Hello! Bakji here! Time to tell you about my new(ish) blog! I've not really got the time to do the podcast these days but I can find the time to write about kink. So ProudToBeKinky will live on... but as my person blog. Come and have a little read!

Hello! Bakji here! Time to tell you about my new(ish) blog! I've not really got the time to do the podcast these days but I can find the time to write about kink. So ProudToBeKinky will live on... but as my person blog. Come and have a little read!

Kinky Blogging

Guest episode! Guest episode! Guest episode!  Did I mention that this is a guest episode? This week I chat to GazGagged all about being gay, being kinky and having fun on Recon. Hope you like it! Remember, you can always email me at hello@proudtobekinky.com

Guest episode! Guest episode! Guest episode!  Did I mention that this is a guest episode? This week I chat to GazGagged all about being gay, being kinky and having fun on Recon. Hope you like it! Remember, you can always email me at <a href="mailto:hello@proudtobekinky.com">hello@proudtobekinky.com</a>

119 - Being Gay and Kinky with GazGagged

///// SORRY ABOUT THE ECHO!!!! ///////    Chat to other kinky people? Join our Discord Server but BE NICE! &gt; https://discordapp.com/invite/SAmS42E      Want more Podcasts from us? Visit our Patreon page &gt; www.patreon.com/proudtobekinky    Just Bakji this week. I talk about 3D printing, if it’s worth getting one to make kinky bits as well as the things I’ve made.   Links:  3D Printer: http://tiny.cc/7kfuez Plastic Filament: http://tiny.cc/2lfuez Fusion360: http://tiny.cc/kqfuez Cura: http://tiny.cc/1rfuez   PLEASE NOTE: We were having problems with our email address but it DOES STILL WORK! (If you contacted us between July and August 2019 then I’m sorry to say we were not able to see your email. Please send it again)   If you would like to get in touch with us you can do so via any of our social media platforms:    PTBK Website Twitter Instagram Fetlife Floss’ Blog    We are also part of the Podcast Jukebox Network along with Off the Cuffs, Being There, the Will Sean Podcast, Drinks with God, No Love Lost, The Queers Next Door, Disability After Dark and The Goth Librarian. We are all available and most podcast apps, and as always love to read you reviews if your chosen app allows for them. 

///// SORRY ABOUT THE ECHO!!!! /////// <ul> <li>Chat to other kinky people? Join our Discord Server but BE NICE! &gt; <a href="https://discordapp.com/invite/SAmS42E" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://discordapp.com/invite/SAmS42E</a> </li> </ul> <ul> <li>Want more Podcasts from us? Visit our Patreon page &gt; <a href="http://www.patreon.com/proudtobekinky" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.patreon.com/proudtobekinky</a></li> </ul> Just Bakji this week. I talk about 3D printing, if it’s worth getting one to make kinky bits as well as the things I’ve made. Links: <ul> <li>3D Printer: <a href="http://tiny.cc/7kfuez" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">http://tiny.cc/7kfuez</a></li> <li>Plastic Filament: <a href="http://tiny.cc/2lfuez" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">http://tiny.cc/2lfuez</a></li> <li>Fusion360: <a href="http://tiny.cc/kqfuez" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">http://tiny.cc/kqfuez</a></li> <li>Cura: <a href="http://tiny.cc/1rfuez" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">http://tiny.cc/1rfuez</a></li> </ul> PLEASE NOTE: We were having problems with our email address but it DOES STILL WORK! (If you contacted us between July and August 2019 then I’m sorry to say we were not able to see your email. Please send it again) If you would like to get in touch with us you can do so via any of our social media platforms: <ul> <li><a href="http://www.proudtobekinky.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">PTBK Website</a></li> <li><a href="https://twitter.com/proudtobekinky?lang=en" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Twitter</a></li> <li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/proudtobekinky/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Instagram</a></li> <li><a href="https://fetlife.com/users/6748317" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Fetlife</a></li> <li><a href="https://flossdoeslife.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Floss’ Blog</a></li> </ul> We are also part of the <a href="https://twitter.com/PodcastJukebox" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Podcast Jukebox Network</a> along with Off the Cuffs, Being There, the Will Sean Podcast, Drinks with God, No Love Lost, The Queers Next Door, Disability After Dark and The Goth Librarian. We are all available and most podcast apps, and as always love to read you reviews if your chosen app allows for them.

116 - Kinky 3D Printing

 Chat to other kinky people? Join our Discord Server but BE NICE! &gt; https://discordapp.com/invite/SAmS42E      Want more Podcasts from us? Visit our Patreon page &gt; www.patreon.com/proudtobekinky    We talk about cunilingus! After Bakji read ‘She Comes First’ to learn more about give oral sex, we discuss what it’s really like from Floss’ perspective.    ‘She Comes First’ on Amazon:  https://www.amazon.co.uk/She-Comes-First-Thinking-Pleasuring-ebook/dp/B000FC1PRK  PLEASE NOTE: We were having problems with our email address but it DOES STILL WORK! (If you contacted us between July and August 2019 then I’m sorry to say we were not able to see your email. Please send it again)   If you would like to get in touch with us you can do so via any of our social media platforms:    PTBK Website Twitter Instagram Fetlife Floss’ Blog    We are also part of the Podcast Jukebox Network along with Off the Cuffs, Being There, the Will Sean Podcast, Drinks with God, No Love Lost, The Queers Next Door, Disability After Dark and The Goth Librarian. We are all available and most podcast apps, and as always love to read you reviews if your chosen app allows for them. 

<ul> <li>Chat to other kinky people? Join our Discord Server but BE NICE! &gt; <a href="https://discordapp.com/invite/SAmS42E" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://discordapp.com/invite/SAmS42E</a> </li> </ul> <ul> <li>Want more Podcasts from us? Visit our Patreon page &gt; <a href="http://www.patreon.com/proudtobekinky" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.patreon.com/proudtobekinky</a></li> </ul> We talk about cunilingus! After Bakji read ‘She Comes First’ to learn more about give oral sex, we discuss what it’s really like from Floss’ perspective.  ‘She Comes First’ on Amazon: <a href="https://www.amazon.co.uk/She-Comes-First-Thinking-Pleasuring-ebook/dp/B000FC1PRK" rel="nofollow" target="_blank"> https://www.amazon.co.uk/She-Comes-First-Thinking-Pleasuring-ebook/dp/B000FC1PRK</a> PLEASE NOTE: We were having problems with our email address but it DOES STILL WORK! (If you contacted us between July and August 2019 then I’m sorry to say we were not able to see your email. Please send it again) If you would like to get in touch with us you can do so via any of our social media platforms: <ul> <li><a href="http://www.proudtobekinky.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">PTBK Website</a></li> <li><a href="https://twitter.com/proudtobekinky?lang=en" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Twitter</a></li> <li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/proudtobekinky/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Instagram</a></li> <li><a href="https://fetlife.com/users/6748317" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Fetlife</a></li> <li><a href="https://flossdoeslife.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Floss’ Blog</a></li> </ul> We are also part of the <a href="https://twitter.com/PodcastJukebox" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Podcast Jukebox Network</a> along with Off the Cuffs, Being There, the Will Sean Podcast, Drinks with God, No Love Lost, The Queers Next Door, Disability After Dark and The Goth Librarian. We are all available and most podcast apps, and as always love to read you reviews if your chosen app allows for them.

115 - Cunnilingus

 Chat to other kinky people? Join our Discord Server but BE NICE! &gt; https://discordapp.com/invite/SAmS42E      Want more Podcasts from us? Visit our Patreon page &gt; www.patreon.com/proudtobekinky    We chat about the films, TV shows and websites that we saw when we were younger that helped shape our kinks.    PLEASE NOTE: We are having problems with our email address but it DOES STILL WORK!   If you would like to get in touch with us you can do so via any of our social media platforms:    PTBK Website Twitter Instagram Fetlife Floss’ Blog   We are also part of the Podcast Jukebox Network along with Off the Cuffs, Being There, the Will Sean Podcast, Drinks with God, No Love Lost, The Queers Next Door, Disability After Dark and The Goth Librarian. We are all available and most podcast apps, and as always love to read you reviews if your chosen app allows for them.

<ul> <li>Chat to other kinky people? Join our Discord Server but BE NICE! &gt; <a href="https://discordapp.com/invite/SAmS42E" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://discordapp.com/invite/SAmS42E</a> </li> </ul> <ul> <li>Want more Podcasts from us? Visit our Patreon page &gt; <a href="http://www.patreon.com/proudtobekinky" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.patreon.com/proudtobekinky</a></li> </ul> We chat about the films, TV shows and websites that we saw when we were younger that helped shape our kinks.  PLEASE NOTE: We are having problems with our email address but it DOES STILL WORK! If you would like to get in touch with us you can do so via any of our social media platforms: <ul> <li><a href="http://www.proudtobekinky.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">PTBK Website</a></li> <li><a href="https://twitter.com/proudtobekinky?lang=en" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Twitter</a></li> <li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/proudtobekinky/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Instagram</a></li> <li><a href="https://fetlife.com/users/6748317" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Fetlife</a></li> <li><a href="https://flossdoeslife.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Floss’ Blog</a></li> </ul> We are also part of the <a href="https://twitter.com/PodcastJukebox" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Podcast Jukebox Network</a> along with Off the Cuffs, Being There, the Will Sean Podcast, Drinks with God, No Love Lost, The Queers Next Door, Disability After Dark and The Goth Librarian. We are all available and most podcast apps, and as always love to read you reviews if your chosen app allows for them.

114 - Where Did Our Kinks Come From?

