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New York Magazine's Sex Lives

A weekly podcast about sex, lust, dating, technology, coupling, porn, fetish and freakiness. But mostly sex. With New York Magazine’s sex columnist Maureen O’Connor.

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How to Make Me Come

How to Make Me Come

This week, we go long on sexual stamina—how long is too long, how long is just right, and when did we start taking an eg... Read more

9 Sep 2015

26mins

Ranked #2

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The Dating Tour of America

The Dating Tour of America

Where is the best place in America to fall in love? When Cosmopolitan asked Jada Yuan to find out, she flew to six wildl... Read more

24 Mar 2017

42mins

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Does She Have to Orgasm Every Time?

Does She Have to Orgasm Every Time?

It's the ultimate sign of straight masculinity: the ability to get a woman off. So what happens when he fails? Dr. Ian K... Read more

12 May 2016

32mins

Ranked #4

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The Hamptons Had an Orgy

The Hamptons Had an Orgy

This week: a special report from a $400-per-couple Hamptons sex party, marketed to "the world's sexual elite." (And thei... Read more

7 Jul 2016

33mins

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Ep. 01: Into the Sex Box

Ep. 01: Into the Sex Box

This week: Do happy couples masturbate? (Wait, when?) And what kind of a crazy freak show is We's sex-therapy hour Sex B... Read more

15 Apr 2015

16mins

Ranked #6

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The Sexual Self-Inventory

The Sexual Self-Inventory

After writing a column about figuring out the optimal number of premarital sex partners, The Cut's Mandy Stadtmiller dis... Read more

30 Jun 2016

38mins

Ranked #7

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HERPES!!!

HERPES!!!

Ella Dawson has herpes, and talking about it is sort of her thing. She writes herpes-themed erotica; she gave a TED talk... Read more

17 Mar 2017

31mins

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Where (and When) Is It OK to Jerk Off In Public?

Where (and When) Is It OK to Jerk Off In Public?

Also, why are we so much more comfortable with public sex than public masturbation? We ask these and many other sex-etiq... Read more

27 Jan 2016

32mins

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Consider the Handjob

Consider the Handjob

This week we're joined by Mandy Stadtmiller (immediately-legendary author of "Move Over Butt Stuff, Hand Jobs Are Back")... Read more

13 Apr 2016

29mins

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What Can't Period Sex Tell You About Someone's Sex Life?

What Can't Period Sex Tell You About Someone's Sex Life?

Carolyn Yates joins us to talk about Autostraddle's massive recent data analysis, which found period sex to be "the ulti... Read more

9 Mar 2016

25mins

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Porn for the Blind

Porn for the Blind

It's real, real weird, and pretty amazing, and this week we talk to Nona Willis Aronowitz about the whole wide world of ... Read more

23 Jun 2016

40mins

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Is Clean Sex Possible (or Desirable)?

Is Clean Sex Possible (or Desirable)?

This week we grill cleanup icon Jolie Kerr (of “Ask a Clean Person”) about how to wash a sex toy, launder semen stains, ... Read more

2 Mar 2016

36mins

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How Loud Is Unusually Loud?

How Loud Is Unusually Loud?

This week, we talk to data guru Mona Chalabi about just how much noisepeople actually make during sex, when it's normal ... Read more

16 Mar 2016

34mins

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Can Balls Be Beautiful?

Can Balls Be Beautiful?

We debate the question at length with Brian Sloan, the veteran of the World’s Most Beautiful Vagina Contest who recently... Read more

10 Feb 2016

27mins

Ranked #15

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How Do You Know It's Real?

How Do You Know It's Real?

Sometimes, love is a private feeling between two people. Other times, it's a declaration from the rooftops, a wedding an... Read more

2 Dec 2016

22mins

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The Facebook of Sex

The Facebook of Sex

Cindy Gallop dates younger men— which is how she discovered that younger men seem to have received their sexual educatio... Read more

24 Feb 2017

30mins

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Why Dating Is So Damn Awkward

Why Dating Is So Damn Awkward

Does dating suck because you’re awkward, or are you awkward because it’s a date? Ty Tashiro, psychologist and author of ... Read more

28 Apr 2017

33mins

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Hardcore Porn and the Pregnant Woman

Hardcore Porn and the Pregnant Woman

In the seventh month of her pregnancy, E.J. Dickson found herself with the libido of a teenage boy— including a desire t... Read more

9 Dec 2016

24mins

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Ep. 04: How Loud Is Too Loud?

Ep. 04: How Loud Is Too Loud?

This week: Just how loud is too loud for fucking (and who actually complains about their neighbors’ noise levels)? Shoul... Read more

29 Apr 2015

30mins

Ranked #20

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Are You a Grower or Show-er in Love?

Are You a Grower or Show-er in Love?

When it comes to penis size, some men will show their full potential from the start, while others have the ability to gr... Read more

4 Aug 2016

32mins

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