Mia Schachter

On this episode we speak with Mia Schachter about the interlacing of consent, sex, and spirituality. Mia Schachter is an intimacy coordinator for film and television, and when they’re not on set, they’re your friendly neighbourhood Consent Wizard. They run workshops that highlight the creativity and magic of consent, so we had to know where that magic lies and how that ties in with sex and spirituality. This episode looks at Mia’s work and philosophy around internal and external intimacy. Mia Schachter: @consentwizard Support Intellectual Erection at: patreon.com/intellectualerection Find Intellectual Erection on: IG: @intellectualerection Twitter: @buttplugpodcast FB: @intellectualerecti0n

On this episode we speak with Mia Schachter about the interlacing of consent, sex, and spirituality. Mia Schachter is an intimacy coordinator for film and television, and when they’re not on set, they’re your friendly neighbourhood Consent Wizard. They run workshops that highlight the creativity and magic of consent, so we had to know where that magic lies and how that ties in with sex and spirituality. This episode looks at Mia’s work and philosophy around internal and external intimacy. Mia Schachter: @consentwizard Support Intellectual Erection at: <a href="http://patreon.com/intellectualerection" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">patreon.com/intellectualerection</a> Find Intellectual Erection on: IG: @intellectualerection Twitter: @buttplugpodcast FB: @intellectualerecti0n

Mia Schachter the Consent Wizard on Sex & Spirituality

On this episode we talk about what the future has in store for the podcast with some fresh talent that will highlight sex positivity from QT BIPOC perspectives.This podcast has been going on for over three years and it’s time that I pass on the baton, so to speak, to some fresh and creative voices from the sex positive communities. Isla Carlisle and Jura Hau have a lot to share from within the sex positive communities as QT BIPOC humans. In this episode we discuss their work, what it means for them to be non-binary, and what they want to bring to Intellectual Erection.Isla Carlisle: @cuddlesluutJura Hau: @jurahauKink Poc: @kinkpocSupport Intellectual Erection at:patreon.com/intellectualerectionFind Intellectual Erection on:IG: @intellectualerectionTwitter: @buttplugpodcastFB: @intellectualerecti0n

On this episode we talk about what the future has in store for the podcast with some fresh talent that will highlight sex positivity from QT BIPOC perspectives. This podcast has been going on for over three years and it’s time that I pass on the baton, so to speak, to some fresh and creative voices from the sex positive communities. Isla Carlisle and Jura Hau have a lot to share from within the sex positive communities as QT BIPOC humans. In this episode we discuss their work, what it means for them to be non-binary, and what they want to bring to Intellectual Erection. Isla Carlisle: @cuddlesluut Jura Hau: @jurahau Kink Poc: @kinkpoc Support Intellectual Erection at: <a href="http://patreon.com/intellectualerection" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">patreon.com/intellectualerection</a> Find Intellectual Erection on: IG: @intellectualerection Twitter: @buttplugpodcast FB: @intellectualerecti0n

The Future of Intellectual Erection with Isla & Jura

Niki Davis-Fainbloom

On this episode we discuss everything from dirty talk to polyam communication, jealousy, and compersion with one of our favourite sex educators. Niki has been on the show several times before to talk to us about consent, sex education, and dirty talk. You will definitely remember her bubbly personality and fun-loving approach to sex ed, and this time it's no different. We dive into all the lovely talk that happens in and around sex, from the things that make it work to the things that make it stop. Support Intellectual Erection at: patreon.com/intellectualerection Find Intellectual Erection on: IG: @intellectualerection Twitter: @buttplugpodcast FB: @intellectualerecti0n

On this episode we discuss everything from dirty talk to polyam communication, jealousy, and compersion with one of our favourite sex educators. Niki has been on the show several times before to talk to us about consent, sex education, and dirty talk. You will definitely remember her bubbly personality and fun-loving approach to sex ed, and this time it's no different. We dive into all the lovely talk that happens in and around sex, from the things that make it work to the things that make it stop. Support Intellectual Erection at: <a href="http://patreon.com/intellectualerection" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">patreon.com/intellectualerection</a> Find Intellectual Erection on: IG: @intellectualerection Twitter: @buttplugpodcast FB: @intellectualerecti0n

Niki Davis-Fainbloom on Sex and Communication

Lola Jean

On this episode we get a deep dive into Lola Jean’s work from squirting champ to seven days of domination. You heard bits of this interview with Lola (@lolajeandotcom) in our “What You Want to Know About Squirting” episode, and here you get the full conversation along with her discussion about sex work and domination (previously unreleased). This is part of a set of two episodes we’ll release this month as we prepare more juicy thematic episodes for you. Support Intellectual Erection at: patreon.com/intellectualerection Find Intellectual Erection on: IG: @intellectualerection Twitter: @buttplugpodcast FB: @intellectualerecti0n

On this episode we get a deep dive into Lola Jean’s work from squirting champ to seven days of domination. You heard bits of this interview with Lola (@lolajeandotcom) in our “What You Want to Know About Squirting” episode, and here you get the full conversation along with her discussion about sex work and domination (previously unreleased). This is part of a set of two episodes we’ll release this month as we prepare more juicy thematic episodes for you. Support Intellectual Erection at: <a href="http://patreon.com/intellectualerection" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">patreon.com/intellectualerection</a> Find Intellectual Erection on: IG: @intellectualerection Twitter: @buttplugpodcast FB: @intellectualerecti0n

Lola Jean: Sex Educator, World Record Holder, & Mistress

On this episode we talk all about online sex work with some of your favourite humans, Isla Carlisle, Bailey Archer, Camden Peach, Ravyn Alexa, Cam Damage, and Ten Against. We start this episode by going over the laws, bills, and legislations in North America that attempt to tackle issues of human trafficking and underage porn, while having serious consequences for sex workers, especially in terms of their ability to exist online. Then we discuss the work, challenges, and rewards that go into online sex work with some of our favourite sex workers that we highly recommend you follow. Guests: Isla Carlisle IG @cuddlesluut Twitter @ittybittyisla Bailey Archer IG @bb.archer Twitter @bbarcher_ Camden Peach IG @camdenpeachxo Twitter @camdenpeach Ravyn Alexa IG @ravynxalexa Twitter @ravynalexa Cam Damage IG @notcamdamage Twitter @hannibaldamage Ten Against IG @ten.against Twitter @tenagainst Shout outs: Zenaya Rose IG @ittybittynotitties Pineapple Support IG @pineappleysw Vespa IG @latexvespa Support Intellectual Erection at: patreon.com/intellectualerection Find Intellectual Erection on: IG: @intellectualerection Twitter: @buttplugpodcast FB: @intellectualerecti0n

On this episode we talk all about online sex work with some of your favourite humans, Isla Carlisle, Bailey Archer, Camden Peach, Ravyn Alexa, Cam Damage, and Ten Against. We start this episode by going over the laws, bills, and legislations in North America that attempt to tackle issues of human trafficking and underage porn, while having serious consequences for sex workers, especially in terms of their ability to exist online. Then we discuss the work, challenges, and rewards that go into online sex work with some of our favourite sex workers that we highly recommend you follow. Guests: Isla Carlisle IG @cuddlesluut Twitter @ittybittyisla Bailey Archer IG @bb.archer Twitter @bbarcher_ Camden Peach IG @camdenpeachxo Twitter @camdenpeach Ravyn Alexa IG @ravynxalexa Twitter @ravynalexa Cam Damage IG @notcamdamage Twitter @hannibaldamage Ten Against IG @ten.against Twitter @tenagainst Shout outs: Zenaya Rose IG @ittybittynotitties Pineapple Support IG @pineappleysw Vespa IG @latexvespa Support Intellectual Erection at: <a href="http://patreon.com/intellectualerection" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">patreon.com/intellectualerection</a> Find Intellectual Erection on: IG: @intellectualerection Twitter: @buttplugpodcast FB: @intellectualerecti0n