 Chat to other kinky people? Join our Discord Server but BE NICE! &gt; https://discordapp.com/invite/SAmS42E      Want more Podcasts from us? Visit our Patreon page &gt; www.patreon.com/proudtobekinky    WE'RE BACK! This week we talk about New and Old Relationship Energy... what is that? Well have a little listen and find out.   Here are some of the links we mentioned: More Than Two:  https://www.amazon.com/More-Than-Two-Practical-Polyamory/dp/0991399706/ref=cm_cr_arp_d_product_top?ie=UTF8 The article from Poly.Land:  https://poly.land/2017/02/21/7-ways-keep-love-alive-make-old-relationship-feel-new/     PLEASE NOTE: We were unable to receive any emails to hello@proudtobekinky.com between 2nd July 2019 and 9th September 2019, really sorry. The email address is now working fine, please email again if you didn't get a reply.   If you would like to get in touch with us you can do so via any of our social media platforms:    PTBK Website Twitter Instagram Fetlife Floss’ Blog    We are also part of the Podcast Jukebox Network along with Off the Cuffs, Being There, the Will Sean Podcast, Drinks with God, No Love Lost, The Queers Next Door, Disability After Dark and The Goth Librarian. We are all available and most podcast apps, and as always love to read you reviews if your chosen app allows for them. 

<ul> <li>Chat to other kinky people? Join our Discord Server but BE NICE! &gt; <a href="https://discordapp.com/invite/SAmS42E" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://discordapp.com/invite/SAmS42E </a></li> </ul> <ul> <li>Want more Podcasts from us? Visit our Patreon page &gt; <a href="http://www.patreon.com/proudtobekinky" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.patreon.com/proudtobekinky</a></li> </ul> WE'RE BACK! This week we talk about New and Old Relationship Energy... what is that? Well have a little listen and find out. Here are some of the links we mentioned: More Than Two: <a href="https://www.amazon.com/More-Than-Two-Practical-Polyamory/dp/0991399706/ref=cm_cr_arp_d_product_top?ie=UTF8" rel="nofollow" target="_blank"> https://www.amazon.com/More-Than-Two-Practical-Polyamory/dp/0991399706/ref=cm_cr_arp_d_product_top?ie=UTF8</a> The article from Poly.Land: <a href="https://poly.land/2017/02/21/7-ways-keep-love-alive-make-old-relationship-feel-new/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank"> https://poly.land/2017/02/21/7-ways-keep-love-alive-make-old-relationship-feel-new/</a> PLEASE NOTE: We were unable to receive any emails to <a href="mailto:hello@proundto">hello@proudtobekinky.com</a> between 2nd July 2019 and 9th September 2019, really sorry. The email address is now working fine, please email again if you didn't get a reply. If you would like to get in touch with us you can do so via any of our social media platforms: <ul> <li><a href="http://www.proudtobekinky.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">PTBK Website</a></li> <li><a href="https://twitter.com/proudtobekinky?lang=en" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Twitter</a></li> <li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/proudtobekinky/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Instagram</a></li> <li><a href="https://fetlife.com/users/6748317" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Fetlife</a></li> <li><a href="https://flossdoeslife.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Floss’ Blog</a></li> </ul> We are also part of the <a href="https://twitter.com/PodcastJukebox" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Podcast Jukebox Network</a> along with Off the Cuffs, Being There, the Will Sean Podcast, Drinks with God, No Love Lost, The Queers Next Door, Disability After Dark and The Goth Librarian. We are all available and most podcast apps, and as always love to read you reviews if your chosen app allows for them.

113 - New and Old Relationship Energy

 Chat to other kinky people? Join our Discord Server but BE NICE! &gt; https://discordapp.com/invite/SAmS42E      Want more Podcasts from us? Visit our Patreon page &gt; www.patreon.com/proudtobekinky    We talk about dynamics and BDSM, kind of like the roles between two people… it’s hard to explain really so just give it a little listen!   PLEASE NOTE: We are having problems with our email address but it DOES STILL WORK!   If you would like to get in touch with us you can do so via any of our social media platforms:    PTBK Website Twitter Instagram Fetlife Floss’ Blog   We are also part of the Podcast Jukebox Network along with Off the Cuffs, Being There, the Will Sean Podcast, Drinks with God, No Love Lost, The Queers Next Door, Disability After Dark and The Goth Librarian. We are all available and most podcast apps, and as always love to read you reviews if your chosen app allows for them.

<ul> <li>Chat to other kinky people? Join our Discord Server but BE NICE! &gt; <a href="https://discordapp.com/invite/SAmS42E" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://discordapp.com/invite/SAmS42E</a> </li> </ul> <ul> <li>Want more Podcasts from us? Visit our Patreon page &gt; <a href="http://www.patreon.com/proudtobekinky" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.patreon.com/proudtobekinky</a></li> </ul> We talk about dynamics and BDSM, kind of like the roles between two people… it’s hard to explain really so just give it a little listen! PLEASE NOTE: We are having problems with our email address but it DOES STILL WORK! If you would like to get in touch with us you can do so via any of our social media platforms: <ul> <li><a href="http://www.proudtobekinky.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">PTBK Website</a></li> <li><a href="https://twitter.com/proudtobekinky?lang=en" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Twitter</a></li> <li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/proudtobekinky/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Instagram</a></li> <li><a href="https://fetlife.com/users/6748317" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Fetlife</a></li> <li><a href="https://flossdoeslife.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Floss’ Blog</a></li> </ul> We are also part of the <a href="https://twitter.com/PodcastJukebox" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Podcast Jukebox Network</a> along with Off the Cuffs, Being There, the Will Sean Podcast, Drinks with God, No Love Lost, The Queers Next Door, Disability After Dark and The Goth Librarian. We are all available and most podcast apps, and as always love to read you reviews if your chosen app allows for them.

112 - Dynamics in BDSM

 Chat to other kinky people? Join our Discord Server but BE NICE and say hello! &gt; https://discordapp.com/invite/SAmS42E      Want more Podcasts from us? Visit our Patreon page &gt; www.patreon.com/proudtobekinky    We continue with those questions that are designed to make someone fall in love. I think it worked!   If you would like to get in touch with us you can do so via any of our social media platforms:    PTBK Website Twitter Instagram Fetlife Floss’ Blog   We are also part of the Podcast Jukebox Network along with Off the Cuffs, Being There, the Will Sean Podcast, Drinks with God, No Love Lost, The Queers Next Door, Disability After Dark and The Goth Librarian. We are all available and most podcast apps, and as always love to read you reviews if your chosen app allows for them.

<ul> <li>Chat to other kinky people? Join our Discord Server but BE NICE and say hello! &gt; <a href="https://discordapp.com/invite/SAmS42E" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://discordapp.com/invite/SAmS42E</a> </li> </ul> <ul> <li>Want more Podcasts from us? Visit our Patreon page &gt; <a href="http://www.patreon.com/proudtobekinky" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.patreon.com/proudtobekinky</a></li> </ul> We continue with those questions that are designed to make someone fall in love. I think it worked! If you would like to get in touch with us you can do so via any of our social media platforms: <ul> <li><a href="http://www.proudtobekinky.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">PTBK Website</a></li> <li><a href="https://twitter.com/proudtobekinky?lang=en" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Twitter</a></li> <li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/proudtobekinky/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Instagram</a></li> <li><a href="https://fetlife.com/users/6748317" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Fetlife</a></li> <li><a href="https://flossdoeslife.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Floss’ Blog</a></li> </ul> We are also part of the <a href="https://twitter.com/PodcastJukebox" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Podcast Jukebox Network</a> along with Off the Cuffs, Being There, the Will Sean Podcast, Drinks with God, No Love Lost, The Queers Next Door, Disability After Dark and The Goth Librarian. We are all available and most podcast apps, and as always love to read you reviews if your chosen app allows for them.

111 - Finding Out A Bit More About Bakji

 Chat to other kinky people? Join our Discord Server but BE NICE! &gt; https://discordapp.com/invite/SAmS42E      Want more Podcasts from us? Visit our Patreon page &gt; www.patreon.com/proudtobekinky    We talk to Max Long &amp; Kitty Delish again! Max brings his floggers, whips and paddles along and we talk all about impact play.     If you would like to get in touch with us you can do so via any of our social media platforms:    PTBK Website Twitter Instagram Fetlife Floss’ Blog   We are also part of the Podcast Jukebox Network along with Off the Cuffs, Being There, the Will Sean Podcast, Drinks with God, No Love Lost, The Queers Next Door, Disability After Dark and The Goth Librarian. We are all available and most podcast apps, and as always love to read you reviews if your chosen app allows for them.

<ul> <li>Chat to other kinky people? Join our Discord Server but BE NICE! &gt; <a href="https://discordapp.com/invite/SAmS42E" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://discordapp.com/invite/SAmS42E</a> </li> </ul> <ul> <li>Want more Podcasts from us? Visit our Patreon page &gt; <a href="http://www.patreon.com/proudtobekinky" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.patreon.com/proudtobekinky</a></li> </ul> We talk to Max Long &amp; Kitty Delish again! Max brings his floggers, whips and paddles along and we talk all about impact play.   If you would like to get in touch with us you can do so via any of our social media platforms: <ul> <li><a href="http://www.proudtobekinky.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">PTBK Website</a></li> <li><a href="https://twitter.com/proudtobekinky?lang=en" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Twitter</a></li> <li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/proudtobekinky/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Instagram</a></li> <li><a href="https://fetlife.com/users/6748317" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Fetlife</a></li> <li><a href="https://flossdoeslife.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Floss’ Blog</a></li> </ul> We are also part of the <a href="https://twitter.com/PodcastJukebox" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Podcast Jukebox Network</a> along with Off the Cuffs, Being There, the Will Sean Podcast, Drinks with God, No Love Lost, The Queers Next Door, Disability After Dark and The Goth Librarian. We are all available and most podcast apps, and as always love to read you reviews if your chosen app allows for them.

110 - Max & Kitty AGAIN!

