It's no secret that men in Western culture tend to struggle with emotional intimacy. It seems almost ingrained in our culture. Ryan stumbled on a comment from a Reddit post that seemed to offer an interesting perspective on why men find being emotionally intimate so difficult and how that impacts our romantic relationships before they've even started. We are talking about Why emotional intimacy struggles lead to the "nice guy" effect Why women seem to have an easier time being emotionally intimate with men without a romantic connection What can be done to help craft a better and safer culture for men to express their feelings and for men and women to establish better boundariesAbsurdity is available on all major podcasting platforms and at https://theabsurdity.orgPatreon: https://www.Patreon.com/AbsurdNetworkTwitter: https://Twitter.com/RealRyanBeckerIG: https://Instagram.com/RealRyanBecker

It's no secret that men in Western culture tend to struggle with emotional intimacy. It seems almost ingrained in our culture. Ryan stumbled on a comment from a Reddit post that seemed to offer an interesting perspective on why men find being emotionally intimate so difficult and how that impacts our romantic relationships before they've even started. We are talking about <ol><li>Why emotional intimacy struggles lead to the "nice guy" effect</li> <li>Why women seem to have an easier time being emotionally intimate with men without a romantic connection</li> <li>What can be done to help craft a better and safer culture for men to express their feelings and for men and women to establish better boundariesAbsurdity is available on all major podcasting platforms and at <a href="https://theabsurdity.org/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://theabsurdity.org</a>Patreon: <a href="https://www.patreon.com/AbsurdNetwork" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://www.Patreon.com/AbsurdNetwork</a>Twitter: <a href="https://twitter.com/RealRyanBecker" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://Twitter.com/RealRyanBecker</a>IG: <a href="https://instagram.com/RealRyanBecker" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://Instagram.com/RealRyanBecker</a></li></ol>

A177 Do Men Struggle with Emotional Intimacy?

In November, SDA Pastor Burnett Robinson stepped down after making egregious statements from his pulpit that went viral. There was an apology issued, but a couple of months later, Robinson showed up on a live stream in Jamaica for another SDA organization and defended his behavior, claimed he never apologized, and attacked those who publicized his statements.We believe in accountability, especially to our own denomination, so we are talking all about the Robinson situation, detailing what happened, and sharing resources and what you can do to help recognize abuse in your community and what you can do about it.More info: https://fb.watch/bwGADeO4PT/https://atoday.org/north-jamaica-conference-still-venerating-disgraced-ex-pastor-burnett-robinson-giving-him-a-platform/ Absurdity is available on all major podcasting platforms and at https://absurdpodcast.comPatreon: https://www.Patreon.com/AbsurdNetworkTwitter: https://Twitter.com/RealRyanBeckerIG: https://Instagram.com/RealRyanBecker

In November, SDA Pastor Burnett Robinson stepped down after making egregious statements from his pulpit that went viral. There was an apology issued, but a couple of months later, Robinson showed up on a live stream in Jamaica for another SDA organization and defended his behavior, claimed he never apologized, and attacked those who publicized his statements.We believe in accountability, especially to our own denomination, so we are talking all about the Robinson situation, detailing what happened, and sharing resources and what you can do to help recognize abuse in your community and what you can do about it.More info: <a href="https://fb.watch/bwGADeO4PT/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://fb.watch/bwGADeO4PT/</a><a href="https://atoday.org/north-jamaica-conference-still-venerating-disgraced-ex-pastor-burnett-robinson-giving-him-a-platform/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://atoday.org/north-jamaica-conference-still-venerating-disgraced-ex-pastor-burnett-robinson-giving-him-a-platform/</a> Absurdity is available on all major podcasting platforms and at <a href="https://absurdpodcast.com" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://absurdpodcast.com</a>Patreon: <a href="https://www.patreon.com/AbsurdNetwork" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://www.Patreon.com/AbsurdNetwork</a>Twitter: <a href="https://twitter.com/RealRyanBecker" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://Twitter.com/RealRyanBecker</a>IG: <a href="https://instagram.com/RealRyanBecker" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://Instagram.com/RealRyanBecker</a>

A176 Adventist Pastor Endorsed Spousal Rape?

In late 2021, Billie Eilish spoke about her experience with exposure to pornography and how it has affected her emotional health, sexual experiences, and more. As two Christians and one pastor, we figured why not talk about this?We discuss: Billie Eilish’s actual comments and our observations What her statements potentially mean for sex workers How Christians and pastors can have better conversations around pornography, sex, lust, and romance  More info: https://www.independent.co.uk/voices/billie-eilish-porn-sex-worker-b1976902.html Absurdity is available on all major podcasting platforms and at https://theabsurdity.orgPatreon: https://www.Patreon.com/AbsurdNetworkTwitter: https://Twitter.com/RealRyanBeckerIG: https://Instagram.com/RealRyanBecker

In late 2021, Billie Eilish spoke about her experience with exposure to pornography and how it has affected her emotional health, sexual experiences, and more. As two Christians and one pastor, we figured why not talk about this?We discuss: <ul><li>Billie Eilish’s actual comments and our observations</li> <li>What her statements potentially mean for sex workers</li> <li>How Christians and pastors can have better conversations around pornography, sex, lust, and romance</li> </ul> More info: <a href="https://www.independent.co.uk/voices/billie-eilish-porn-sex-worker-b1976902.html" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://www.independent.co.uk/voices/billie-eilish-porn-sex-worker-b1976902.html</a> Absurdity is available on all major podcasting platforms and at <a href="https://theabsurdity.org/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://theabsurdity.org</a>Patreon: <a href="https://www.patreon.com/AbsurdNetwork" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://www.Patreon.com/AbsurdNetwork</a>Twitter: <a href="https://twitter.com/RealRyanBecker" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://Twitter.com/RealRyanBecker</a>IG: <a href="https://instagram.com/RealRyanBecker" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://Instagram.com/RealRyanBecker</a>

A175 Billie Eilish Said Porn is Bad

The Oxford High School Shooting is a tragedy in its own category. Never before have we had such immediate insight into the behaviors of the parents in the time leading up to and after the incident occurred. Henry and Ryan discuss the importance of reporting, the atrocious behavior of Crumbley's parents, and the school's decision-making amidst the crisis. Absurdity is available on all major podcasting platforms and at https://theabsurdity.orgPatreon: https://www.Patreon.com/AbsurdNetworkTwitter: https://Twitter.com/RealRyanBeckerIG: https://Instagram.com/RealRyanBeckerEmail: Ryan@PodMentoring.comSupport our show by becoming a premium member! https://absurdpodcastnetwork.supportingcast.fm

The Oxford High School Shooting is a tragedy in its own category. Never before have we had such immediate insight into the behaviors of the parents in the time leading up to and after the incident occurred. Henry and Ryan discuss the importance of reporting, the atrocious behavior of Crumbley's parents, and the school's decision-making amidst the crisis. Absurdity is available on all major podcasting platforms and at <a href="https://theabsurdity.org" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://theabsurdity.org</a> Patreon: <a href="https://www.Patreon.com/AbsurdNetwork" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://www.Patreon.com/AbsurdNetwork</a> Twitter: <a href="https://Twitter.com/RealRyanBecker" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://Twitter.com/RealRyanBecker</a> IG: <a href="https://Instagram.com/RealRyanBecker" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://Instagram.com/RealRyanBecker</a> Email: Ryan@PodMentoring.com Support our show by becoming a premium member! <a href="https://absurdpodcastnetwork.supportingcast.fm" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://absurdpodcastnetwork.supportingcast.fm</a>

