In this episode of the Date Your Wife podcast, hosts Danielle and Garrett dive into the topic of seduction and connection within a relationship. They discuss the common fantasy of being swept off one's feet and the allure of certainty and adventure. They also explore the power dynamics in relationships and the importance of emotional connection. With candid and humorous conversations, they share personal experiences and insights on how to keep the spark alive in a long-term partnership. Join them as they navigate the complexities of seduction, connection, and the ever-evolving dynamics of love and desire. Tune in and allow yourself to be swept away! ___  Let’s Connect...  Wake Up Warrior ➜ https://wakeupwarrior.com/ Education for Hairstylists ➜ https://nbr.education/  Find an NBR Artist Near You! ➜ https://nbr.directory/ Instagram  ➜ https://www.instagram.com/garrettjwhite ➜ https://www.instagram.com/daniellekwhite ➜ https://instagram.com/therealwhitehouse

In this episode of the Date Your Wife podcast, hosts Danielle and Garrett dive into the topic of seduction and connection within a relationship. They discuss the common fantasy of being swept off one's feet and the allure of certainty and adventure. They also explore the power dynamics in relationships and the importance of emotional connection. With candid and humorous conversations, they share personal experiences and insights on how to keep the spark alive in a long-term partnership. Join them as they navigate the complexities of seduction, connection, and the ever-evolving dynamics of love and desire. Tune in and allow yourself to be swept away! ___ Let’s Connect...  Wake Up Warrior ➜ <a href="https://wakeupwarrior.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://wakeupwarrior.com/</a> Education for Hairstylists ➜ https://nbr.education/  Find an NBR Artist Near You! ➜ https://nbr.directory/ Instagram  ➜ <a href="https://www.instagram.com/garrettjwhite" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://www.instagram.com/garrettjwhite</a> ➜ <a href="https://www.instagram.com/daniellekwhite" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://www.instagram.com/daniellekwhite</a> ➜ <a href="https://instagram.com/thereal" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://instagram.com/thereal</a>whitehouse

The Fantasy of Being Swept Off Your Feet

Welcome back to another episode of the Date Your Wife podcast! Join Garrett and Danielle White as they take you on a journey into the importance of dating your spouse and its incredible potential to revive struggling marriages. In this emotionally charged installment, Garrett and Danielle fearlessly open up about their personal experiences and the challenges they've faced in their own marriage. They candidly discuss the common obstacles that married couples encounter when trying to prioritize their relationship amidst the chaos of everyday life. From the guilt that arises when seeking outside help to the genuine fear of losing one's sense of self in the union, they bravely delve into the mindset shifts essential for nurturing a thriving marriage. Garrett and Danielle challenge the misconception that investing in your marriage is a financial burden. Instead, they highlight the true value of consistent and intentional efforts to keep the flame of love burning brightly. Join this power couple as they inspire you to challenge societal norms and embark on a journey of rekindling the romance and connection with your partner. Discover how dating your spouse can breathe new life into even the most struggling of marriages. Whether you're newlyweds or have been together for decades, this episode is for you! Tune in as Garrett and Danielle share their personal journey and impart invaluable insights that will transform the way you approach your relationship. Get ready to reignite the spark and strengthen the bond with your beloved.

Welcome back to another episode of the Date Your Wife podcast! Join Garrett and Danielle White as they take you on a journey into the importance of dating your spouse and its incredible potential to revive struggling marriages. In this emotionally charged installment, Garrett and Danielle fearlessly open up about their personal experiences and the challenges they've faced in their own marriage. They candidly discuss the common obstacles that married couples encounter when trying to prioritize their relationship amidst the chaos of everyday life. From the guilt that arises when seeking outside help to the genuine fear of losing one's sense of self in the union, they bravely delve into the mindset shifts essential for nurturing a thriving marriage. Garrett and Danielle challenge the misconception that investing in your marriage is a financial burden. Instead, they highlight the true value of consistent and intentional efforts to keep the flame of love burning brightly. Join this power couple as they inspire you to challenge societal norms and embark on a journey of rekindling the romance and connection with your partner. Discover how dating your spouse can breathe new life into even the most struggling of marriages. Whether you're newlyweds or have been together for decades, this episode is for you! Tune in as Garrett and Danielle share their personal journey and impart invaluable insights that will transform the way you approach your relationship. Get ready to reignite the spark and strengthen the bond with your beloved.

The Secret to Saving a Struggling Marriage

Welcome to the latest episode of the Date Your Wife Podcast, where we dive deep into the transformative power of therapy and how it can revolutionize your relationship! Join us as we embark on a thrilling exploration of the benefits that therapy brings to couples like us. Therapy is where we find a secure space for reflection and communication beyond the confines of our regular date nights and financial planning meetings. It's like a portal that unlocks hidden doors, revealing the topics we never thought we could discuss. But therapy isn't just about managing conflicts or finding solutions to everyday challenges. It's about diving headfirst into the depths of our emotions and emerging with a newfound understanding of one another. We all know those moments when a conversation starts to escalate into a fiery argument, right? Well, therapy provides us with the tools to express our emotions and engage in conversations without letting anger take control. Now, here's where things get really interesting. Therapy has become our lifeline in the midst of our busy lives. With schedules packed to the brim and demands pulling us in all directions, therapy carves out dedicated time for these essential discussions. But therapy is not just about the therapist's insights; it's also about the power of self-reflection. It's a journey that encourages us to look within ourselves and examine our own behaviors, thoughts, and emotions. As we unravel the layers of our own complexities, we gain a greater understanding of how we show up in our relationship. Therapy has been a game-changer for us, but it wasn't an overnight decision. We started our journey in 2016, but even before that, we had sporadic therapy-like conversations that hinted at the potential power of therapy. Back then, we had never sought professional help, but once we experienced the transformative effects of therapy, there was no turning back.

Welcome to the latest episode of the Date Your Wife Podcast, where we dive deep into the transformative power of therapy and how it can revolutionize your relationship! Join us as we embark on a thrilling exploration of the benefits that therapy brings to couples like us. Therapy is where we find a secure space for reflection and communication beyond the confines of our regular date nights and financial planning meetings. It's like a portal that unlocks hidden doors, revealing the topics we never thought we could discuss. But therapy isn't just about managing conflicts or finding solutions to everyday challenges. It's about diving headfirst into the depths of our emotions and emerging with a newfound understanding of one another. We all know those moments when a conversation starts to escalate into a fiery argument, right? Well, therapy provides us with the tools to express our emotions and engage in conversations without letting anger take control. Now, here's where things get really interesting. Therapy has become our lifeline in the midst of our busy lives. With schedules packed to the brim and demands pulling us in all directions, therapy carves out dedicated time for these essential discussions. But therapy is not just about the therapist's insights; it's also about the power of self-reflection. It's a journey that encourages us to look within ourselves and examine our own behaviors, thoughts, and emotions. As we unravel the layers of our own complexities, we gain a greater understanding of how we show up in our relationship. Therapy has been a game-changer for us, but it wasn't an overnight decision. We started our journey in 2016, but even before that, we had sporadic therapy-like conversations that hinted at the potential power of therapy. Back then, we had never sought professional help, but once we experienced the transformative effects of therapy, there was no turning back.

The Power of Therapy: Healing and Growth in Relationships

Welcome to another episode of the Date Your Wife Podcast! Get ready to dive into a topic that will make your hearts race and your cheeks blush—sex and connection in relationships! Danielle &amp; Garrett are here to spice things up and remind us all of the importance of intimacy.  The couple has embarked on a personal journey to take their connection to the next level. They've discovered that sex is more than just a physical act—it's a gateway to deepening emotional and spiritual bonds between partners. Who knew that getting frisky could be so enlightening? Now, these two were raised in religious backgrounds where sex was often hush-hush. But guess what? They've managed to break free from any fear or guilt associated with it. They've embraced the freedom and power that comes with exploring their desires and connecting on a whole new level. Talk about turning taboo into tantalizing! For Danielle &amp; Garrett, sex is like a mind-blowing rollercoaster ride of ecstasy and euphoria. It's a moment when they feel utterly open, vulnerable, and connected like never before. It's the ultimate high that leaves them craving more. Sure, they acknowledge that connection can be achieved through deep conversations and other means, but let's be real here—sex offers a whole different level of connection. It's like the secret ingredient that takes your relationship from lukewarm to sizzling hot. Our hosts have a fiery message for you: sexual intimacy should be a priority if both partners. It's a gift from God, designed to be experienced and enjoyed in this lifetime. Danielle &amp; Garrett firmly believe that it's a critical ingredient for a healthy and passionate relationship. Now, we're not suggesting you run wild and forget about everything else. Connection comes in many forms, and communication is vital. But don't shy away from embracing the power of physical intimacy!

Welcome to another episode of the Date Your Wife Podcast! Get ready to dive into a topic that will make your hearts race and your cheeks blush—sex and connection in relationships! Danielle &amp; Garrett are here to spice things up and remind us all of the importance of intimacy.  The couple has embarked on a personal journey to take their connection to the next level. They've discovered that sex is more than just a physical act—it's a gateway to deepening emotional and spiritual bonds between partners. Who knew that getting frisky could be so enlightening? Now, these two were raised in religious backgrounds where sex was often hush-hush. But guess what? They've managed to break free from any fear or guilt associated with it. They've embraced the freedom and power that comes with exploring their desires and connecting on a whole new level. Talk about turning taboo into tantalizing! For Danielle &amp; Garrett, sex is like a mind-blowing rollercoaster ride of ecstasy and euphoria. It's a moment when they feel utterly open, vulnerable, and connected like never before. It's the ultimate high that leaves them craving more. Sure, they acknowledge that connection can be achieved through deep conversations and other means, but let's be real here—sex offers a whole different level of connection. It's like the secret ingredient that takes your relationship from lukewarm to sizzling hot. Our hosts have a fiery message for you: sexual intimacy should be a priority if both partners. It's a gift from God, designed to be experienced and enjoyed in this lifetime. Danielle &amp; Garrett firmly believe that it's a critical ingredient for a healthy and passionate relationship. Now, we're not suggesting you run wild and forget about everything else. Connection comes in many forms, and communication is vital. But don't shy away from embracing the power of physical intimacy!

From Taboo to Tantalizing: Unleashing the Power of Sex and Connection

Get ready as Danielle and Garrett turn up the heat and invite you to join them on this white-hot episode of the Date Your Wife Podcast. Prepare to be scorched by their insights, seduced by their tips, and set ablaze with a passion for fiery communication and red-hot relationships. In this episode, Danielle and Garrett tackle head-on the feedback they've received about their habit of constantly interrupting each other. Sparks fly as they acknowledge the problem and embark on a mission to master their communication skills by fiercely battling the urge to cut each other off. Hold on tight as Danielle and Garrett bare it all, sharing their blistering therapy session experience where they discovered the power of holding space for one another. They reveal their burning desire to ignite a new chapter in their communication, free from the painful scars of the past. Danielle and Garrett are igniting change, fueling their relationship with active listening, scorching vulnerability, and a commitment to each other's growth. But wait, there's an extra dose of spice! The topic of Porn within marriage is brought to the table. They challenge listeners to seize control of their passions, leaving no partner unsatisfied. Get ready for their scorching personal stories of navigating the flames of desire, where they risked it all and gained everything.  This is The Date Your Wife Podcast!

Get ready as Danielle and Garrett turn up the heat and invite you to join them on this white-hot episode of the Date Your Wife Podcast. Prepare to be scorched by their insights, seduced by their tips, and set ablaze with a passion for fiery communication and red-hot relationships. In this episode, Danielle and Garrett tackle head-on the feedback they've received about their habit of constantly interrupting each other. Sparks fly as they acknowledge the problem and embark on a mission to master their communication skills by fiercely battling the urge to cut each other off. Hold on tight as Danielle and Garrett bare it all, sharing their blistering therapy session experience where they discovered the power of holding space for one another. They reveal their burning desire to ignite a new chapter in their communication, free from the painful scars of the past. Danielle and Garrett are igniting change, fueling their relationship with active listening, scorching vulnerability, and a commitment to each other's growth. But wait, there's an extra dose of spice! The topic of Porn within marriage is brought to the table. They challenge listeners to seize control of their passions, leaving no partner unsatisfied. Get ready for their scorching personal stories of navigating the flames of desire, where they risked it all and gained everything.  This is The Date Your Wife Podcast!