Nudes From Your Favourite Sex Workers

On this episode we find out all the layers of dirty talk, what it’s for, and how to do it from three seasoned sexperts, Alisha Fisher, Marla Renee Stewart, and Niki Davis-Fainbloom. We had a lot of fun with the research on dirty talk, from all the categories of filth we can say, to the effect it can have on our sexual and relationship satisfaction, to how it works psychologically to arouse us. The sexperts weigh in and give us the basics of dirty talk, guide us through some dirty talk exercises, and discuss some of the most important factors that make this kink work, or fail horribly. We end off the episode with a very special surprise thanks to you, the listeners, who submitted some filth for us to play with. Song credit: “The Double Up” by Derwatt https://soundcloud.com/user-16295601?fbclid=IwAR1qdp9dD3wRkveRWZLifI7leCwDzzWxXFqLechGYFkvaeOowEnskJbvrWw  Support Intellectual Erection at: patreon.com/intellectualerection Find Intellectual Erection on: IG: @intellectualerection Twitter: @buttplugpodcast FB: @intellectualerecti0n

On this episode we find out all the layers of dirty talk, what it’s for, and how to do it from three seasoned sexperts, Alisha Fisher, Marla Renee Stewart, and Niki Davis-Fainbloom. We had a lot of fun with the research on dirty talk, from all the categories of filth we can say, to the effect it can have on our sexual and relationship satisfaction, to how it works psychologically to arouse us. The sexperts weigh in and give us the basics of dirty talk, guide us through some dirty talk exercises, and discuss some of the most important factors that make this kink work, or fail horribly. We end off the episode with a very special surprise thanks to you, the listeners, who submitted some filth for us to play with. Song credit: “The Double Up” by Derwatt <a href="https://soundcloud.com/user-16295601?fbclid=IwAR1qdp9dD3wRkveRWZLifI7leCwDzzWxXFqLechGYFkvaeOowEnskJbvrWw" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://soundcloud.com/user-16295601?fbclid=IwAR1qdp9dD3wRkveRWZLifI7leCwDzzWxXFqLechGYFkvaeOowEnskJbvrWw</a> Support Intellectual Erection at: <a href="http://patreon.com/intellectualerection" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">patreon.com/intellectualerection</a> Find Intellectual Erection on: IG: @intellectualerection Twitter: @buttplugpodcast FB: @intellectualerecti0n

Talk Dirty to Me

On this episode we speak with sexpert Alisha Fisher, squirting world-record holder Lola Jean, and a panel of humans all about squirting. The research on squirting is controversial and hardly conclusive. Most scientists want to know if it’s pee or prostatic fluid, how it differs from what’s called “female ejaculation,” and if it relates to urinary incontinence. We want to know how it feels, what it brings up emotionally, how to connects to people’s sex lives, and why it’s so popular now. So, we asked sex and relationship scholar Alisha Fisher (@alisha.jj.fisher) all about the functions of squirting, we asked sex educator Lola Jean (@lolajeandotcom) all about her squirting notoriety, and we got a panel together to talk about the fun, the shame, and the excitement of squirting. Panelists: @peachbum (Twitter) @miss_obscure @emoxhobbit @imjustadaisy @littlemiss_bee Support Intellectual Erection at: patreon.com/intellectualerection Find Intellectual Erection on: IG: @intellectualerection Twitter: @buttplugpodcast FB: @intellectualerecti0n

On this episode we speak with sexpert Alisha Fisher, squirting world-record holder Lola Jean, and a panel of humans all about squirting. The research on squirting is controversial and hardly conclusive. Most scientists want to know if it’s pee or prostatic fluid, how it differs from what’s called “female ejaculation,” and if it relates to urinary incontinence. We want to know how it feels, what it brings up emotionally, how to connects to people’s sex lives, and why it’s so popular now. So, we asked sex and relationship scholar Alisha Fisher (@alisha.jj.fisher) all about the functions of squirting, we asked sex educator Lola Jean (@lolajeandotcom) all about her squirting notoriety, and we got a panel together to talk about the fun, the shame, and the excitement of squirting. Panelists: @peachbum (Twitter) @miss_obscure @emoxhobbit @imjustadaisy @littlemiss_bee Support Intellectual Erection at: <a href="http://patreon.com/intellectualerection" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">patreon.com/intellectualerection</a> Find Intellectual Erection on: IG: @intellectualerection Twitter: @buttplugpodcast FB: @intellectualerecti0n

What You Want to Know about Squirting

Welcome to a new season of Intellectual Erection with a brand new format and new co-host, my partner, Yaz (they/them)! On this episode we speak to sex educators, sex therapists, and a panel of sex positive humans about sex during Covid. The new episode structure features a research segment where your co-hosts go over some of the academic literature on sex and Covid, followed by interviews with queer sex educator Eva Bloom (@whatsmybodydoing) and sex and relationship therapist Kat Kova (@katkovatherapy). We then ask a panel of sex positive humans, kinksters, and polyamorists what their experiences around sex and intimacy have been like during the pandemic. The episode ends off in Intellectual Erection tradition with some very juicy sexy stories. P.S. you may have noticed Instagram has taken down our podcast page, so we started a new one. Please follow along on @intellectualerection Support Intellectual Erection at: patreon.com/intellectualerection Find Intellectual Erection on: IG: @intellectualerection Twitter: @buttplugpodcast FB: @intellectualerecti0n

Welcome to a new season of Intellectual Erection with a brand new format and new co-host, my partner, Yaz (they/them)! On this episode we speak to sex educators, sex therapists, and a panel of sex positive humans about sex during Covid. The new episode structure features a research segment where your co-hosts go over some of the academic literature on sex and Covid, followed by interviews with queer sex educator Eva Bloom (@whatsmybodydoing) and sex and relationship therapist Kat Kova (@katkovatherapy). We then ask a panel of sex positive humans, kinksters, and polyamorists what their experiences around sex and intimacy have been like during the pandemic. The episode ends off in Intellectual Erection tradition with some very juicy sexy stories. P.S. you may have noticed Instagram has taken down our podcast page, so we started a new one. Please follow along on @intellectualerection Support Intellectual Erection at: <a href="http://patreon.com/intellectualerection" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">patreon.com/intellectualerection</a> Find Intellectual Erection on: IG: @intellectualerection Twitter: @buttplugpodcast FB: @intellectualerecti0n

Sex in the Time of Corona

Bailey Archer

On this episode I speak with Bailey Archer about her experiences as an intersex sex worker and the intersections with transgender identity. Bailey Archer is very popular on Chaturbate under the Trans category; however, she is actually intersex. Specifically, she was born with Klinefelter Syndrome, which is also known as XXY syndrome because of the extra X chromosome. Bailey was assigned male at birth but has always been a woman. We discuss her experiences with intersex and trans identity, how that intersects with her sex work, and what distinguishes intersex from trans people. Find Bailey Archer on: Chaturbate.com/bbarcher Onlyfans.com/bbarcher_ Twitter @bbarcher_ IG @bb.archer Support Intellectual Erection at: patreon.com/intellectualerection Find Intellectual Erection on: IG: @intellectual.erection Twitter: @buttplugpodcast FB: @intellectualerecti0n

On this episode I speak with Bailey Archer about her experiences as an intersex sex worker and the intersections with transgender identity. Bailey Archer is very popular on Chaturbate under the Trans category; however, she is actually intersex. Specifically, she was born with Klinefelter Syndrome, which is also known as XXY syndrome because of the extra X chromosome. Bailey was assigned male at birth but has always been a woman. We discuss her experiences with intersex and trans identity, how that intersects with her sex work, and what distinguishes intersex from trans people. Find Bailey Archer on: <a href="http://Chaturbate.com/bbarcher" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Chaturbate.com/bbarcher</a> <a href="http://Onlyfans.com/bbarcher_" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Onlyfans.com/bbarcher_</a> Twitter @bbarcher_ IG @bb.archer Support Intellectual Erection at: <a href="http://patreon.com/intellectualerection" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">patreon.com/intellectualerection</a> Find Intellectual Erection on: IG: @intellectual.erection Twitter: @buttplugpodcast FB: @intellectualerecti0n

