Topics Include:CrossdressingReframing "duty" sexWife gets sex when she wants, but he doesn'tAfraid to have more children

Topics Include: Crossdressing Reframing "duty" sex Wife gets sex when she wants, but he doesn't Afraid to have more children

SWM 109 – June 2023 Anonymous Questions

One of the most confusing subjects in Christianity is the topic of hell. The popular view is that hell is a place of eternal torment where vengeful God sends you for all of eternity for not obeying Him. People use this belief to try and scare people into being Christians. Let's see what the Bible says about hell. Do people get tortured for eternity? Is it just an infinite existence of everlasting torment? Is God really that sadistic?

One of the most confusing subjects in Christianity is the topic of hell. The popular view is that hell is a place of eternal torment where vengeful God sends you for all of eternity for not obeying Him. People use this belief to try and scare people into being Christians. Let's see what the Bible says about hell. Do people get tortured for eternity? Is it just an infinite existence of everlasting torment? Is God really that sadistic?

SWM 108 – What does the Bible say about hell?

Topics include:Wife wants too much sexCouple needs counsellingKeep having the same unproductive fightMake boundaries before you start datingSexy underwear for men

Topics include: Wife wants too much sex Couple needs counselling Keep having the same unproductive fight Make boundaries before you start dating Sexy underwear for men

SWM 107 – May 2023 Anonymous Questions

Topics:Is it okay to take nude pictures and videos of each other?Limon by Minna discountAsexual wife?Wife loves me, but isn’t in love with meWife isn’t interested in improving our sex lifeWish I married a bigger buttSecretly feed her ejaculateHusband says my vagina stinks and tastes bad50-year-old wife refuses to have sexDo we need a counselor?

Topics: Is it okay to take nude pictures and videos of each other? Limon by Minna discount Asexual wife? Wife loves me, but isn’t in love with me Wife isn’t interested in improving our sex life Wish I married a bigger butt Secretly feed her ejaculate Husband says my vagina stinks and tastes bad 50-year-old wife refuses to have sex Do we need a counselor?

SWM 106 – April 2023 Anonymous Questions

Topics include: Threesome temptationsAversion to receiving manual and oral sexPenis sizeFalling asleep during sexy time

Topics include: Threesome temptations Aversion to receiving manual and oral sex Penis size Falling asleep during sexy time

SWM 105 – March 2023 Anonymous Question

Topics:Women use sex to control men, so men should be allowed to masturbateAppreciating beauty vs lustingPlaylist for sexTenutoSqueamish about handjobsAnother question about masturbationHow do I get my wife to masturbate for me?Is oral sex okay?Are men polygamous by nature?

Topics: Women use sex to control men, so men should be allowed to masturbate Appreciating beauty vs lusting Playlist for sex Tenuto Squeamish about handjobs Another question about masturbation How do I get my wife to masturbate for me? Is oral sex okay? Are men polygamous by nature?

SWM 104 – February 2023 Anonymous Questions

Topics include:Phone sexOral sex to completionForgiveness and trust after betrayalAre pictures and videos a problem?Increasing female libido naturallyWhat is our duty?Toxic wifeAbusive employer

Topics include: Phone sex Oral sex to completion Forgiveness and trust after betrayal Are pictures and videos a problem? Increasing female libido naturally What is our duty? Toxic wife Abusive employer

SWM 103 – January 2023 Anonymous Questions

Topics include:Does my wife know what I'm doing to her?I want to share orgasms with my husbandWhat are your thoughts on BDSM?Is bondage a problem for me?Wife doesn't like direct clitoral stimulationHow do I hold my wife accountable?

Topics include: Does my wife know what I'm doing to her? I want to share orgasms with my husband What are your thoughts on BDSM? Is bondage a problem for me? Wife doesn't like direct clitoral stimulation How do I hold my wife accountable?

SWM 102 – December 2022 Anonymous Questions

Answering this question:Jay, I enjoyed the book (Introduction to Talking Dirty) that my hubby put on my iPad. The thing is, no matter what I do in my comfort zone, it isn't enough. I do many, I mean many, of the examples you use, even the F WORD. How do I get him to be grateful for what I do instead of needing more? I always feel inadequate.

Answering this question: Jay, I enjoyed the book (Introduction to Talking Dirty) that my hubby put on my iPad. The thing is, no matter what I do in my comfort zone, it isn't enough. I do many, I mean many, of the examples you use, even the F WORD. How do I get him to be grateful for what I do instead of needing more? I always feel inadequate.

SWM 101 – Why does my spouse always push for more during sex?

My daughter's speech that the judges decided they couldn't let win because of the topic, but went on to districts despite them.

SWM 100 – My daughter’s speech – The crisis of my generation – transgenderism

Answering questions about married sexuality and intimacy

I appreciate this podcast and my marriage has improved as a result of listening.

Encouraging and informative

Really refreshing and practical perspective to the topic.

