Erica Lubetkin's guest appearances

Erica Lubetkin

The Addictionary Podcast

Hopestream for parenting kids through drug use and addiction

Lane Kennedy

Ryan Hampton

David Krantz

Melissa Lowe

John Kelly

Amy Dresner

Mark McConville

Joseph Lee

Lenny Clarke

Bob Forrest

Stephen Gray

Ned Hallowell

Chris Johnston

Phil Collins

Denise Pope

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Host: Brenda Zane, www.brendazane.comGuest: Erica Lubetkin, LMHCShow notes: www.brendazane.com/hopestream/114Free e-book: www.brendazane.com/hindsightThe Stream, a community for moms: www.thestreamcommunity.comGet my weekly email: www.brendazane.com/emailCRAFT (Community Reinforcement and Family Training) is an evidence-based approach to motivating and inviting someone to make changes in their behavior. It's proven to be an effective way for parents to help their kids who are misusing drugs or alcohol, and is easily accessible to learn and put into practice.In this episode, I invited CRAFT-certified therapist Erica Lubetkin, LMHC to join me to answer common questions parents have about using CRAFT in the real world. Erica was my guest on episode 96 talking about relapse, and I knew she was the perfect person to dive into the more nuanced details of this parenting approach.We covered important topics like:ideas for parents when you see a pre-lapsesober music festivalswhat to do when your child just won't talk or engage with youhow to use CRAFT when your child doesn't live with or near youtips when your child doesn't see that their substance use is a problemideas for using pop-culture trends like "hangxiety" as a connection pointthoughts on being a safe space and also giving consequenceswhat are motivational hooks &amp; windows of opportunity?what you can do when you're not on the same page as the person you're co-parenting withthe CRAFT skill Erica sees parents have the hardest time withand other fun thingsThe podcast is now part of a nonprofit called Hopestream Community: www.hopestreamcommunity.orgLearn about The Stream, our private online community for moms, at www.hopestreamcommunity.org/the-stream/Find us on Instagram: @hopestreamcommunityDownload my free e-book, HINDSIGHT: Three Things I Wish I Knew When My Son Was Misusing Drugs: www.brendazane.com/hindsightJoin my email list: www.brendazane.com/email

Host: Brenda Zane, <a href="http://www.brendazane.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.brendazane.com</a> Guest: <a href="https://ericalubetkin.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Erica Lubetkin, LMHC</a> Show notes:<a href="https://www.buzzsprout.com/804491/episodes/%20http://www.brendazane.com/hopestream/96" rel="nofollow" target="_blank"> </a><a href="http://www.brendazane.com/hopestream/114" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.brendazane.com/hopestream/114</a> Free e-book: <a href="http://www.brendazane.com/hindsight" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.brendazane.com/hindsight</a> The Stream, a community for moms: <a href="http://www.thestreamcommunity.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.thestreamcommunity.com</a> Get my weekly email: <a href="http://www.brendazane.com/email" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.brendazane.com/email</a> CRAFT (Community Reinforcement and Family Training) is an evidence-based approach to motivating and inviting someone to make changes in their behavior. It's proven to be an effective way for parents to help their kids who are misusing drugs or alcohol, and is easily accessible to learn and put into practice. In this episode, I invited CRAFT-certified therapist Erica Lubetkin, LMHC to join me to answer common questions parents have about using CRAFT in the real world. Erica was my guest on <a href="http://www.brendazane.com/hopestream/96" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">episode 96</a> talking about relapse, and I knew she was the perfect person to dive into the more nuanced details of this parenting approach. We covered important topics like:<ul><li>ideas for parents when you see a pre-lapse</li><li>sober music festivals</li><li>what to do when your child just won't talk or engage with you</li><li>how to use CRAFT when your child doesn't live with or near you</li><li>tips when your child doesn't see that their substance use is a problem</li><li>ideas for using pop-culture trends like "hangxiety" as a connection point</li><li>thoughts on being a safe space and also giving consequences</li><li>what are motivational hooks &amp; windows of opportunity?</li><li>what you can do when you're not on the same page as the person you're co-parenting with</li><li>the CRAFT skill Erica sees parents have the hardest time with</li><li>and other fun things</li></ul>The podcast is now part of a nonprofit called Hopestream Community: <a href="http://www.hopestreamcommunity.org" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.hopestreamcommunity.org</a> Learn about The Stream, our private online community for moms, at <a href="http://www.hopestreamcommunity.org/the-stream/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.hopestreamcommunity.org/the-stream/</a> Find us on Instagram: <a href="http://www.instagram.com/the.stream.community" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">@</a>hopestreamcommunity Download my free e-book, HINDSIGHT: Three Things I Wish I Knew When My Son Was Misusing Drugs: <a href="http://www.brendazane.com/hindsight" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.brendazane.com/hindsight</a> Join my email list: <a href="http://www.brendazane.com/email" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.brendazane.com/email</a>

Answers To Common CRAFT Questions Parents Have When Their Child Is Struggling With Addiction or Experimenting With Drugs, With Erica Lubetkin, LMHC