A174 Ethan Crumbley's Parents are WILD

Josh Duggar

We thought we'd do an update on the Josh Duggar case, though we didn't know the conviction would come so quickly. Josh Duggar has officially been convicted, but we believe this discussion is still highly relevant and important. We hope you do too! Absurdity is available on all major podcasting platforms and at https://theabsurdity.orgPatreon: https://www.Patreon.com/AbsurdNetworkTwitter: https://Twitter.com/RealRyanBeckerIG: https://Instagram.com/RealRyanBeckerEmail: Ryan@PodMentoring.comSupport our show by becoming a premium member! https://absurdpodcastnetwork.supportingcast.fm

We thought we'd do an update on the Josh Duggar case, though we didn't know the conviction would come so quickly. Josh Duggar has officially been convicted, but we believe this discussion is still highly relevant and important. We hope you do too! Absurdity is available on all major podcasting platforms and at <a href="https://theabsurdity.org" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://theabsurdity.org</a> Patreon: <a href="https://www.Patreon.com/AbsurdNetwork" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://www.Patreon.com/AbsurdNetwork</a> Twitter: <a href="https://Twitter.com/RealRyanBecker" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://Twitter.com/RealRyanBecker</a> IG: <a href="https://Instagram.com/RealRyanBecker" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://Instagram.com/RealRyanBecker</a> Email: Ryan@PodMentoring.com Support our show by becoming a premium member! <a href="https://absurdpodcastnetwork.supportingcast.fm" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://absurdpodcastnetwork.supportingcast.fm</a>

A173 The Josh Duggar Case is Absurd UPDATE

Henry and Ryan jump into where they've been the last few months and share some really MAJOR updates about their lives! October and November were crazy, but that's just 2021 for you! Absurdity is available on all major podcasting platforms and at https://theabsurdity.orgPatreon: https://www.Patreon.com/AbsurdNetworkTwitter: https://Twitter.com/RealRyanBeckerIG: https://Instagram.com/RealRyanBeckerEmail: Ryan@PodMentoring.comSupport our show by becoming a premium member! https://absurdpodcastnetwork.supportingcast.fm

Henry and Ryan jump into where they've been the last few months and share some really MAJOR updates about their lives! October and November were crazy, but that's just 2021 for you! Absurdity is available on all major podcasting platforms and at <a href="https://theabsurdity.org" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://theabsurdity.org</a> Patreon: <a href="https://www.Patreon.com/AbsurdNetwork" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://www.Patreon.com/AbsurdNetwork</a> Twitter: <a href="https://Twitter.com/RealRyanBecker" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://Twitter.com/RealRyanBecker</a> IG: <a href="https://Instagram.com/RealRyanBecker" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://Instagram.com/RealRyanBecker</a> Email: Ryan@PodMentoring.com Support our show by becoming a premium member! <a href="https://absurdpodcastnetwork.supportingcast.fm" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://absurdpodcastnetwork.supportingcast.fm</a>

A172 Marriage and Falling from the Sky!

With the IATSE and the AMPTP in a standoff, the IA has officially put a potential strike on the table if talks don’t go more in their favor. This isn’t like the ‘07 writer’s strike; if these crews walk out, then productions halt immediately. Let’s talk about it.  More info: https://www.cnbc.com/2021/10/04/iatse-strike-hollywood-union-workers-approve-measure-to-call-a-strike.htmlHenry’s imdb page: https://www.imdb.com/name/nm10977752/?ref_=ttfc_fc_cr224The 24th Movie: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt10452854/?ref_=nm_flmg_msc_1Want to take your podcast to the next level? https://PodMentoring.com/ServicesAbsurdity is available on all major podcasting platforms and at https://theabsurdity.orgPatreon: https://www.Patreon.com/AbsurdNetworkTwitter: https://Twitter.com/RealRyanBeckerIG: https://Instagram.com/RealRyanBeckerEmail: Ryan@PodMentoring.comAbsurdity is a proud member of the Absurd Podcast Network: https://www.AbsurdNetwork.comSupport our show by becoming a premium member! https://absurdpodcastnetwork.supportingcast.fm

With the IATSE and the AMPTP in a standoff, the IA has officially put a potential strike on the table if talks don’t go more in their favor. This isn’t like the ‘07 writer’s strike; if these crews walk out, then productions halt immediately. Let’s talk about it.  More info: <a href="https://www.cnbc.com/2021/10/04/iatse-strike-hollywood-union-workers-approve-measure-to-call-a-strike.html" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://www.cnbc.com/2021/10/04/iatse-strike-hollywood-union-workers-approve-measure-to-call-a-strike.html</a> Henry’s imdb page: <a href="https://www.imdb.com/name/nm10977752/?ref_=ttfc_fc_cr224" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://www.imdb.com/name/nm10977752/?ref_=ttfc_fc_cr224</a> The 24th Movie: <a href="https://www.imdb.com/title/tt10452854/?ref_=nm_flmg_msc_1" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://www.imdb.com/title/tt10452854/?ref_=nm_flmg_msc_1</a> Want to take your podcast to the next level? <a href="https://PodMentoring.com/Services" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://PodMentoring.com/Services</a> Absurdity is available on all major podcasting platforms and at <a href="https://theabsurdity.org" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://theabsurdity.org</a> Patreon: <a href="https://www.Patreon.com/AbsurdNetwork" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://www.Patreon.com/AbsurdNetwork</a> Twitter: <a href="https://Twitter.com/RealRyanBecker" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://Twitter.com/RealRyanBecker</a> IG: <a href="https://Instagram.com/RealRyanBecker" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://Instagram.com/RealRyanBecker</a> Email: Ryan@PodMentoring.com Absurdity is a proud member of the Absurd Podcast Network: <a href="https://www.AbsurdNetwork.com" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://www.AbsurdNetwork.com</a> Support our show by becoming a premium member! <a href="https://absurdpodcastnetwork.supportingcast.fm" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://absurdpodcastnetwork.supportingcast.fm</a>

A171 Hollywood Crews are Underpaid and Overworked

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A170 Texas Abortion Bill Made Everyone Bounty Hunters

Seth Pierce

Good quality conversations are seemingly fewer and far between. Especially when it comes to tough or controversial topics. Seth J. Pierce, a university professor at Union College, joins Ryan to talk about his new book, Seeking an Understanding: How To Have Difficult Conversations Without Destroying Your Relationships. You can get Seth’s book here! https://amzn.to/2WAg2rPWant to take your podcast to the next level? https://PodMentoring.com/ServicesAbsurdity is available on all major podcasting platforms and at https://theabsurdity.orgPatreon: https://www.Patreon.com/AbsurdNetworkTwitter: https://Twitter.com/RealRyanBeckerIG: https://Instagram.com/RealRyanBeckerEmail: Ryan@PodMentoring.comAbsurdity is a proud member of the Absurd Podcast Network: https://www.AbsurdNetwork.comSupport our show by becoming a premium member! https://absurdpodcastnetwork.supportingcast.fm