Good stuff

Sex Within Marriage Podcast : Exploring Married Sexuality from a Christian Perspective

Topics Include:Sex Drives ChangingHow to SquirtWife is into whippingAnal sex tipsSingle &amp; erectionsLow drive wife secretly masturbatingSecret Facebook profilesPorn addiction ruining relationshipsWife can go months without sexHusband with Asperger'sSex just a checklist itemOral sex not reciprocatedAre online affairs cheating?

Topics Include: Sex Drives Changing How to Squirt Wife is into whipping Anal sex tips Single &amp; erections Low drive wife secretly masturbating Secret Facebook profiles Porn addiction ruining relationships Wife can go months without sex Husband with Asperger's Sex just a checklist item Oral sex not reciprocated Are online affairs cheating?

SWM 048 – Anonymous Questions from July & August 2019 – Squirting, Anal sex tips & Unreciprocated oral sex

Answering questions from our readers.  Questions include:Is doggy style demeaning?Does anal sex always cause bleeding?How to start talking about sex with a sensitive wife?Can you have sex with an unsaved spouse?How to handle a wife orgasming too quicklyMutual MasturbationSwallowing your own semenCan you be married to the wrong person?Is sexlessness being unfaithful?Ethical porn

Answering questions from our readers. Questions include: Is doggy style demeaning? Does anal sex always cause bleeding? How to start talking about sex with a sensitive wife? Can you have sex with an unsaved spouse? How to handle a wife orgasming too quickly Mutual Masturbation Swallowing your own semen Can you be married to the wrong person? Is sexlessness being unfaithful? Ethical porn

SWM 044 – Anonymous Questions from February and March 2019

A reader asks what happens to our souls when we have sex?  This question betrays a common misunderstanding of what a soul is.  Let's dig into what the Bible says.

SWM 040 – What happens to our souls when we have sex?

Ever feel like having a high sex drive is a burden? Have you wondered why God made you this way? Here are some of the reasons I think having spontaneous desire is a blessing.

SWM 047 – Spontaneous desire is a blessing

Responsive desire isn't an abnormality, disability or curse.  It's a blessing.  Once you learn to work with it, it can actually lead to an amazing sex life.

SWM 046 – Responsive desire is a blessing

Today we’re tackling such questions as:How important is communication during sex?Is it wrong to not want your wife to lose weight?Someone asks if they should have an affairHow do you find time to have sex when you have young children?Does premature ejaculation affect your sex drive?What do you do if your husband won’t quit masturbating alone?Is it still considered crossdressing if it’s for comfort?A question about male chastity or female-led relationships.Should you suggest a boob job to your wife?A question about language in the bedroom.

Today we’re tackling such questions as: How important is communication during sex? Is it wrong to not want your wife to lose weight? Someone asks if they should have an affair How do you find time to have sex when you have young children? Does premature ejaculation affect your sex drive? What do you do if your husband won’t quit masturbating alone? Is it still considered crossdressing if it’s for comfort? A question about male chastity or female-led relationships. Should you suggest a boob job to your wife? A question about language in the bedroom.

SWM 045 – Anonymous Questions from May and June 2019

This podcast episode is a sermon I wrote and delivered in my home church while the pastors were away and I was invited to preach.  I'm not a pastor myself, but occasionally I am asked to step in while they are away.  The title I chose was "Sex: an uncomfortable topic we need to discuss", and it had a few people upset when they came to church and saw it in the bulletin.  Particularly since there was no children's ministry that week.  But, afterwards, nearly everyone seemed content with what I had said and how I had delivered it.Some people asked if I would share the sermon here, so you can find the audio, as well as my sermon notes here.

This podcast episode is a sermon I wrote and delivered in my home church while the pastors were away and I was invited to preach.  I'm not a pastor myself, but occasionally I am asked to step in while they are away.  The title I chose was "Sex: an uncomfortable topic we need to discuss", and it had a few people upset when they came to church and saw it in the bulletin.  Particularly since there was no children's ministry that week.  But, afterwards, nearly everyone seemed content with what I had said and how I had delivered it. Some people asked if I would share the sermon here, so you can find the audio, as well as my sermon notes here.

SWM033 – Sermon – Sex: An uncomfortable topic we need to discuss

Well, here we are, another month nearly gone, and another pile of questions from our anonymous Have A Question page begging for answers. In fact, I got so many in January, it took me nearly all month to write answers for them, and it’s going to take me a little longer to record podcast episodes, but I am working on it. So, this is just Part 1 of the January responses.Before we get to those though, I want to mention a few things.

Well, here we are, another month nearly gone, and another pile of questions from our anonymous Have A Question page begging for answers. In fact, I got so many in January, it took me nearly all month to write answers for them, and it’s going to take me a little longer to record podcast episodes, but I am working on it. So, this is just Part 1 of the January responses. Before we get to those though, I want to mention a few things.

SWM 037 – Anonymous Questions from January 2019 – Part 1

Are there things you have to do to keep interest in your spouse? Here are 7 tips to help you stay interested and renew attraction in your spouse.

SWM041 – How do you stay interested long term?

Ultimately, it doesn't matter what sort of sex drive you have, because it can change.  Focus more on your spouse, and less on fitting them into a box.  That way, if things change, you can adjust to the changes, rather that be stuck on a model that doesn't match your dynamic anymore.

