Tim and Sharon discuss life shifts resulting from COVID-19. * Episode notes and resources available at <a href="https://AffairHealing.com/podcast501" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://AffairHealing.com/podcast501</a>

#501 Satisfying Choices, Lasting Change

Counselors Tim Tedder and Sharon Tedder interview a neuroscientist to learn more about the limerence experience. What's going on in the brain of someone who is caught up in the powerful emotions often experienced in an affair (a condition sometimes called "Affair Fog")?* Episode notes and resources available at https://AffairHealing.com/podcast408 * See also https://livingwithlimerence.com

Counselors Tim Tedder and Sharon Tedder interview a neuroscientist to learn more about the limerence experience. What's going on in the brain of someone who is caught up in the powerful emotions often experienced in an affair (a condition sometimes called "Affair Fog")? * Episode notes and resources available at <a href="https://AffairHealing.com/podcast408" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://AffairHealing.com/podcast408</a> * See also <a href="https://livingwithlimerence.com" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://livingwithlimerence.com</a>

#408 Stuck On A Feeling: The Power of Limerence

Three counselors discuss affair choices as they result in compromises (crossing the line into infidelity), indecision, and recovery.* Episode notes and resources available at AffairHealing.com/podcast407

Three counselors discuss affair choices as they result in compromises (crossing the line into infidelity), indecision, and recovery. * Episode notes and resources available at <a href="http://AffairHealing.com/podcast407" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">AffairHealing.com/podcast407</a>

#407 Infidelity Choices: Compromise, Indecision, Recovery

Three counselors discuss affair responses related to anger, children, and forgiveness as they review their earlier conversations about these topics.* Episode notes and resources available at AffairHealing.com/podcast406

Three counselors discuss affair responses related to anger, children, and forgiveness as they review their earlier conversations about these topics. * Episode notes and resources available at <a href="http://AffairHealing.com/podcast406" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">AffairHealing.com/podcast406</a>

#406 Infidelity Responses: Anger, Children, Forgiveness

Three counselors respond to a callers question about the veracity of her husband's claims that he doesn't remember any of the details about his recent affair.* Episode notes and resources available at AffairHealing.com/podcast405

Three counselors respond to a callers question about the veracity of her husband's claims that he doesn't remember any of the details about his recent affair. * Episode notes and resources available at <a href="http://AffairHealing.com/podcast405" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">AffairHealing.com/podcast405</a>

#405 Check-In: What do they remember about the affair?

Tim Tedder and others discuss the various issues related to why someone has an affair in order to gain insight into the past and define changes necessary for rebuilding trust. The entire "Understanding Why" course is available at AffairHealing.com. * Episode notes and resources available at AffairHealing.com/podcast404

Tim Tedder and others discuss the various issues related to why someone has an affair in order to gain insight into the past and define changes necessary for rebuilding trust. The entire "Understanding Why" course is available at <a href="http://AffairHealing.com" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">AffairHealing.com</a>. * Episode notes and resources available at <a href="http://AffairHealing.com/podcast404" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">AffairHealing.com/podcast404</a>

#404 Why Did You Cheat?

Counselor Tim Tedder respond to the question: "Is it normal to have sex struggles in your marriage after an affair?"* Episode notes and resources available at AffairHealing.com/podcast403

Counselor Tim Tedder respond to the question: "Is it normal to have sex struggles in your marriage after an affair?" * Episode notes and resources available at <a href="http://AffairHealing.com/podcast403" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">AffairHealing.com/podcast403</a>

#403 Check-In: Sex struggles after an affair?

Three counselors respond to the question: "What can I do to help my husband heal after my affair? He's stuck."* Episode notes and resources available at AffairHealing.com/podcast402

Three counselors respond to the question: "What can I do to help my husband heal after my affair? He's stuck." * Episode notes and resources available at <a href="http://AffairHealing.com/podcast402" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">AffairHealing.com/podcast402</a>

#402 Check-In: How do I help him heal from my affair?

"The Recovery Room" is a podcast focussed on affair recovery discussions and interviews hosted by author and licensed counselor Tim Tedder, creator of AffairHealing.com resources.

This podcast has helped me normalize this very difficult experience.  Thank you for your time!

Great podcast!

These podcasts are so helpful in such a hard time, truly grateful to gain this knowledge

Incredible resource

"The Recovery Room" is a podcast focussed on affair recovery discussions and interviews hosted by author and licensed counselor Tim Tedder, creator of <a href="http://AffairHealing.com" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">AffairHealing.com</a> resources.