Porn to Power

In this episode of the Date Your Wife Podcast, Danielle &amp; Garrett tackle some juicy topics about relationships, therapy, and sexuality. They really hammer home the importance of communication and vulnerability. First up, they get real about their own therapy experiences and how it's crucial to go in without expecting to be right. They also chat about how guys often feel like they're the ones causing problems in relationships and why both partners need to take responsibility. They also dive into the wild world of Mormon culture and sex. They spill the beans about waiting until marriage and wearing unsexy PJs and then share how they've become more comfortable and confident in their bodies and started rocking some sexy lingerie in the bedroom. And hey, it's not all rainbows and sunshine. They dish about the challenges that power couples face in their marriages, like the temptation to shut down and trade in their partner, the struggles of navigating the relationship, and even the potential for divorce. Throughout the episode, they stress the importance of being open and honest about your feelings, even if it's awkward or tough. They also talk about using personal content, like pics and videos, for some spicy fun and how crucial it is to recognize when your partner is hurting and be there for them. Overall, this episode is a real eye-opener. It's like having a heart-to-heart chat with your best buds about relationships, therapy, and getting busy. They remind us that communication, vulnerability, and taking ownership are key ingredients for building and maintaining awesome relationships.

In this episode of the Date Your Wife Podcast, Danielle &amp; Garrett tackle some juicy topics about relationships, therapy, and sexuality. They really hammer home the importance of communication and vulnerability. First up, they get real about their own therapy experiences and how it's crucial to go in without expecting to be right. They also chat about how guys often feel like they're the ones causing problems in relationships and why both partners need to take responsibility. They also dive into the wild world of Mormon culture and sex. They spill the beans about waiting until marriage and wearing unsexy PJs and then share how they've become more comfortable and confident in their bodies and started rocking some sexy lingerie in the bedroom. And hey, it's not all rainbows and sunshine. They dish about the challenges that power couples face in their marriages, like the temptation to shut down and trade in their partner, the struggles of navigating the relationship, and even the potential for divorce. Throughout the episode, they stress the importance of being open and honest about your feelings, even if it's awkward or tough. They also talk about using personal content, like pics and videos, for some spicy fun and how crucial it is to recognize when your partner is hurting and be there for them. Overall, this episode is a real eye-opener. It's like having a heart-to-heart chat with your best buds about relationships, therapy, and getting busy. They remind us that communication, vulnerability, and taking ownership are key ingredients for building and maintaining awesome relationships.

Learning to Speak Your Truth: Overcoming Conflict Avoidance

Prepare for a captivating episode as Garrett &amp; Danielle dive into the tantalizing realm of sexual transmutation, unveiling its potential to ignite a blazing path to success in all aspects of life. Inspired by Napoleon Hill's groundbreaking work in "Laws of Success," we venture into uncharted territories where the raw power of sexual energy fuels unimaginable productivity, boundless creativity, and unparalleled achievements. Brace yourself for a podcast episode that challenges norms, explores the evolving landscape of infidelity, and unlocks the secrets to profound connection and fulfillment. As we unravel the complex web of intimate relationships, we delve into the phenomenon of cheating. Our hosts boldly illuminate the shifting tides, revealing a truth that pulses with empowerment and independence. No longer confined to the shadows, women have embraced their desires, refusing to settle for anything less than passionate, fulfilling connections. Join us as we dissect the multifaceted motivations behind infidelity, exposing the primal urges that drive men and the emotional yearnings that guide women toward forbidden territories. Through candid discussions and heartfelt revelations, we delve into the transformative power of open communication, understanding, and the pursuit of genuine intimacy. But the revelations don't end there. We embark on a voyage through the uncharted waters of co-parenting, a realm fraught with challenges and unforeseen obstacles. Through personal anecdotes, our hosts share the transformative power of a unified front in raising children, where the strength of their own bond becomes the foundation for effective parenting. Discover the secrets to harmonious co-parenting as we navigate the treacherous storms of stress and drama, emerging victorious with a deeper understanding of ourselves and our children. To truly grasp the essence of thriving relationships, we unlock the art of being present and attentive, offering a tantalizing glimpse into a world of passion and connection. Witness the magic that unfolds when partners dedicate themselves to active engagement, deep listening, and unwavering support. Explore the intricate dance of balancing life's demands while savoring the stolen moments of intimacy that breathe life into our connections. Together, we unravel the power of presence, igniting flames that burn with fervor and purpose. Embark on this intoxicating podcast episode as we shatter barriers, ignite passions, and unlock the secrets to success and profound connection. Prepare for a riveting exploration that transcends the boundaries of societal norms, leaving you inspired to embrace your desires, honor your truth, and forge a path that leads to unabashed fulfillment. Ready to take your business, marriage, and life to the next level? Don't miss out on the opportunity to unlock unlimited power, profits, and purpose. Join Garrett and thousands of other men in the transformative Warrior Challenge. It's time for you to have it all! Get off the sidelines and embark on the Wake Up Warrior Challenge today. Discover the strategies, tools, and mindset shifts that will revolutionize your journey toward success and fulfillment. Don't wait any longer—seize the opportunity and join the challenge now! https://wakeupwarrior.com/

Prepare for a captivating episode as Garrett &amp; Danielle dive into the tantalizing realm of sexual transmutation, unveiling its potential to ignite a blazing path to success in all aspects of life. Inspired by Napoleon Hill's groundbreaking work in "Laws of Success," we venture into uncharted territories where the raw power of sexual energy fuels unimaginable productivity, boundless creativity, and unparalleled achievements. Brace yourself for a podcast episode that challenges norms, explores the evolving landscape of infidelity, and unlocks the secrets to profound connection and fulfillment. As we unravel the complex web of intimate relationships, we delve into the phenomenon of cheating. Our hosts boldly illuminate the shifting tides, revealing a truth that pulses with empowerment and independence. No longer confined to the shadows, women have embraced their desires, refusing to settle for anything less than passionate, fulfilling connections. Join us as we dissect the multifaceted motivations behind infidelity, exposing the primal urges that drive men and the emotional yearnings that guide women toward forbidden territories. Through candid discussions and heartfelt revelations, we delve into the transformative power of open communication, understanding, and the pursuit of genuine intimacy. But the revelations don't end there. We embark on a voyage through the uncharted waters of co-parenting, a realm fraught with challenges and unforeseen obstacles. Through personal anecdotes, our hosts share the transformative power of a unified front in raising children, where the strength of their own bond becomes the foundation for effective parenting. Discover the secrets to harmonious co-parenting as we navigate the treacherous storms of stress and drama, emerging victorious with a deeper understanding of ourselves and our children. To truly grasp the essence of thriving relationships, we unlock the art of being present and attentive, offering a tantalizing glimpse into a world of passion and connection. Witness the magic that unfolds when partners dedicate themselves to active engagement, deep listening, and unwavering support. Explore the intricate dance of balancing life's demands while savoring the stolen moments of intimacy that breathe life into our connections. Together, we unravel the power of presence, igniting flames that burn with fervor and purpose. Embark on this intoxicating podcast episode as we shatter barriers, ignite passions, and unlock the secrets to success and profound connection. Prepare for a riveting exploration that transcends the boundaries of societal norms, leaving you inspired to embrace your desires, honor your truth, and forge a path that leads to unabashed fulfillment. Ready to take your business, marriage, and life to the next level? Don't miss out on the opportunity to unlock unlimited power, profits, and purpose. Join Garrett and thousands of other men in the transformative Warrior Challenge. It's time for you to have it all! Get off the sidelines and embark on the Wake Up Warrior Challenge today. Discover the strategies, tools, and mindset shifts that will revolutionize your journey toward success and fulfillment. Don't wait any longer—seize the opportunity and join the challenge now! <a href="https://wakeupwarrior.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://wakeupwarrior.com/</a>

The Importance of Emotional Connection in Marriage

Get ready for an electrifying episode of the Date Your Wife Podcast as Danielle and Garrett take you on a captivating journey toward relationship bliss. Join them as they draw surprising parallels between the sultry moves of salsa dancing and the intricate steps required to navigate life's inevitable ups and downs. In this soul-stirring conversation, the couple fearlessly confronts a recurring challenge: interrupting each other and feeling unheard. Brace yourself for a candid exploration of their personal growth and the transformative power of effective communication. Discover how they unlock the secrets of active listening, understanding triggers, and finding common ground, propelling their relationship to exhilarating heights. But that's not all—prepare to be inspired as Danielle and Garrett dive into the art of empathy. Explore the depths of their hearts as they share how they shattered the barriers of criticism and learned to embrace understanding and patience. Witness the magic that unfolds when two souls commit to supporting and uplifting each other through the stormiest of times. To ignite the fire of passion, they reveal the secrets to setting boundaries and scheduling sacred work conversations. Discover how they navigate the treacherous waters of stress projection, ensuring that their love bubble remains a sanctuary of intimacy and desire. Are you ready to embark on a journey toward relationship mastery? Prepare to unleash the power of effective communication, empathy, and holding the line. Join Danielle and Garrett in this captivating episode as they share their personal triumphs, invaluable insights, and practical strategies to help you create a relationship that sizzles with connection and resilience. Get ready to embrace love's intoxicating dance—tune in now and unlock the secrets to a deeply fulfilling and passionate partnership! Ready to take your business, marriage, and life to the next level? Don't miss out on the opportunity to unlock unlimited power, profits, and purpose. Join Garrett and thousands of other men in the transformative Warrior Challenge. It's time for you to have it all! Get off the sidelines and embark on the Wake Up Warrior Challenge today. Discover the strategies, tools, and mindset shifts that will revolutionize your journey toward success and fulfillment. Don't wait any longer—seize the opportunity and join the challenge now! https://wakeupwarrior.com/

Get ready for an electrifying episode of the Date Your Wife Podcast as Danielle and Garrett take you on a captivating journey toward relationship bliss. Join them as they draw surprising parallels between the sultry moves of salsa dancing and the intricate steps required to navigate life's inevitable ups and downs. In this soul-stirring conversation, the couple fearlessly confronts a recurring challenge: interrupting each other and feeling unheard. Brace yourself for a candid exploration of their personal growth and the transformative power of effective communication. Discover how they unlock the secrets of active listening, understanding triggers, and finding common ground, propelling their relationship to exhilarating heights. But that's not all—prepare to be inspired as Danielle and Garrett dive into the art of empathy. Explore the depths of their hearts as they share how they shattered the barriers of criticism and learned to embrace understanding and patience. Witness the magic that unfolds when two souls commit to supporting and uplifting each other through the stormiest of times. To ignite the fire of passion, they reveal the secrets to setting boundaries and scheduling sacred work conversations. Discover how they navigate the treacherous waters of stress projection, ensuring that their love bubble remains a sanctuary of intimacy and desire. Are you ready to embark on a journey toward relationship mastery? Prepare to unleash the power of effective communication, empathy, and holding the line. Join Danielle and Garrett in this captivating episode as they share their personal triumphs, invaluable insights, and practical strategies to help you create a relationship that sizzles with connection and resilience. Get ready to embrace love's intoxicating dance—tune in now and unlock the secrets to a deeply fulfilling and passionate partnership! Ready to take your business, marriage, and life to the next level? Don't miss out on the opportunity to unlock unlimited power, profits, and purpose. Join Garrett and thousands of other men in the transformative Warrior Challenge. It's time for you to have it all! Get off the sidelines and embark on the Wake Up Warrior Challenge today. Discover the strategies, tools, and mindset shifts that will revolutionize your journey toward success and fulfillment. Don't wait any longer—seize the opportunity and join the challenge now! <a href="https://wakeupwarrior.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://wakeupwarrior.com/</a>

Dancing Through Life's Ups and Downs

Welcome to the latest episode of the Date Your Wife Podcast.  Join us as we explore the incredible power of personal development, the importance of effective communication in relationships, and the life-changing Warriors Way. Here are three key takeaways from this episode that you won't want to miss: The Power of Personal Development Discover why personal growth is a vital component for any man seeking to unlock his true potential and make a positive impact on the world. Communication's Role in Building Relationships Explore the fascinating concept that men and women may speak different languages yet share common desires within relationships. Gain insights and practical tips on how to communicate effectively and cultivate chemistry with your partner. The Warriors Way Hear about our personal journey implementing the Warriors Way, which we believe to be divinely inspired. Learn how this system empowers individuals to take control of their lives and foster profound connections in their relationships, ultimately leading to lasting and meaningful marriages. We encourage all men to embrace this discipline and embark on a journey of self-empowerment in their own relationships. If you're looking to make a positive impact in the world and cultivate a deeply fulfilling relationship, this episode is a must-listen. Tune in now to gain valuable insights and be inspired by the extraordinary potential within you. Ready to learn how to unlock 'unlimited' Power, Profits &amp; Purpose in your business, marriage &amp; life? Then it's time you join Garrett and thousands of other men in the Warrior Challenge.  It's time for you to have it all! Get Off The Sidelines &amp; Join The Wake Up Warrior Challenge TODAY.