Good quality conversations are seemingly fewer and far between. Especially when it comes to tough or controversial topics. Seth J. Pierce, a university professor at Union College, joins Ryan to talk about his new book, Seeking an Understanding: How To Have Difficult Conversations Without Destroying Your Relationships. You can get Seth’s book here! <a href="https://amzn.to/2WAg2rP" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://amzn.to/2WAg2rP</a> Want to take your podcast to the next level? <a href="https://PodMentoring.com/Services" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://PodMentoring.com/Services</a> Absurdity is available on all major podcasting platforms and at <a href="https://theabsurdity.org" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://theabsurdity.org</a> Patreon: <a href="https://www.Patreon.com/AbsurdNetwork" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://www.Patreon.com/AbsurdNetwork</a> Twitter: <a href="https://Twitter.com/RealRyanBecker" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://Twitter.com/RealRyanBecker</a> IG: <a href="https://Instagram.com/RealRyanBecker" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://Instagram.com/RealRyanBecker</a> Email: Ryan@PodMentoring.com Absurdity is a proud member of the Absurd Podcast Network: <a href="https://www.AbsurdNetwork.com" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://www.AbsurdNetwork.com</a> Support our show by becoming a premium member! <a href="https://absurdpodcastnetwork.supportingcast.fm" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://absurdpodcastnetwork.supportingcast.fm</a>

A169 Having Better Conversations with Seth Pierce

We are diving headlong into the vaccine conversation, sharing our frustrations and experiences with the antivax movement, the impact that’s had on us individually, and what we believe can and should be done moving forward.Want to take your podcast to the next level? https://PodMentoring.com/ServicesAbsurdity is available on all major podcasting platforms and at https://theabsurdity.orgPatreon: https://www.Patreon.com/AbsurdNetworkTwitter: https://Twitter.com/RealRyanBeckerIG: https://Instagram.com/RealRyanBeckerEmail: Ryan@PodMentoring.comAbsurdity is a proud member of the Absurd Podcast Network: https://www.AbsurdNetwork.comSupport our show by becoming a premium member! https://absurdpodcastnetwork.supportingcast.fm

We are diving headlong into the vaccine conversation, sharing our frustrations and experiences with the antivax movement, the impact that’s had on us individually, and what we believe can and should be done moving forward. Want to take your podcast to the next level? <a href="https://PodMentoring.com/Services" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://PodMentoring.com/Services</a> Absurdity is available on all major podcasting platforms and at <a href="https://theabsurdity.org" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://theabsurdity.org</a> Patreon: <a href="https://www.Patreon.com/AbsurdNetwork" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://www.Patreon.com/AbsurdNetwork</a> Twitter: <a href="https://Twitter.com/RealRyanBecker" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://Twitter.com/RealRyanBecker</a> IG: <a href="https://Instagram.com/RealRyanBecker" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://Instagram.com/RealRyanBecker</a> Email: Ryan@PodMentoring.com Absurdity is a proud member of the Absurd Podcast Network: <a href="https://www.AbsurdNetwork.com" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://www.AbsurdNetwork.com</a> Support our show by becoming a premium member! <a href="https://absurdpodcastnetwork.supportingcast.fm" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://absurdpodcastnetwork.supportingcast.fm</a>

A168 Antivax Frustration

Exploring the absurd in faith, culture, and society, seeking to navigate what it means to be a Christian.Support our show by becoming a premium member! https://absurdpodcastnetwork.supportingcast.fm

Ryan and Tony bring a fresh perspective on heavy topics. It’s refreshing to have people near my age, in my religion, voicing their opinions in the balanced way they do.

Great podcast

Love these podcasts. Real people, real issues.

Love it!

Exploring the absurd in faith, culture, and society, seeking to navigate what it means to be a Christian. Support our show by becoming a premium member! <a href="https://absurdpodcastnetwork.supportingcast.fm" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://absurdpodcastnetwork.supportingcast.fm</a>

Absurdity with Ryan Becker

Justin Janetzko

Happy New Year! We are back with new episodes, a brand new look, a new intro, a new podcast host in Blubrry, and new equipment!This week we have Justin Janetzko on the cast to talk about screen-time technology like phones, tablets, computers, and TVs, and the dangers of not stewarding technology well. This conversation challenged me personally and as a result, I've made some changes to my life that have resulted in a lot of positives. I hope the same is able to happen for you.Huge thanks to Justin Janetzko as well for our custom intro music! I am pumped to have our own unique sound.Also, be sure to subscribe on iTunes and make sure you check your subscription. We had a duplicate listing of the podcast up for a while and that was recently fixed, so you may find you are no longer subscribed because you accidentally subscribed to the duplicate.Finally, Absurdity is now on Patreon! www.patreon.com/absurditypodcast If you enjoy what I do here and want to give back, every dollar helps! Patrons will get episodes a week in advance. There will be more perks coming soon, but for now, I appreciate your kindness and generosity and every dollar goes back into helping me make this podcast a persistent reality.Support our show by becoming a premium member! https://absurdpodcastnetwork.supportingcast.fm

Happy New Year! We are back with new episodes, a brand new look, a new intro, a new podcast host in Blubrry, and new equipment! This week we have Justin Janetzko on the cast to talk about screen-time technology like phones, tablets, computers, and TVs, and the dangers of not stewarding technology well. This conversation challenged me personally and as a result, I've made some changes to my life that have resulted in a lot of positives. I hope the same is able to happen for you. Huge thanks to Justin Janetzko as well for our custom intro music! I am pumped to have our own unique sound. Also, be sure to subscribe on iTunes and make sure you check your subscription. We had a duplicate listing of the podcast up for a while and that was recently fixed, so you may find you are no longer subscribed because you accidentally subscribed to the duplicate. Finally, Absurdity is now on Patreon! <a href="www.patreon.com/absurditypodcast" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.patreon.com/absurditypodcast</a> If you enjoy what I do here and want to give back, every dollar helps! Patrons will get episodes a week in advance. There will be more perks coming soon, but for now, I appreciate your kindness and generosity and every dollar goes back into helping me make this podcast a persistent reality. Support our show by becoming a premium member! <a href="https://absurdpodcastnetwork.supportingcast.fm" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://absurdpodcastnetwork.supportingcast.fm</a>

A16 Happy New Year! Stewarding Technology with Justin Janetzko

Nicole Hwang

Nicole is a second-year med student currently attending school in California. Born and raised in a very conservative home and church, she never expected to be who she is today. Now, she embraces herself and all that has come with it. Nicole and Ryan explore her journey of accepting herself, reconciling her faith with her identity, and why she remains a dedicated Christian despite the obstacles in her path.Disclaimer: Opinions expressed on this episode do not represent any other organizations. This is a conversation meant to gain understanding and learn from one another's perspectives.Resources:God and the Gay Christian - Matthew VinesThe Invention of Sodomy in Christian TheologyBible, Gender, and Sexuality - James BrownsonCheck out our sponsors for this episode: www.thehaystack.org; www.awakennc.comTo support financially: www.theabsurdity.org/donateMusic and editing by Kendall Foote. To contact him about your own production, you can email him at kfoote1221@gmail.comTwitter: @ryan180becker, @tony_anobileEmail: ryan180becker@gmail.comFacebook: facebook.com/Absurditypodcast www.theabsurdity.orgSupport our show by becoming a premium member! https://absurdpodcastnetwork.supportingcast.fm