The Recovery Room

Three counselors, Tim Tedder, Sharon Tedder, and Jennifer Gingras, discuss eight truths about affair recovery that betrayed partners wish their partners understood. Episode Info &amp; Resources at: AffairHealing.com/podcast210

Three counselors, Tim Tedder, Sharon Tedder, and Jennifer Gingras, discuss eight truths about affair recovery that betrayed partners wish their partners understood. Episode Info &amp; Resources at: <a href="http://AffairHealing.com/podcast210" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">AffairHealing.com/podcast210</a>

#210 "7 Things Your Betrayed Partner Wishes You Knew"

Counselor Tim Tedder discusses the evidences to look for in determining whether healthy recovery is happening in a marriage after an affair and talks to a betrayed husband about his part in their marriage healing. [Note: This is a combined re-recording of two earlier podcasts due to the high level of microphone static present in the original recordings.]Episode Info &amp; Resources at: AffairHealing.com/podcast110

Counselor Tim Tedder discusses the evidences to look for in determining whether healthy recovery is happening in a marriage after an affair and talks to a betrayed husband about his part in their marriage healing. [Note: This is a combined re-recording of two earlier podcasts due to the high level of microphone static present in the original recordings.] Episode Info &amp; Resources at: <a href="http://AffairHealing.com/podcast110" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">AffairHealing.com/podcast110</a>

#110 "Signs of Real Affair Recovery"

Affair recovery counselor Tim Tedder explains the steps necessary for couples who, after an affair, want to experience intimacy and trust in their marriage again. He interviews Ryan and Jen who talk about their satisfying marriage seven years after Ryan confessed having multiple affairs. Episode Info &amp; Resources at: AffairHealing.com/podcast209

Affair recovery counselor Tim Tedder explains the steps necessary for couples who, after an affair, want to experience intimacy and trust in their marriage again. He interviews Ryan and Jen who talk about their satisfying marriage seven years after Ryan confessed having multiple affairs. Episode Info &amp; Resources at: <a href="http://AffairHealing.com/podcast209" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">AffairHealing.com/podcast209</a>

#209 "A Reconnected Marriage"

Counselors Tim Tedder and Jennifer Gingras talk about forgiveness following an affair. What is forgiveness? What is it not? What gets in the way of forgiving infidelity? What are steps to help you move toward forgiving an unfaithful partner? Episode Info &amp; Resources at: AffairHealing.com/podcast202 [This episode also includes comments from listeners and a reading from The Hiding Place written by Corrie ten Boom. The following songs, available at ccMixter.org, were used in this recording: “ Virtutes Instrumenti” and "Reaching" by Kevin MacLeod, used with permission under Creative Commons License]

Counselors Tim Tedder and Jennifer Gingras talk about forgiveness following an affair. What is forgiveness? What is it not? What gets in the way of forgiving infidelity? What are steps to help you move toward forgiving an unfaithful partner? Episode Info &amp; Resources at: <a href="http://AffairHealing.com/podcast202" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">AffairHealing.com/podcast202</a> [This episode also includes comments from listeners and a reading from The Hiding Place written by Corrie ten Boom. The following songs, available at <a href="http://ccMixter.org" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">ccMixter.org</a>, were used in this recording: “ Virtutes Instrumenti” and "Reaching" by Kevin MacLeod, used with permission under Creative Commons License]

#202 "Forgiving Infidelity"

Tim Tedder interviews Debi Silber to find out more about the five stages of Post Betrayal Transformation. Debi is the founder of PBT Institute (pbtinstitute.com), focussed on helping women move from betrayal to breakthrough. * Episode notes and resources available at AffairHealing.com/podcast401

Tim Tedder interviews Debi Silber to find out more about the five stages of Post Betrayal Transformation. Debi is the founder of PBT Institute (<a href="http://pbtinstitute.com" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">pbtinstitute.com</a>), focussed on helping women move from betrayal to breakthrough. * Episode notes and resources available at <a href="http://AffairHealing.com/podcast401" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">AffairHealing.com/podcast401</a>

#401 Post Betrayal Transformation

Counselors Tim Tedder &amp; Sharon Tedder address the trauma of betrayal in two podcasts. In Part 1, they focus on "Understanding Trauma" especially as it is experienced by those who have been injured by a partner's affair. * Episode Info &amp; Resources at: AffairHealing.com/podcast305* Music used in this podcast: "Low Horizon" by Kai Engel and "Movie Rhythm 1" by Sunsearcher, both under license from Creative Commons Music - http://ccmusic.org