SWM 049 – Focus on your spouse, not the model

Answering the anonymous questions from April 2019 from our Have A Question page.Topics Include:Wife looking up exWife used to be a swingerIs bondage okay?Our sex life is boringWife destroying self-esteemIs it okay to buy my wife lingerie for my birthday?Wife teasing husband sexuallyWhy does my husband want to lick my ass?!and more...

Answering the anonymous questions from April 2019 from our Have A Question page. Topics Include: Wife looking up ex Wife used to be a swinger Is bondage okay? Our sex life is boring Wife destroying self-esteem Is it okay to buy my wife lingerie for my birthday? Wife teasing husband sexually Why does my husband want to lick my ass?! and more...

SWM 043 – Anonymous Questions from April 2019

This is the third and final part of our January anonymous questions Have A Question page. If you heard the previous two parts of these questions, I was trying to sort the questions by topic. Today we’re tackling some questions about sex drive, and then a bunch that didn’t fit into any nice categories.

This is the third and final part of our January anonymous questions Have A Question page. If you heard the previous two parts of these questions, I was trying to sort the questions by topic. Today we’re tackling some questions about sex drive, and then a bunch that didn’t fit into any nice categories.

SWM 039 – Anonymous Questions from January 2019 – Part 3

It’s been a busy couple of months for our Have A Question page, so I thought I’d get some of these answers out so they don’t pile up too much.  If you have a question you’d like answered anonymously, you can ask it there, or just email me at jay@uncoveringintimacy.com (which I prefer) so we can actually get a discussion going and some more context.

SWM035 – Anonymous Questions from December 2018

Did you ever play the game "memory" or "concentration" as a child or maybe with your children? Or maybe you new it by another name. You put cards or tiles face down on the table and took turns turning them over, trying to find matches.For this Valentine's Day we decided to make an adult version of this game to play with your spouse that can also be used as foreplay.

SWM036 – Sexy Memory Foreplay Game

Topics Include:Is hetero anal sex new &amp; other questions about anal sex. Factors in orgasm ability. Can women learn to ejaculate? Can kegels lead to vaginal orgasms? Can men be multi-orgasmic? Are my PC muscles too strong?

Topics Include: Is hetero anal sex new &amp; other questions about anal sex. Factors in orgasm ability. Can women learn to ejaculate? Can kegels lead to vaginal orgasms? Can men be multi-orgasmic? Are my PC muscles too strong?

SWM 038 – Anonymous Questions January 2019 – Part 2

This is a sermon I wrote and preached in my home church on Matthew 19:1-11 - Jesus responding to the Pharisees asking about divorce.

SWM042 – God will never leave you

You remember having advent calendars as a kid? Every day you get a chocolate, or a toy or something. For nearly a whole month, every day there was something exciting to look forward to the next day.Holidays don’t exactly feel that way for us adults anymore do they? Well, I wanted to try and recapture that feeling.

You remember having advent calendars as a kid? Every day you get a chocolate, or a toy or something. For nearly a whole month, every day there was something exciting to look forward to the next day. Holidays don’t exactly feel that way for us adults anymore do they? Well, I wanted to try and recapture that feeling.

SWM034 – Limited Time offer – Intimacy Advent Calendar

What does it mean to feel “connected” during sex. For many spouses, when their husband or wife says “I don’t feel connected during sex”, they get quite confused. They’re thinking “I am literally inside of you/you are literally inside of me, how can we be MORE connected?!”But of course, they’re not talking about a physical connection, but rather an emotional, mental or spiritual connection.

What does it mean to feel “connected” during sex. For many spouses, when their husband or wife says “I don’t feel connected during sex”, they get quite confused. They’re thinking “I am literally inside of you/you are literally inside of me, how can we be MORE connected?!” But of course, they’re not talking about a physical connection, but rather an emotional, mental or spiritual connection.

SWM 056 – How To Feel Connected During Sex

Topics include:Is fingering fornication?Is it wrong to fulfill my wife's fantasy of having a gang-bang?How to tell my husband sex is bad when he drinks?Husband's penis keeps falling out during sexWife doesn't want to dress up for me

Topics include: Is fingering fornication? Is it wrong to fulfill my wife's fantasy of having a gang-bang? How to tell my husband sex is bad when he drinks? Husband's penis keeps falling out during sex Wife doesn't want to dress up for me

SWM 055 – Anonymous Questions from March 2020

Anonymous questions from February 2020.  Topics include:How can I become more comfortable masturbating?Why wouldn't he use lube?How to have "team sex" (not what you think)Husband can't be emotionally intimate or trust meMeta discussion about piercingsHow do I start to fix my marriage?Becoming more sexually engaged

Anonymous questions from February 2020. Topics include: How can I become more comfortable masturbating? Why wouldn't he use lube? How to have "team sex" (not what you think) Husband can't be emotionally intimate or trust me Meta discussion about piercings How do I start to fix my marriage? Becoming more sexually engaged

SWM 054 – Anonymous Questions – February 2020

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