Nicole is a second-year med student currently attending school in California. Born and raised in a very conservative home and church, she never expected to be who she is today. Now, she embraces herself and all that has come with it. Nicole and Ryan explore her journey of accepting herself, reconciling her faith with her identity, and why she remains a dedicated Christian despite the obstacles in her path. Disclaimer: Opinions expressed on this episode do not represent any other organizations. This is a conversation meant to gain understanding and learn from one another's perspectives. Resources: God and the Gay Christian - Matthew Vines The Invention of Sodomy in Christian Theology Bible, Gender, and Sexuality - James Brownson Check out our sponsors for this episode: <a href="www.thehaystack.org" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.thehaystack.org</a>; <a href="www.awakennc.com" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.awakennc.com</a> To support financially: <a href="www.theabsurdity.org/donate" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.theabsurdity.org/donate</a> Music and editing by Kendall Foote. To contact him about your own production, you can email him at kfoote1221@gmail.com Twitter: @ryan180becker, @tony_anobile Email: ryan180becker@gmail.com Facebook: <a href="facebook.com/Absurditypodcast" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">facebook.com/Absurditypodcast</a> <a href="www.theabsurdity.org" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.theabsurdity.org</a> Support our show by becoming a premium member! <a href="https://absurdpodcastnetwork.supportingcast.fm" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://absurdpodcastnetwork.supportingcast.fm</a>

A117 LGBTQ+ People in the Church with Nicole Hwang

Henry Johnson

Henry Johnson joins me to talk about the line between secular and sacred! We talk the history of the terms, what they mean, and how they have impacted our church today. We also talk culture and how religion and society in general interact with culture.  Music by Justin JanetzkoTwitter: @ryan180becker, @tony_anobileFacebook: facebook.com/Absurditypodcast/Website: www.theabsurdity.orgPatreon: patreon.com/absurditypodcastSupport our show by becoming a premium member! https://absurdpodcastnetwork.supportingcast.fm

Henry Johnson joins me to talk about the line between secular and sacred! We talk the history of the terms, what they mean, and how they have impacted our church today. We also talk culture and how religion and society in general interact with culture.   Music by Justin Janetzko Twitter: @ryan180becker, @tony_anobile Facebook: <a href="facebook.com/Absurditypodcast/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">facebook.com/Absurditypodcast/</a> Website: <a href="www.theabsurdity.org" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.theabsurdity.org</a> Patreon: <a href="patreon.com/absurditypodcast" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">patreon.com/absurditypodcast</a> Support our show by becoming a premium member! <a href="https://absurdpodcastnetwork.supportingcast.fm" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://absurdpodcastnetwork.supportingcast.fm</a>

A40 Secular Vs. Sacred Smackdown with Henry Johnson

This week Davis Absolute is on the podcast talking about his experience as an artist who also exists in the Christian subculture. I was really grateful for him taking the time out of work (occasionally you can hear a door close behind him because of it). I hope you'll enjoy what we talk about! We also talk about his new album, EDEN, which is available on Spotify, iTunes, and more! Go check it out!Thanks to Justin Janetzko for our Intro Music!Go check out our Patreon!Absurdity website: www.theabsurdity.orgEmail: ryan180becker@gmail.comTwitter: @ryan180beckerSupport our show by becoming a premium member! https://absurdpodcastnetwork.supportingcast.fm

This week Davis Absolute is on the podcast talking about his experience as an artist who also exists in the Christian subculture. I was really grateful for him taking the time out of work (occasionally you can hear a door close behind him because of it). I hope you'll enjoy what we talk about! We also talk about his new album, EDEN, which is available on Spotify, iTunes, and more! Go check it out! Thanks to Justin Janetzko for our Intro Music! Go check out our Patreon! Absurdity website: <a href="www.theabsurdity.org" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.theabsurdity.org</a> Email: ryan180becker@gmail.com Twitter: @ryan180becker Support our show by becoming a premium member! <a href="https://absurdpodcastnetwork.supportingcast.fm" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://absurdpodcastnetwork.supportingcast.fm</a>

A20 Music, Labels, and Christianity with Davis Absolute

Tony and I are back with part 2 of our series on 2018 Fall Annual Council. This is an Adventist-focused episode, so sorry to my listeners from other faith traditions! If you haven't been following what's happening at Annual Council, go back and listen to Part 1 before you hear this episode! This week is our reaction to the 184-125 vote that took place on October 14 and our opinions about moving forward. I have included all links from the past episode for reference!Survey ResultsCompliance Committee System and MembersCommittee Actions Document Compliance Committee terms of reference Compliance Committees Activated EarlyCheck out our sponsors for this episode: www.thehaystack.org Music by Justin JanetzkoTwitter: @ryan180becker, @tony_anobileFacebook: facebook.com/Absurditypodcast/Website: www.theabsurdity.orgPatreon: patreon.com/absurditypodcastSupport our show by becoming a premium member! https://absurdpodcastnetwork.supportingcast.fm

Tony and I are back with part 2 of our series on 2018 Fall Annual Council. This is an Adventist-focused episode, so sorry to my listeners from other faith traditions! If you haven't been following what's happening at Annual Council, go back and listen to Part 1 before you hear this episode! This week is our reaction to the 184-125 vote that took place on October 14 and our opinions about moving forward. I have included all links from the past episode for reference! Survey Results Compliance Committee System and Members Committee Actions Document  Compliance Committee terms of reference  Compliance Committees Activated Early Check out our sponsors for this episode:  <a href="http://www.thehaystack.org" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.thehaystack.org</a> Music by Justin Janetzko Twitter: @ryan180becker, @tony_anobile Facebook: <a href="facebook.com/Absurditypodcast/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">facebook.com/Absurditypodcast/</a> Website: <a href="www.theabsurdity.org" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.theabsurdity.org</a> Patreon: <a href="patreon.com/absurditypodcast" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">patreon.com/absurditypodcast</a> Support our show by becoming a premium member! <a href="https://absurdpodcastnetwork.supportingcast.fm" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://absurdpodcastnetwork.supportingcast.fm</a>

A58 Annual Council, Compliance, and Unity Part 2 Reaction

Sarah McDugal

The Wakonda Recordings continue! Sarah McDugal, an abuse survivor herself, shares the stories of abuse victims she has spoken with, we talk about the myths around forgiveness and reconciliation in regards to abuse, and we address the oft-cited "Matthew 18 Method" on confrontation. This episode is one of our heaviest, but this is the current reality we face, and it's about time that changes. The Sociopath Next Door by Martha StoutIf you or a loved one needs to report a case of sexual abuse, visit: https://www.bucketbrigadeagainstabuse.com/ https://www.facebook.com/bucketbrigadeagainstabuse/ If you would like more resources, visit:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCEuJvEGZfvMVCT5nbdVNXYgSarah McDugal's YoutubeAnd if you or someone you know would benefit from counseling, visit: http://www.abidecounseling.us/To contact Jennifer on Twitter: @sarahmcdugalSupport our show by becoming a premium member! https://absurdpodcastnetwork.supportingcast.fm