 Chat to other kinky people? Join our Discord Server but BE NICE... and say 'Hello'! &gt; https://discordapp.com/invite/SAmS42E     Want more Podcasts from us? Visit our Patreon page &gt; www.patreon.com/proudtobekinky    This week Floss asks me (Bakji) 36 questions designed to make ‘someone fall in love’. Listen to see if it worked!   If you would like to get in touch with us you can do so via any of our social media platforms:    PTBK Website Twitter Instagram Fetlife Floss’ Blog   We are also part of the Podcast Jukebox Network along with Off the Cuffs, Being There, the Will Sean Podcast, Drinks with God, No Love Lost, The Queers Next Door, Disability After Dark and The Goth Librarian. We are all available and most podcast apps, and as always love to read you reviews if your chosen app allows for them.

<ul> <li>Chat to other kinky people? Join our Discord Server but BE NICE... and say 'Hello'! &gt; <a href="https://discordapp.com/invite/SAmS42E" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://discordapp.com/invite/SAmS42E</a></li> </ul> <ul> <li>Want more Podcasts from us? Visit our Patreon page &gt; <a href="http://www.patreon.com/proudtobekinky" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.patreon.com/proudtobekinky</a></li> </ul> This week Floss asks me (Bakji) 36 questions designed to make ‘someone fall in love’. Listen to see if it worked! If you would like to get in touch with us you can do so via any of our social media platforms: <ul> <li><a href="http://www.proudtobekinky.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">PTBK Website</a></li> <li><a href="https://twitter.com/proudtobekinky?lang=en" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Twitter</a></li> <li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/proudtobekinky/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Instagram</a></li> <li><a href="https://fetlife.com/users/6748317" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Fetlife</a></li> <li><a href="https://flossdoeslife.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Floss’ Blog</a></li> </ul> We are also part of the <a href="https://twitter.com/PodcastJukebox" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Podcast Jukebox Network</a> along with Off the Cuffs, Being There, the Will Sean Podcast, Drinks with God, No Love Lost, The Queers Next Door, Disability After Dark and The Goth Librarian. We are all available and most podcast apps, and as always love to read you reviews if your chosen app allows for them.

109 - Finding Out About Bakji

Welcome to the #ProudToBeKinky Podcast where we discuss the social and interpersonal side of kink, BDSM, fetish and alternative sexualities. We know it's scary, getting out there and trying to meet a like-minded kinky partner.  “What if my friends find out?”, “What will people at work say?”  Well you know what... it IS possible and we know because we did it. Now we share our adventures with you. We're not here to gossip... we just want to spread positivity and share with you what worked for us. Helping you in your endeavour to find a dom, sub, play-partner, top, bottom, boyfriend, girlfriend or even just some friends with the same consensual fetishes as you.  Please enjoy #ProudToBeKinky.

I enjoy every bit of their podcasts!!! 😊

Enjoy

These two are so funny, and the information they provide is spot on!

I love this podcast!

Welcome to the #ProudToBeKinky Podcast where we discuss the social and interpersonal side of kink, BDSM, fetish and alternative sexualities. We know it's scary, getting out there and trying to meet a like-minded kinky partner. “What if my friends find out?”, “What will people at work say?” Well you know what... it IS possible and we know because we did it. Now we share our adventures with you. We're not here to gossip... we just want to spread positivity and share with you what worked for us. Helping you in your endeavour to find a dom, sub, play-partner, top, bottom, boyfriend, girlfriend or even just some friends with the same consensual fetishes as you. Please enjoy #ProudToBeKinky.

ProudToBeKinky Podcast

FemDom is our topic of discussion this week. Both Bakji and Floss are big, big fans of FemDom which you may have noticed if you are a regular listener. If you are a new listening then you about to join us in our little world of FemDom for the first time.   As a FemDom enthusiast Floss frequents quite a few forums related to the topic, including the FemDom sub-reddits. One of the recurring questions is ‘What do women get out of FemDom?’, the back and forth of these discussion made it clear that a lot of people were a bit uncertain as to why we enjoy it. One of the reasons that seems to make people question a woman’s reasons for enjoying female dominance is the misconception that is doesn’t involve sex for the woman. In most of these cases I think the sex that is being referred to is PIV, where as we tend to mean the entire spectrum of sexual activities when we discuss how we incorporate sex into our FemDom scenes. With these points in mind we discuss what FemDom looks like for us, and how it is satisfying and extremely enjoyable both with and with sexual pleasure, for both partners involved. Our perspective comes from our personal dynamic, where FemDom is included in our kinky dynamic. All experiences vary, part of this discussion though is hopefully highlighting a side of FemDom we may not always see portrayed publicly. We always love to hear feedback from you on recent or previous episodes, you can contact us via hello@proudtobekinky.com, or through any of our social media accounts, Twitter, Instagram, Fetlife and Facebook. If you’d like to hear more details about our kinky fun, you can do so by visiting our Patreon site and signing up for our Patrons only podcast FemDom and Fetish Fun, where we discuss our personal scenes in detail and talk about what we have planned for the future. We also love your reviews on iTunes, or other podcast apps where available. You can also review our fellow Podcast Jukebox members, Off the Cuffs, Drinks with God and the Will Sean podcast.

FemDom is our topic of discussion this week. Both Bakji and Floss are big, big fans of FemDom which you may have noticed if you are a regular listener. If you are a new listening then you about to join us in our little world of FemDom for the first time. <a href="http://www.proudtobekinky.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/01/Sexy-Floss.jpg" rel="nofollow" target="_blank"> </a> As a FemDom enthusiast Floss frequents quite a few forums related to the topic, including the FemDom sub-reddits. One of the recurring questions is ‘What do women get out of FemDom?’, the back and forth of these discussion made it clear that a lot of people were a bit uncertain as to why we enjoy it. One of the reasons that seems to make people question a woman’s reasons for enjoying female dominance is the misconception that is doesn’t involve sex for the woman. In most of these cases I think the sex that is being referred to is PIV, where as we tend to mean the entire spectrum of sexual activities when we discuss how we incorporate sex into our FemDom scenes. With these points in mind we discuss what FemDom looks like for us, and how it is satisfying and extremely enjoyable both with and with sexual pleasure, for both partners involved. Our perspective comes from our personal dynamic, where FemDom is included in our kinky dynamic. All experiences vary, part of this discussion though is hopefully highlighting a side of FemDom we may not always see portrayed publicly. We always love to hear feedback from you on recent or previous episodes, you can contact us via <a href="mailto:hello@proudtobekinky.com">hello@proudtobekinky.com</a>, or through any of our social media accounts, <a href="https://twitter.com/proudtobekinky?lang=en" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Twitter</a>, <a href="https://www.instagram.com/proudtobekinky/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Instagram</a>, <a href="https://fetlife.com/users/6748317" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Fetlife</a> and <a href="https://www.facebook.com/proudtobekinky/?ref=bookmarks" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Facebook</a>. If you’d like to hear more details about our kinky fun, you can do so by visiting our Patreon site and signing up for our Patrons only podcast FemDom and Fetish Fun, where we discuss our personal scenes in detail and talk about what we have planned for the future. We also love your reviews on iTunes, or other podcast apps where available. You can also review our fellow Podcast Jukebox members, Off the Cuffs, Drinks with God and the Will Sean podcast.

62 - Femdom Pleasures

Cross-dresser. Transvestite. Gender-Fluid. Transgender. BiGender. Just a few of the words that come up in this episode. They may not mean to you what they mean to our guest, and every approach is valid when someone identifies with any or all of those words. The words we have at our disposal to describe ourselves can be key in our acceptance of who we are. Being able to successfully put across  to others, where we fall on the spectrum of gender can sometimes also be key to their understanding of who we are. Allowing for more open and beneficial conversations. [caption id="attachment_1377" align="aligncenter" width="300"] Crossdressing and Being Gender Fluid[/caption]   Our guest for this episode presents as both male and female. George when presenting as male, and Georgie when presenting as female. When we met it was a day for she and her pronouns, despite Bakji’s accidental faux pas of ‘we are joined with a chap named George’ right at the beginning of our interview. Luckily we were talking to a very open, lovely and level-headed individual who understands these things happen. If you would like to follow George on Twitter you can do so via @georgemitton. Part of why we were keen to invite George onto the podcast is that he is completely open with everyone in his life about his Gender-Fluid orientation. Including family, friends and colleagues. With many aspects of BDSM and alternative lifestyles of all types the decision about whether or not to be open is a really big one. So speaking to someone who has been through it was an interesting experience. We asked Georgie how and when she discover this side of herself, and how it integrated into her life in both the earlier days, and up to and including the present day. This includes some success stories of sharing with others, and periods of time where George was pushed to the forefront, and the fluidity of gender was not as present. Overall though this is an immensely positive episode, we discuss how we can best approach telling people about the aspect of yourself you have yet to share with them, in this case being Gender-Fluid, but it could equally apply to other situations. We also cover women (and of course men) who not only support men who identify in these ways, but are also actively attracted to them. Make-up, clothes, prosthetic boobs and wigs also come up in conversation, as we ask Georgie where some good places to shop are, and what key pieces she finds most useful. Likewise we enquire as to what kind of events are available, for once you are all dressed up and want to get together with some like minded folk. Obviously as always you can hit Fetlife and the usual Fetish events and munches that we recommend, but we actually do discover some new events through talking to Georgie.  If any of what we talk about in this episode resonates with you, but you still have questions or any comments then please do get in touch. You can email us via hello@proudtobekinky.com. You can also get in touch through any one of our social media accounts, we are on Instagram, Twitter, Fetlife and Facebook. All messages are welcome.  We are also proud to be part of the Podcast Jukebox Network. If you haven’t already please check out, Off The Cuffs: a kink and BDSM podcast, Parking Lot Radio and the Will Sean Podcast. If you listen to any of us on iTunes/Apple podcast app, please do leave us a review, they really are invaluable for helping other find the podcasts you enjoy. You can also support us on Patreon, any support will go towards growing the podcast so we can reach more people, speak to more guests and generally make #ProudToBeKinky the best damn podcast it can be.