Bailey Archer on Being an Intersex Sex Worker

On this episode you will hear volume 6 of anonymous sexy tales from the lived experiences of fellow sex positive humans. Please send me your sexy stories (audio recording) to intellectualerection@gmail.comto be featured in future episodes!This episode features sexy, fun, and outrageous stories from listener submissions. It is volume 6 of an ongoing collection of tales meant to help you feel connected during the pandemic. You will hear stories about sex while travelling, risky adventures abroad, a retelling of a sexy tale from volume 4 from the other person’s perspective, a reminder of sunny days at the sex club, and some comic relief. Stay safe and healthy during the pandemic with some arousing stories to make your isolation a little less alienating.Support Intellectual Erection at:patreon.com/intellectualerectionFind Intellectual Erection on:IG: @intellectual.erectionTwitter: @buttplugpodcastFB: @intellectualerecti0n

On this episode you will hear volume 6 of anonymous sexy tales from the lived experiences of fellow sex positive humans. Please send me your sexy stories (audio recording) to intellectualerection@gmail.comto be featured in future episodes! This episode features sexy, fun, and outrageous stories from listener submissions. It is volume 6 of an ongoing collection of tales meant to help you feel connected during the pandemic. You will hear stories about sex while travelling, risky adventures abroad, a retelling of a sexy tale from volume 4 from the other person’s perspective, a reminder of sunny days at the sex club, and some comic relief. Stay safe and healthy during the pandemic with some arousing stories to make your isolation a little less alienating. Support Intellectual Erection at: <a href="http://patreon.com/intellectualerection" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">patreon.com/intellectualerection</a> Find Intellectual Erection on: IG: @intellectual.erection Twitter: @buttplugpodcast FB: @intellectualerecti0n

Sexy Tales in the Time of Covid-19 Vol. VI

This podcast is about sex positivity, kink, bdsm, and polyamory. The interviews are with people in these communities and we discuss everything from the fun, to the not so fun, to the politics, and matters of the heart.

I didn’t know what to expect going into this but found it fun and enjoyable. I always enjoy hearing women talk explicitly about their sexual experiences because it runs so counter to my upbringing and expectations. One negative: the last segment of the episode I listened to was billed as comic relief. It was easily the stupidest and unfunniest thing I’ve ever listened to. There was no humor in it at all.

Enjoyed but

The podcast takes an insider’s look at various kinds of sex work and kink, but it’s not the investigative journalism you might find somewhere else or even exposé interviews. The host is clearly an insider talking to other insiders. While no one completely forgets that the listeners may not be insiders, the interviews are not geared towards informing the public. These are portraits. Individuals providing glimpses into their world with a tertiary focus on informing people who might be considering dipping their toes into that world.

It is still very educational. I know that I’ve picked up quite a few things, but the core of the show is the humanity of the guests, rather than the science or logistics of the work; which is what I was expecting going in.

A casual take on insider knowledge

Intellectual Erection

Jacqui Childs

On this episode I speak with Jacqui Childs—social media influencer, cannabis activist, model, naked news anchor, sex positive human, best-selling author, and an overall do-whatever-she-wants badass!You’re not even ready to hear this episode…grab a pipe and a drink, find your favourite chair, and prepare to have your mind blown. This is only part one of a two part interview, so get ready for a listenathon, an auditorgy, an eargasm that will leave you wanting more, you insatiable pervs. Jacqui Childs takes us on a rambling rampage of fun, laughs, and curiosities about her multifarious life, like how she learned to get sexual attention as a child by putting balloons under her shirt, to stripping, modeling, and being discovered by playboy photographer David Mecey. Jacqui opens up about her family life, marriage, cheating, divorce, parental alienation, to rediscovering her authentic self at the age of 39 in a new non-monogamous relationship, embracing sex positivity, living the swinger life, working as an anchor on Naked News, and how these things affect her role as a mother. She realized she hates being boxed in, restricted, controlled, so she took control of her life, her body, and her sexuality to slay on social media as an influencer with over 2 million followers.Find Jacqui Childs on:FB: @jacquichildsmodelIG: @jacquichildsTwitter: @JacquiChildsSupport Intellectual Erection at:patreon.com/intellectualerection

On this episode I speak with Jacqui Childs—social media influencer, cannabis activist, model, naked news anchor, sex positive human, best-selling author, and an overall do-whatever-she-wants badass!You’re not even ready to hear this episode…grab a pipe and a drink, find your favourite chair, and prepare to have your mind blown. This is only part one of a two part interview, so get ready for a listenathon, an auditorgy, an eargasm that will leave you wanting more, you insatiable pervs. Jacqui Childs takes us on a rambling rampage of fun, laughs, and curiosities about her multifarious life, like how she learned to get sexual attention as a child by putting balloons under her shirt, to stripping, modeling, and being discovered by playboy photographer David Mecey. Jacqui opens up about her family life, marriage, cheating, divorce, parental alienation, to rediscovering her authentic self at the age of 39 in a new non-monogamous relationship, embracing sex positivity, living the swinger life, working as an anchor on Naked News, and how these things affect her role as a mother. She realized she hates being boxed in, restricted, controlled, so she took control of her life, her body, and her sexuality to slay on social media as an influencer with over 2 million followers. Find Jacqui Childs on: FB: @jacquichildsmodel IG: @jacquichilds Twitter: @JacquiChilds Support Intellectual Erection at: <a href="http://patreon.com/intellectualerection" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">patreon.com/intellectualerection</a>

Jacqui Childs: Unboxed, Untamed, and Uncensored (pt. 1 of 2)

Farley ADHDicking

On this episode I speak with Farely about his experiences navigating the intersections of love, sex, and polyamory with ADHD. Farely has done some ADHD advocacy in the past and he misses the days when he could talk about his disorder with the aim to help others. He takes this opportunity to discuss the intricacies of Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder, the diverse symptomology, and how it affects him personally. What is it like having to deal with scattered memory and forgetfulness? What’s it like being medicated? How to deal with being impulsive. Farley opens up about how ADHD affects sex drive and diverse sexual needs. For him, polyamory was a way to better meet those needs in an ethical way without recourse to cheating, guilt, and shame. Book cited in this episode:Tuckman, A. (2019). ADHD after dark: Better sex life, better relationship. Routledge.Find Farely on:IG: @torontodeadpoolSupport Intellectual Erection at:patreon.com/intellectualerectionFind Intellectual Erection on:IG: @intellectual_erectionTwitter: @intellectual_EPFB: @intellectualerecti0n

On this episode I speak with Farely about his experiences navigating the intersections of love, sex, and polyamory with ADHD. Farely has done some ADHD advocacy in the past and he misses the days when he could talk about his disorder with the aim to help others. He takes this opportunity to discuss the intricacies of Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder, the diverse symptomology, and how it affects him personally. What is it like having to deal with scattered memory and forgetfulness? What’s it like being medicated? How to deal with being impulsive. Farley opens up about how ADHD affects sex drive and diverse sexual needs. For him, polyamory was a way to better meet those needs in an ethical way without recourse to cheating, guilt, and shame. Book cited in this episode: Tuckman, A. (2019). ADHD after dark: Better sex life, better relationship. Routledge. Find Farely on: IG: @torontodeadpool Support Intellectual Erection at: <a href="http://patreon.com/intellectualerection" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">patreon.com/intellectualerection</a> Find Intellectual Erection on: IG: @intellectual_erection Twitter: @intellectual_EP FB: @intellectualerecti0n