Welcome to the latest episode of the Date Your Wife Podcast. Join us as we explore the incredible power of personal development, the importance of effective communication in relationships, and the life-changing Warriors Way. Here are three key takeaways from this episode that you won't want to miss: The Power of Personal Development Discover why personal growth is a vital component for any man seeking to unlock his true potential and make a positive impact on the world. Communication's Role in Building Relationships Explore the fascinating concept that men and women may speak different languages yet share common desires within relationships. Gain insights and practical tips on how to communicate effectively and cultivate chemistry with your partner. The Warriors Way Hear about our personal journey implementing the Warriors Way, which we believe to be divinely inspired. Learn how this system empowers individuals to take control of their lives and foster profound connections in their relationships, ultimately leading to lasting and meaningful marriages. We encourage all men to embrace this discipline and embark on a journey of self-empowerment in their own relationships. If you're looking to make a positive impact in the world and cultivate a deeply fulfilling relationship, this episode is a must-listen. Tune in now to gain valuable insights and be inspired by the extraordinary potential within you. Ready to learn how to unlock 'unlimited' Power, Profits &amp; Purpose in your business, marriage &amp; life? Then it's time you join Garrett and thousands of other men in the Warrior Challenge.  It's time for you to have it all! <a href="https://wakeupwarrior.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Get Off The Sidelines &amp; Join The Wake Up Warrior Challenge TODAY.</a>

The Mormon Bubble: Navigating Taboos Around Sex and Relationships

Welcome to the Date Your Wife Podcast! Prepare to embark on a journey of transformation as we explore the power of shifting your mindset and rewriting the stories you tell yourself.  In this episode, we reveal personal experiences of applying these game-changing concepts to areas like fitness and relationships. Let go of the pursuit of perfection and embrace the exhilarating rewards of progress. Discover how ingrained patterns and generational narratives hold us back, and learn to flip the script and forge a new path. Open your mind to new perspectives, find common ground, and unlock the door to growth both in yourself and your relationships. But that's not all. We dare to challenge societal expectations that have confined both men and women to predetermined roles. It's time for a paradigm shift. Men, it's your moment to rise as extraordinary partners, fathers, and mentors. Women, unleash your full potential and pursue purpose beyond motherhood. Join us in an equal conversation that defies traditional norms. While society may disproportionately celebrate motherhood and place value solely on income, we recognize the unique strengths of both genders. Embrace diverse roles while pursuing your personal goals, and witness the magic that unfolds.  Don't miss out on this episode, where we dive into elevating your standards and becoming the best partner and parent you can be. Together, let's rewrite the narrative and unlock a life of balance and fulfillment. 

Welcome to the Date Your Wife Podcast! Prepare to embark on a journey of transformation as we explore the power of shifting your mindset and rewriting the stories you tell yourself. In this episode, we reveal personal experiences of applying these game-changing concepts to areas like fitness and relationships. Let go of the pursuit of perfection and embrace the exhilarating rewards of progress. Discover how ingrained patterns and generational narratives hold us back, and learn to flip the script and forge a new path. Open your mind to new perspectives, find common ground, and unlock the door to growth both in yourself and your relationships. But that's not all. We dare to challenge societal expectations that have confined both men and women to predetermined roles. It's time for a paradigm shift. Men, it's your moment to rise as extraordinary partners, fathers, and mentors. Women, unleash your full potential and pursue purpose beyond motherhood. Join us in an equal conversation that defies traditional norms. While society may disproportionately celebrate motherhood and place value solely on income, we recognize the unique strengths of both genders. Embrace diverse roles while pursuing your personal goals, and witness the magic that unfolds.  Don't miss out on this episode, where we dive into elevating your standards and becoming the best partner and parent you can be. Together, let's rewrite the narrative and unlock a life of balance and fulfillment.

Recognizing Strengths: Embracing Diverse Roles and Personal Goals

Co-hosts Garrett J White and Danielle K White share in this weekly podcast, as a powerhouse husband and wife duo why date nights have become non-negotiable in their life. Garrett is the founder of Wake Up Warrior, a program for married businessmen to live the Warrior’s Way towards having a life of having it all, and Danielle is the founder of NBR Education and DKW Styling Salon. They will share how they have created success in every aspect of their lives after being willing to rebuild and heal from disconnection, and it all starts with weekly date nights.

Being real I’m going to listen to this podcast

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Amazing podcast.  Just found this.   Definitely a must listen to from here on out.

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* This is an encore presentation of a previously aired episode from May 2018. Being married can be a complete shit show AND amazing… all at the same time! While most marriages end up in sedation, disconnection and/or divorce, Garrett and Danielle have committed to creating something a little bit better than that and a bit more fun. Join them in this week’s podcast that doubles as their very own therapy session as they engage in a conversation about the all-important topic of communication.    Every week married couple Danielle and Garrett J White share insights and perspectives from within their own lives regarding the following topics discussed each month: Week 1: Sex Week 2: Money Week 3: Parenting Week 4: Communication  In This Week’s Podcast….COMMUNICATION Point #1: Less Roommate, More Spark  You can be comfortable with somebody and respect them, and maybe you don’t fight, and things are generally good, but there’s no spark. Your idea of a night out is coming home from a long day at work, throwing on your sweats and watching Netflix together…and then you wonder what happened to that spark you used to feel.  Date Night is one of the ways the sparks continue to fly between Danielle and Garrett. Danielle loves getting all dressed up for Date Night and treats it like an actual date like she did during their pre-marriage days. She inspired Garrett to level up his game from his go-to flannel shirt to his now custom-tailored design jackets.  QUESTION  When was the last time the two of you dressed up and stepped out on the town together? How did it make you feel?  Point #2: Sugar &amp; Spice  Garrett: Inside the communication game, people sometimes think that it’s the spice they’re trying to get rid of. When I define spice, I’m talking about arguments, disagreements, giggling, laughing, joking, having fun, getting angry at each other, fighting, battling, debating, having crucial conversations – it’s everything!  Danielle: There’s a lot of spice in our marriage, and we collide a lot with our personalities – both in good ways and in ways where we piss each other off. Spice, for me, is “I fucking hate you,” which turns into “I fucking love you.”  QUESTION  How do you keep your marriage fresh and spicy?  Point #3: Love Notes  Making daily deposits into your family’s life is part of living the Warrior’s Way, which is part of something called the CORE 4. Men typically don’t know how to communicate their feelings and don’t send love messages to their wives, which Garrett believes many women would love receiving from their husbands.  While Danielle acknowledges the daily texts from Garrett, her love language is found more in spending quality time together with him, like doing these podcasts or going on Date Nights. She sends texts of encouragement when she senses he’s having a stressful day, which messages Garrett loves receiving as part of his love language.  QUESTION  What are your thoughts about giving or receiving love notes?  Point #4: Give and Take  Garrett: In my world, I had to learn that it was ok to buy my wife shit. It was a very hard thing for me, and I questioned how buying gifts for her made me more valuable as a husband.  Danielle: Because I can buy my own things, I felt like I had to submit and let Garrett buy me gifts, which is one of my love languages. I wanted him to be the man, yet at first, I wasn’t allowing space for him to do that.  QUESTION  Why are you stopping your spouse from giving you what you say you want to receive from them?  Point #5: Dance With Me  Garrett: As you can tell, we’re still working on this, which is the ability actually to communicate with and understand the language of our partner.  Inside of that, we get to choose to do two things: 1- appreciate the love language they receive in, and 2-learn to give the love language that the people we’re married to want to receive.  QUESTION  What does your daily dance of communication look like?   Communication Challenge:  Danielle: Garrett needs to be told, “I love you,” but my communication style is different. How about you? Is your communication style verbal or silent? What about your spouse’s? Do you think one is wrong and one is right?   Date Night Topic:  For women, what is your husband’s love language, and how can you cross the line a little bit for him? For men, how can you cross the line a little bit for your wife?   Quote of the Week:  “I’m essentially making love to the ocean because she accepts me every morning.” —Garrett J White  “We’ll argue about a topic, and one of us has to reach over to the other side and reciprocate eventually. You have to cross the line in order to make it a little more peaceful in your home.” —Danielle K White

* This is an encore presentation of a previously aired episode from May 2018. Being married can be a complete shit show AND amazing… all at the same time! While most marriages end up in sedation, disconnection and/or divorce, Garrett and Danielle have committed to creating something a little bit better than that and a bit more fun. Join them in this week’s podcast that doubles as their very own therapy session as they engage in a conversation about the all-important topic of communication.   Every week married couple Danielle and Garrett J White share insights and perspectives from within their own lives regarding the following topics discussed each month: Week 1: Sex Week 2: Money Week 3: Parenting Week 4: Communication In This Week’s Podcast….COMMUNICATION Point #1: Less Roommate, More Spark <ul> <li>You can be comfortable with somebody and respect them, and maybe you don’t fight, and things are generally good, but there’s no spark. Your idea of a night out is coming home from a long day at work, throwing on your sweats and watching Netflix together…and then you wonder what happened to that spark you used to feel. </li> <li>Date Night is one of the ways the sparks continue to fly between Danielle and Garrett. Danielle loves getting all dressed up for Date Night and treats it like an actual date like she did during their pre-marriage days. She inspired Garrett to level up his game from his go-to flannel shirt to his now custom-tailored design jackets.</li> </ul> QUESTION When was the last time the two of you dressed up and stepped out on the town together? How did it make you feel? Point #2: Sugar &amp; Spice <ul> <li>Garrett: Inside the communication game, people sometimes think that it’s the spice they’re trying to get rid of. When I define spice, I’m talking about arguments, disagreements, giggling, laughing, joking, having fun, getting angry at each other, fighting, battling, debating, having crucial conversations – it’s everything! </li> <li>Danielle: There’s a lot of spice in our marriage, and we collide a lot with our personalities – both in good ways and in ways where we piss each other off. Spice, for me, is “I fucking hate you,” which turns into “I fucking love you.”</li> </ul> QUESTION How do you keep your marriage fresh and spicy? Point #3: Love Notes <ul> <li>Making daily deposits into your family’s life is part of living the Warrior’s Way, which is part of something called the CORE 4. Men typically don’t know how to communicate their feelings and don’t send love messages to their wives, which Garrett believes many women would love receiving from their husbands. </li> <li>While Danielle acknowledges the daily texts from Garrett, her love language is found more in spending quality time together with him, like doing these podcasts or going on Date Nights. She sends texts of encouragement when she senses he’s having a stressful day, which messages Garrett loves receiving as part of his love language.</li> </ul> QUESTION What are your thoughts about giving or receiving love notes? Point #4: Give and Take <ul> <li>Garrett: In my world, I had to learn that it was ok to buy my wife shit. It was a very hard thing for me, and I questioned how buying gifts for her made me more valuable as a husband. </li> <li>Danielle: Because I can buy my own things, I felt like I had to submit and let Garrett buy me gifts, which is one of my love languages. I wanted him to be the man, yet at first, I wasn’t allowing space for him to do that.</li> </ul> QUESTION Why are you stopping your spouse from giving you what you say you want to receive from them? Point #5: Dance With Me <ul> <li>Garrett: As you can tell, we’re still working on this, which is the ability actually to communicate with and understand the language of our partner. </li> <li>Inside of that, we get to choose to do two things: 1- appreciate the love language they receive in, and 2-learn to give the love language that the people we’re married to want to receive.</li> </ul> QUESTION What does your daily dance of communication look like? Communication Challenge: Danielle: Garrett needs to be told, “I love you,” but my communication style is different. How about you? Is your communication style verbal or silent? What about your spouse’s? Do you think one is wrong and one is right? Date Night Topic: For women, what is your husband’s love language, and how can you cross the line a little bit for him? For men, how can you cross the line a little bit for your wife? Quote of the Week: “I’m essentially making love to the ocean because she accepts me every morning.” —Garrett J White “We’ll argue about a topic, and one of us has to reach over to the other side and reciprocate eventually. You have to cross the line in order to make it a little more peaceful in your home.” —Danielle K White