Counselors Tim Tedder &amp; Sharon Tedder address the trauma of betrayal in two podcasts. In Part 1, they focus on "Understanding Trauma" especially as it is experienced by those who have been injured by a partner's affair. * Episode Info &amp; Resources at: <a href="http://AffairHealing.com/podcast305" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">AffairHealing.com/podcast305</a> * Music used in this podcast: "Low Horizon" by Kai Engel and "Movie Rhythm 1" by Sunsearcher, both under license from Creative Commons Music - <a href="http://ccmusic.org" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">http://ccmusic.org</a>

#305 "Trauma of Betrayal" Pt 1

Tim Tedder interviews Tim &amp; Lori about their current journey of recovery from Lori's affair. Each shares a unique perspective of marriage on the other side of infidelity.Episode Info &amp; Resources at: AffairHealing.com/podcast105

Tim Tedder interviews Tim &amp; Lori about their current journey of recovery from Lori's affair. Each shares a unique perspective of marriage on the other side of infidelity. Episode Info &amp; Resources at: <a href="http://AffairHealing.com/podcast105" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">AffairHealing.com/podcast105</a>

#105 "One Couple's Affair Healing Story"

After an affair, betrayed spouses often find themselves wanting to ask countless questions about the affair while the unfaithful spouse responds with resistance or anger. Counselors Tim and Sharon Tedder talk about each partner's role in affair recovery when it comes to questions and answers, offering specific strategies for couples to help them through this period of healing. Episode Info &amp; Resources at: AffairHealing.com/podcast204

After an affair, betrayed spouses often find themselves wanting to ask countless questions about the affair while the unfaithful spouse responds with resistance or anger. Counselors Tim and Sharon Tedder talk about each partner's role in affair recovery when it comes to questions and answers, offering specific strategies for couples to help them through this period of healing. Episode Info &amp; Resources at: <a href="http://AffairHealing.com/podcast204" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">AffairHealing.com/podcast204</a>

#204 "Needing To Ask About The Affair"

Originally written under the pseudonym of Mark, Tim Tedder wrote a detailed account of his affair experience. It became the most popular resource on AffairHealing.com. This story, now presented in audio format, includes these chapters: Unexpected Unfaithfulness (2:00), A Vulnerable Marriage (3:27), The Right Conditions (4:55), The Other Woman (7:26), Crossing the Line (10:26), Sex (13:15), Taking Risks (16:23), Lies (17:55), Getting Caught (19:41), Telling My Wife (23:00), No Contact Rule (25:48), The Wife’s Pain (27:40), Back To the Other Woman (28:51), Pulled In Two Directions (32:09), My Children My Brokenness (36:19), Children: Unintended Victims (39:47), Authenticity and Grace (42:19).Episode Info &amp; Resources at: AffairHealing.com/podcast114 [Songs included in this program were used with permission and are available from ccMixter.org: “Marcos Theme” by Loveshadow; “Abandonware” by Javolenus featuring audiotechnica; and “Improvisation On Friday” by Alex Beroza]

Originally written under the pseudonym of Mark, Tim Tedder wrote a detailed account of his affair experience. It became the most popular resource on <a href="http://AffairHealing.com" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">AffairHealing.com</a>. This story, now presented in audio format, includes these chapters: Unexpected Unfaithfulness (2:00), A Vulnerable Marriage (3:27), The Right Conditions (4:55), The Other Woman (7:26), Crossing the Line (10:26), Sex (13:15), Taking Risks (16:23), Lies (17:55), Getting Caught (19:41), Telling My Wife (23:00), No Contact Rule (25:48), The Wife’s Pain (27:40), Back To the Other Woman (28:51), Pulled In Two Directions (32:09), My Children My Brokenness (36:19), Children: Unintended Victims (39:47), Authenticity and Grace (42:19). Episode Info &amp; Resources at: <a href="http://AffairHealing.com/podcast114" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">AffairHealing.com/podcast114</a> [Songs included in this program were used with permission and are available from <a href="http://ccMixter.org" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">ccMixter.org</a>: “Marcos Theme” by Loveshadow; “Abandonware” by Javolenus featuring audiotechnica; and “Improvisation On Friday” by Alex Beroza]

#114 "Mark's Story: One Man's Account of His Affair"

Counselors Tim Tedder &amp; Sharon Tedder address the trauma of betrayal in two podcasts. In Part 2, they focus on "Recovering From Trauma." This episode includes a consideration of the unique challenges of betrayal trauma, therapeutic approaches that help in recovery, and 3 thought exercises.* Episode Info &amp; Resources at: AffairHealing.com/podcast306 * Music used in this podcast: "Ever Mindful" and "Sunshine" by Kevin MacLeod (incompetech.com)licensed under Creative Commons: by Attribution 3.0 License http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/3.0