Cross-dresser. Transvestite. Gender-Fluid. Transgender. BiGender. Just a few of the words that come up in this episode. They may not mean to you what they mean to our guest, and every approach is valid when someone identifies with any or all of those words. The words we have at our disposal to describe ourselves can be key in our acceptance of who we are. Being able to successfully put across  to others, where we fall on the spectrum of gender can sometimes also be key to their understanding of who we are. Allowing for more open and beneficial conversations. [caption id="attachment_1377" align="aligncenter" width="300"]<a href="http://www.proudtobekinky.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/06/30-Crossdressing-and-Being-Gender-Fluid.jpg" rel="nofollow" target="_blank"></a> Crossdressing and Being Gender Fluid[/caption]   Our guest for this episode presents as both male and female. George when presenting as male, and Georgie when presenting as female. When we met it was a day for she and her pronouns, despite Bakji’s accidental faux pas of ‘we are joined with a chap named George’ right at the beginning of our interview. Luckily we were talking to a very open, lovely and level-headed individual who understands these things happen. If you would like to follow George on Twitter you can do so via <a href="https://twitter.com/georgemitton" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">@georgemitton</a>. Part of why we were keen to invite George onto the podcast is that he is completely open with everyone in his life about his Gender-Fluid orientation. Including family, friends and colleagues. With many aspects of BDSM and alternative lifestyles of all types the decision about whether or not to be open is a really big one. So speaking to someone who has been through it was an interesting experience. We asked Georgie how and when she discover this side of herself, and how it integrated into her life in both the earlier days, and up to and including the present day. This includes some success stories of sharing with others, and periods of time where George was pushed to the forefront, and the fluidity of gender was not as present. Overall though this is an immensely positive episode, we discuss how we can best approach telling people about the aspect of yourself you have yet to share with them, in this case being Gender-Fluid, but it could equally apply to other situations. We also cover women (and of course men) who not only support men who identify in these ways, but are also actively attracted to them. Make-up, clothes, prosthetic boobs and wigs also come up in conversation, as we ask Georgie where some good places to shop are, and what key pieces she finds most useful. Likewise we enquire as to what kind of events are available, for once you are all dressed up and want to get together with some like minded folk. Obviously as always you can hit Fetlife and the usual Fetish events and munches that we recommend, but we actually do discover some new events through talking to Georgie.  If any of what we talk about in this episode resonates with you, but you still have questions or any comments then please do get in touch. You can email us via <a href="mailto:hello@proudtobekinky.com">hello@proudtobekinky.com</a>. You can also get in touch through any one of our social media accounts, we are on <a href="https://www.instagram.com/proudtobekinky/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Instagram</a>, <a href="https://twitter.com/proudtobekinky" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Twitter</a>, <a href="https://fetlife.com/users/6748317" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Fetlife</a> and <a href="https://www.facebook.com/proudtobekinky/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Facebook</a>. All messages are welcome.  We are also proud to be part of the Podcast Jukebox Network. If you haven’t already please check out, Off The Cuffs: a kink and BDSM podcast, Parking Lot Radio and the Will Sean Podcast. If you listen to any of us on iTunes/Apple podcast app, please do leave us a review, they really are invaluable for helping other find the podcasts you enjoy. You can also support us on <a href="https://www.patreon.com/proudtobekinky" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Patreon</a>, any support will go towards growing the podcast so we can reach more people, speak to more guests and generally make #ProudToBeKinky the best damn podcast it can be.

30 - CrossDressing & Being Gender-Fluid

*** WANT MORE CHAT? JOIN OUR DISCORDZ?&gt;&gt;&gt;&gt; https://discordapp.com/invite/SAmS42E ***** This week we go back to femdom! Floss gets all sexy with latex and we try out the Hot Octopuss Stroker. We also discuss where our listeners keep their kinky gubbins. If you would like to get in touch with us you can do so via any of our social media platforms:  Twitter Instagram Fetlife Floss’ Blog  We are also part of the Podcast Jukebox Network along with Off the Cuffs, Being There, the Will Sean Podcast, Drinks with God, No Love Lost and The Goth Librarian. We are all available and most podcast apps, and as always love to read you reviews if your chosen app allows for them. You can also support us through Patreon which gives you access to our spinoff podcast ‘Kinkosity’ and the archive of FemDom and Fetish Fun. As well as ‘349 Kinky, Filthy, Dirty Questions’ compiled by and answered by Bakji and Floss.

*** WANT MORE CHAT? JOIN OUR DISCORDZ?&gt;&gt;&gt;&gt; <a href="https://discordapp.com/invite/SAmS42E" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://discordapp.com/invite/SAmS42E</a> ***** This week we go back to femdom! Floss gets all sexy with latex and we try out the Hot Octopuss Stroker. We also discuss where our listeners keep their kinky gubbins. If you would like to get in touch with us you can do so via any of our social media platforms: <ul> <li><a href="https://twitter.com/proudtobekinky?lang=en" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Twitter</a></li> <li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/proudtobekinky/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Instagram</a></li> <li><a href="https://fetlife.com/users/6748317" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Fetlife</a></li> <li><a href="https://flossdoeslife.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Floss’ Blog</a></li> </ul> We are also part of the <a href="https://twitter.com/PodcastJukebox" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Podcast Jukebox Network</a> along with Off the Cuffs, Being There, the Will Sean Podcast, Drinks with God, No Love Lost and The Goth Librarian. We are all available and most podcast apps, and as always love to read you reviews if your chosen app allows for them. You can also support us through <a href="https://www.patreon.com/proudtobekinky" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Patreon</a> which gives you access to our spinoff podcast ‘Kinkosity’ and the archive of FemDom and Fetish Fun. As well as ‘349 Kinky, Filthy, Dirty Questions’ compiled by and answered by Bakji and Floss.

89 - Femdom and P-Spot Fun

*** I WANT MY, I WANT MY, I WANT MY DISORD CHAT... https://discordapp.com/invite/SAmS42E ***** This week we talk about a recent article in The Metro about people's kinky bucket lists... only to find that all is not as it seems. Then we discuss the things we'd like to do too. If you would like to get in touch with us you can do so via any of our social media platforms:  Twitter Instagram Fetlife Floss’ Blog  We are also part of the Podcast Jukebox Network along with Off the Cuffs, Being There, the Will Sean Podcast, Drinks with God, No Love Lost and The Goth Librarian. We are all available and most podcast apps, and as always love to read you reviews if your chosen app allows for them. You can also support us through Patreon which gives you access to our spinoff podcast ‘Kinkosity’ and the archive of FemDom and Fetish Fun. As well as ‘349 Kinky, Filthy, Dirty Questions’ compiled by and answered by Bakji and Floss.

*** I WANT MY, I WANT MY, I WANT MY DISORD CHAT... <a href="https://discordapp.com/invite/SAmS42E" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://discordapp.com/invite/SAmS42E</a> ***** This week we talk about a recent article in The Metro about people's kinky bucket lists... only to find that all is not as it seems. Then we discuss the things we'd like to do too. If you would like to get in touch with us you can do so via any of our social media platforms: <ul> <li><a href="https://twitter.com/proudtobekinky?lang=en" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Twitter</a></li> <li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/proudtobekinky/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Instagram</a></li> <li><a href="https://fetlife.com/users/6748317" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Fetlife</a></li> <li><a href="https://flossdoeslife.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Floss’ Blog</a></li> </ul> We are also part of the <a href="https://twitter.com/PodcastJukebox" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Podcast Jukebox Network</a> along with Off the Cuffs, Being There, the Will Sean Podcast, Drinks with God, No Love Lost and The Goth Librarian. We are all available and most podcast apps, and as always love to read you reviews if your chosen app allows for them. You can also support us through <a href="https://www.patreon.com/proudtobekinky" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Patreon</a> which gives you access to our spinoff podcast ‘Kinkosity’ and the archive of FemDom and Fetish Fun. As well as ‘349 Kinky, Filthy, Dirty Questions’ compiled by and answered by Bakji and Floss.

96 - Kinky Bucket List

Bisexuality is our topic for today, inspired by the recent bi-visibility week and ally week, Floss asked Bakji if she could hijack an episode to discuss being bisexual. This is a bit of a one sided episode as Bakji as a straight man doesn’t have his own experience of being bisexual. He is however a great ally and was happy for Floss to get on her soapbox for episode to air her views. [caption id="attachment_1889" align="aligncenter" width="300"] Bisexuality Flag[/caption]   Floss gives her own definition of being bisexual, which is definitely at odds with the dictionary definition. As we say in the episode though, we think it’s really important not to invalidate someone else’s identity and experience by saying their bisexuality isn’t the same as yours and therefore it doesn’t count. We also briefly reflect on comparisons and difference between pansexuality and bisexuality. Again the dictionary definition seems to greatly differ from what people in the LGBTQIA+ community are saying, so Floss gives her best attempt at explaining each based on definitions she has been given by people who identify in those ways, with us all being different though these means there isn’t always a one fits all explanation. Bisexual erasure is one of the reasons we decided to this episode. Bisexual people are often ignored, removed, re-explained and falsified, both in the media and within everyday society. This is why many bisexual people have experienced the feeling that their sexuality isn't valid or ‘real’. The continued perpetuating of bisexual erasure means that many of us have experienced and continue to experience being subjected to comments surrounding the various myths of being bisexual. From the myth that we don’t exist, to tales of promiscuity and lack of commitment. The bisexual myths are rife. As we recorded, and when we have discussed this in the past, Bakji has often explained ‘no-one has ever really said that?’ The fact of the matter is that nearly every bisexual person I’ve ever spoken to has had the majority of bisexual myths aimed in their direction. Which make the comment of ‘your just doing it for attention’ hilarious, because the attention we get as an openly bisexual person is usually negative. That said however, this episode is predominantly about Floss’ experience, so your bisexual journey will look different, and we are definitely not saying one size fits all. If you have a different experience that you would like to share with us then please do get in touch. As always you can contact us on hello [at] proudtobekinky.com. You can also reach out via Instagram, Twitter, Fetlife and Facebook. You can also find us on Patreon, www.patreon.com/proudtobekinky where for $2 a month you can get access to our spin-off podcast FemDom and Fetish Fun, where Bakji and Floss discuss their kinky scene in great and sexy detail. We are also part of the Podcast Jukebox Network, along with Off the Cuffs, Drinks with God, Parking Lot Radio and the Will Sean Podcast. If you podcast app allows for reviews and rating, we are always grateful for anyone who takes the time to give us an awesome review.