Cross the Line | Date Your Wife | Ep 103

Every week married couple Danielle and Garrett J White share insights and perspectives from within their own lives regarding the following topics discussed each month: Week 1: Sex Week 2: Money Week 3: Parenting Week 4: Communication  In This Week’s Podcast….PARENTING   Point #1: Cell Phone Game Changer  Cell phones have changed the game for kids, forcing kids today to grow up much faster, and at the same time, they’re NOT growing up. They’ve gotten really good at being able to communicate via text, but they haven’t learned how to commutate face-to-face. Danielle recalls waiting for boys to call her when she was in Junior High. She was nervous and sweating, hoping she wouldn’t sound like a dork or stutter. Today, it’s a matter of text, erase, edit, and send.  QUESTION  How has communication changed since you were a teen?  Point #2: Bed Time Shenanigans    The bed-time routine at the White household can sometimes look more like a shit show, with their seventh-grader going into psycho mode while Garrett takes away her cell phone. Unbeknownst to Garrett, who is in the middle of a yelling match in one room, Danielle is in another room consoling their seven-year-old who has a pillow over her ears saying, “I hate this part!”  QUESTION  What does your bedtime routine look like?  Point #3: Old School Discipline    When their oldest daughter back-talks Danielle, Garrett wonders if her mother would have tolerated that behavior. As a seventh-grader, Danielle remembers being backhanded by her mother while they were driving. As an eighth-grader, Garrett found himself wandering the streets of their new city for four hours after his mom kicked him out of the van for fighting with his siblings. That was before cell phones.  QUESTION  How do your disciplining methods differ from those of your parents?  Point #4: Jump Through the Windows  Danielle: When kids are little, they operate on your agenda; when they turn into teenagers, you operate on their agenda – that’s your window “in.” In order to gain that connection, I’m constantly looking for my windows. Garrett: We have some traction in her world. The key is being present with what her issues are and what’s going on in her world. Perhaps we actually do know what we’re doing.  QUESTION  What can you do to be more aware of those little windows of opportunity to connect with your children?  Point #5: Navigating the Parental Waters of Divorce    It was only a couple years ago that Garrett’s nineteen-year-old son wouldn’t talk to him. Today, he is an integral part of the Warrior landscape as he and Garrett forge a new relationship that has recently included bringing Garrett’s ex-wife and her family into the picture. A family intervention during the Warrior Woman event in the summer of 2018 proved not only healing but life-transforming. Garrett and his ex-wife were able to take radical responsibility, let go of stories, and come to a peaceful place, demonstrating that anything is possible.  QUESTION  How are you navigating the waters of parental divorce?   Communication Challenge:  Discuss the challenges cell phones have brought into your family.   Date Night Topic:  How can you better support each other in how you parent? Brainstorm different ideas and strategies and choose one or two to begin implementing.   Quote of the Week:  “The emotional fortitude of children isn’t what it used to be. Kids today are growing up intellectually very quickly, with great articulation and communication, but emotionally they’re going backward.” —Garrett J White “Because you are so mad and so bitter, and are not dealing with your own shit and your own stories, it is ultimately holding you back.” —Danielle K White

Every week married couple Danielle and Garrett J White share insights and perspectives from within their own lives regarding the following topics discussed each month: Week 1: Sex Week 2: Money Week 3: Parenting Week 4: Communication In This Week’s Podcast….PARENTING   Point #1: Cell Phone Game Changer <ul> <li>Cell phones have changed the game for kids, forcing kids today to grow up much faster, and at the same time, they’re NOT growing up. They’ve gotten really good at being able to communicate via text, but they haven’t learned how to commutate face-to-face.</li> <li>Danielle recalls waiting for boys to call her when she was in Junior High. She was nervous and sweating, hoping she wouldn’t sound like a dork or stutter. Today, it’s a matter of text, erase, edit, and send.</li> </ul> QUESTION How has communication changed since you were a teen? Point #2: Bed Time Shenanigans <ul> <li>The bed-time routine at the White household can sometimes look more like a shit show, with their seventh-grader going into psycho mode while Garrett takes away her cell phone.</li> <li>Unbeknownst to Garrett, who is in the middle of a yelling match in one room, Danielle is in another room consoling their seven-year-old who has a pillow over her ears saying, “I hate this part!”</li> </ul> QUESTION What does your bedtime routine look like? Point #3: Old School Discipline <ul> <li>When their oldest daughter back-talks Danielle, Garrett wonders if her mother would have tolerated that behavior. As a seventh-grader, Danielle remembers being backhanded by her mother while they were driving.</li> <li>As an eighth-grader, Garrett found himself wandering the streets of their new city for four hours after his mom kicked him out of the van for fighting with his siblings. That was before cell phones.</li> </ul> QUESTION How do your disciplining methods differ from those of your parents? Point #4: Jump Through the Windows <ul> <li>Danielle: When kids are little, they operate on your agenda; when they turn into teenagers, you operate on their agenda – that’s your window “in.” In order to gain that connection, I’m constantly looking for my windows.</li> <li>Garrett: We have some traction in her world. The key is being present with what her issues are and what’s going on in her world. Perhaps we actually do know what we’re doing.</li> </ul> QUESTION What can you do to be more aware of those little windows of opportunity to connect with your children? Point #5: Navigating the Parental Waters of Divorce <ul> <li>It was only a couple years ago that Garrett’s nineteen-year-old son wouldn’t talk to him. Today, he is an integral part of the Warrior landscape as he and Garrett forge a new relationship that has recently included bringing Garrett’s ex-wife and her family into the picture.</li> <li>A family intervention during the Warrior Woman event in the summer of 2018 proved not only healing but life-transforming. Garrett and his ex-wife were able to take radical responsibility, let go of stories, and come to a peaceful place, demonstrating that anything is possible.</li> </ul> QUESTION How are you navigating the waters of parental divorce? Communication Challenge: Discuss the challenges cell phones have brought into your family. Date Night Topic: How can you better support each other in how you parent? Brainstorm different ideas and strategies and choose one or two to begin implementing. Quote of the Week: “The emotional fortitude of children isn’t what it used to be. Kids today are growing up intellectually very quickly, with great articulation and communication, but emotionally they’re going backward.” —Garrett J White “Because you are so mad and so bitter, and are not dealing with your own shit and your own stories, it is ultimately holding you back.” —Danielle K White

Parenting Challenges & Victories | Date Your Wife | Ep 104

(This is an encore presentation of a previously published episode of the Date Your Wife podcast.) In this week’s episode, Garrett and Danielle discuss the importance of communicating with your spouse. They have not always been on the same page as a couple, and for many years they each wondered if their marriage would survive the incessant fights and battles that had become the status quo and mode of communication in their relationship. Inside of that chaos, they discovered the formula that works for them.  Every week married couple Danielle and Garrett J White share insights and perspectives from within their own lives regarding the following topics discussed each month: Week 1: Sex Week 2: Money Week 3: Parenting Week 4: Communication    In This Week’s Podcast….COMMUNICATION Point #1: Communication in Marriage is the Glue Between Sex, Money, and Kids  Garrett and Danielle have not always been on the same page as a couple. For many years they each wondered if their marriage would survive the incessant fights and battles that had become the status quo and mode of communication in their relationship. Danielle learned how to confront and listen to her feelings, communicate, stand up for herself and voice what she was feeling to match Garrett’s strong personality. Garrett struggled with telling the truth and sharing what he was feeling because he felt unsafe in doing so with Danielle.  QUESTION  How do you and your spouse communicate with each other? Does it create a safe zone or a war zone?    Point #2: The Game of Collision  Danielle grew up in a non-communicating and non-hugging family, although she instinctively knew her parents loved her.  Garrett’s family was very touchy-feely and were encouraged to speak openly and freely about what they were feeling and thinking. Hugs and ‘I love you’ were the norm. Garrett recalls, “It was a downright hug fest.” Garrett wanted to share his 42 gallons of feelings with Danielle, but her tiny thimble couldn’t hold that space for him. She wasn’t taught how to communicate and was feeling overwhelmed, which caused her to unknowingly push him away to create breathing space for herself.  QUESTION  What types of communication styles did you and your spouse experience in your families? How has this affected the way you communicate in your marriage?    Point #3: Show Up and Pay Attention  While dating, Danielle and Garrett could talk for hours and hours. After marriage, the filters came off, the grind of daily life set in, and they eventually found themselves drifting into roommate status. There was no connection and no viable communication. His unspoken message that business came first rang out loud and clear to Danielle. Garrett didn’t spend a lot of time seducing Danielle, nor did he pay attention to the needs of his young bride of 20. He was in the work and grind mode which benefited them, yet in the process, he ignored her. He wanted to feel connected to Danielle through sex, touching, and talking – yet that was a complete turn off to her because of their lack of connection and how he wasn’t showing up for her.  QUESTION  How do you show up for your spouse?      Point #4: What You Focus On, Expands  The loss of their spark, trust, and financial stability, coupled with the demise of their communication, created a very difficult environment for them as a couple. They graduated from not communicating at all to all-out fighting mode in every conversation; they wanted to spend time with other people, rather than with each other. Garrett was receiving emotional fulfillment by having conversations with his female clients and coworkers. During this time in 2010, while pregnant with their second child, Danielle stopped looking to Garrett as the source of her happiness and breadwinner, and instead began looking within herself with newfound courage to speak freely and to take on life – without him, if necessary – which resulted in the birth of her business. That was also the beginning of the turning point in their marriage.  QUESTION  Where do you put your energy and focus? How is it enhancing or detracting from your relationship?    Point #5: A Threesome Will Help You Keep Your Game On Point  Upon discovering their different Love Languages, Garrett learns he has been giving Danielle what he wants to receive, rather than what she wants and needs. Couples and individual therapy enabled them to get past the triggers and blowing up stage while keeping them inside the fight and conversation. Garrett shares that therapy and third-party conversations are what saved their marriage. Danielle advises: Be real about your feelings during therapy – even if it means arguing in front of the therapist or spontaneously jumping up and doing burpees and push-ups.  QUESTION  Are you giving your spouse what you want to receive, or are you giving them what theywant and need?    Communication Challenge:  Begin discovering your love languages and take action on giving to your spouse what they want and need.     Date Night Topic:  Engage in the conversation with your spouse about starting therapy together.    Quote of the Week:  “The thing that saves our marriage more than anything, is Date Night. It’s the simplest part of the form of the game in restoring communication, connection, passion, fashion, love, and everything else inside of marriage.” —Garrett J White “A lot of time with the love languages, it’s not your love language, but you get to cross that boundary to get your own fucking love language met. I used to say, ‘I don’t want to do this. It’s not me. It’s not how I was raised.’ I learned quickly that if I want my needs met, I have to serve him – and vice-versa.” —Danielle White

(This is an encore presentation of a previously published episode of the Date Your Wife podcast.) In this week’s episode, Garrett and Danielle discuss the importance of communicating with your spouse. They have not always been on the same page as a couple, and for many years they each wondered if their marriage would survive the incessant fights and battles that had become the status quo and mode of communication in their relationship. Inside of that chaos, they discovered the formula that works for them. Every week married couple Danielle and Garrett J White share insights and perspectives from within their own lives regarding the following topics discussed each month: Week 1: Sex Week 2: Money Week 3: Parenting Week 4: Communication   In This Week’s Podcast….COMMUNICATION Point #1: Communication in Marriage is the Glue Between Sex, Money, and Kids <ul> <li>Garrett and Danielle have not always been on the same page as a couple. For many years they each wondered if their marriage would survive the incessant fights and battles that had become the status quo and mode of communication in their relationship.</li> <li>Danielle learned how to confront and listen to her feelings, communicate, stand up for herself and voice what she was feeling to match Garrett’s strong personality. Garrett struggled with telling the truth and sharing what he was feeling because he felt unsafe in doing so with Danielle.</li> </ul> QUESTION How do you and your spouse communicate with each other? Does it create a safe zone or a war zone?   Point #2: The Game of Collision <ul> <li>Danielle grew up in a non-communicating and non-hugging family, although she instinctively knew her parents loved her.  Garrett’s family was very touchy-feely and were encouraged to speak openly and freely about what they were feeling and thinking. Hugs and ‘I love you’ were the norm. Garrett recalls, “It was a downright hug fest.”</li> <li>Garrett wanted to share his 42 gallons of feelings with Danielle, but her tiny thimble couldn’t hold that space for him. She wasn’t taught how to communicate and was feeling overwhelmed, which caused her to unknowingly push him away to create breathing space for herself.</li> </ul> QUESTION What types of communication styles did you and your spouse experience in your families? How has this affected the way you communicate in your marriage?   Point #3: Show Up and Pay Attention <ul> <li>While dating, Danielle and Garrett could talk for hours and hours. After marriage, the filters came off, the grind of daily life set in, and they eventually found themselves drifting into roommate status. There was no connection and no viable communication. His unspoken message that business came first rang out loud and clear to Danielle.</li> <li>Garrett didn’t spend a lot of time seducing Danielle, nor did he pay attention to the needs of his young bride of 20. He was in the work and grind mode which benefited them, yet in the process, he ignored her. He wanted to feel connected to Danielle through sex, touching, and talking – yet that was a complete turn off to her because of their lack of connection and how he wasn’t showing up for her.</li> </ul> QUESTION How do you show up for your spouse?     Point #4: What You Focus On, Expands <ul> <li>The loss of their spark, trust, and financial stability, coupled with the demise of their communication, created a very difficult environment for them as a couple. They graduated from not communicating at all to all-out fighting mode in every conversation; they wanted to spend time with other people, rather than with each other. Garrett was receiving emotional fulfillment by having conversations with his female clients and coworkers.</li> <li>During this time in 2010, while pregnant with their second child, Danielle stopped looking to Garrett as the source of her happiness and breadwinner, and instead began looking within herself with newfound courage to speak freely and to take on life – without him, if necessary – which resulted in the birth of her business. That was also the beginning of the turning point in their marriage.</li> </ul> QUESTION Where do you put your energy and focus? How is it enhancing or detracting from your relationship?   Point #5: A Threesome Will Help You Keep Your Game On Point <ul> <li>Upon discovering their different Love Languages, Garrett learns he has been giving Danielle what he wants to receive, rather than what she wants and needs. Couples and individual therapy enabled them to get past the triggers and blowing up stage while keeping them inside the fight and conversation.</li> <li>Garrett shares that therapy and third-party conversations are what saved their marriage. Danielle advises: Be real about your feelings during therapy – even if it means arguing in front of the therapist or spontaneously jumping up and doing burpees and push-ups.</li> </ul> QUESTION Are you giving your spouse what you want to receive, or are you giving them what theywant and need?   Communication Challenge: Begin discovering your love languages and take action on giving to your spouse what they want and need.   Date Night Topic: Engage in the conversation with your spouse about starting therapy together.   Quote of the Week: “The thing that saves our marriage more than anything, is Date Night. It’s the simplest part of the form of the game in restoring communication, connection, passion, fashion, love, and everything else inside of marriage.” —Garrett J White “A lot of time with the love languages, it’s not your love language, but you get to cross that boundary to get your own fucking love language met. I used to say, ‘I don’t want to do this. It’s not me. It’s not how I was raised.’ I learned quickly that if I want my needs met, I have to serve him – and vice-versa.” —Danielle White