Farley ADHDicking Around

Lady Henry

On this episode I speak with Dominatrix Lady Henry, and we get the inside scoop on what it’s like to domme for a living. We also discuss how to book a session, guest etiquette, and some very naughty stories. If you could do anything you want in life, would it be? For Lady Henry that dream was to become a Dominatrix! After spending many years in the kink/BDSM community and building a resume of sorts, she decided to marry business and pleasure. Enter Lady Henry, a bubbly and theatrical seductress with a low tolerance for brats and a memorable laugh.  She runs the laundry list of services found at your typical dungeon, tells you how to book, and how to behave yourself in a session. Amidst the intro to Dominatrix course we get some anecdotes that will leave your jaw on the floor, or worse. You’ve been warned!Find Lady Henry on:IG: @theladyhenryxTwitter: @theladyhenryWeb: ladyhenry.caSupport Intellectual Erection at:patreon.com/intellectualerection

On this episode I speak with Dominatrix Lady Henry, and we get the inside scoop on what it’s like to domme for a living. We also discuss how to book a session, guest etiquette, and some very naughty stories. If you could do anything you want in life, would it be? For Lady Henry that dream was to become a Dominatrix! After spending many years in the kink/BDSM community and building a resume of sorts, she decided to marry business and pleasure. Enter Lady Henry, a bubbly and theatrical seductress with a low tolerance for brats and a memorable laugh. She runs the laundry list of services found at your typical dungeon, tells you how to book, and how to behave yourself in a session. Amidst the intro to Dominatrix course we get some anecdotes that will leave your jaw on the floor, or worse. You’ve been warned! Find Lady Henry on: IG: @theladyhenryx Twitter: @theladyhenry Web: <a href="http://ladyhenry.ca" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">ladyhenry.ca</a> Support Intellectual Erection at: <a href="http://patreon.com/intellectualerection" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">patreon.com/intellectualerection</a>

Lady Henry: Inside a Dominatrix

Andrea Werhun

On this episode I speak with Andrea Werhun, writer of the Modern Whore, a book nearly as difficult to describe in few words as its author—from sassy to sentimental, poetic to smutty, this girl will make you believe in the church of feminine sexuality and having you begging for communion. Andrea opens up about her personal life as a segue to writing the book, having had a shame-free entry into online porn from an early age and discovering her sexuality, to posting nudes online that later haunted her—all of which gave her the courage to own her body and decide without undue duress to enter into sex work, because she wanted to. After visiting her first strip club, Andrea was enamored by the women goddesses owning their bodies on stage, and immediately she knew that’s what she wanted to do. This eventually led her to enter into escorting, which she did for two years and which sets the premise for the book…which we cover in part two of the interview, so stay tuned.Find Andrea Werhun on:modernwhore.comIG: @weenerwomanFB: @modernwhorTwitter: @modernwhoreSupport Intellectual Erection at:patreon.com/intellectualerection

On this episode I speak with Andrea Werhun, writer of the Modern Whore, a book nearly as difficult to describe in few words as its author—from sassy to sentimental, poetic to smutty, this girl will make you believe in the church of feminine sexuality and having you begging for communion. Andrea opens up about her personal life as a segue to writing the book, having had a shame-free entry into online porn from an early age and discovering her sexuality, to posting nudes online that later haunted her—all of which gave her the courage to own her body and decide without undue duress to enter into sex work, because she wanted to. After visiting her first strip club, Andrea was enamored by the women goddesses owning their bodies on stage, and immediately she knew that’s what she wanted to do. This eventually led her to enter into escorting, which she did for two years and which sets the premise for the book…which we cover in part two of the interview, so stay tuned. Find Andrea Werhun on: <a href="http://modernwhore.com" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">modernwhore.com</a> IG: @weenerwoman FB: @modernwhor Twitter: @modernwhore Support Intellectual Erection at: <a href="http://patreon.com/intellectualerection" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">patreon.com/intellectualerection</a>

Andrea Werhun: Inside a Modern Whore (pt. 1 of 2)

Curt Montgomery

On this episode I speak with Insta famous tattoo artist Curt Montgomery about his journey into the sex positive communities, as we isolate and continue to fight COVID-19. Curt Montgomery has been creating fine art for a long time. After partying away his 20s, then going sober for 18 years, he got into the tattoo scene and eventually realized there was a niche for highly sexual monochromatic tattoos. More recently, Curt’s tattoos have come to life as he’s embarked on a journey through the sex positive communities, experiencing for the first time in all their glory the erotic and perverse sex scenes that his tattoos depict. Now as he sits in quarantine and occupies himself with his art, his drawings and acrylics are inspired not by imagination but by memory. Find Curt Montgomery on:IG: @curtmontgomerytattoosIG: @sexyacrylics Email: curtmontgomerytattoos@gmail.comShout outs in this episode:IG: @tinytayloroakes IG: @insideouttorontoSupport Intellectual Erection at:patreon.com/intellectualerectionFind Intellectual Erection on:IG: @intellectual_erectionTwitter: @intellectual_EPFB: @intellectualerecti0n

On this episode I speak with Insta famous tattoo artist Curt Montgomery about his journey into the sex positive communities, as we isolate and continue to fight COVID-19. Curt Montgomery has been creating fine art for a long time. After partying away his 20s, then going sober for 18 years, he got into the tattoo scene and eventually realized there was a niche for highly sexual monochromatic tattoos. More recently, Curt’s tattoos have come to life as he’s embarked on a journey through the sex positive communities, experiencing for the first time in all their glory the erotic and perverse sex scenes that his tattoos depict. Now as he sits in quarantine and occupies himself with his art, his drawings and acrylics are inspired not by imagination but by memory. Find Curt Montgomery on: IG: @curtmontgomerytattoos IG: @sexyacrylics Email: curtmontgomerytattoos@gmail.com Shout outs in this episode: IG: @tinytayloroakes IG: @insideouttoronto Support Intellectual Erection at: <a href="http://patreon.com/intellectualerection" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">patreon.com/intellectualerection</a> Find Intellectual Erection on: IG: @intellectual_erection Twitter: @intellectual_EP FB: @intellectualerecti0n

Curt Montgomery Tattoos the Toronto Sex Scene

Amber Emery

On this episode I speak with Social Media Influencer Amber Emery about her nude modeling and what it’s like managing her brand online. Amber takes us back to @hedonismjamaica where she began nude modeling and her work with Joel Alvarez of the @blacktapeproject that helped her come out of her shell, then her more recent work with @kingvitaly. We discuss body modification and plastic surgery advice and advocacy. Amber also goes into the demands of being an influencer and how it intersects with freedom, authenticity and privacy. I then ask a question that @lauraxdesiree from @nakednews brought up in the interview I did with her a while back, namely, if it’s okay in the @metoomvmt era for a woman to sleep with someone to get ahead? This brings up a tough conversation about sex, power and double standards, especially considering the ongoing Harvey Weinstein trial. Shout outs in this episode:IG: @kingvitalyIG: @vitalyuncensoredIG: @hedonismjamaicaIG: @blacktapeprojectIG: @jacquichildsIG: @nytimesIG: @lauraxdesireeIG: @nakednewsIG: @meetoomvmtIG: @opulencia.lifestyleFind Amber Emery on:IG: @amber_emery_Support Intellectual Erection at:patreon.com/intellectualerectionFind Intellectual Erection on:IG: @intellectual_erectionTwitter: @intellectual_EPFB: @intellectualerecti0n

On this episode I speak with Social Media Influencer Amber Emery about her nude modeling and what it’s like managing her brand online. Amber takes us back to @hedonismjamaica where she began nude modeling and her work with Joel Alvarez of the @blacktapeproject that helped her come out of her shell, then her more recent work with @kingvitaly. We discuss body modification and plastic surgery advice and advocacy. Amber also goes into the demands of being an influencer and how it intersects with freedom, authenticity and privacy. I then ask a question that @lauraxdesiree from @nakednews brought up in the interview I did with her a while back, namely, if it’s okay in the @metoomvmt era for a woman to sleep with someone to get ahead? This brings up a tough conversation about sex, power and double standards, especially considering the ongoing Harvey Weinstein trial. Shout outs in this episode: IG: @kingvitaly IG: @vitalyuncensored IG: @hedonismjamaica IG: @blacktapeproject IG: @jacquichilds IG: @nytimes IG: @lauraxdesiree IG: @nakednews IG: @meetoomvmt IG: @opulencia.lifestyle Find Amber Emery on: IG: @amber_emery_ Support Intellectual Erection at: <a href="http://patreon.com/intellectualerection" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">patreon.com/intellectualerection</a> Find Intellectual Erection on: IG: @intellectual_erection Twitter: @intellectual_EP FB: @intellectualerecti0n