The Wakonda Recordings continue! Sarah McDugal, an abuse survivor herself, shares the stories of abuse victims she has spoken with, we talk about the myths around forgiveness and reconciliation in regards to abuse, and we address the oft-cited "Matthew 18 Method" on confrontation. This episode is one of our heaviest, but this is the current reality we face, and it's about time that changes. The Sociopath Next Door by Martha Stout If you or a loved one needs to report a case of sexual abuse, visit: <a href="https://www.bucketbrigadeagainstabuse.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://www.bucketbrigadeagainstabuse.com/</a> <a href="https://www.facebook.com/bucketbrigadeagainstabuse/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://www.facebook.com/bucketbrigadeagainstabuse/</a> If you would like more resources, visit: <a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCEuJvEGZfvMVCT5nbdVNXYg" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCEuJvEGZfvMVCT5nbdVNXYg</a> Sarah McDugal's Youtube And if you or someone you know would benefit from counseling, visit: <a href="http://www.abidecounseling.us/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">http://www.abidecounseling.us/</a> To contact Jennifer on Twitter: @sarahmcdugal Support our show by becoming a premium member! <a href="https://absurdpodcastnetwork.supportingcast.fm" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://absurdpodcastnetwork.supportingcast.fm</a>

A94 Abuse Mentality with Sarah McDugal

Kevin Christenson

Kevin Christenson joins us today to talk about the history of his and Ryan's new project: The Scratch! The Scratch is a weekly SDA news agregator that is designed to condense macro-level SDA news down into one single article that will only take a few minutes to read each week. Then we talk about Kevin' experience as an actor and producer in the entertainment industry and the state of creativity in the Church.Check out The Scratch here!Check out our sponsors for this episode: www.thehaystack.org, Walla Walla University's Master of Arts in Cinema, Religion, and WorldviewMusic by Justin JanetzkoTwitter: @ryan180becker, @tony_anobileEmail: ryan180becker@gmail.comFacebook: facebook.com/AbsurditypodcastWebsite: www.theabsurdity.orgPatreon: www.patreon.com/absurditypodcastSupport our show by becoming a premium member! https://absurdpodcastnetwork.supportingcast.fm

Kevin Christenson joins us today to talk about the history of his and Ryan's new project: The Scratch! The Scratch is a weekly SDA news agregator that is designed to condense macro-level SDA news down into one single article that will only take a few minutes to read each week. Then we talk about Kevin' experience as an actor and producer in the entertainment industry and the state of creativity in the Church. Check out The Scratch here! Check out our sponsors for this episode: <a href="www.thehaystack.org" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.thehaystack.org</a>, Walla Walla University's Master of Arts in Cinema, Religion, and Worldview Music by Justin Janetzko Twitter: @ryan180becker, @tony_anobile Email: ryan180becker@gmail.com Facebook: <a href="facebook.com/Absurditypodcast" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">facebook.com/Absurditypodcast</a> Website: <a href="www.theabsurdity.org" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.theabsurdity.org</a> Patreon: <a href="www.patreon.com/absurditypodcast" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.patreon.com/absurditypodcast</a> Support our show by becoming a premium member! <a href="https://absurdpodcastnetwork.supportingcast.fm" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://absurdpodcastnetwork.supportingcast.fm</a>

A87 The Scratch, Faith, and Creativity with Kevin Christenson

Happy New Year! This episode we bring some cool Patreon announcements for 2019, and Tony and I discuss what the current church atmosphere is for pastors who go through a crisis of faith and have to ask difficult questions. As people in ministry, this is something that has impacted us personally and we have seen friends and colleagues deal with it as well. We hope this gives you a peek behind the curtain, so to speak, at what it means to be in ministry. Here is the short VICE Documentary that inspired this episode.Check out our sponsors for this episode: www.thehaystack.org Music by Justin JanetzkoTwitter: @ryan180becker, @tony_anobileEmail: ryan180becker@gmail.comFacebook: facebook.com/Absurditypodcast/Website: www.theabsurdity.orgPatreon: www.patreon.com/absurditypodcastSupport our show by becoming a premium member! https://absurdpodcastnetwork.supportingcast.fm

Happy New Year! This episode we bring some cool Patreon announcements for 2019, and Tony and I discuss what the current church atmosphere is for pastors who go through a crisis of faith and have to ask difficult questions. As people in ministry, this is something that has impacted us personally and we have seen friends and colleagues deal with it as well. We hope this gives you a peek behind the curtain, so to speak, at what it means to be in ministry. Here is the short VICE Documentary that inspired this episode. Check out our sponsors for this episode:  <a href="http://www.thehaystack.org" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.thehaystack.org</a> Music by Justin Janetzko Twitter: @ryan180becker, @tony_anobile Email: ryan180becker@gmail.com Facebook: <a href="facebook.com/Absurditypodcast/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">facebook.com/Absurditypodcast/</a> Website: <a href="www.theabsurdity.org" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.theabsurdity.org</a> Patreon: <a href="www.patreon.com/absurditypodcast" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.patreon.com/absurditypodcast</a> Support our show by becoming a premium member! <a href="https://absurdpodcastnetwork.supportingcast.fm" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://absurdpodcastnetwork.supportingcast.fm</a>

A69 Can Pastors Question Their Faith?

For our last episode of 2019, Ryan and Tony dive into the wonderful mess that is the overlap of politics and religion! Recently, ChristianityToday has started a bit of a controversy with it's stance on President Trump's impeachment and how he has harmed the reputation of Christianity. So, where do Christians speak up and where does Absurdity find itself in all of this?To submit a podcast idea for the Absurd Podcast Network, click here.Links in order of mention:https://www.christianitytoday.com/ct/2019/december-web-only/trump-should-be-removed-from-office.html https://www.christianpost.com/news/nearly-200-evangelical-leaders-slam-christianity-today-for-questioning-their-christian-witness.html https://www.christianitytoday.com/ct/2019/december-web-only/trump-evangelicals-editorial-christianity-today-president.html Check out our sponsors for this episode: www.thehaystack.org; www.awakennc.com To support financially: www.theabsurdity.org/donateMusic and editing by Kendall Foote. To contact him about your own production, you can email him at kfoote1221@gmail.comTwitter: @ryan180becker, @tony_anobileEmail: ryan180becker@gmail.comFacebook: facebook.com/Absurditypodcast www.theabsurdity.orgSupport our show by becoming a premium member! https://absurdpodcastnetwork.supportingcast.fm