Bisexuality is our topic for today, inspired by the recent bi-visibility week and ally week, Floss asked Bakji if she could hijack an episode to discuss being bisexual. This is a bit of a one sided episode as Bakji as a straight man doesn’t have his own experience of being bisexual. He is however a great ally and was happy for Floss to get on her soapbox for episode to air her views. [caption id="attachment_1889" align="aligncenter" width="300"]<a href="http://www.proudtobekinky.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/10/48-Bisexuality.png" rel="nofollow" target="_blank"></a> Bisexuality Flag[/caption]   Floss gives her own definition of being bisexual, which is definitely at odds with the dictionary definition. As we say in the episode though, we think it’s really important not to invalidate someone else’s identity and experience by saying their bisexuality isn’t the same as yours and therefore it doesn’t count. We also briefly reflect on comparisons and difference between pansexuality and bisexuality. Again the dictionary definition seems to greatly differ from what people in the LGBTQIA+ community are saying, so Floss gives her best attempt at explaining each based on definitions she has been given by people who identify in those ways, with us all being different though these means there isn’t always a one fits all explanation. Bisexual erasure is one of the reasons we decided to this episode. Bisexual people are often ignored, removed, re-explained and falsified, both in the media and within everyday society. This is why many bisexual people have experienced the feeling that their sexuality isn't valid or ‘real’. The continued perpetuating of bisexual erasure means that many of us have experienced and continue to experience being subjected to comments surrounding the various myths of being bisexual. From the myth that we don’t exist, to tales of promiscuity and lack of commitment. The bisexual myths are rife. As we recorded, and when we have discussed this in the past, Bakji has often explained ‘no-one has ever really said that?’ The fact of the matter is that nearly every bisexual person I’ve ever spoken to has had the majority of bisexual myths aimed in their direction. Which make the comment of ‘your just doing it for attention’ hilarious, because the attention we get as an openly bisexual person is usually negative. That said however, this episode is predominantly about Floss’ experience, so your bisexual journey will look different, and we are definitely not saying one size fits all. If you have a different experience that you would like to share with us then please do get in touch. As always you can contact us on hello [at] <a href="http://proudtobekinky.com" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">proudtobekinky.com</a>. You can also reach out via Instagram, Twitter, Fetlife and Facebook. You can also find us on Patreon, <a href="https://www.patreon.com/proudtobekinky" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.patreon.com/proudtobekinky</a> where for $2 a month you can get access to our spin-off podcast FemDom and Fetish Fun, where Bakji and Floss discuss their kinky scene in great and sexy detail. We are also part of the Podcast Jukebox Network, along with Off the Cuffs, Drinks with God, Parking Lot Radio and the Will Sean Podcast. If you podcast app allows for reviews and rating, we are always grateful for anyone who takes the time to give us an awesome review.

48 - Bisexuality

*** CHAT MY WILLY! OH AND HERE’S DISCORD, &gt;&gt;&gt;&gt; https://discordapp.com/invite/SAmS42E ***** Life got the better of us and we ended up going seven weeks without doing any kink! This week we talk about getting back into it and the several sessions we’ve had recently. If you would like to get in touch with us you can do so via any of our social media platforms:  Twitter Instagram Fetlife Floss’ Blog  We are also part of the Podcast Jukebox Network along with Off the Cuffs, Being There, the Will Sean Podcast, Drinks with God, No Love Lost and The Goth Librarian. We are all available and most podcast apps, and as always love to read you reviews if your chosen app allows for them.  You can also support us through Patreon which gives you access to our spinoff podcast ‘Kinkosity’ and the archive of FemDom and Fetish Fun. As well as ‘349 Kinky, Filthy, Dirty Questions’ compiled by and answered by Bakji and Floss.

*** CHAT MY WILLY! OH AND HERE’S DISCORD, &gt;&gt;&gt;&gt; <a href="https://discordapp.com/invite/SAmS42E" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://discordapp.com/invite/SAmS42E</a> ***** Life got the better of us and we ended up going seven weeks without doing any kink! This week we talk about getting back into it and the several sessions we’ve had recently. If you would like to get in touch with us you can do so via any of our social media platforms: <ul> <li><a href="https://twitter.com/proudtobekinky?lang=en" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Twitter</a></li> <li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/proudtobekinky/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Instagram</a></li> <li><a href="https://fetlife.com/users/6748317" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Fetlife</a></li> <li><a href="https://flossdoeslife.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Floss’ Blog</a></li> </ul> We are also part of the <a href="https://twitter.com/PodcastJukebox" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Podcast Jukebox Network</a> along with Off the Cuffs, Being There, the Will Sean Podcast, Drinks with God, No Love Lost and The Goth Librarian. We are all available and most podcast apps, and as always love to read you reviews if your chosen app allows for them. You can also support us through <a href="https://www.patreon.com/proudtobekinky" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Patreon</a> which gives you access to our spinoff podcast ‘Kinkosity’ and the archive of FemDom and Fetish Fun. As well as ‘349 Kinky, Filthy, Dirty Questions’ compiled by and answered by Bakji and Floss.

97 - Back to Kink, Back to Femdom Fun

***JOIN OUR DISCORD GROUP HERE &gt;&gt;&gt;&gt; https://discordapp.com/invite/SAmS42E *****  This week we talk about trying male chastity for the very term and how it did and didn’t work out. We continue with our ‘Question of Week’ where we talk about sex toys accidentally going off and make sure you listen out for the story of a dildo being thrown on a roof! If you would to follow us on Twitter or  get in touch with us you can do so via any of our social media platforms:  Twitter Instagram Fetlife Floss’ Blog  We are also part of the Podcast Jukebox Network along with Off the Cuffs, Being There, the Will Sean Podcast, Drinks with God, No Love Lost and The Goth Librarian. We are all available and most podcast apps, and as always love to read you reviews if your chosen app allows for them. You can also support us through Patreon which gives you access to our spinoff podcast FemDom and Fetish Fun. As well as ‘349 Kinky, Filthy, Dirty Questions’ compiled by and answered by Bakji and Floss.

***JOIN OUR DISCORD GROUP HERE &gt;&gt;&gt;&gt; <a href="https://discordapp.com/invite/SAmS42E" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://discordapp.com/invite/SAmS42E</a> ***** This week we talk about trying male chastity for the very term and how it did and didn’t work out. We continue with our ‘Question of Week’ where we talk about sex toys accidentally going off and make sure you listen out for the story of a dildo being thrown on a roof! If you would to follow us on Twitter or  get in touch with us you can do so via any of our social media platforms: <ul> <li><a href="https://twitter.com/proudtobekinky?lang=en" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Twitter</a></li> <li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/proudtobekinky/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Instagram</a></li> <li><a href="https://fetlife.com/users/6748317" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Fetlife</a></li> <li><a href="https://flossdoeslife.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Floss’ Blog</a></li> </ul> We are also part of the <a href="https://twitter.com/PodcastJukebox" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Podcast Jukebox Network</a> along with Off the Cuffs, Being There, the Will Sean Podcast, Drinks with God, No Love Lost and The Goth Librarian. We are all available and most podcast apps, and as always love to read you reviews if your chosen app allows for them. You can also support us through <a href="https://www.patreon.com/proudtobekinky" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Patreon</a> which gives you access to our spinoff podcast FemDom and Fetish Fun. As well as ‘349 Kinky, Filthy, Dirty Questions’ compiled by and answered by Bakji and Floss.

78 - First Time Chastity

 Chat to other kinky people? Join our Discord Server but BE NICE! &gt; https://discordapp.com/invite/SAmS42E     Want more Podcasts from us? Visit our Patreon page &gt; www.patreon.com/proudtobekinky    I, Bakji, well and truly dominated Floss' botty last week for the first time in a long while. We discuss what it's like to be the bottom after a very long time without doing it.   If you would like to get in touch with us you can do so via any of our social media platforms:    PTBK Website Twitter Instagram Fetlife Floss’ Blog    We are also part of the Podcast Jukebox Network along with Off the Cuffs, Being There, the Will Sean Podcast, Drinks with God, No Love Lost, The Queers Next Door, Disability After Dark and The Goth Librarian. We are all available and most podcast apps, and as always love to read you reviews if your chosen app allows for them.

<ul> <li>Chat to other kinky people? Join our Discord Server but BE NICE! &gt; <a href="https://discordapp.com/invite/SAmS42E" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://discordapp.com/invite/SAmS42E</a></li> </ul> <ul> <li>Want more Podcasts from us? Visit our Patreon page &gt; <a href="http://www.patreon.com/proudtobekinky" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.patreon.com/proudtobekinky</a></li> </ul> I, Bakji, well and truly dominated Floss' botty last week for the first time in a long while. We discuss what it's like to be the bottom after a very long time without doing it. If you would like to get in touch with us you can do so via any of our social media platforms: <ul> <li><a href="http://www.proudtobekinky.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">PTBK Website</a></li> <li><a href="https://twitter.com/proudtobekinky?lang=en" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Twitter</a></li> <li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/proudtobekinky/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Instagram</a></li> <li><a href="https://fetlife.com/users/6748317" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Fetlife</a></li> <li><a href="https://flossdoeslife.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Floss’ Blog</a></li> </ul> We are also part of the <a href="https://twitter.com/PodcastJukebox" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Podcast Jukebox Network</a> along with Off the Cuffs, Being There, the Will Sean Podcast, Drinks with God, No Love Lost, The Queers Next Door, Disability After Dark and The Goth Librarian. We are all available and most podcast apps, and as always love to read you reviews if your chosen app allows for them.