Amber Emery Influences you to be Naughty on Social Media

On this episode I speak with Boon Ong of Boon Ong Figuratif Photography, an intimate lifestyle photographer seeking to liberate himself and his subjects by highlighting the vulnerabilities and intimacies that reside at the core of taboo. Boon came to Canada to pursue his parent’s dreams of becoming an engineer. Along his journey he fell in love with photographing nude art, and soon nude subjects. When he began publishing his work, he got a call from his mother in Malaysia, calling him a disgrace. It didn’t deter him, because there was something deeper he needed to expose—himself. Nude photography helped him come out and find his freedom. The exposition of the taboo enables the liberty to live a life often considered taboo. Boon says we all have closets, so maybe what he does is peek inside to bring some light to the darkness. He helps unravel the intimate lifestyles of humans in their sacred space. He doesn’t have an idealistic mission, but he does have a story. Find Boon Ong on:IG: @bofiguratifWeb: boonongfiguratif.comSupport Intellectual Erection at:patreon.com/intellectualerection

On this episode I speak with Boon Ong of Boon Ong Figuratif Photography, an intimate lifestyle photographer seeking to liberate himself and his subjects by highlighting the vulnerabilities and intimacies that reside at the core of taboo. Boon came to Canada to pursue his parent’s dreams of becoming an engineer. Along his journey he fell in love with photographing nude art, and soon nude subjects. When he began publishing his work, he got a call from his mother in Malaysia, calling him a disgrace. It didn’t deter him, because there was something deeper he needed to expose—himself. Nude photography helped him come out and find his freedom. The exposition of the taboo enables the liberty to live a life often considered taboo. Boon says we all have closets, so maybe what he does is peek inside to bring some light to the darkness. He helps unravel the intimate lifestyles of humans in their sacred space. He doesn’t have an idealistic mission, but he does have a story. Find Boon Ong on: IG: @bofiguratif Web: <a href="http://boonongfiguratif.com" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">boonongfiguratif.com</a> Support Intellectual Erection at: <a href="http://patreon.com/intellectualerection" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">patreon.com/intellectualerection</a>

Boon Ong: Intimacies of Nude Photography

On this episode I speak with Yazmin—a newish human to the sex-positive communities with a lot of particular interests and a deep desire to explore them mindfully.Yazmin is a fairly fresh face to kink, fetish, bdsm, and polyamory but in the time she has spent around the sex-positive communities she’s contemplated her involvement deeply and shared her experiences along the way on social media. Coming from a background in yoga, Yaz approaches sex-positivity mindfully—assessing, absorbing, premeditating, and understanding what these experiences mean for her and their formative potential in her life. She’s here to share those experiences especially for other newcomers who may be a little shy or anxious about what to expect from a first trip to a sex club, a first kink scene, and how to navigate polyamorous relationships. We get intimate with stories around BDSM, DDLG, and polyamory that are informative for the newbies and juicy for the veterans. Find Yazmin on:IG: @yaz.thehumanShout outs in this episode:IG: @srg1Support Intellectual Erection at:patreon.com/intellectualerectionFind Intellectual Erection on:IG: @intellectual_erectionTwitter: @intellectual_EPFB: @intellectualerecti0n

On this episode I speak with Yazmin—a newish human to the sex-positive communities with a lot of particular interests and a deep desire to explore them mindfully. Yazmin is a fairly fresh face to kink, fetish, bdsm, and polyamory but in the time she has spent around the sex-positive communities she’s contemplated her involvement deeply and shared her experiences along the way on social media. Coming from a background in yoga, Yaz approaches sex-positivity mindfully—assessing, absorbing, premeditating, and understanding what these experiences mean for her and their formative potential in her life. She’s here to share those experiences especially for other newcomers who may be a little shy or anxious about what to expect from a first trip to a sex club, a first kink scene, and how to navigate polyamorous relationships. We get intimate with stories around BDSM, DDLG, and polyamory that are informative for the newbies and juicy for the veterans. Find Yazmin on: IG: @yaz.thehuman Shout outs in this episode: IG: @srg1 Support Intellectual Erection at: <a href="http://patreon.com/intellectualerection" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">patreon.com/intellectualerection</a> Find Intellectual Erection on: IG: @intellectual_erection Twitter: @intellectual_EP FB: @intellectualerecti0n

Yazmin Exposes her Particular Perversions

On this episode I speak with Laura Desiree, your local Naked News Anchor. She talks about interviewing porn starts, creating performance art, recording her orgasms, her love of edging, and her deep desire to mount an Oscar. Laura Desiree is a full-blown perv raised on cinematic moments. She’s got the starlight shine of a diva with the soul of a siren—luring you in with erotic aesthetics and edging you to oblivion. From a teen finding her way through the art scene in New York city to a producer of erotic and sex-positive content on naked news, in the burlesque scene, art shows, and porn hub, Laura is all about living at the intersexion of art and sex. She found empowerment through her body and sexuality and encourages you to do the same. Learn to stimulate yourself, understand your orgasms, make poetry of them, and let out those pent up moans you’ve been shamed into silencing. In the end, we talk about how to exploit taboos to liberate yourself from that internalized shame so you can enjoy the art of sex and sexuality. Find Laura Desiree on:IG: @lauraxdesireeNaked News: Laura DesireePornhub: lauradesireeSupport Intellectual Erection at:patreon.com/intellectualerection

On this episode I speak with Laura Desiree, your local Naked News Anchor. She talks about interviewing porn starts, creating performance art, recording her orgasms, her love of edging, and her deep desire to mount an Oscar. Laura Desiree is a full-blown perv raised on cinematic moments. She’s got the starlight shine of a diva with the soul of a siren—luring you in with erotic aesthetics and edging you to oblivion. From a teen finding her way through the art scene in New York city to a producer of erotic and sex-positive content on naked news, in the burlesque scene, art shows, and porn hub, Laura is all about living at the intersexion of art and sex. She found empowerment through her body and sexuality and encourages you to do the same. Learn to stimulate yourself, understand your orgasms, make poetry of them, and let out those pent up moans you’ve been shamed into silencing. In the end, we talk about how to exploit taboos to liberate yourself from that internalized shame so you can enjoy the art of sex and sexuality. Find Laura Desiree on: IG: @lauraxdesiree Naked News: Laura Desiree Pornhub: lauradesiree Support Intellectual Erection at: <a href="http://patreon.com/intellectualerection" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">patreon.com/intellectualerection</a>

Laura Desiree: Edging on the Erotic

This is part 2 of the interview with Modern Whore extraordinaire Andrea Werhun (or Verhoon if you nasty!) where we pick up where we left off last time, talking about sex work and the law, decriminalization, personal safety, stripping, and then getting into the stories in her sexy book. Andrea’s been through it all, working with the good the bad and the ugly—facing assault, catcallers, breaches of consent, and having to personally deal with these issues that the law refuses to get involved with. She calls for, like most everyone in the sex worker community, decriminalization of prostitution—not legalization! Sex workers have become good at their profession and do not need legalization to standardize their practices, but do require the law to decriminalize their work, protect them from violence, and provide them safety. Finally, Andrea discusses her book, the stories, the backstories, and future plans for this bubbly, charismatic, and witty writer. We dive into the content of the book, how some of these stories were conceived—like microdosing on LSD—and how they’re meant to enlighten, educate, and reveal that seedy underbelly of society that we all hear only horror stories about. Find Andrea Werhun on:modernwhore.comIG: @weenerwomanFB: @modernwhorTwitter: @modernwhoreSupport Intellectual Erection at:patreon.com/intellectualerection