The Key to Communication | Date Your Wife | EP 054

Grab some popcorn, folks, and get ready for another off the charts episode of the always spicy and highly entertaining Date Your Wife podcast, featuring the refreshing “tell it like it is” co-hosts, Garrett J and Danielle K White. They’re at it once again as they delve into Garrett’s self-proclaimed favorite topic of Sex. Danielle calls Garrett out on his creepy strip shows in his weird thong and invites him to become more comfortable with his sexuality, and Garrett says he doesn’t want empty sex – aka vaginal masturbation. Fan favorites Quickie Quickie Porn Star and TTF are back in the mix, and there’s a new arrival on the scene: Slip ‘n Slide.  *EPISODE REPLAY FROM MARCH OF 2018.   Every week married couple Danielle and Garrett J White share insights and perspectives from within their own lives regarding the following topics discussed each month: Week 1: Sex Week 2: Money Week 3: Parenting Week 4: Communication In This Week’s Podcast….SEX Point #1: Sexy Seduction 101  Being sexy is as simple as walking around in a new bra and underwear while casually asking, “Have you seen my toothbrush?” Garrett suggests saving money by skipping the bra and just buying the panties. Sometimes it’s a ‘top-stays-on-bottom-comes-off’ kind of night. Other times, it’s an everything comes off, keep the lights on and do a little dancing around kind of night. Most women need a little wining and dining before the main course. Take her there just a little bit and then worry about yourself.  QUESTION   How have QQPS (Quickie Quickie Porn Star) and TTF (Touch Me-Tell Me-Fuck Me) become game-changers in your marital sex life? Point #2: Sex Therapy Is Not About Sex  Throughout their marriage, Danielle had never felt there was a safe space to talk about sex with Garrett, making it awkward for her to even bring up. She found herself starting to believe his story about her that she didn’t want to have sex. Sex therapy for the White’s yields the single greatest breakthrough for Garrett after Danielle divulges a piece of information that instantly shreds a story he created during his first marriage and brought with him into theirs. Garrett creates a new story which shifts and rocks their world.  QUESTION   Men: What is your sexual story? Point #3: The Perfect Storm  As a 15-year-old Mormon teen who has been raised that sex before marriage is taboo, Garrett divulged to his parents his plan to have sex with his 18-year-old girlfriend after the upcoming Prom. He immediately gets shipped away to live with his grandparents in Utah for a couple of months, and as a result, never has a conversation about it or closure with his girlfriend whom he has been dating for a year and is madly in love with. Garrett dates his first wife under the umbrella that says sexual relations are taboo before marriage. Yet, they fool around and have sexual relations, lie about it to their religious leaders, adding to the guilt and shame created when he was 15. Sex in his marriage with Danielle becomes problematic, as Garrett carries into it this brewing cesspool of guilt, shame, and pain, while Danielle, because of her Mormon upbringing, feels like she has to stifle the sexual feelings that come naturally to her.  QUESTION   How has your upbringing shaped and influenced your attitude, beliefs, and stories about sex? Point #4: Written in the Stars  In her astrological studies, Danielle is validated by her discoveries that, as a Taurus woman, she is very sensual, loves cuddling, and is very happily satisfied with her traditional approach to sex because a good thing never gets old. She’s been changing it up with QQPS, which Garrett loves. Communication for Gemini’s is huge, and they love to be emotionally stimulated more than anything else. Garrett realized that he had gotten so disrespectful as a husband and exposes the lie that all he wanted was someone to have sex with every day. What has exploded their sex life is their connection to truth.  QUESTION   What is written in the stars about you individually that resonates with you, that can serve you and your spouse in your marriage? Point #5: Your Story is Your Biggest Problem  Garrett: I didn’t know what our relationship would be if we weren’t always arguing about having sex. Danielle: I was fearful and wondering if we have a new story, does that mean we have a new story with somebody else? There was a lot of action and collision that had to happen, which were really a pursuit of truth underneath the surface of all the lies that we were telling, which came in two forms: the blatant lies we were telling and the stories that we started to believe. Your stories are powerful enough to convert your husband or wife to believe.  QUESTION   What are the lies that the collision in your marriage is trying to uncover? Communication Challenge: What is your sexual story? Do the investigation on your own about your own story, and then in a conversation with your spouse, share your results with them. Date Night Topic: On your date night, be open to having a conversation about how the stories you tell are your biggest problems. Quote of the Week: “We had come to the point where our stories had become so intense that it was almost easier for us to burn the story and burn the relationship…and just try again with somebody else. But the crazy part was, guess what we would have taken with us? The same fuckin story.” —Garrett J White   “I bet a lot of men feel like that towards their wives [I need a vagina. We’re married. Your vagina is mine.] It devalues the actual qualities that they want and need to create fulfillment, and it devalues those qualities in themselves. They start looking at and treating their wives as objects. I felt that way and was thinking ‘you better give me more credit than just being a good piece of ass.” —Danielle K White

Grab some popcorn, folks, and get ready for another off the charts episode of the always spicy and highly entertaining Date Your Wife podcast, featuring the refreshing “tell it like it is” co-hosts, Garrett J and Danielle K White. They’re at it once again as they delve into Garrett’s self-proclaimed favorite topic of Sex. Danielle calls Garrett out on his creepy strip shows in his weird thong and invites him to become more comfortable with his sexuality, and Garrett says he doesn’t want empty sex – aka vaginal masturbation. Fan favorites Quickie Quickie Porn Star and TTF are back in the mix, and there’s a new arrival on the scene: Slip ‘n Slide. *EPISODE REPLAY FROM MARCH OF 2018.   Every week married couple Danielle and Garrett J White share insights and perspectives from within their own lives regarding the following topics discussed each month: Week 1: Sex Week 2: Money Week 3: Parenting Week 4: Communication In This Week’s Podcast….SEX Point #1: Sexy Seduction 101 <ul> <li>Being sexy is as simple as walking around in a new bra and underwear while casually asking, “Have you seen my toothbrush?” Garrett suggests saving money by skipping the bra and just buying the panties. Sometimes it’s a ‘top-stays-on-bottom-comes-off’ kind of night. Other times, it’s an everything comes off, keep the lights on and do a little dancing around kind of night.</li> <li>Most women need a little wining and dining before the main course. Take her there just a little bit and then worry about yourself.</li> </ul> QUESTION How have QQPS (Quickie Quickie Porn Star) and TTF (Touch Me-Tell Me-Fuck Me) become game-changers in your marital sex life? Point #2: Sex Therapy Is Not About Sex <ul> <li>Throughout their marriage, Danielle had never felt there was a safe space to talk about sex with Garrett, making it awkward for her to even bring up. She found herself starting to believe his story about her that she didn’t want to have sex.</li> <li>Sex therapy for the White’s yields the single greatest breakthrough for Garrett after Danielle divulges a piece of information that instantly shreds a story he created during his first marriage and brought with him into theirs. Garrett creates a new story which shifts and rocks their world.</li> </ul> QUESTION Men: What is your sexual story? Point #3: The Perfect Storm <ul> <li>As a 15-year-old Mormon teen who has been raised that sex before marriage is taboo, Garrett divulged to his parents his plan to have sex with his 18-year-old girlfriend after the upcoming Prom. He immediately gets shipped away to live with his grandparents in Utah for a couple of months, and as a result, never has a conversation about it or closure with his girlfriend whom he has been dating for a year and is madly in love with.</li> <li>Garrett dates his first wife under the umbrella that says sexual relations are taboo before marriage. Yet, they fool around and have sexual relations, lie about it to their religious leaders, adding to the guilt and shame created when he was 15. Sex in his marriage with Danielle becomes problematic, as Garrett carries into it this brewing cesspool of guilt, shame, and pain, while Danielle, because of her Mormon upbringing, feels like she has to stifle the sexual feelings that come naturally to her.</li> </ul> QUESTION How has your upbringing shaped and influenced your attitude, beliefs, and stories about sex? Point #4: Written in the Stars <ul> <li>In her astrological studies, Danielle is validated by her discoveries that, as a Taurus woman, she is very sensual, loves cuddling, and is very happily satisfied with her traditional approach to sex because a good thing never gets old. She’s been changing it up with QQPS, which Garrett loves.</li> <li>Communication for Gemini’s is huge, and they love to be emotionally stimulated more than anything else. Garrett realized that he had gotten so disrespectful as a husband and exposes the lie that all he wanted was someone to have sex with every day. What has exploded their sex life is their connection to truth.</li> </ul> QUESTION What is written in the stars about you individually that resonates with you, that can serve you and your spouse in your marriage? Point #5: Your Story is Your Biggest Problem <ul> <li>Garrett: I didn’t know what our relationship would be if we weren’t always arguing about having sex. Danielle: I was fearful and wondering if we have a new story, does that mean we have a new story with somebody else?</li> <li>There was a lot of action and collision that had to happen, which were really a pursuit of truth underneath the surface of all the lies that we were telling, which came in two forms: the blatant lies we were telling and the stories that we started to believe. Your stories are powerful enough to convert your husband or wife to believe.</li> </ul> QUESTION What are the lies that the collision in your marriage is trying to uncover? Communication Challenge: What is your sexual story? Do the investigation on your own about your own story, and then in a conversation with your spouse, share your results with them. Date Night Topic: On your date night, be open to having a conversation about how the stories you tell are your biggest problems. Quote of the Week: “We had come to the point where our stories had become so intense that it was almost easier for us to burn the story and burn the relationship…and just try again with somebody else. But the crazy part was, guess what we would have taken with us? The same fuckin story.” —Garrett J White “I bet a lot of men feel like that towards their wives [I need a vagina. We’re married. Your vagina is mine.] It devalues the actual qualities that they want and need to create fulfillment, and it devalues those qualities in themselves. They start looking at and treating their wives as objects. I felt that way and was thinking ‘you better give me more credit than just being a good piece of ass.” —Danielle K White