107 - I Love The Subbing

Kayla Lords and John Brownstone, hosts of the Loving BDSM Podcast, are our guests this week. Not only do they host a podcast, but they each have their own blog, and Loving BDSM has it’s own site with a great community feel to it, helped by the forum and other additions such as their monthly book club.   We discuss how Kayla and John met and how their dynamic works for them, with Kayla identifying as a Babygirl and John being a Daddy Dom. They also identify as having a 24/7 dynamic, but how they manage and maintain that may not be the same as how other people do. We are big fans of sharing experiences and inviting other people to take from that what is useful to them, and Kayla and John do a wonderful job of sharing their thoughts in an open, honest and inviting manner.   Reading someone’s blog can be a great insight into who they are and what they are interested in. As their blogs played a key part in how they got together, it leads us to talk about both John and Bakji did their research before wooing their respective partners. Lots of friendships have been built through blogs and social media too, and we ponder how we are meant to make friends with someone who isn’t baring their soul on the internet on a daily basis. When you are a proud and self confessed social media whore.   Evolution of kinks and kink identities is a huge part of being a kinky person. Almost everyone within the kink community has a got a story of how they have changed since joining the scene. This usually means more fun and a better understanding of both ourselves and kink as a whole. Kayla and John share how their relationship has evolved, their online presence has evolved and also how their kinks have evolved, both individually and as a couple.   Part of what makes Loving BDSM a must listen podcast is the fact John and Kayla allow fun and silliness not only into their lives but also into their D/s. While there is a lot of serious conversations that need to be had when you are engaging in BDSM, it is also meant to be fun. This comes up in the podcast through the various points raised, including what our various approaches to aftercare look like, and it isn’t necessarily how you’d imagine it look, especially if you are new to kink.   There is so much more that we cover in this episode, but I think I shall let you discover the rest for yourself, or the blog post will be a mammoth essay rather than a little round-up. You can find all the links to Loving BDSM below, as well as links to other resources mentioned within this episode.   As well as Loving BDSM, you can also listen to the other fab podcast that our part of our little Podcast Jukebox Network. Off the Cuffs: a kink and BDSM podcast, the Will Sean Podcast, Drinks with God and Parking Lot Radio. We are all on iTunes and we will love you forever if you leave us a star rating and review.  You can also wing by our Patreon site and see what is going on their for our Patrons. The most exciting of which is access to our spin-off podcast FemDom and Fetish fun, to check that out use this link https://www.patreon.com/proudtobekinky. You can also follow us on Instagram, Twitter, Fetlife and Facebook, just use the seqarch term ‘proudtobekinky’.

Kayla Lords and John Brownstone, hosts of the Loving BDSM Podcast, are our guests this week. Not only do they host a podcast, but they each have their own blog, and Loving BDSM has it’s own site with a great community feel to it, helped by the forum and other additions such as their monthly book club. We discuss how Kayla and John met and how their dynamic works for them, with Kayla identifying as a Babygirl and John being a Daddy Dom. They also identify as having a 24/7 dynamic, but how they manage and maintain that may not be the same as how other people do. We are big fans of sharing experiences and inviting other people to take from that what is useful to them, and Kayla and John do a wonderful job of sharing their thoughts in an open, honest and inviting manner. Reading someone’s blog can be a great insight into who they are and what they are interested in. As their blogs played a key part in how they got together, it leads us to talk about both John and Bakji did their research before wooing their respective partners. Lots of friendships have been built through blogs and social media too, and we ponder how we are meant to make friends with someone who isn’t baring their soul on the internet on a daily basis. When you are a proud and self confessed social media whore. Evolution of kinks and kink identities is a huge part of being a kinky person. Almost everyone within the kink community has a got a story of how they have changed since joining the scene. This usually means more fun and a better understanding of both ourselves and kink as a whole. Kayla and John share how their relationship has evolved, their online presence has evolved and also how their kinks have evolved, both individually and as a couple. Part of what makes Loving BDSM a must listen podcast is the fact John and Kayla allow fun and silliness not only into their lives but also into their D/s. While there is a lot of serious conversations that need to be had when you are engaging in BDSM, it is also meant to be fun. This comes up in the podcast through the various points raised, including what our various approaches to aftercare look like, and it isn’t necessarily how you’d imagine it look, especially if you are new to kink. There is so much more that we cover in this episode, but I think I shall let you discover the rest for yourself, or the blog post will be a mammoth essay rather than a little round-up. You can find all the links to Loving BDSM below, as well as links to other resources mentioned within this episode. As well as Loving BDSM, you can also listen to the other fab podcast that our part of our little Podcast Jukebox Network. Off the Cuffs: a kink and BDSM podcast, the Will Sean Podcast, Drinks with God and Parking Lot Radio. We are all on iTunes and we will love you forever if you leave us a star rating and review. You can also wing by our Patreon site and see what is going on their for our Patrons. The most exciting of which is access to our spin-off podcast FemDom and Fetish fun, to check that out use this link <a href="https://www.patreon.com/proudtobekinky" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://www.patreon.com/proudtobekinky</a>. You can also follow us on Instagram, Twitter, Fetlife and Facebook, just use the seqarch term ‘proudtobekinky’.

39 - Loving BDSM

Pain play and sensation play are our focus this week. We discuss what we mean when we talk about Sadism and masochism, and how pain can be sexy and what you can do if you’d like to try some new sensations but don’t think pain is for you.   We have mini debate over what classes as sexy pain, stingy, thuddy or something else entirely. This leads to us having a bit of a run through of what the difference between the two is, and why they lead to different sensations.   While many us might identify as a Sadist or a masochist, or perhaps like Floss you’re a bit of both and like to claim the Sadomasochist label, that doesn’t we all enjoy pain in the same way though. Both Bakji and Floss enjoy pain in very different ways, and their approach to pain play also differs greatly. We discuss our own personal takes on pain, what we enjoy and why we enjoy it.   As we always say we’re not experts when it comes to the kinks we discuss, but we do try to share what safety and instructional information we do have. We do highly recommend though that if you are looking to engage in some of the things discussed for the first time that you do your research and due diligence before diving straight into the action. If you need any further information and you’re not sure where to find it, do please get in touch.   The focus of this episode does fall a lot toward the pain play side of things, however we are aware that some people really aren’t into pain at all, but may enjoy different sensations during a scene, so we try to cover some of those too.   You can as always send feedback for this episode via our email hello@proudtobekinky.com, or our social media platforms; Instagram, Twitter, Facebook and Fetlife. You can also visit us at our Patreon page, www.patreon.com/proudtobekinky, where you can find our spin-off podcast, FemDom and Fetish Fun.   We are also part of the Podcast Jukebox Network along with Off the Cuffs, Drinks with God, the Will Sean Podcast and Parking Lot Radio. We are all available on Apple podcast and most other podcast apps, if you chose player allows for reviews please do leave one for us as it really is helpful in letting other people know we are worth a listen.

Pain play and sensation play are our focus this week. We discuss what we mean when we talk about Sadism and masochism, and how pain can be sexy and what you can do if you’d like to try some new sensations but don’t think pain is for you.   We have mini debate over what classes as sexy pain, stingy, thuddy or something else entirely. This leads to us having a bit of a run through of what the difference between the two is, and why they lead to different sensations.   While many us might identify as a Sadist or a masochist, or perhaps like Floss you’re a bit of both and like to claim the Sadomasochist label, that doesn’t we all enjoy pain in the same way though. Both Bakji and Floss enjoy pain in very different ways, and their approach to pain play also differs greatly. We discuss our own personal takes on pain, what we enjoy and why we enjoy it.   As we always say we’re not experts when it comes to the kinks we discuss, but we do try to share what safety and instructional information we do have. We do highly recommend though that if you are looking to engage in some of the things discussed for the first time that you do your research and due diligence before diving straight into the action. If you need any further information and you’re not sure where to find it, do please get in touch.   The focus of this episode does fall a lot toward the pain play side of things, however we are aware that some people really aren’t into pain at all, but may enjoy different sensations during a scene, so we try to cover some of those too.   You can as always send feedback for this episode via our email <a href="mailto:hello@proudtobekinky.com">hello@proudtobekinky.com</a>, or our social media platforms; Instagram, Twitter, Facebook and Fetlife. You can also visit us at our Patreon page, <a href="https://www.patreon.com/proudtobekinky" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.patreon.com/proudtobekinky</a>, where you can find our spin-off podcast, FemDom and Fetish Fun.   We are also part of the Podcast Jukebox Network along with Off the Cuffs, Drinks with God, the Will Sean Podcast and Parking Lot Radio. We are all available on Apple podcast and most other podcast apps, if you chose player allows for reviews please do leave one for us as it really is helpful in letting other people know we are worth a listen.

49 - Pain and Sensation

Our Discord Server: https://discordapp.com/invite/SAmS42E   If monogamy and ‘happily ever after’ doesn’t work for you, then this week’s episode is something you may want to listen to.   We talk about the various other relationship models that may suit you if you're not into the idea of a standard relationship.   If you would like to get in touch with us you can do so via any of our social media platforms:    Twitter Instagram Fetlife Floss’ Blog    We are also part of the Podcast Jukebox Network along with Off the Cuffs, Being There, the Will Sean Podcast, Drinks with God, No Love Lost and The Goth Librarian. We are all available and most podcast apps, and as always love to read you reviews if your chosen app allows for them.  You can also support us through Patreon which gives you access to our spinoff podcast ‘Kinkosity’ and the archive of FemDom and Fetish Fun. As well as ‘349 Kinky, Filthy, Dirty Questions’ compiled by and answered by Bakji and Floss.