This is part 2 of the interview with Modern Whore extraordinaire Andrea Werhun (or Verhoon if you nasty!) where we pick up where we left off last time, talking about sex work and the law, decriminalization, personal safety, stripping, and then getting into the stories in her sexy book. Andrea’s been through it all, working with the good the bad and the ugly—facing assault, catcallers, breaches of consent, and having to personally deal with these issues that the law refuses to get involved with. She calls for, like most everyone in the sex worker community, decriminalization of prostitution—not legalization! Sex workers have become good at their profession and do not need legalization to standardize their practices, but do require the law to decriminalize their work, protect them from violence, and provide them safety. Finally, Andrea discusses her book, the stories, the backstories, and future plans for this bubbly, charismatic, and witty writer. We dive into the content of the book, how some of these stories were conceived—like microdosing on LSD—and how they’re meant to enlighten, educate, and reveal that seedy underbelly of society that we all hear only horror stories about. Find Andrea Werhun on: <a href="http://modernwhore.com" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">modernwhore.com</a> IG: @weenerwoman FB: @modernwhor Twitter: @modernwhore Support Intellectual Erection at: <a href="http://patreon.com/intellectualerection" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">patreon.com/intellectualerection</a>

Andrea Werhun: Inside a Modern Whore (pt. 2 of 2)

Cecilia Morrell

Daddy Doms

On this episode I switch things up and host the first ever panel discussion on Intellectual Erection, featuring Kit, Cecilia Morrell, and Ace Allure, talking about being Littles in the DDGL/CGL communities.Kit, Cecilia Morrell, and Ace, have all been on Intellectual Erection before in independent episodes, but now they’ve joined forces in a panel on one of the most taboo topics in the sex positive communities—DDLG/CGL—Daddy Dom Little Girl, or the more recent and inclusive title Caregiver &amp; Little. We talk about what it means to be a little, what makes a good daddy, we play some games to find out who’s the brattiest of the bunch, and get into some heavy philosophical entanglements with the ethics of age play, incest play, and how to engage these dynamics in a healthy way. Find Kit on:IG: @sit_with_kit_Web: sit-withkit.comFind Cecilia Morrell on:IG: @ceciliamorrellofficialWeb: ceciliamorrell.comFind Ace on:IG: @aceallureIG:@officialpinkmagicWeb: pinkmagiccoaching.comSupport Intellectual Erection at:patreon.com/intellectualerectionFind Intellectual Erection on:IG: @intellectual_erectionTwitter: @intellectual_EPFB: @intellectualerecti0n

On this episode I switch things up and host the first ever panel discussion on Intellectual Erection, featuring Kit, Cecilia Morrell, and Ace Allure, talking about being Littles in the DDGL/CGL communities. Kit, Cecilia Morrell, and Ace, have all been on Intellectual Erection before in independent episodes, but now they’ve joined forces in a panel on one of the most taboo topics in the sex positive communities—DDLG/CGL—Daddy Dom Little Girl, or the more recent and inclusive title Caregiver &amp; Little. We talk about what it means to be a little, what makes a good daddy, we play some games to find out who’s the brattiest of the bunch, and get into some heavy philosophical entanglements with the ethics of age play, incest play, and how to engage these dynamics in a healthy way. Find Kit on: IG: @sit_with_kit_ Web: <a href="http://sit-withkit.com" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">sit-withkit.com</a> Find Cecilia Morrell on: IG: @ceciliamorrellofficial Web: <a href="http://ceciliamorrell.com" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">ceciliamorrell.com</a> Find Ace on: IG: @aceallure IG:@officialpinkmagic Web: <a href="http://pinkmagiccoaching.com" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">pinkmagiccoaching.com</a> Support Intellectual Erection at: <a href="http://patreon.com/intellectualerection" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">patreon.com/intellectualerection</a> Find Intellectual Erection on: IG: @intellectual_erection Twitter: @intellectual_EP FB: @intellectualerecti0n

Panel Talk: Daddy Doms Three Little Piggies (feat. Kit, Cecilia Morrell, & Ace Allure)

Ok, this episode is different…because I surrender my seat as host and am interviewed by Anima Mea—a new podcaster to the scene about to launch her very own show…Call me Sentimental—a podcast about modern dating, relationships, love, and taboo subjects. So, I’m her guinea pig and you get to know more about me, your host on Intellectual Erection. Anima uses her interrogation skills to drill me gently on polyamory, consent, love, kinks and fetishes, and sex clubs, all while sprinkling in the magic dust of my cynical pessimism on the meaning of life, suffering, and existentialism. Who knew love and death could be gnarled into the same sentence to give meaning to life in an otherwise bleak world?—This guy, that’s who. Anima is genuinely interested in, and curious about the multifaceted sex-positive communities, how we navigate them, where we enter and exist, and what causes us to do so. She prods sensitive topics with well-placed questions to understand my personal experiences as they intertwine with my access, interest, and interaction with these communities. Anima has an empathetic approach that digs at the emotional, while leaving space for catharsis in talking about things like heartbreak and loneliness, which is what you should expect to hear when her podcast comes out in the next couple of weeks. Her show, Call me Sentimental, will focus on love, relationships, and modern dating, in the first season, followed by taboos and secret societies in the second, so stay tuned! Find Anima Mea on:IG: @callme_sentimentalFB: @callmesentimentalSoundCloud: soundcloud.com/callmesentimentalSupport Intellectual Erection at:patreon.com/intellectualerection

Ok, this episode is different…because I surrender my seat as host and am interviewed by Anima Mea—a new podcaster to the scene about to launch her very own show…Call me Sentimental—a podcast about modern dating, relationships, love, and taboo subjects. So, I’m her guinea pig and you get to know more about me, your host on Intellectual Erection. Anima uses her interrogation skills to drill me gently on polyamory, consent, love, kinks and fetishes, and sex clubs, all while sprinkling in the magic dust of my cynical pessimism on the meaning of life, suffering, and existentialism. Who knew love and death could be gnarled into the same sentence to give meaning to life in an otherwise bleak world?—This guy, that’s who. Anima is genuinely interested in, and curious about the multifaceted sex-positive communities, how we navigate them, where we enter and exist, and what causes us to do so. She prods sensitive topics with well-placed questions to understand my personal experiences as they intertwine with my access, interest, and interaction with these communities. Anima has an empathetic approach that digs at the emotional, while leaving space for catharsis in talking about things like heartbreak and loneliness, which is what you should expect to hear when her podcast comes out in the next couple of weeks. Her show, Call me Sentimental, will focus on love, relationships, and modern dating, in the first season, followed by taboos and secret societies in the second, so stay tuned! Find Anima Mea on: IG: @callme_sentimental FB: @callmesentimental SoundCloud: <a href="http://soundcloud.com/callmesentimental" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">soundcloud.com/callmesentimental</a> Support Intellectual Erection at: <a href="http://patreon.com/intellectualerection" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">patreon.com/intellectualerection</a>

Anima Mea Drills Patric

Marlon Chaplin

On this episode I speak with Marlon Chaplin, the first-ever submissive cuckold on this show. This a unique episode from an often unheard voice because submissive men are rarely open about their experiences…at least publicly. Are you ready to get mindfu#%ed? This is important to hear, especially for men. Have you confronted your notions of masculinity? I challenge you to step into Malron’s mentality—listen to his story as he masterfully teases out details interwoven with suspense and visceral vulnerability. Try to find the common ground in his foreign landscape and see where you can identify with his experiences. Can you allow yourself? Are you afraid? Or is this comfortable for you? Then ask yourself why. The nature of the taboo is to provoke the intersections of arousal, fear, and discomfort. Here, you are given that opportunity and you may be surprised at what you discover. Find Marlon on (and check out his music):IG: @marlonchaplinofficialSupport Intellectual Erection at:patreon.com/intellectualerectionFind Intellectual Erection on:IG: @intellectual_erectionTwitter: @intellectual_EPFB: @intellectualerecti0n