For our last episode of 2019, Ryan and Tony dive into the wonderful mess that is the overlap of politics and religion! Recently, ChristianityToday has started a bit of a controversy with it's stance on President Trump's impeachment and how he has harmed the reputation of Christianity. So, where do Christians speak up and where does Absurdity find itself in all of this? To submit a podcast idea for the Absurd Podcast Network, click here. Links in order of mention: <a href="https://www.christianitytoday.com/ct/2019/december-web-only/trump-should-be-removed-from-office.html" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://www.christianitytoday.com/ct/2019/december-web-only/trump-should-be-removed-from-office.html</a> <a href="https://www.christianpost.com/news/nearly-200-evangelical-leaders-slam-christianity-today-for-questioning-their-christian-witness.html" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://www.christianpost.com/news/nearly-200-evangelical-leaders-slam-christianity-today-for-questioning-their-christian-witness.html</a> <a href="https://www.christianitytoday.com/ct/2019/december-web-only/trump-evangelicals-editorial-christianity-today-president.html" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://www.christianitytoday.com/ct/2019/december-web-only/trump-evangelicals-editorial-christianity-today-president.html</a> Check out our sponsors for this episode: <a href="www.thehaystack.org" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.thehaystack.org</a>; <a href="www.awakennc.com" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.awakennc.com</a>  To support financially: <a href="www.theabsurdity.org/donate" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.theabsurdity.org/donate</a> Music and editing by Kendall Foote. To contact him about your own production, you can email him at kfoote1221@gmail.com Twitter: @ryan180becker, @tony_anobile Email: ryan180becker@gmail.com Facebook: <a href="facebook.com/Absurditypodcast" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">facebook.com/Absurditypodcast</a> <a href="www.theabsurdity.org" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.theabsurdity.org</a> Support our show by becoming a premium member! <a href="https://absurdpodcastnetwork.supportingcast.fm" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://absurdpodcastnetwork.supportingcast.fm</a>

A120 A Clash of Politics and Religion

We made it through 2018! Thank you for your support this year! For our final episode, Henry Johnson joins us once again to talk about the biblical and historical treatment of music in Christianity. Perhaps we have approached the "Worship War" all wrong this whole time. Check out our sponsors for this episode: www.thehaystack.org Music by Justin JanetzkoTwitter: @ryan180becker, @tony_anobileEmail: ryan180becker@gmail.comFacebook: facebook.com/Absurditypodcast/Website: www.theabsurdity.orgPatreon: www.patreon.com/absurditypodcastSupport our show by becoming a premium member! https://absurdpodcastnetwork.supportingcast.fm

We made it through 2018! Thank you for your support this year! For our final episode, Henry Johnson joins us once again to talk about the biblical and historical treatment of music in Christianity. Perhaps we have approached the "Worship War" all wrong this whole time.  Check out our sponsors for this episode:  <a href="http://www.thehaystack.org" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.thehaystack.org</a> Music by Justin Janetzko Twitter: @ryan180becker, @tony_anobile Email: ryan180becker@gmail.com Facebook: <a href="facebook.com/Absurditypodcast/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">facebook.com/Absurditypodcast/</a> Website: <a href="www.theabsurdity.org" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.theabsurdity.org</a> Patreon: <a href="www.patreon.com/absurditypodcast" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.patreon.com/absurditypodcast</a> Support our show by becoming a premium member! <a href="https://absurdpodcastnetwork.supportingcast.fm" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://absurdpodcastnetwork.supportingcast.fm</a>

A68 The Music Conversation You Never Heard with Henry Johnson

This week we dive into Josh Harris and Marty Sampson announcing their departure from Christianity as well as John Cooper's (Skillet) response. We dive into the specific claims and arguments made, their validity, and how we personally feel in the whole matter. https://www.gofundme.com/f/orlando039s-reconstruction-fundhttps://www.gofundme.com/f/felipe039s-reconstruction-budgetCheck out our sponsors for this episode: www.thehaystack.orgMusic by Justin JanetzkoTwitter: @ryan180becker, @tony_anobileEmail: ryan180becker@gmail.comFacebook: facebook.com/AbsurditypodcastWebsite: www.theabsurdity.orgTo support financially: www.theabsurdity.org/donateSupport our show by becoming a premium member! https://absurdpodcastnetwork.supportingcast.fm

This week we dive into Josh Harris and Marty Sampson announcing their departure from Christianity as well as John Cooper's (Skillet) response. We dive into the specific claims and arguments made, their validity, and how we personally feel in the whole matter.  <a href="https://www.gofundme.com/f/orlando039s-reconstruction-fund" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://www.gofundme.com/f/orlando039s-reconstruction-fund</a><a href="https://www.gofundme.com/f/felipe039s-reconstruction-budget" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://www.gofundme.com/f/felipe039s-reconstruction-budget</a> Check out our sponsors for this episode: <a href="www.thehaystack.org" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.thehaystack.org</a> Music by Justin Janetzko Twitter: @ryan180becker, @tony_anobile Email: ryan180becker@gmail.com Facebook: <a href="facebook.com/Absurditypodcast" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">facebook.com/Absurditypodcast</a> Website: <a href="www.theabsurdity.org" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.theabsurdity.org</a> To support financially: <a href="www.theabsurdity.org/donate" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.theabsurdity.org/donate</a> Support our show by becoming a premium member! <a href="https://absurdpodcastnetwork.supportingcast.fm" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://absurdpodcastnetwork.supportingcast.fm</a>

A102 When Leaders Leave Faith

We jump into the recent viral news regarding the internal culture at RELEVANT Magazine and the toxic behavior and racist attitudes that have existed within it that were perpetuated by the founder and CEO, Cameron Strang. We discuss Former editors' Andre Henry and Rebecca Marie Jo's articles exposing the culture, the backlash that resulted, and how this entire situation impacts Absurdity. We get incredibly personal with you and we explore what RELEVANT's situation means for us going forward.We are also donating 25% of all proceeds given to Absurdity through October 31 to the National Alliance to End Sexual Violence. endsexualviolence.org and the Info Brochure.Episode Links:Andre Henry's Article Rebecca Marie Jo's Article Cameron Strang's Response Relevant's Response Check out our sponsors for this episode: www.thehaystack.org To support financially: www.theabsurdity.org/donateMusic and editing by Kendall Foote. To contact him about your own production, you can email him at kfoote1221@gmail.comTwitter: @ryan180becker, @tony_anobileEmail: ryan180becker@gmail.comFacebook: facebook.com/Absurditypodcast www.theabsurdity.orgSupport our show by becoming a premium member! https://absurdpodcastnetwork.supportingcast.fm

We jump into the recent viral news regarding the internal culture at RELEVANT Magazine and the toxic behavior and racist attitudes that have existed within it that were perpetuated by the founder and CEO, Cameron Strang. We discuss Former editors' Andre Henry and Rebecca Marie Jo's articles exposing the culture, the backlash that resulted, and how this entire situation impacts Absurdity. We get incredibly personal with you and we explore what RELEVANT's situation means for us going forward. We are also donating 25% of all proceeds given to Absurdity through October 31 to the National Alliance to End Sexual Violence. <a href="http://endsexualviolence.org" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">endsexualviolence.org</a> and the Info Brochure. Episode Links: Andre Henry's Article  Rebecca Marie Jo's Article  Cameron Strang's Response  Relevant's Response  Check out our sponsors for this episode: <a href="www.thehaystack.org" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.thehaystack.org</a>  To support financially: <a href="www.theabsurdity.org/donate" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.theabsurdity.org/donate</a> Music and editing by Kendall Foote. To contact him about your own production, you can email him at kfoote1221@gmail.com Twitter: @ryan180becker, @tony_anobile Email: ryan180becker@gmail.com Facebook: <a href="facebook.com/Absurditypodcast" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">facebook.com/Absurditypodcast</a> <a href="www.theabsurdity.org" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.theabsurdity.org</a> Support our show by becoming a premium member! <a href="https://absurdpodcastnetwork.supportingcast.fm" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://absurdpodcastnetwork.supportingcast.fm</a>