Our Discord Server: <a href="https://discordapp.com/invite/SAmS42E" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://discordapp.com/invite/SAmS42E</a> If monogamy and ‘happily ever after’ doesn’t work for you, then this week’s episode is something you may want to listen to. We talk about the various other relationship models that may suit you if you're not into the idea of a standard relationship. If you would like to get in touch with us you can do so via any of our social media platforms: <ul> <li><a href="https://twitter.com/proudtobekinky?lang=en" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Twitter</a></li> <li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/proudtobekinky/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Instagram</a></li> <li><a href="https://fetlife.com/users/6748317" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Fetlife</a></li> <li><a href="https://flossdoeslife.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Floss’ Blog</a></li> </ul> We are also part of the <a href="https://twitter.com/PodcastJukebox" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Podcast Jukebox Network</a> along with Off the Cuffs, Being There, the Will Sean Podcast, Drinks with God, No Love Lost and The Goth Librarian. We are all available and most podcast apps, and as always love to read you reviews if your chosen app allows for them. You can also support us through <a href="https://www.patreon.com/proudtobekinky" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Patreon</a> which gives you access to our spinoff podcast ‘Kinkosity’ and the archive of FemDom and Fetish Fun. As well as ‘349 Kinky, Filthy, Dirty Questions’ compiled by and answered by Bakji and Floss.

101 - Alternative Relationship Models

***SUCK MY DISCORD! &gt;&gt;&gt;&gt; https://discordapp.com/invite/SAmS42E ***** This week we talk about three kinky things we both enjoyed back in 2018, we were going to talk what we want to try in 2019 but we talked so much that we've had to make it in to two episodes! So look out for a bonus episode later this week. If you would to follow us on Twitter or  get in touch with us you can do so via any of our social media platforms:  Twitter Instagram Fetlife Floss’ Blog  We are also part of the Podcast Jukebox Network along with Off the Cuffs, Being There, the Will Sean Podcast, Drinks with God, No Love Lost and The Goth Librarian. We are all available and most podcast apps, and as always love to read you reviews if your chosen app allows for them. You can also support us through Patreon which gives you access to our spinoff podcast ‘Kinkosity’ and the archive of FemDom and Fetish Fun. As well as ‘349 Kinky, Filthy, Dirty Questions’ compiled by and answered by Bakji and Floss.

***SUCK MY DISCORD! &gt;&gt;&gt;&gt; <a href="https://discordapp.com/invite/SAmS42E" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://discordapp.com/invite/SAmS42E</a> ***** This week we talk about three kinky things we both enjoyed back in 2018, we were going to talk what we want to try in 2019 but we talked so much that we've had to make it in to two episodes! So look out for a bonus episode later this week. If you would to follow us on Twitter or  get in touch with us you can do so via any of our social media platforms: <ul> <li><a href="https://twitter.com/proudtobekinky?lang=en" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Twitter</a></li> <li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/proudtobekinky/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Instagram</a></li> <li><a href="https://fetlife.com/users/6748317" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Fetlife</a></li> <li><a href="https://flossdoeslife.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Floss’ Blog</a></li> </ul> We are also part of the <a href="https://twitter.com/PodcastJukebox" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Podcast Jukebox Network</a> along with Off the Cuffs, Being There, the Will Sean Podcast, Drinks with God, No Love Lost and The Goth Librarian. We are all available and most podcast apps, and as always love to read you reviews if your chosen app allows for them. You can also support us through <a href="https://www.patreon.com/proudtobekinky" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Patreon</a> which gives you access to our spinoff podcast ‘Kinkosity’ and the archive of FemDom and Fetish Fun. As well as ‘349 Kinky, Filthy, Dirty Questions’ compiled by and answered by Bakji and Floss.

84 - When Doxy Meets Bum Fun

Kinky Q

***DON'T FORGET THE DISCORD! &gt;&gt;&gt;&gt; https://discordapp.com/invite/SAmS42E ***** Last week we asked our listeners if they have any questions and we got quite a few responses…. So this whole episode is answering those questions. If you would like to get in touch with us you can do so via any of our social media platforms:  Twitter Instagram Fetlife Floss’ Blog  We are also part of the Podcast Jukebox Network along with Off the Cuffs, Being There, the Will Sean Podcast, Drinks with God, No Love Lost and The Goth Librarian. We are all available and most podcast apps, and as always love to read you reviews if your chosen app allows for them. You can also support us through Patreon which gives you access to our spinoff podcast ‘Kinkosity’ and the archive of FemDom and Fetish Fun. As well as ‘349 Kinky, Filthy, Dirty Questions’ compiled by and answered by Bakji and Floss

***DON'T FORGET THE DISCORD! &gt;&gt;&gt;&gt; <a href="https://discordapp.com/invite/SAmS42E" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://discordapp.com/invite/SAmS42E</a> ***** Last week we asked our listeners if they have any questions and we got quite a few responses…. So this whole episode is answering those questions. If you would like to get in touch with us you can do so via any of our social media platforms: <ul> <li><a href="https://twitter.com/proudtobekinky?lang=en" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Twitter</a></li> <li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/proudtobekinky/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Instagram</a></li> <li><a href="https://fetlife.com/users/6748317" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Fetlife</a></li> <li><a href="https://flossdoeslife.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Floss’ Blog</a></li> </ul> We are also part of the <a href="https://twitter.com/PodcastJukebox" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Podcast Jukebox Network</a> along with Off the Cuffs, Being There, the Will Sean Podcast, Drinks with God, No Love Lost and The Goth Librarian. We are all available and most podcast apps, and as always love to read you reviews if your chosen app allows for them. You can also support us through <a href="https://www.patreon.com/proudtobekinky" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Patreon</a> which gives you access to our spinoff podcast ‘Kinkosity’ and the archive of FemDom and Fetish Fun. As well as ‘349 Kinky, Filthy, Dirty Questions’ compiled by and answered by Bakji and Floss

93 - Kinky Q&A

Princess Kali is our guest for this episode and we could not have been more excited to speak to her. Her book Enough To Make You Blush was one of Floss’ early and favourite resources when she was beginning her journey into FemDom. Getting to talk to people whose work we genuinely enjoy is one of the awesome bonuses of doing the podcast. Princess Kali has been on many podcasts discussing not only her book, but also sharing her approach to Domination and her work with Kink Academy. Which is another great resource for kink education. This however did mean that thinking up new and interesting questions for her was a tricky task. That said though we are really excited to bring you this episode and feel like we’ve got some great information to share with you. Humiliation can sometimes be a kink that many people will respond to with ‘Oh yeah, I’m not into that’, with a little bit of exploration though there can often be many fun and erotic entry points for us to explore the vast variety of erotic humiliation. From mild embarrassment to hardcore degradation. While we had Princess Kali with us we tried to get you the best information we could on why people might engage in erotic humiliation and what potential elements of it you might find pleasure in, whether that is as a Top or as a bottom. We also discuss how to get the conversation started if you feel like you’d like to explore erotic humiliation but have no idea where to begin. If you would like to find out more about Princess Kali and Enough To Make You Blush you can do so by using the following links:  enoughtomakeyoublush.com twitter.com/Princess_Kali instagram.com/enoughtomakeyoublush kinkacademy.com  As always if you have any feedback on this episode you can contact us via hello@proudtobekinky.com or you can reach out using any of our social media platforms:  twitter.com/proudtobekinky instagram.com/proudtobekinky facebook.com/proudtobekinky fetlife.com/proudtobekinky patreon.com/proudtobekinky We are also part of the Podcast Jukebox Network along with Off The Cuffs, Drinks with God and the Will Sean Podcast. We are all available on most podcast apps and if you listen on a platform that allows reviews then please do leave a wonderful 5 star review.

Princess Kali is our guest for this episode and we could not have been more excited to speak to her. Her book Enough To Make You Blush was one of Floss’ early and favourite resources when she was beginning her journey into FemDom. Getting to talk to people whose work we genuinely enjoy is one of the awesome bonuses of doing the podcast. Princess Kali has been on many podcasts discussing not only her book, but also sharing her approach to Domination and her work with Kink Academy. Which is another great resource for kink education. This however did mean that thinking up new and interesting questions for her was a tricky task. That said though we are really excited to bring you this episode and feel like we’ve got some great information to share with you. Humiliation can sometimes be a kink that many people will respond to with ‘Oh yeah, I’m not into that’, with a little bit of exploration though there can often be many fun and erotic entry points for us to explore the vast variety of erotic humiliation. From mild embarrassment to hardcore degradation. While we had Princess Kali with us we tried to get you the best information we could on why people might engage in erotic humiliation and what potential elements of it you might find pleasure in, whether that is as a Top or as a bottom. We also discuss how to get the conversation started if you feel like you’d like to explore erotic humiliation but have no idea where to begin. If you would like to find out more about Princess Kali and Enough To Make You Blush you can do so by using the following links:  <a href="http://www.enoughtomakeyoublush.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">enoughtomakeyoublush.com</a> <a href="https://twitter.com/Princess_Kali" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">twitter.com/Princess_Kali</a> <a href="https://www.instagram.com/enoughtomakeyoublush/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">instagram.com/enoughtomakeyoublush</a> <a href="http://www.kinkacademy.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">kinkacademy.com</a> As always if you have any feedback on this episode you can contact us via <a href="mailto:hello@proudtobekinky.com">hello@proudtobekinky.com</a> or you can reach out using any of our social media platforms:  <a href="https://twitter.com/proudtobekinky" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">twitter.com/proudtobekinky</a> <a href="https://www.instagram.com/proudtobekinky/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">instagram.com/proudtobekinky</a> <a href="https://www.facebook.com/proudtobekinky/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">facebook.com/proudtobekinky</a> <a href="https://fetlife.com/users/6748317" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">fetlife.com/proudtobekinky</a> <a href="https://www.patreon.com/proudtobekinky" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">patreon.com/proudtobekinky</a> We are also part of the Podcast Jukebox Network along with Off The Cuffs, Drinks with God and the Will Sean Podcast. We are all available on most podcast apps and if you listen on a platform that allows reviews then please do leave a wonderful 5 star review.