Slip ‘N Slide | Date Your Wife | Ep 083

Married co-hosts, Danielle K and Garrett J White, share their experiences as they do their best to navigate their way through this life. This week, the topic of conversation is Communication.  *EPISODE REPLAY FROM OCTOBER 2018*   Every week married couple Danielle and Garrett J White share insights and perspectives from within their own lives regarding the following topics discussed each month: Week 1: Sex Week 2: Money Week 3: Parenting Week 4: Communication  In This Week’s Podcast….Communication Point #1: Some Like it Hot  Danielle attributes her direct communication to the fact that she’s a Taurus. “They’re actually sweet people, but if you set them off, you better get out of the fucking way.” In marriage, she believes you have to use tact when you communicate with your partner. She usually runs questionable things through the ‘dating filter’ before she sends them to Garrett: “If we were dating, would I say this?”  QUESTION  How often do you find yourself running your communication through filters?  Point #2: Don’t Poke the Bear  Garret: Once Danielle is face down in the pillow, and the dog is curled up at her feet, I am now encroaching into the evil lair of insanity. I go about my evening routine knowing that Danielle is in comatose mode. Danielle: Do you want to make love to your whiteboards, or do you want to make love to me? Just give me a little squeeze. If I respond, you’re in luck; if I say nothing, you’re shit out of luck.  QUESTION  What non-verbal signals and signs do you give to each other?  Point #3: Feeling Wanted  Garrett: There was a time I was unable to acknowledge to myself nor have a conversation with Danielle about the fact that sex was important to me. I was always indirect and hoping things would work out instead of directionally speaking to them. It was the same with my businesses. Danielle: I started to understand that in order to get what I wanted, we both had to feel wanted. Girls like and want sex, but I think it’s more of being wanted, and having that attention and validation that my man is into me.  QUESTION  How do you make sure your partner feels wanted by you?  Point #4: Direct Communication  Garrett: Part of the conversation in our home is that we talk directly with each other, as well as in front of our children. Our kids have very strong opinions about things, and they use very powerful language. I used to steer clear of direct communication in our marriage, particularly on the topic of sex, because I just did not know how to get over my story of feeling rejected and my pain of feeling so.  QUESTION  In what areas of your life do you have a challenge with direct communication?  Point #5: Running Man  Garrett: I had given myself permission for a very long time to allow our relationship to be on eggshells, mostly because I literally couldn’t commit to much and I was always in a place where I was ready to bail. About two years ago, a shift took place inside of Garrett causing the back door to completely disappear. Danielle noticed huge results after Garrett finally gave himself permission to commit and go all in.  QUESTION  What level of commitment do you have inside your marriage?   Communication Challenge:  Inside of your relationship, where are you avoiding direct conversations? How is this impacting your marriage?   Date Night Topic:  Have a conversation about this topic: In order to get what I want, we both have to feel wanted.   Quote of the Week:  “Commitment itself is the bridge or gateway to actual direct communication. If you’re not committed to your marriage, or to the person you’re married to, direct communication cannot happen.” –Garrett J White “As we set our relationship up for success, it impacts so many other areas of our life, including the example we set for our children.” –Danielle K White

Married co-hosts, Danielle K and Garrett J White, share their experiences as they do their best to navigate their way through this life. This week, the topic of conversation is Communication. *EPISODE REPLAY FROM OCTOBER 2018*   Every week married couple Danielle and Garrett J White share insights and perspectives from within their own lives regarding the following topics discussed each month: Week 1: Sex Week 2: Money Week 3: Parenting Week 4: Communication In This Week’s Podcast….Communication Point #1: Some Like it Hot <ul> <li>Danielle attributes her direct communication to the fact that she’s a Taurus. “They’re actually sweet people, but if you set them off, you better get out of the fucking way.”</li> <li>In marriage, she believes you have to use tact when you communicate with your partner. She usually runs questionable things through the ‘dating filter’ before she sends them to Garrett: “If we were dating, would I say this?”</li> </ul> QUESTION How often do you find yourself running your communication through filters? Point #2: Don’t Poke the Bear <ul> <li>Garret: Once Danielle is face down in the pillow, and the dog is curled up at her feet, I am now encroaching into the evil lair of insanity. I go about my evening routine knowing that Danielle is in comatose mode.</li> <li>Danielle: Do you want to make love to your whiteboards, or do you want to make love to me? Just give me a little squeeze. If I respond, you’re in luck; if I say nothing, you’re shit out of luck.</li> </ul> QUESTION What non-verbal signals and signs do you give to each other? Point #3: Feeling Wanted <ul> <li>Garrett: There was a time I was unable to acknowledge to myself nor have a conversation with Danielle about the fact that sex was important to me. I was always indirect and hoping things would work out instead of directionally speaking to them. It was the same with my businesses.</li> <li>Danielle: I started to understand that in order to get what I wanted, we both had to feel wanted. Girls like and want sex, but I think it’s more of being wanted, and having that attention and validation that my man is into me.</li> </ul> QUESTION How do you make sure your partner feels wanted by you? Point #4: Direct Communication <ul> <li>Garrett: Part of the conversation in our home is that we talk directly with each other, as well as in front of our children. Our kids have very strong opinions about things, and they use very powerful language.</li> <li>I used to steer clear of direct communication in our marriage, particularly on the topic of sex, because I just did not know how to get over my story of feeling rejected and my pain of feeling so.</li> </ul> QUESTION In what areas of your life do you have a challenge with direct communication? Point #5: Running Man <ul> <li>Garrett: I had given myself permission for a very long time to allow our relationship to be on eggshells, mostly because I literally couldn’t commit to much and I was always in a place where I was ready to bail.</li> <li>About two years ago, a shift took place inside of Garrett causing the back door to completely disappear. Danielle noticed huge results after Garrett finally gave himself permission to commit and go all in.</li> </ul> QUESTION What level of commitment do you have inside your marriage? Communication Challenge: Inside of your relationship, where are you avoiding direct conversations? How is this impacting your marriage? Date Night Topic: Have a conversation about this topic: In order to get what I want, we both have to feel wanted. Quote of the Week: “Commitment itself is the bridge or gateway to actual direct communication. If you’re not committed to your marriage, or to the person you’re married to, direct communication cannot happen.” –Garrett J White “As we set our relationship up for success, it impacts so many other areas of our life, including the example we set for our children.” –Danielle K White

Direct Communication | Date Your Wife | EP 085

Today’s conversation with Garrett and Danielle is about the topic of Money and the important role it plays in your relationship. *This is a previously aired episode from April 2018. Every week married couple Danielle and Garrett J White share insights and perspectives from within their own lives regarding the following topics discussed each month: Week 1: Sex Week 2: Money Week 3: Parenting Week 4: Communication  In This Week’s Podcast….MONEY Point #1: Men Must Produce  When you make enough money to put your family into abundance, there’s a shift in the way that you see yourself as a man and a shift in the way you see your relationship. It also affects the way your wife sees you.   Generally, women want to be taken care of. Even if we can produce, we still want our man to ‘be the man’ and take care of us. A man is sexier to a woman when he’s the one producing.  QUESTION  Does this ring true for you as a couple?  Point #2: Money is a Tool  Garrett: Inside of our relationships, money sits at the core. It allows you to do so much shit as a couple or it constrains you to do so much shit as a couple. We have friends who celebrate their success and use it as a tool to inspire other people to create more, and then we have other friends who simply hide it all and pretend like they’re broke.   Danielle: There was a period of about five years where we were experiencing rapid growth and we disconnected ourselves from people. I had surface relationships and felt like I was kind of guarding myself. What I’ve come to realize now is that I can have relationships with everyone  – it’s just a matter of me being comfortable with me.  QUESTION  Are you living in a scarcity mindset while being surrounded by your wealth?  Point #3: You Must Leap  In 2009 after I had lost everything, I was offered a job from a friend at a very crucial time for me when I didn’t have a lot of belief in myself. I was terrified as a husband and as a producer and had lost all confidence in myself. There came a pivotal moment when I realized my life was in the balance and something in my soul said, “You must fucking leap!”   Danielle: When we were dating, I saw Garrett for who he was and who he could become. I knew there were great things in store for him. So when I saw him selling out, I was so upset because I knew what he was capable of doing and becoming so much more.  QUESTION  Where in your life have you settled?  Point #4: Don’t Settle  Garrett: One of the greatest gifts my wife has given to me about money is that she rode my ass about it. My wife helped me see that being driven by the money is not about being driven by the money. As you get better and better at making money as a man inside of marriage, inside of that place it forces you to become a new man.   Danielle: I think that people play it safe in life in fear of failure. If I leap and I fall on my face, then there are consequences; but if I just stay in the safe zone, then I can just ride this out forever. If you’re listening to this and you’re feeling a stab in the heart to take action in your life, do it.  QUESTION  Where in your life are you feeling the call to take a leap of faith?  Point #5: Team Work  Garrett: There are a lot of you here who need to rise. Danielle and I work as a team to push each other. There are times she wants to settle into her little comfortable cocoon and then I kick her straight out of the cocoon, I rip it open and throw her off the cliff. And she does the same for me.  Danielle: You can produce way more as a couple if you can get on the same page of experiencing more growth together. If you can take those experiences of who you are as a couple and make them work, two is better than one, at least in my experience for us. We push each other in that way.  QUESTION  What is your dance as a couple in the way you support each other’s growth?   Communication Challenge:  Have a conversation as a couple and allow yourself to collide and dream. Sit down and set a target of a game that you could create together. Who can you become as a couple economically? Who can you become as a producer individually or collectively? What would it require for you to become to pull that off?   Date Night Topic:  Give yourself some credit for where you are. Challenge yourself on your Date Night to have a conversation about possibility or collision. Either one of these paths will lead you to a new position and possibility inside of your life.   Quote of the Week:  “My money is a reflection of my ability to produce and create value in the marketplace. So I produce and I create more not for the target of having money, but rather we are in this place of a desire to become more, and inside of that we use money production as a way to accelerate that.” —Garrett J White   “Be you at every level.” —Danielle K White

Today’s conversation with Garrett and Danielle is about the topic of Money and the important role it plays in your relationship. *This is a previously aired episode from April 2018. Every week married couple Danielle and Garrett J White share insights and perspectives from within their own lives regarding the following topics discussed each month: Week 1: Sex Week 2: Money Week 3: Parenting Week 4: Communication In This Week’s Podcast….MONEY Point #1: Men Must Produce <ul> <li>When you make enough money to put your family into abundance, there’s a shift in the way that you see yourself as a man and a shift in the way you see your relationship. It also affects the way your wife sees you. </li> <li>Generally, women want to be taken care of. Even if we can produce, we still want our man to ‘be the man’ and take care of us. A man is sexier to a woman when he’s the one producing.</li> </ul> QUESTION Does this ring true for you as a couple? Point #2: Money is a Tool <ul> <li>Garrett: Inside of our relationships, money sits at the core. It allows you to do so much shit as a couple or it constrains you to do so much shit as a couple. We have friends who celebrate their success and use it as a tool to inspire other people to create more, and then we have other friends who simply hide it all and pretend like they’re broke. </li> <li>Danielle: There was a period of about five years where we were experiencing rapid growth and we disconnected ourselves from people. I had surface relationships and felt like I was kind of guarding myself. What I’ve come to realize now is that I can have relationships with everyone  – it’s just a matter of me being comfortable with me.</li> </ul> QUESTION Are you living in a scarcity mindset while being surrounded by your wealth? Point #3: You Must Leap <ul> <li>In 2009 after I had lost everything, I was offered a job from a friend at a very crucial time for me when I didn’t have a lot of belief in myself. I was terrified as a husband and as a producer and had lost all confidence in myself. There came a pivotal moment when I realized my life was in the balance and something in my soul said, “You must fucking leap!” </li> <li>Danielle: When we were dating, I saw Garrett for who he was and who he could become. I knew there were great things in store for him. So when I saw him selling out, I was so upset because I knew what he was capable of doing and becoming so much more.</li> </ul> QUESTION Where in your life have you settled? Point #4: Don’t Settle <ul> <li>Garrett: One of the greatest gifts my wife has given to me about money is that she rode my ass about it. My wife helped me see that being driven by the money is not about being driven by the money. As you get better and better at making money as a man inside of marriage, inside of that place it forces you to become a new man. </li> <li>Danielle: I think that people play it safe in life in fear of failure. If I leap and I fall on my face, then there are consequences; but if I just stay in the safe zone, then I can just ride this out forever. If you’re listening to this and you’re feeling a stab in the heart to take action in your life, do it.</li> </ul> QUESTION Where in your life are you feeling the call to take a leap of faith? Point #5: Team Work <ul> <li>Garrett: There are a lot of you here who need to rise. Danielle and I work as a team to push each other. There are times she wants to settle into her little comfortable cocoon and then I kick her straight out of the cocoon, I rip it open and throw her off the cliff. And she does the same for me. </li> <li>Danielle: You can produce way more as a couple if you can get on the same page of experiencing more growth together. If you can take those experiences of who you are as a couple and make them work, two is better than one, at least in my experience for us. We push each other in that way.</li> </ul> QUESTION What is your dance as a couple in the way you support each other’s growth? Communication Challenge: Have a conversation as a couple and allow yourself to collide and dream. Sit down and set a target of a game that you could create together. Who can you become as a couple economically? Who can you become as a producer individually or collectively? What would it require for you to become to pull that off? Date Night Topic: Give yourself some credit for where you are. Challenge yourself on your Date Night to have a conversation about possibility or collision. Either one of these paths will lead you to a new position and possibility inside of your life. Quote of the Week: “My money is a reflection of my ability to produce and create value in the marketplace. So I produce and I create more not for the target of having money, but rather we are in this place of a desire to become more, and inside of that we use money production as a way to accelerate that.” —Garrett J White “Be you at every level.” —Danielle K White