On this episode I speak with Marlon Chaplin, the first-ever submissive cuckold on this show. This a unique episode from an often unheard voice because submissive men are rarely open about their experiences…at least publicly. Are you ready to get mindfu#%ed? This is important to hear, especially for men. Have you confronted your notions of masculinity? I challenge you to step into Malron’s mentality—listen to his story as he masterfully teases out details interwoven with suspense and visceral vulnerability. Try to find the common ground in his foreign landscape and see where you can identify with his experiences. Can you allow yourself? Are you afraid? Or is this comfortable for you? Then ask yourself why. The nature of the taboo is to provoke the intersections of arousal, fear, and discomfort. Here, you are given that opportunity and you may be surprised at what you discover. Find Marlon on (and check out his music): IG: @marlonchaplinofficial Support Intellectual Erection at: <a href="http://patreon.com/intellectualerection" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">patreon.com/intellectualerection</a> Find Intellectual Erection on: IG: @intellectual_erection Twitter: @intellectual_EP FB: @intellectualerecti0n

Marlon Chaplin Submits to Cuckoldry

On this episode I speak with self-proclaimed super freak and Alpha Princess, Geordie, who dives deep into his more than 15 years of experience engaging in and teaching a variety of BDSM practices. We discuss kink, kink etiquette, workshops, intimacy, learning, responsibility, and consent, as part of an ongoing sex-ed series on intellectual erection. Geordie starts us off with a dive into his childhood where this all began, with a sex-positive family, early exposure to kink, and first sexual experience involving kink, along with his getting involved into rope bondage right out of high school, to the full-fledged kinkster he’s become today. Now Geordie runs regular workshops at Oasis Aqualounge teaching the basics of Kink and BDSM, dos and don’ts, proper etiquette, and how-tos. Finally, we discuss the common mistakes people can make in BDSM, how to avoid them, how to engage in proper communication and practices, and the ethics of responsibility and consent.   Find Geordie at:geordie@evilinc.xyzSupport Intellectual Erection at:patreon.com/intellectualerection

On this episode I speak with self-proclaimed super freak and Alpha Princess, Geordie, who dives deep into his more than 15 years of experience engaging in and teaching a variety of BDSM practices. We discuss kink, kink etiquette, workshops, intimacy, learning, responsibility, and consent, as part of an ongoing sex-ed series on intellectual erection. Geordie starts us off with a dive into his childhood where this all began, with a sex-positive family, early exposure to kink, and first sexual experience involving kink, along with his getting involved into rope bondage right out of high school, to the full-fledged kinkster he’s become today. Now Geordie runs regular workshops at Oasis Aqualounge teaching the basics of Kink and BDSM, dos and don’ts, proper etiquette, and how-tos. Finally, we discuss the common mistakes people can make in BDSM, how to avoid them, how to engage in proper communication and practices, and the ethics of responsibility and consent. Find Geordie at: geordie@evilinc.xyz Support Intellectual Erection at: <a href="http://patreon.com/intellectualerection" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">patreon.com/intellectualerection</a>

Geordie the Alpha Princess Tops your Kink List

Fatima Mechtab

On this episode I speak with Oasis Aqualounge Co-Owner Fatima Mechtab about the sex club, the events she runs and markets there, and the porn she’s begun to produce out of the club. We get into the details about sex club events, the Projekt Panties (as seen on Instagram), and how the Oasis porn is different from mainstream pornography. Fatima takes us through some of the history of Oasis Aqualounge, the only water-based (I’d call it a spa) sex club in Toronto, and in fact, really the only sex club in downtown Toronto. Oasis will soon turn 10 years old, and Fatima has been with the club almost since its inception, first as a marketing director, and now also as co-owner. She has helped produce sexy events like mega parties, suits and nudes, masquerade, sapphic aquatica, swordplay, and money shot—featuring sex educators, workshops, demos, and live porn shoots. Fatima aims to create organic pornography with diverse bodies in semi-scripted situations, shot live in front of Oasis guests, and distributed in the club and on PornHub for free. Fact Checks: 6:57 – Licensing and Permits for Adult Entertainment Clubs in Toronto. 41:51 –Definition of Vaginismus. 52:34 – Avant-Garde Porn “I love you” by Brooke Candy.Support Intellectual Erection at:patreon.com/intellectualerection

On this episode I speak with Oasis Aqualounge Co-Owner Fatima Mechtab about the sex club, the events she runs and markets there, and the porn she’s begun to produce out of the club. We get into the details about sex club events, the Projekt Panties (as seen on Instagram), and how the Oasis porn is different from mainstream pornography. Fatima takes us through some of the history of Oasis Aqualounge, the only water-based (I’d call it a spa) sex club in Toronto, and in fact, really the only sex club in downtown Toronto. Oasis will soon turn 10 years old, and Fatima has been with the club almost since its inception, first as a marketing director, and now also as co-owner. She has helped produce sexy events like mega parties, suits and nudes, masquerade, sapphic aquatica, swordplay, and money shot—featuring sex educators, workshops, demos, and live porn shoots. Fatima aims to create organic pornography with diverse bodies in semi-scripted situations, shot live in front of Oasis guests, and distributed in the club and on PornHub for free. Fact Checks: 6:57 – Licensing and Permits for Adult Entertainment Clubs in Toronto. 41:51 –Definition of Vaginismus. 52:34 – Avant-Garde Porn “I love you” by Brooke Candy. Support Intellectual Erection at: <a href="http://patreon.com/intellectualerection" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">patreon.com/intellectualerection</a>

Fatima Mechtab: Oasis Co-Owner and Porn Producer

On this episode I speak with Megan, a human who rediscovered herself in the sex positive communities. She continues to explore uninhibited and with devious curiosity.After ending an engagement with a high school sweetheart Megan embarks on yes weekend into an all-out slutty whirlwind that reignites her joie de vivre. She’s not quite sure where or how she fits into the sex positive communities but she knows it’s where she belongs. Megan may be undecided about the labels but not about how sex positivity has brought her out of a toxic relationship and into a world filled with kink, sex, fun, love, and friendship. So just because, she’s gonna marry her best friend. Between all this, we talk about polyamory, love, making love, waterboarding, and nearly drowning three times. Find Megan on:IG: @meggwinSupport Intellectual Erection at:patreon.com/intellectualerectionFind Intellectual Erection on:IG: @intellectual_erectionTwitter: @intellectual_EPFB: @intellectualerecti0n

On this episode I speak with Megan, a human who rediscovered herself in the sex positive communities. She continues to explore uninhibited and with devious curiosity. After ending an engagement with a high school sweetheart Megan embarks on yes weekend into an all-out slutty whirlwind that reignites her joie de vivre. She’s not quite sure where or how she fits into the sex positive communities but she knows it’s where she belongs. Megan may be undecided about the labels but not about how sex positivity has brought her out of a toxic relationship and into a world filled with kink, sex, fun, love, and friendship. So just because, she’s gonna marry her best friend. Between all this, we talk about polyamory, love, making love, waterboarding, and nearly drowning three times. Find Megan on: IG: @meggwin Support Intellectual Erection at: <a href="http://patreon.com/intellectualerection" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">patreon.com/intellectualerection</a> Find Intellectual Erection on: IG: @intellectual_erection Twitter: @intellectual_EP FB: @intellectualerecti0n