55 - Princess Kali

Breath play is the focus of this episode. We haven’t done many episode on specific kink activities but this is a kink we both enjoy and that you must be well informed about before giving it a try. Our aim in this episode is to share with you what we enjoy about breath play, the methods we use to indulge in it and most importantly how we do it safely. We are aware that for many people this is an extreme kink, and would be referred to as edge play. If you decide to engage in breath play please do your research and please, please, please play with someone you trust. Done right and with the right person though breath play can be all the fun and we hope that this episode gives a good insight into why it is one of the kinks we engage in most during our scenes. The After Bit returns with answers from last week’s question ‘What is your best bit of vanilla repurposing?’ and we pose our new question, inspired by one of our listeners, ‘Have you ever mentioned kink in an inappropriate setting?’ Funny stories are our aim, so if you can laugh about it then we’d love to as well. If you would like to get in touch with us you can do so via any of our social media platforms:  Twitter Instagram Fetlife Floss’ Blog  We are also part of the Podcast Jukebox Network along with Off the Cuffs, Being There, the Will Sean Podcast, Drinks with God and No Love Lost. We are all available and most podcast apps, and as always love to read you reviews if your chosen app allows for them.

Breath play is the focus of this episode. We haven’t done many episode on specific kink activities but this is a kink we both enjoy and that you must be well informed about before giving it a try. Our aim in this episode is to share with you what we enjoy about breath play, the methods we use to indulge in it and most importantly how we do it safely. We are aware that for many people this is an extreme kink, and would be referred to as edge play. If you decide to engage in breath play please do your research and please, please, please play with someone you trust. Done right and with the right person though breath play can be all the fun and we hope that this episode gives a good insight into why it is one of the kinks we engage in most during our scenes. The After Bit returns with answers from last week’s question ‘What is your best bit of vanilla repurposing?’ and we pose our new question, inspired by one of our listeners, ‘Have you ever mentioned kink in an inappropriate setting?’ Funny stories are our aim, so if you can laugh about it then we’d love to as well. If you would like to get in touch with us you can do so via any of our social media platforms: <ul> <li><a href="https://twitter.com/proudtobekinky?lang=en" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Twitter</a></li> <li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/proudtobekinky/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Instagram</a></li> <li><a href="https://fetlife.com/users/6748317" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Fetlife</a></li> <li><a href="https://flossdoeslife.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Floss’ Blog</a></li> </ul> We are also part of the Podcast Jukebox Network along with Off the Cuffs, Being There, the Will Sean Podcast, Drinks with God and No Love Lost. We are all available and most podcast apps, and as always love to read you reviews if your chosen app allows for them.

72 - Breath Play (PLAY SAFE!)

Dick pics! That’s right we are doing a whole episode on dick pics. So get comfy and hold on tight because Floss does not hold back! Dick pic rage is real! On a more serious note we want everyone to be communicating with more kinky people and getting their kink on and we know that dick pics is the worst introduction ever. We discuss exactly why dick pics are such a problem and why they enrage many of us and why just ignoring them isn’t always our go to move. If we stop just one person sending a dick pic then I will be overjoyed. If you would like to get in touch with us you can do so via any of our social media platforms:  Twitter Instagram Fetlife Floss’ Blog  We are also part of the Podcast Jukebox Network along with Off the Cuffs, Being There, the Will Sean Podcast, Drinks with God and No Love Lost. We are all available and most podcast apps, and as always love to read you reviews if your chosen app allows for them. You can also support us through Patreon which gives you access to our spinoff podcast FemDom and Fetish Fun. As well as ‘349 Kinky, Filthy, Dirty Questions’ compiled by and answered by Bakji and Floss. You can also access this through Floss’ BuyMeACoffee account for a one off donation of $3.

Dick pics! That’s right we are doing a whole episode on dick pics. So get comfy and hold on tight because Floss does not hold back! Dick pic rage is real! On a more serious note we want everyone to be communicating with more kinky people and getting their kink on and we know that dick pics is the worst introduction ever. We discuss exactly why dick pics are such a problem and why they enrage many of us and why just ignoring them isn’t always our go to move. If we stop just one person sending a dick pic then I will be overjoyed. If you would like to get in touch with us you can do so via any of our social media platforms: <ul> <li><a href="https://twitter.com/proudtobekinky?lang=en" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Twitter</a></li> <li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/proudtobekinky/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Instagram</a></li> <li><a href="https://fetlife.com/users/6748317" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Fetlife</a></li> <li><a href="https://flossdoeslife.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Floss’ Blog</a></li> </ul> We are also part of the Podcast Jukebox Network along with Off the Cuffs, Being There, the Will Sean Podcast, Drinks with God and No Love Lost. We are all available and most podcast apps, and as always love to read you reviews if your chosen app allows for them. You can also support us through <a href="https://www.patreon.com/proudtobekinky" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Patreon</a> which gives you access to our spinoff podcast FemDom and Fetish Fun. As well as ‘349 Kinky, Filthy, Dirty Questions’ compiled by and answered by Bakji and Floss. You can also access this through Floss’ <a href="http://buymeacoff.ee/hVzpiyu7J" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">BuyMeACoffee</a> account for a one off donation of $3.

73 - Dick Pics!

Non-Monogamy came second in our recent Twitter poll about topics you’d like to hear us discuss. In this episode we discuss:  In general terms what do we mean when we refer to non-monogamy? What does non-monogamy mean to us personally? Has your view on what non-monogamy means for you changed with your experiences? What resources have been beneficial in your non-monogamy journey? What new terms did we learn when we started to embrace non-monogamy? Can you ‘choose’ to be non-mono or does it need to be your natural inclination? Do you have a thing you love most about non-monogamy? And a thing you struggle with most?  This week also introduces our new segment ‘Unnamed Bonus Section’. Which we hope will encourage listener participations for those of you who are so inclined. If you would like to get in touch with us you can do so via hello@proudtobekinky.com or via any of our social media platforms:  Twitter Instagram Fetlife Floss’ Blog  We are also part of the Podcast Jukebox Network along with Off the Cuffs, Being There, the Will Sean Podcast and Drinks with God. We are all available and most podcast apps, and as always love to read you reviews if your chosen app allows for them.

Non-Monogamy came second in our recent Twitter poll about topics you’d like to hear us discuss. In this episode we discuss: <ul> <li>In general terms what do we mean when we refer to non-monogamy?</li> <li>What does non-monogamy mean to us personally?</li> <li>Has your view on what non-monogamy means for you changed with your experiences?</li> <li>What resources have been beneficial in your non-monogamy journey?</li> <li>What new terms did we learn when we started to embrace non-monogamy?</li> <li>Can you ‘choose’ to be non-mono or does it need to be your natural inclination?</li> <li>Do you have a thing you love most about non-monogamy? And a thing you struggle with most?</li> </ul> This week also introduces our new segment ‘Unnamed Bonus Section’. Which we hope will encourage listener participations for those of you who are so inclined. If you would like to get in touch with us you can do so via <a href="mailto:hello@proudtobekinky.com">hello@proudtobekinky.com</a> or via any of our social media platforms: <ul> <li><a href="https://twitter.com/proudtobekinky?lang=en" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Twitter</a></li> <li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/proudtobekinky/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Instagram</a></li> <li><a href="https://fetlife.com/users/6748317" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Fetlife</a></li> <li><a href="https://flossdoeslife.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Floss’ Blog</a></li> </ul> We are also part of the Podcast Jukebox Network along with Off the Cuffs, Being There, the Will Sean Podcast and Drinks with God. We are all available and most podcast apps, and as always love to read you reviews if your chosen app allows for them.

66 - Non-Monogamy

Aftercare is our focus for this episode. We talk a lot about what happens during kinky sessions and what you can do to make the kinky fun happen for you, but what happens afterwards then the cuffs are off and reality sets in. As with all aspects of kink everyone is different when it comes to the aftercare they need. We discuss what works for us, what we have heard of others doing, as well as sharing some listener comments in our After Bit section of the show. We also discuss how our views on aftercare have changed, who we thinks benefits from aftercare within a BDSM dynamic and what we knew about aftercare before joining the kink scene. If you would like to get in touch with us you can do so via hello@proudtobekinky.com or via any of our social media platforms:  Twitter Instagram Fetlife Floss’ Blog  We are also part of the Podcast Jukebox Network along with Off the Cuffs, Being There, the Will Sean Podcast, Drinks with God and No Love Lost. We are all available and most podcast apps, and as always love to read you reviews if your chosen app allows for them.

Aftercare is our focus for this episode. We talk a lot about what happens during kinky sessions and what you can do to make the kinky fun happen for you, but what happens afterwards then the cuffs are off and reality sets in. As with all aspects of kink everyone is different when it comes to the aftercare they need. We discuss what works for us, what we have heard of others doing, as well as sharing some listener comments in our After Bit section of the show. We also discuss how our views on aftercare have changed, who we thinks benefits from aftercare within a BDSM dynamic and what we knew about aftercare before joining the kink scene. If you would like to get in touch with us you can do so via <a href="mailto:hello@proudtobekinky.com">hello@proudtobekinky.com</a> or via any of our social media platforms: <ul> <li><a href="https://twitter.com/proudtobekinky?lang=en" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Twitter</a></li> <li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/proudtobekinky/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Instagram</a></li> <li><a href="https://fetlife.com/users/6748317" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Fetlife</a></li> <li><a href="https://flossdoeslife.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Floss’ Blog</a></li> </ul> We are also part of the Podcast Jukebox Network along with Off the Cuffs, Being There, the Will Sean Podcast, Drinks with God and No Love Lost. We are all available and most podcast apps, and as always love to read you reviews if your chosen app allows for them.

70 - Aftercare

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