Money Matters | Date Your Wife | EP 077

Being married can be a complete shit show AND amazing... all at the same time! While most marriages end up in sedation, disconnection and/or divorce, Garrett and Danielle have committed to creating something a little bit better than that and a bit more fun. Join them in this week's podcast that doubles as their very own therapy session as they engage in a conversation about the all-important topic of communication. * This is an encore presentation of a previously aired episode from May 2018.   Every week married couple Danielle and Garrett J White share insights and perspectives from within their own lives regarding the following topics discussed each month: Week 1: Sex Week 2: Money Week 3: Parenting Week 4: Communication  In This Week’s Podcast….COMMUNICATION Point #1: Less Roommate, More Spark  You can be comfortable with somebody and respect them, and maybe you don’t fight, and things are generally good, but there’s no spark. Your idea of a night out is coming home from a long day at work, throwing on your sweats and watching Netflix together…and then you wonder what happened to that spark you used to feel. Date Night is one of the ways the sparks continue to fly between Danielle and Garrett. Danielle loves getting all dressed up for Date Night and treats it like an actual date like she did during their pre-marriage days. She inspired Garrett to level up his game from his go-to flannel shirt to his now custom-tailored design jackets.  QUESTION  When was the last time the two of you dressed up and stepped out on the town together? How did it make you feel?  Point #2: Sugar ‘n Spice  Garrett: Inside the communication game, people sometimes think that it’s the spice they’re trying to get rid of. When I define spice, I’m talking about arguments, disagreements, giggling, laughing, joking, having fun, getting angry at each other, fighting, battling, debating, having crucial conversations – it’s everything! Danielle: There’s a lot of spice in our marriage, and we collide a lot with our personalities – both in good ways and in ways where we piss each other off. Spice, for me, is “I fucking hate you,” which turns into “I fucking love you.”  QUESTION  How do you keep your marriage fresh and spicy?  Point #3: Love Notes  Making daily deposits into your family’s life is part of living the Warrior’s Way, which is part of something called the CORE 4. Men typically don’t know how to communicate their feelings and don’t send love messages to their wives, which Garrett believes many women would love receiving from their husbands. While Danielle acknowledges the daily texts from Garrett, her love language is found more in spending quality time together with him, like doing these podcasts or going on Date Nights. She sends texts of encouragement when she senses he’s having a stressful day, which messages Garrett loves receiving as part of his love language.  QUESTION  What are your thoughts about giving or receiving love notes?  Point #4: Give and Take  Garrett: In my world, I had to learn that it was ok to buy my wife shit. It was a very hard thing for me, and I questioned how buying gifts for her made me more valuable as a husband. Danielle: Because I can buy my own things, I felt like I had to submit and let Garrett buy me gifts, which is one of my love languages. I wanted him to be the man, yet at first, I wasn’t allowing space for him to do that.  QUESTION  Why are you stopping your spouse from giving you what you say you want to receive from them?  Point #5: Dance With Me  Garrett: As you can tell, we’re still working on this, which is the ability actually to communicate with and understand the language of our partner. Inside of that, we get to choose to do two things: 1- appreciate the love language they receive in, and 2-learn to give the love language that the people we’re married to want to receive.  QUESTION  What does your daily dance of communication look like?   Communication Challenge:  Danielle: Garrett needs to be told, “I love you,” but my communication style is different. How about you? Is your communication style verbal or silent? What about your spouse’s? Do you think one is wrong and one is right?   Date Night Topic:  For women, what is your husband’s love language, and how can you cross the line a little bit for him? For men, how can you cross the line a little bit for your wife?   Quote of the Week:  “I’m essentially making love to the ocean because she accepts me every morning.” —Garrett J White  “We’ll argue about a topic, and one of us has to reach over to the other side and reciprocate eventually. You have to cross the line in order to make it a little more peaceful in your home.” —Danielle K White

Being married can be a complete shit show AND amazing... all at the same time! While most marriages end up in sedation, disconnection and/or divorce, Garrett and Danielle have committed to creating something a little bit better than that and a bit more fun. Join them in this week's podcast that doubles as their very own therapy session as they engage in a conversation about the all-important topic of communication. * This is an encore presentation of a previously aired episode from May 2018.   Every week married couple Danielle and Garrett J White share insights and perspectives from within their own lives regarding the following topics discussed each month: Week 1: Sex Week 2: Money Week 3: Parenting Week 4: Communication In This Week’s Podcast….COMMUNICATION Point #1: Less Roommate, More Spark <ul> <li>You can be comfortable with somebody and respect them, and maybe you don’t fight, and things are generally good, but there’s no spark. Your idea of a night out is coming home from a long day at work, throwing on your sweats and watching Netflix together…and then you wonder what happened to that spark you used to feel.</li> <li>Date Night is one of the ways the sparks continue to fly between Danielle and Garrett. Danielle loves getting all dressed up for Date Night and treats it like an actual date like she did during their pre-marriage days. She inspired Garrett to level up his game from his go-to flannel shirt to his now custom-tailored design jackets.</li> </ul> QUESTION When was the last time the two of you dressed up and stepped out on the town together? How did it make you feel? Point #2: Sugar ‘n Spice <ul> <li>Garrett: Inside the communication game, people sometimes think that it’s the spice they’re trying to get rid of. When I define spice, I’m talking about arguments, disagreements, giggling, laughing, joking, having fun, getting angry at each other, fighting, battling, debating, having crucial conversations – it’s everything!</li> <li>Danielle: There’s a lot of spice in our marriage, and we collide a lot with our personalities – both in good ways and in ways where we piss each other off. Spice, for me, is “I fucking hate you,” which turns into “I fucking love you.”</li> </ul> QUESTION How do you keep your marriage fresh and spicy? Point #3: Love Notes <ul> <li>Making daily deposits into your family’s life is part of living the Warrior’s Way, which is part of something called the CORE 4. Men typically don’t know how to communicate their feelings and don’t send love messages to their wives, which Garrett believes many women would love receiving from their husbands.</li> <li>While Danielle acknowledges the daily texts from Garrett, her love language is found more in spending quality time together with him, like doing these podcasts or going on Date Nights. She sends texts of encouragement when she senses he’s having a stressful day, which messages Garrett loves receiving as part of his love language.</li> </ul> QUESTION What are your thoughts about giving or receiving love notes? Point #4: Give and Take <ul> <li>Garrett: In my world, I had to learn that it was ok to buy my wife shit. It was a very hard thing for me, and I questioned how buying gifts for her made me more valuable as a husband.</li> <li>Danielle: Because I can buy my own things, I felt like I had to submit and let Garrett buy me gifts, which is one of my love languages. I wanted him to be the man, yet at first, I wasn’t allowing space for him to do that.</li> </ul> QUESTION Why are you stopping your spouse from giving you what you say you want to receive from them? Point #5: Dance With Me <ul> <li>Garrett: As you can tell, we’re still working on this, which is the ability actually to communicate with and understand the language of our partner.</li> <li>Inside of that, we get to choose to do two things: 1- appreciate the love language they receive in, and 2-learn to give the love language that the people we’re married to want to receive.</li> </ul> QUESTION What does your daily dance of communication look like? Communication Challenge: Danielle: Garrett needs to be told, “I love you,” but my communication style is different. How about you? Is your communication style verbal or silent? What about your spouse’s? Do you think one is wrong and one is right? Date Night Topic: For women, what is your husband’s love language, and how can you cross the line a little bit for him? For men, how can you cross the line a little bit for your wife? Quote of the Week: “I’m essentially making love to the ocean because she accepts me every morning.” —Garrett J White “We’ll argue about a topic, and one of us has to reach over to the other side and reciprocate eventually. You have to cross the line in order to make it a little more peaceful in your home.” —Danielle K White

Cross the Line | Date Your Wife | Ep 081

Every week married couple Danielle and Garrett J White share insights and perspectives from within their own lives regarding the following topics discussed each month: Week 1: Sex Week 2: Money Week 3: Parenting Week 4: Communication In This Week’s Podcast….Parenting Point #1: Morning Chaos  Garrett describes their eleven-year-old daughter as a morning psychopath. She sets her alarm to go off up to nine times every morning just so she can wake up and get out of bed. Their seven-year-old daughter is very much into routines. It’s almost as if she goes into auto-pilot in the morning and is good to go as long as everything is set up perfectly for her in advance.  QUESTION  How are your children similar? How are they different?  Point #2: Unsolicited Advice  Garrett is very committed as a parent to teaching the ‘right’ thing to his children. He’s had people reach out to him offering unsolicited advice about their parenting styles. Danielle: Everybody is super judgy about parenting styles, and at some level, every parent feels like they have fucked up their kids.  QUESTION  How do you handle unsolicited advice when it comes your way?  Point #3: I Love You No Matter What  If Danielle had to choose only one thing to teach their children, it would be accountability coupled with love. “If you could embed accountability and love into a kid, I think that would solve the world’s problems.” Years ago, Garrett began telling his daughters, “I love you, no matter what.” No matter what they do or say, he told them he will always love them.  QUESTION  If, as a parent, you could only teach your children one thing, what would that be?  Point #4: Boxes and Checklists  Just like in education, there’s a box that people try to put their kids into of ‘this is what it looks like to be successful.” And anything that doesn’t fit inside that box, they consider inaccurate or not right. For most parents, they’re always trying to get it “right” with their children, so they always feel guilty. And because they never get it ‘right’ based on a checklist that never ends, they don’t focus on the actual belief systems they want to instill in their children.  QUESTION  How are you keeping your children inside a box?  Point #5: Core Beliefs  Garrett: You can teach your kids all kinds of tactics, but what are the important mindsets and skillsets that you ‘should’ teach your children? There are plenty of people who know how to do the dishes, yet are unable to produce in life. I’m convinced that what people actually learn as children and what they take into their adult life is driven by the values and beliefs their parents instill in them, both by what they say and by what they watch their parents do.  QUESTION  What are the core beliefs that you are brainwashing your kids to believe that are empowering them as people?   Communication Challenge:  What are the actual belief systems that matter to you, and that you are instilling in your children? What are the beliefs about themselves and the world that you are consciously depositing into them?   Date Night Topic:  On your next Date Night, have a conversation about how you want your children to remember your interaction and love connection as a couple.   Quote of the Week:  “I was blown away when I got married at how horrifically unprepared I was to be a married man.” –Garrett J White “She’s not mine to manipulate and control. I’m there to guide and lead her; to show up and do the best I can as a parent.” –Danielle K White

Every week married couple Danielle and Garrett J White share insights and perspectives from within their own lives regarding the following topics discussed each month: Week 1: Sex Week 2: Money Week 3: Parenting Week 4: Communication In This Week’s Podcast….Parenting Point #1: Morning Chaos <ul> <li>Garrett describes their eleven-year-old daughter as a morning psychopath. She sets her alarm to go off up to nine times every morning just so she can wake up and get out of bed.</li> <li>Their seven-year-old daughter is very much into routines. It’s almost as if she goes into auto-pilot in the morning and is good to go as long as everything is set up perfectly for her in advance.</li> </ul> QUESTION How are your children similar? How are they different? Point #2: Unsolicited Advice <ul> <li>Garrett is very committed as a parent to teaching the ‘right’ thing to his children. He’s had people reach out to him offering unsolicited advice about their parenting styles.</li> <li>Danielle: Everybody is super judgy about parenting styles, and at some level, every parent feels like they have fucked up their kids.</li> </ul> QUESTION How do you handle unsolicited advice when it comes your way? Point #3: I Love You No Matter What <ul> <li>If Danielle had to choose only one thing to teach their children, it would be accountability coupled with love. “If you could embed accountability and love into a kid, I think that would solve the world’s problems.”</li> <li>Years ago, Garrett began telling his daughters, “I love you, no matter what.” No matter what they do or say, he told them he will always love them.</li> </ul> QUESTION If, as a parent, you could only teach your children one thing, what would that be? Point #4: Boxes and Checklists <ul> <li>Just like in education, there’s a box that people try to put their kids into of ‘this is what it looks like to be successful.” And anything that doesn’t fit inside that box, they consider inaccurate or not right.</li> <li>For most parents, they’re always trying to get it “right” with their children, so they always feel guilty. And because they never get it ‘right’ based on a checklist that never ends, they don’t focus on the actual belief systems they want to instill in their children.</li> </ul> QUESTION How are you keeping your children inside a box? Point #5: Core Beliefs <ul> <li>Garrett: You can teach your kids all kinds of tactics, but what are the important mindsets and skillsets that you ‘should’ teach your children? There are plenty of people who know how to do the dishes, yet are unable to produce in life.</li> <li>I’m convinced that what people actually learn as children and what they take into their adult life is driven by the values and beliefs their parents instill in them, both by what they say and by what they watch their parents do.</li> </ul> QUESTION What are the core beliefs that you are brainwashing your kids to believe that are empowering them as people? Communication Challenge: What are the actual belief systems that matter to you, and that you are instilling in your children? What are the beliefs about themselves and the world that you are consciously depositing into them? Date Night Topic: On your next Date Night, have a conversation about how you want your children to remember your interaction and love connection as a couple. Quote of the Week: “I was blown away when I got married at how horrifically unprepared I was to be a married man.” –Garrett J White “She’s not mine to manipulate and control. I’m there to guide and lead her; to show up and do the best I can as a parent.” –Danielle K White