A107 Invited, but not Welcomed

Tony and Ryan dive into the realities and difficulties of loving someone wrestling with addiction, even if that person won't accept help or admit there is a problem. We recognize there is so much more that can be said about this topic. We also want to reiterate that Tony and Ryan are not experts of medical professionals, so this episode should not take the place of professional opinions from those properly trained in medical care and mental health.It's Ryan's first episode after his tonsillectomy. But don't worry, he wasn't fully recovered during recording, so this isn't his new voice, we promise! Here are the links we referenced in this week's episode! TED Talk on AddictionHelping an Addict - Healthline7 Tips for Helping Someone with an AddictionAmerican Addiction Centers - Loving an AddictCheck  out our sponsors for this episode: www.thehaystack.org; www.awakennc.com To support financially: www.theabsurdity.org/donateMusic and editing by Kendall Foote. To contact him about your own production, you can email him at kfoote1221@gmail.comTwitter: @ryan180becker, @tony_anobileEmail: ryan180becker@gmail.comFacebook: facebook.com/Absurditypodcast www.theabsurdity.orgSupport our show by becoming a premium member! https://absurdpodcastnetwork.supportingcast.fm

Tony and Ryan dive into the realities and difficulties of loving someone wrestling with addiction, even if that person won't accept help or admit there is a problem. We recognize there is so much more that can be said about this topic. We also want to reiterate that Tony and Ryan are not experts of medical professionals, so this episode should not take the place of professional opinions from those properly trained in medical care and mental health. It's Ryan's first episode after his tonsillectomy. But don't worry, he wasn't fully recovered during recording, so this isn't his new voice, we promise! Here are the links we referenced in this week's episode!  TED Talk on Addiction Helping an Addict - Healthline 7 Tips for Helping Someone with an Addiction American Addiction Centers - Loving an Addict Check  out our sponsors for this episode: <a href="www.thehaystack.org" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.thehaystack.org</a>; <a href="www.awakennc.com" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.awakennc.com</a>  To support financially: <a href="www.theabsurdity.org/donate" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.theabsurdity.org/donate</a> Music and editing by Kendall Foote. To contact him about your own production, you can email him at kfoote1221@gmail.com Twitter: @ryan180becker, @tony_anobile Email: ryan180becker@gmail.com Facebook: <a href="facebook.com/Absurditypodcast" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">facebook.com/Absurditypodcast</a> <a href="www.theabsurdity.org" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.theabsurdity.org</a> Support our show by becoming a premium member! <a href="https://absurdpodcastnetwork.supportingcast.fm" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://absurdpodcastnetwork.supportingcast.fm</a>

A116 Loving an Addict

How do you define failure? How do you deal with it and navigate it? What do success and failure teach us about ourselves and about others? Tony and I attempt to navigate some of this and things get a little bit more real than either of us expected.Music by Justin JanetzkoTwitter: @ryan180becker, @tony_anobileFacebook: facebook.com/Absurditypodcast/Website: www.theabsurdity.orgPatreon: patreon.com/absurditypodcastSupport our show by becoming a premium member! https://absurdpodcastnetwork.supportingcast.fm

How do you define failure? How do you deal with it and navigate it? What do success and failure teach us about ourselves and about others? Tony and I attempt to navigate some of this and things get a little bit more real than either of us expected. Music by Justin Janetzko Twitter: @ryan180becker, @tony_anobile Facebook: <a href="facebook.com/Absurditypodcast/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">facebook.com/Absurditypodcast/</a> Website: <a href="www.theabsurdity.org" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.theabsurdity.org</a> Patreon: <a href="patreon.com/absurditypodcast" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">patreon.com/absurditypodcast</a> Support our show by becoming a premium member! <a href="https://absurdpodcastnetwork.supportingcast.fm" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://absurdpodcastnetwork.supportingcast.fm</a>

A39 Fear of Failure

This week we do a deep dive on projection. It's not just done in friendships and relationships, it's done on a systemic level. We do it for policy, we do it against ethnic and social groups, we enfore laws based on projections. Why do people project, what's the cost, and how do we fix it? Check out our sponsors for this episode: www.thehaystack.org Music by Justin JanetzkoTwitter: @ryan180becker, @tony_anobileEmail: ryan180becker@gmail.comFacebook: facebook.com/Absurditypodcast/Website: www.theabsurdity.orgPatreon: www.patreon.com/absurditypodcastSupport our show by becoming a premium member! https://absurdpodcastnetwork.supportingcast.fm

This week we do a deep dive on projection. It's not just done in friendships and relationships, it's done on a systemic level. We do it for policy, we do it against ethnic and social groups, we enfore laws based on projections. Why do people project, what's the cost, and how do we fix it?  Check out our sponsors for this episode:  <a href="http://www.thehaystack.org" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.thehaystack.org</a> Music by Justin Janetzko Twitter: @ryan180becker, @tony_anobile Email: ryan180becker@gmail.com Facebook: <a href="facebook.com/Absurditypodcast/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">facebook.com/Absurditypodcast/</a> Website: <a href="www.theabsurdity.org" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.theabsurdity.org</a> Patreon: <a href="www.patreon.com/absurditypodcast" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.patreon.com/absurditypodcast</a> Support our show by becoming a premium member! <a href="https://absurdpodcastnetwork.supportingcast.fm" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://absurdpodcastnetwork.supportingcast.fm</a>

A70 Projection, Denial, and Self-Defense

Tony Anobile joins me this week to talk about masculinity in 2018. We wonder if there needs to be a renewed conversation on masculinity and really what it means to be a man and have holistic masculinity. This conversation only scratches the surface and I will definitely be diving into this conversation again soon!NY Times Article: https://www.nytimes.com/2018/02/21/opinion/boys-violence-shootings-guns.htmlAs always, thanks to Justin Janetzko for our intro music.Twitter: @ryan180beckerFacebook: facebook.com/Absurditypodcast/Website: www.theabsurdity.orgPatreon: patreon.com/absurditypodcastSupport our show by becoming a premium member! https://absurdpodcastnetwork.supportingcast.fm

Tony Anobile joins me this week to talk about masculinity in 2018. We wonder if there needs to be a renewed conversation on masculinity and really what it means to be a man and have holistic masculinity. This conversation only scratches the surface and I will definitely be diving into this conversation again soon! NY Times Article: <a href="https://www.nytimes.com/2018/02/21/opinion/boys-violence-shootings-guns.html" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://www.nytimes.com/2018/02/21/opinion/boys-violence-shootings-guns.html</a> As always, thanks to Justin Janetzko for our intro music. Twitter: @ryan180becker Facebook: <a href="facebook.com/Absurditypodcast/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">facebook.com/Absurditypodcast/</a> Website: <a href="www.theabsurdity.org" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.theabsurdity.org</a> Patreon: <a href="patreon.com/absurditypodcast" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">patreon.com/absurditypodcast</a> Support our show by becoming a premium member! <a href="https://absurdpodcastnetwork.supportingcast.fm" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://absurdpodcastnetwork.supportingcast.fm</a>