Megan's Rediscovery through Sex Positivity

On this episode I speak with Niki Davis-Fainbloom, original Torontonian visiting us all the way from Brooklyn New York to school us on some much needed sex-ed and consent, and talk about her writing on erotica, fart kinks, Hasidic polyamorous Jews, and world records of squirting, as part of the ongoing sex-ed series on Intellectual Erection. Niki gently eases us into her personal life before going full-throttle on her sex-ed work with young students and adults, and the numerous stories she’s covered in her travels—from fart arousal, to a Hasidic polyamorous Jew swordfighter, to a poly commune with an on-site squirt expert. We then dive deep into the wet and wild world of squirting, from record-breaking squirts, to the mechanisms and FAQs, to the science of squirting. Finally, we discuss Niki’s writing at Bushwick Daily in New York, the White Unicorn, and Fuckbook, before touching on the topic of consent, which we cover in next week’s epsiode. Fact Checks: 32:53—Info on vaginal squirting (schoolofsquirt.com). 36:42—Study on penile squirting (Hara, R., Nagai, A., Nakatsuka, T., Ohira, S., Fujii, T., &amp; Miyaji, Y. (2018) Male squirting: Analysis of one	case using color Doppler ultrasonography. IJU Case Reports, 1(1), 19-21)Find Niki Davis-Fainbloom at:IG: @nikidavisfEmail: niki.davisf@gmail.com

On this episode I speak with Niki Davis-Fainbloom, original Torontonian visiting us all the way from Brooklyn New York to school us on some much needed sex-ed and consent, and talk about her writing on erotica, fart kinks, Hasidic polyamorous Jews, and world records of squirting, as part of the ongoing sex-ed series on Intellectual Erection. Niki gently eases us into her personal life before going full-throttle on her sex-ed work with young students and adults, and the numerous stories she’s covered in her travels—from fart arousal, to a Hasidic polyamorous Jew swordfighter, to a poly commune with an on-site squirt expert. We then dive deep into the wet and wild world of squirting, from record-breaking squirts, to the mechanisms and FAQs, to the science of squirting. Finally, we discuss Niki’s writing at Bushwick Daily in New York, the White Unicorn, and Fuckbook, before touching on the topic of consent, which we cover in next week’s epsiode. Fact Checks: 32:53—Info on vaginal squirting (<a href="http://schoolofsquirt.com" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">schoolofsquirt.com</a>). 36:42—Study on penile squirting (Hara, R., Nagai, A., Nakatsuka, T., Ohira, S., Fujii, T., &amp; Miyaji, Y. (2018) Male squirting: Analysis of one	case using color Doppler ultrasonography. IJU Case Reports, 1(1), 19-21) Find Niki Davis-Fainbloom at: IG: @nikidavisf Email: niki.davisf@gmail.com

Niki Davis-Fainbloom: Sex-Educator and Writer

On this episode you will hear a collection of anonymous sexy tales from the lived experiences of fellow sex positive humans.This episode features sexy, fun, and outrageous stories from listener submissions. It is volume 1 so far of an ongoing collection of tales that will be released weekly to help you feel connected during the corona pandemic. You will hear stories about magical moments, pervy house guests, birthday orgies, threesomes, ex-boyfriend kinks, first encounters, erotic tales of domination, and some comic relief. Stay safe and healthy during this pandemic with some arousing stories to make your isolation a little less alienating.  Non-anonymous tales from:IG: @sonicsensationsIG: @damsel_avamoenIG: @spiritsexlabSupport Intellectual Erection at:patreon.com/intellectualerectionFind Intellectual Erection on:IG: @intellectual_erectionTwitter: @intellectual_EPFB: @intellectualerecti0n

On this episode you will hear a collection of anonymous sexy tales from the lived experiences of fellow sex positive humans. This episode features sexy, fun, and outrageous stories from listener submissions. It is volume 1 so far of an ongoing collection of tales that will be released weekly to help you feel connected during the corona pandemic. You will hear stories about magical moments, pervy house guests, birthday orgies, threesomes, ex-boyfriend kinks, first encounters, erotic tales of domination, and some comic relief. Stay safe and healthy during this pandemic with some arousing stories to make your isolation a little less alienating. Non-anonymous tales from: IG: @sonicsensations IG: @damsel_avamoen IG: @spiritsexlab Support Intellectual Erection at: <a href="http://patreon.com/intellectualerection" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">patreon.com/intellectualerection</a> Find Intellectual Erection on: IG: @intellectual_erection Twitter: @intellectual_EP FB: @intellectualerecti0n

Sexy Tales in the Time of Covid-19 Vol. I

Steve Sandford

On this episode I speak to seasoned polyamorist Steve Sandford about some of the ideas featured in an article he wrote on polyamory hacks.Steve is a radically honest polyamorist and it runs in the family. He grew up around sex work, and sex positivity, and has been in the fetish scene in Toronto for a very long time. When his monogamous marriage ended nearly 15 years ago, he decided to embrace polyamory and has been at it ever since, slowly documenting his experiences over time and coming up with an ever-growing list of polyamory hacks. We cover a handful of them in this episode from deprograming possessiveness, to full disclosure versus don’t ask don’t tell policies, practicing brutal polyamory, developing a jealousy sponsor, to ghosting and stashing. We spend considerable time discussing jealousy and whether you’re polyam or not, you’ll find it useful. Shout outs in this episode:IG: @zoeybellexoxoIG: @madisonrexxFind Steve on:IG: @h4ngedm4nIG: @house.of.the.hangedIG: @faetefetish

On this episode I speak to seasoned polyamorist Steve Sandford about some of the ideas featured in an article he wrote on polyamory hacks. Steve is a radically honest polyamorist and it runs in the family. He grew up around sex work, and sex positivity, and has been in the fetish scene in Toronto for a very long time. When his monogamous marriage ended nearly 15 years ago, he decided to embrace polyamory and has been at it ever since, slowly documenting his experiences over time and coming up with an ever-growing list of polyamory hacks. We cover a handful of them in this episode from deprograming possessiveness, to full disclosure versus don’t ask don’t tell policies, practicing brutal polyamory, developing a jealousy sponsor, to ghosting and stashing. We spend considerable time discussing jealousy and whether you’re polyam or not, you’ll find it useful. Shout outs in this episode: IG: @zoeybellexoxo IG: @madisonrexx Find Steve on: IG: @h4ngedm4n IG: @house.of.the.hanged IG: @faetefetish

Steve Sandford's 21 Polyamory Hacks

On this episode I speak with Hailey and Chris, a couple who share their experiences of having come from very different backgrounds, ethnically, culturally, and geographically, and have endured different forms of adversity that have strengthened them and brought them together to share their joy of liberation and sex positivity. If you want to hear what strength over adversity sounds like, listen to Hailey’s story of overcoming cancer and thereafter using that experience to take charge of her body and identity and forge who she wanted to become. Listen to Chris’s story of growing up in a conservative-minded small town, being bullied and shamed to eventually leave for the big city and find a source of liberation and welcoming support in Hailey. Together Chris and Hailey found authenticity through each other, open mindedness, and loving support. They had differing experiences of adversity, but have both become strong, humbled, and loving humans as a result of their past, and now share a bond together that is open to navigating the sex positive communities.Support Intellectual Erection at:patreon.com/intellectualerection

On this episode I speak with Hailey and Chris, a couple who share their experiences of having come from very different backgrounds, ethnically, culturally, and geographically, and have endured different forms of adversity that have strengthened them and brought them together to share their joy of liberation and sex positivity. If you want to hear what strength over adversity sounds like, listen to Hailey’s story of overcoming cancer and thereafter using that experience to take charge of her body and identity and forge who she wanted to become. Listen to Chris’s story of growing up in a conservative-minded small town, being bullied and shamed to eventually leave for the big city and find a source of liberation and welcoming support in Hailey. Together Chris and Hailey found authenticity through each other, open mindedness, and loving support. They had differing experiences of adversity, but have both become strong, humbled, and loving humans as a result of their past, and now share a bond together that is open to navigating the sex positive communities. Support Intellectual Erection at: <a href="http://patreon.com/intellectualerection" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">patreon.com/intellectualerection</a>

Hailey and Chris on Overcoming Adversity

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