Go In With Love | Date Your Wife | EP 084

Welcome to the Date Your Wife Podcast, aka the White’s weekly therapy session, coming to you for the first time from their new home studio. In this week’s personal and up-close conversation from inside their bedroom, the highlights of this episode include details about Closet Sex, Garrett’s tendency to go to the extreme, the purpose behind this podcast, and business strategies when it comes to dealing with the haters. *This is an Encore presentation from February 2019*   Every week married couple Danielle and Garrett J White share insights and perspectives from within their own lives regarding the following topics discussed each month: Week 1: Sex Week 2: Money Week 3: Parenting Week 4: Communication  In This Week’s Podcast…Communication Point #1: Closet Sex  Danielle’s certain she has nailed down the exact time and place of conception of their baby due in July. Knowing her ‘window of pregnancy opportunity’ was wide open, and determined to take full advantage of it, she seduced Garrett one morning as he was on his way out the door.  QUESTION  Ladies, when and where was the last time you seduced your husband or partner?  Point #2: Rivals &amp; Haters  Any successful business is always going to have rivals and haters. When you’re new in the game, you take it very seriously and it can be crippling. Garrett: Inside of a relationship, you have to choose you. At the end of the day, if you’re in a relationship that’s not working out, as hard as it might be, you have to take responsibility for the way your marriage is because of you.  QUESTION  What has been your experience with the “haters” inside of your personal and business life?  Point #3: Compromise  Danielle: When there’s an end result that I’m looking to get, sometimes I don’t look at the steps I need to take in order to get to that end result. A relationship is a sacrifice and compromise on both ends. There were many times Garrett and I told each other to fuck off. No one goes into a relationship wishing it was shitty.  QUESTION  What is the current state of your marriage?    Point #4: They’re Going to Talk Shit  Garrett: We started down this path of being responsible for our own change as individuals which allowed us to make some very important decisions when it came to business. Part of that process comes from dealing with people who talk shit. In the beginning stage of business, we always believe we’re the exception and that there is something we can do that will have people NOT talk shit about us.  QUESTION  What is your strategy for dealing with people who talk shit about you or your business?  Point #5: The Certainty of Collision  Garrett: I think you need to fucking punch people because it helps YOU. When I launched my first podcast filled with explicit lyrics in the Christian category, I was like a knife salesman at a waterbed convention. People began attacking Garrett and were out to take him down. Even though he knew he had brought this on himself, he wasn’t prepared for the incessant heat he was receiving. As he launched his counter-attack on the haters, it began to weaponize him.  QUESTION  Where in your world have you taken a stand for something, and because of that, have you have received enormous backlash and persecution?   Communication Challenge:  Have a conversation around this topic: It’s your partner that gives you insight and guidance that no one else will give you; it’s your partner that gives you a swift kick, and it’s hard to receive.   Date Night Topic:  On your next Date Night, have a steamy conversation about seduction.   Quote of the Week:  “You don’t have to go looking for haters. The moment you take a stand of any significance, a war of haters will come to your front fucking door who are there to train you on how to be able to effectively and powerfully collide with other human beings..” —Garrett J White “If you can’t take the heat, you’re not strong enough to keep going. People who have had enormous amounts of success have figured out how to move on, say fuck you, have tunnel vision, work harder and smarter, and become the best at what they’re doing.” —Danielle K White

Welcome to the Date Your Wife Podcast, aka the White’s weekly therapy session, coming to you for the first time from their new home studio. In this week’s personal and up-close conversation from inside their bedroom, the highlights of this episode include details about Closet Sex, Garrett’s tendency to go to the extreme, the purpose behind this podcast, and business strategies when it comes to dealing with the haters. *This is an Encore presentation from February 2019*   Every week married couple Danielle and Garrett J White share insights and perspectives from within their own lives regarding the following topics discussed each month: Week 1: Sex Week 2: Money Week 3: Parenting Week 4: Communication In This Week’s Podcast…Communication Point #1: Closet Sex <ul> <li>Danielle’s certain she has nailed down the exact time and place of conception of their baby due in July.</li> <li>Knowing her ‘window of pregnancy opportunity’ was wide open, and determined to take full advantage of it, she seduced Garrett one morning as he was on his way out the door.</li> </ul> QUESTION Ladies, when and where was the last time you seduced your husband or partner? Point #2: Rivals &amp; Haters <ul> <li>Any successful business is always going to have rivals and haters. When you’re new in the game, you take it very seriously and it can be crippling.</li> <li>Garrett: Inside of a relationship, you have to choose you. At the end of the day, if you’re in a relationship that’s not working out, as hard as it might be, you have to take responsibility for the way your marriage is because of you.</li> </ul> QUESTION What has been your experience with the “haters” inside of your personal and business life? Point #3: Compromise <ul> <li>Danielle: When there’s an end result that I’m looking to get, sometimes I don’t look at the steps I need to take in order to get to that end result.</li> <li>A relationship is a sacrifice and compromise on both ends. There were many times Garrett and I told each other to fuck off. No one goes into a relationship wishing it was shitty.</li> </ul> QUESTION What is the current state of your marriage?   Point #4: They’re Going to Talk Shit <ul> <li>Garrett: We started down this path of being responsible for our own change as individuals which allowed us to make some very important decisions when it came to business.</li> <li>Part of that process comes from dealing with people who talk shit. In the beginning stage of business, we always believe we’re the exception and that there is something we can do that will have people NOT talk shit about us.</li> </ul> QUESTION What is your strategy for dealing with people who talk shit about you or your business? Point #5: The Certainty of Collision <ul> <li>Garrett: I think you need to fucking punch people because it helps YOU. When I launched my first podcast filled with explicit lyrics in the Christian category, I was like a knife salesman at a waterbed convention.</li> <li>People began attacking Garrett and were out to take him down. Even though he knew he had brought this on himself, he wasn’t prepared for the incessant heat he was receiving. As he launched his counter-attack on the haters, it began to weaponize him.</li> </ul> QUESTION Where in your world have you taken a stand for something, and because of that, have you have received enormous backlash and persecution? Communication Challenge: Have a conversation around this topic: It’s your partner that gives you insight and guidance that no one else will give you; it’s your partner that gives you a swift kick, and it’s hard to receive. Date Night Topic: On your next Date Night, have a steamy conversation about seduction. Quote of the Week: “You don’t have to go looking for haters. The moment you take a stand of any significance, a war of haters will come to your front fucking door who are there to train you on how to be able to effectively and powerfully collide with other human beings..” —Garrett J White “If you can’t take the heat, you’re not strong enough to keep going. People who have had enormous amounts of success have figured out how to move on, say fuck you, have tunnel vision, work harder and smarter, and become the best at what they’re doing.” —Danielle K White

The Certainty of Collision| Date Your Wife | EP 094

Garrett and Danielle ring in the New Year with news of baby White who is due to join the family in late July. In this first episode of 2019, the White’s have a conversation that is all about babies and children, and how much they change the game in all areas of a couple’s life. Point #1: New Beginnings  Early last year after announcing their pregnancy to a room of three thousand people, Garrett discovered that Danielle had miscarried their baby, a sad and rough experience for them all. After a fun-filled summer of adventure, Danielle realized that if she wanted to have another baby it was “now or never.” Even at the young age of 35, she falls into the ill-named category, “Advanced Maternal Age.”  QUESTION  What new beginnings are you currently experiencing?  Point #2: Change Is In the Air  Both Garrett and Danielle agree that no one can really prepare for and comprehend how much a baby and children change your life. Danielle: Having kids pushes you to do things you didn’t think were possible. It fast-tracks you. It brings out this maturity and responsibility and gives you this sense of purpose.  QUESTION  What changes are you anticipating or experiencing in 2019?   Point #3: The Shift  Garrett: I don’t think a human being can fully grasp the intensity of what it is to be a human being without birthing or raising a human being. It creates a shift. There are a lot of people who are anti-children. What makes that so ironic is, if someone would have had the same thought process as they’re having, they wouldn’t fucking exist.  QUESTION  What is the shift you have experienced as a result of having children?   Point #4: Legacy  When Garrett turned 40, he started thinking about his children and his legacy in a way that he had never before considered. “Not being married and not having children, there’s no fucking way I’d work this hard.” Both Garrett and Danielle believe that women are a motivating factor when it comes to men working hard and producing and remember Garrett’s fierce drive for work when they were dating.  QUESTION  How does having a wife and children affect your drive to produce?  Point #5: Mixed Signals  Garrett: When you’re pregnant, there’s some kind of endorphin that releases from you that fucks with the sexual mojo for a man. There’s a shield that blocks my balls. I want to be all over you but I just can’t. From a woman’s perspective, Danielle understands and appreciates the sensitivity, yet there are times when she doesn’t want to be treated like she is pregnant; she wants instead to experience that sexual energy between them.  QUESTION  How do you handle sexual intimacy during pregnancy?   Communication Challenge:  Begin the conversation of Legacy and what that looks like inside of your relationship.     Date Night Topic:  Date Nights and Get-a-ways: Grab your calendar and begin brainstorming &amp; planning what you want to do together in 2019. Go outside the box and get adventurous!   Quote of the Week:  “It’s almost like your body is sending some sort of signal to me that’s saying, “Thank you, you’re not welcome here.” —Garrett J White “Having kids pushes you to do things you didn’t think were possible. It fast-tracks you. It brings out this maturity and responsibility and gives you this sense of purpose.” —Danielle K White

Garrett and Danielle ring in the New Year with news of baby White who is due to join the family in late July. In this first episode of 2019, the White’s have a conversation that is all about babies and children, and how much they change the game in all areas of a couple’s life. Point #1: New Beginnings <ul> <li>Early last year after announcing their pregnancy to a room of three thousand people, Garrett discovered that Danielle had miscarried their baby, a sad and rough experience for them all.</li> <li>After a fun-filled summer of adventure, Danielle realized that if she wanted to have another baby it was “now or never.” Even at the young age of 35, she falls into the ill-named category, “Advanced Maternal Age.”</li> </ul> QUESTION What new beginnings are you currently experiencing? Point #2: Change Is In the Air <ul> <li>Both Garrett and Danielle agree that no one can really prepare for and comprehend how much a baby and children change your life.</li> <li>Danielle: Having kids pushes you to do things you didn’t think were possible. It fast-tracks you. It brings out this maturity and responsibility and gives you this sense of purpose.</li> </ul> QUESTION What changes are you anticipating or experiencing in 2019?  Point #3: The Shift <ul> <li>Garrett: I don’t think a human being can fully grasp the intensity of what it is to be a human being without birthing or raising a human being. It creates a shift.</li> <li>There are a lot of people who are anti-children. What makes that so ironic is, if someone would have had the same thought process as they’re having, they wouldn’t fucking exist.</li> </ul> QUESTION What is the shift you have experienced as a result of having children?  Point #4: Legacy <ul> <li>When Garrett turned 40, he started thinking about his children and his legacy in a way that he had never before considered. “Not being married and not having children, there’s no fucking way I’d work this hard.”</li> <li>Both Garrett and Danielle believe that women are a motivating factor when it comes to men working hard and producing and remember Garrett’s fierce drive for work when they were dating.</li> </ul> QUESTION How does having a wife and children affect your drive to produce? Point #5: Mixed Signals <ul> <li>Garrett: When you’re pregnant, there’s some kind of endorphin that releases from you that fucks with the sexual mojo for a man. There’s a shield that blocks my balls. I want to be all over you but I just can’t.</li> <li>From a woman’s perspective, Danielle understands and appreciates the sensitivity, yet there are times when she doesn’t want to be treated like she is pregnant; she wants instead to experience that sexual energy between them.</li> </ul> QUESTION How do you handle sexual intimacy during pregnancy? Communication Challenge: Begin the conversation of Legacy and what that looks like inside of your relationship.   Date Night Topic: Date Nights and Get-a-ways: Grab your calendar and begin brainstorming &amp; planning what you want to do together in 2019. Go outside the box and get adventurous! Quote of the Week: “It’s almost like your body is sending some sort of signal to me that’s saying, “Thank you, you’re not welcome here.” —Garrett J White “Having kids pushes you to do things you didn’t think were possible. It fast-tracks you. It brings out this maturity and responsibility and gives you this sense of purpose.” —Danielle K White

Baby, Oh Baby! | Date Your Wife| EP 053

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