A27 I Wish You Would Man Up

Aaron Mumu

Aaron Mumu joins Ryan for a conversation on the more secretive realities of outreach schools like SOULS-West, sharing from his personal experience with a school similar to it, SOULS-Northwest. They discuss the good and bad that exists within the culture as well as how they think it could be made better. We also want to thank Sasha Mejia for being courageous in sharing her story and experience so transparently so that a bright light could be shown on such an important topic.Here is a link to Sasha Mejia' Witness Statement.Check out our sponsors for this episode: www.thehaystack.org To support financially: www.theabsurdity.org/donateMusic and editing by Kendall Foote. To contact him about your own production, you can email him at kfoote1221@gmail.comTwitter: @ryan180becker, @tony_anobileEmail: ryan180becker@gmail.comFacebook: facebook.com/Absurditypodcast www.theabsurdity.orgSupport our show by becoming a premium member! https://absurdpodcastnetwork.supportingcast.fm

Aaron Mumu joins Ryan for a conversation on the more secretive realities of outreach schools like SOULS-West, sharing from his personal experience with a school similar to it, SOULS-Northwest. They discuss the good and bad that exists within the culture as well as how they think it could be made better. We also want to thank Sasha Mejia for being courageous in sharing her story and experience so transparently so that a bright light could be shown on such an important topic. Here is a link to Sasha Mejia' Witness Statement. Check out our sponsors for this episode: <a href="www.thehaystack.org" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.thehaystack.org</a>  To support financially: <a href="www.theabsurdity.org/donate" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.theabsurdity.org/donate</a> Music and editing by Kendall Foote. To contact him about your own production, you can email him at kfoote1221@gmail.com Twitter: @ryan180becker, @tony_anobile Email: ryan180becker@gmail.com Facebook: <a href="facebook.com/Absurditypodcast" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">facebook.com/Absurditypodcast</a> <a href="www.theabsurdity.org" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.theabsurdity.org</a> Support our show by becoming a premium member! <a href="https://absurdpodcastnetwork.supportingcast.fm" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://absurdpodcastnetwork.supportingcast.fm</a>

A108 Shining a Light on Spiritual Abuse with Aaron Mumu

Josh Stothers and Jesse Herford from the Burn the Haystack podcast to talk about the differences in Adventism from America and New Zealand, then we talk about ministry, leading churches at the beginning of our careers, and setting boundaries as leaders. I am super grateful for these guys and all they are doing, check out their podcast below! https://www.facebook.com/burnthehaystack Check out our sponsor: www.thehaystack.orgMusic by Justin JanetzkoTwitter: @ryan180becker, @tony_anobileFacebook: facebook.com/Absurditypodcast/Website: www.theabsurdity.orgPatreon: patreon.com/absurditypodcastSupport our show by becoming a premium member! https://absurdpodcastnetwork.supportingcast.fm

Josh Stothers and Jesse Herford from the Burn the Haystack podcast to talk about the differences in Adventism from America and New Zealand, then we talk about ministry, leading churches at the beginning of our careers, and setting boundaries as leaders. I am super grateful for these guys and all they are doing, check out their podcast below! <a href="https://www.facebook.com/burnthehaystack" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://www.facebook.com/burnthehaystack</a> Check out our sponsor: <a href="www.thehaystack.org" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.thehaystack.org</a> Music by Justin Janetzko Twitter: @ryan180becker, @tony_anobile Facebook: <a href="facebook.com/Absurditypodcast/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">facebook.com/Absurditypodcast/</a> Website: <a href="www.theabsurdity.org" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.theabsurdity.org</a> Patreon: <a href="patreon.com/absurditypodcast" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">patreon.com/absurditypodcast</a> Support our show by becoming a premium member! <a href="https://absurdpodcastnetwork.supportingcast.fm" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://absurdpodcastnetwork.supportingcast.fm</a>

A52 Burning Haystacks in New Zealand

We dive into Kanye's new Sunday Service, the preachersnsneakers instagram account, and the lack of accountability that ministry leaders have with their people. What is church and does Kanye's new movement count? What is appropriate for a pastor to buy or own? Check out our sponsors for this episode: www.thehaystack.orgMusic by Justin JanetzkoTwitter: @ryan180becker, @tony_anobileEmail: ryan180becker@gmail.comFacebook: facebook.com/AbsurditypodcastWebsite: www.theabsurdity.orgPatreon: www.patreon.com/absurditypodcastSupport our show by becoming a premium member! https://absurdpodcastnetwork.supportingcast.fm

We dive into Kanye's new Sunday Service, the preachersnsneakers instagram account, and the lack of accountability that ministry leaders have with their people. What is church and does Kanye's new movement count? What is appropriate for a pastor to buy or own?  Check out our sponsors for this episode: <a href="www.thehaystack.org" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.thehaystack.org</a> Music by Justin Janetzko Twitter: @ryan180becker, @tony_anobile Email: ryan180becker@gmail.com Facebook: <a href="facebook.com/Absurditypodcast" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">facebook.com/Absurditypodcast</a> Website: <a href="www.theabsurdity.org" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.theabsurdity.org</a> Patreon: <a href="www.patreon.com/absurditypodcast" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.patreon.com/absurditypodcast</a> Support our show by becoming a premium member! <a href="https://absurdpodcastnetwork.supportingcast.fm" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://absurdpodcastnetwork.supportingcast.fm</a>

A85 Preachers, Sneakers, and Kanye

WARNING: This episode talks a lot about mental illness and suicide. If you are struggling with either of these, we encourage you to get help ASAP!Tony and I talk about mental illness, some of the ways it has impacted our lives, and the negative stigmas around both that prevent people from honestly talking about their struggles.   Music by Justin Janetzko Twitter: @ryan180becker, @tony_anobileFacebook: facebook.com/Absurditypodcast/Website: www.theabsurdity.orgPatreon: patreon.com/absurditypodcastSupport our show by becoming a premium member! https://absurdpodcastnetwork.supportingcast.fm

WARNING: This episode talks a lot about mental illness and suicide. If you are struggling with either of these, we encourage you to get help ASAP! Tony and I talk about mental illness, some of the ways it has impacted our lives, and the negative stigmas around both that prevent people from honestly talking about their struggles.   Music by Justin Janetzko Twitter: @ryan180becker, @tony_anobile Facebook: <a href="facebook.com/Absurditypodcast/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">facebook.com/Absurditypodcast/</a> Website: <a href="www.theabsurdity.org" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.theabsurdity.org</a> Patreon: <a href="patreon.com/absurditypodcast" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">patreon.com/absurditypodcast</a> Support our show by becoming a premium member! <a href="https://absurdpodcastnetwork.supportingcast.fm" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://absurdpodcastnetwork.supportingcast.fm</a>

A45 Mental Illness and Suicide

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