Counselors Tim Tedder &amp; Sharon Tedder address the trauma of betrayal in two podcasts. In Part 2, they focus on "Recovering From Trauma." This episode includes a consideration of the unique challenges of betrayal trauma, therapeutic approaches that help in recovery, and 3 thought exercises. * Episode Info &amp; Resources at: <a href="http://AffairHealing.com/podcast306" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">AffairHealing.com/podcast306</a> * Music used in this podcast: "Ever Mindful" and "Sunshine" by Kevin MacLeod (<a href="http://incompetech.com" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">incompetech.com</a>)licensed under Creative Commons: by Attribution 3.0 License <a href="http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/3.0" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/3.0</a>

#306 "Trauma of Betrayal" Pt 2

Counselors Tim &amp; Sharon Tedder answer a caller's question about how his wife describes her feelings for the affair partner, and recommend a recovery resource for betrayed spouses.Episode Info &amp; Resources at: AffairHealing.com/podcast121

Counselors Tim &amp; Sharon Tedder answer a caller's question about how his wife describes her feelings for the affair partner, and recommend a recovery resource for betrayed spouses. Episode Info &amp; Resources at: <a href="http://AffairHealing.com/podcast121" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">AffairHealing.com/podcast121</a>

#121 "How Did She Really Feel About Her Affair Partner?"

Counselors Tim Tedder and Sharon Tedder discuss various issues to consider when healing from an affair means leaving the marriage as they consider the choices of both the injured partner and involved partner.Episode Info &amp; Resources at: AffairHealing.com/podcast214

Counselors Tim Tedder and Sharon Tedder discuss various issues to consider when healing from an affair means leaving the marriage as they consider the choices of both the injured partner and involved partner. Episode Info &amp; Resources at: <a href="http://AffairHealing.com/podcast214" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">AffairHealing.com/podcast214</a>

#214 "Healing Alone After an Affair"

Tim Tedder interviews Linda MacDonald, author of the book, How To Help Your Spouse Heal from Your Affair. They discuss affair counseling and her advice for both partners after an affair.Episode Info &amp; Resources at: AffairHealing.com/podcast122 [The following song, available at ccMixter.org, was used in this recording: “Intuition” by Quarkstar (c)copyright 2016]

Tim Tedder interviews Linda MacDonald, author of the book, How To Help Your Spouse Heal from Your Affair. They discuss affair counseling and her advice for both partners after an affair. Episode Info &amp; Resources at: <a href="http://AffairHealing.com/podcast122" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">AffairHealing.com/podcast122</a> [The following song, available at <a href="http://ccMixter.org" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">ccMixter.org</a>, was used in this recording: “Intuition” by Quarkstar (c)copyright 2016]

#122 "Healing Advice for Wounded Couples"

Counselors Tim &amp; Sharon Tedder discuss whether an affair reveals a deep brokenness or a temporary crack and recommend an online resource for growth and recovery.Episode Info &amp; Resources at: AffairHealing.com/podcast111

Counselors Tim &amp; Sharon Tedder discuss whether an affair reveals a deep brokenness or a temporary crack and recommend an online resource for growth and recovery. Episode Info &amp; Resources at: <a href="http://AffairHealing.com/podcast111" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">AffairHealing.com/podcast111</a>

#111 "Are Cheaters Broken People?"

Counselors Tim &amp; Sharon Tedder discuss one betrayed spouse's desire for her husband to send a final message to the affair partner nine months after the affair ended and consider the pros and cons of doing so. They also recommend a good book on boundaries along with talking about powdered donuts and Sharon's favorite restaurant.Episode Info &amp; Resources at: AffairHealing.com/podcast109

Counselors Tim &amp; Sharon Tedder discuss one betrayed spouse's desire for her husband to send a final message to the affair partner nine months after the affair ended and consider the pros and cons of doing so. They also recommend a good book on boundaries along with talking about powdered donuts and Sharon's favorite restaurant. Episode Info &amp; Resources at: <a href="http://AffairHealing.com/podcast109" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">AffairHealing.com/podcast109</a>

#109 Convo: "Needing Affair Closure"

A conversation between husband-and-wife counselors Tim &amp; Sharon Tedder as they discuss a recent forum post about the euphoric feelings in an affair and recommend a good book to read.Episode Info &amp; Resources at: AffairHealing.com/podcast108

A conversation between husband-and-wife counselors Tim &amp; Sharon Tedder as they discuss a recent forum post about the euphoric feelings in an affair and recommend a good book to read. Episode Info &amp; Resources at: <a href="http://AffairHealing.com/podcast108" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">AffairHealing.com/podcast108</a>

#108 Convo: "Reality vs Fantasy"

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