Host: Brenda Zane, www.brendazane.comGuest: Erica Lubetkin, LMHC, NCCShow notes: www.brendazane.com/hopestream/96Relapse is one of the most dreaded and painful experiences to watch your child go through, and this episode will be beneficial if you want to find new and more positive approaches to the challenge.Erica Lubetkin is a therapist who is certified in CRAFT (Community Reinforcement and Family Training) and shares her insights and ideas on how parents can be better equipped to deal with a lapse or full relapse with their teen or young adult child. We discuss a range of topics, including:What exactly is CRAFT and what's different about a CRAFT vs traditional approach?How do you use CRAFT with someone who's struggling with substances?The painful reality of relapse and what a CRAFT response looks likeRelapse prevention plans, what they are and how they can be used but parents as well as the young person who's strugglingHow can you respond when you learn about a relapse without causing drama and defensiveness?What does self-care have to do with navigating a relapse?Dealing with "waiting for the other shoe to drop" syndrome - tips and tricks for when they're doing ok but you're notand more great stuffThis informative and practical episode will give you ideas and tips to try immediately if you're in the moment and ways to plan to be proactive while your child is doing well.The podcast is now part of a nonprofit called Hopestream Community: www.hopestreamcommunity.orgLearn about The Stream, our private online community for moms, at www.hopestreamcommunity.org/the-stream/Find us on Instagram: @hopestreamcommunityDownload my free e-book, HINDSIGHT: Three Things I Wish I Knew When My Son Was Misusing Drugs: www.brendazane.com/hindsightJoin my email list: www.brendazane.com/email

Host: Brenda Zane, <a href="http://www.brendazane.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.brendazane.com</a> Guest: <a href="https://ericalubetkin.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Erica Lubetkin, LMHC, NCC</a> Show notes:<a href=" http://www.brendazane.com/hopestream/96" rel="nofollow" target="_blank"> www.brendazane.com/hopestream/96</a> Relapse is one of the most dreaded and painful experiences to watch your child go through, and this episode will be beneficial if you want to find new and more positive approaches to the challenge. Erica Lubetkin is a therapist who is certified in CRAFT (Community Reinforcement and Family Training) and shares her insights and ideas on how parents can be better equipped to deal with a lapse or full relapse with their teen or young adult child. We discuss a range of topics, including:<ul><li>What exactly is CRAFT and what's different about a CRAFT vs traditional approach?</li><li>How do you use CRAFT with someone who's struggling with substances?</li><li>The painful reality of relapse and what a CRAFT response looks like</li><li>Relapse prevention plans, what they are and how they can be used but parents as well as the young person who's struggling</li><li>How can you respond when you learn about a relapse without causing drama and defensiveness?</li><li>What does self-care have to do with navigating a relapse?</li><li>Dealing with "waiting for the other shoe to drop" syndrome - tips and tricks for when they're doing ok but you're not</li><li>and more great stuff</li></ul>This informative and practical episode will give you ideas and tips to try immediately if you're in the moment and ways to plan to be proactive while your child is doing well.The podcast is now part of a nonprofit called Hopestream Community: <a href="http://www.hopestreamcommunity.org" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.hopestreamcommunity.org</a> Learn about The Stream, our private online community for moms, at <a href="http://www.hopestreamcommunity.org/the-stream/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.hopestreamcommunity.org/the-stream/</a> Find us on Instagram: <a href="http://www.instagram.com/the.stream.community" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">@</a>hopestreamcommunity Download my free e-book, HINDSIGHT: Three Things I Wish I Knew When My Son Was Misusing Drugs: <a href="http://www.brendazane.com/hindsight" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.brendazane.com/hindsight</a> Join my email list: <a href="http://www.brendazane.com/email" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.brendazane.com/email</a>

Using a CRAFT Informed Response When Your Child Has A Relapse With Drugs or Alcohol, with Erica Lubetkin, LMHC, NCC

#137 The CRAFT Model in Clinical Practice with Erica Lubetkin. Erica is a Licensed Mental Health Counselor (LMHC) in New York and a National Certified Counselor (NCC) who specializes in providing therapy to families impacted by addiction and using the CRAFT (Community Reinforcement and Family Training) Model to help sustain long-lasting change. She is also a Village Coach for https://wethevillage.co, an online support platform for loved ones of individuals struggling with addiction, which is where you can find the CRAFT Playbook and many other helpful tools including virtual support groups. Send Erica an email to find out how she can help your family at ejltherapist@gmail.com. The book we discuss in this episode is Beyond Addiction: How Science and Kindness Help People Change https://motivationandchange.com/beyond-addiction/. Learn more about the CRAFT Model here: https://www.robertjmeyersphd.com/craft.html Help us spread the word about our podcast and tell one friend to check us out! Walk with us on September 22nd in Boston for the Shatterproof Rise Up Against Addiction 5k! Maegan is speaking at the event and we are walking in honor of Chris O'Connor from Dopey podcast. Donate to our team in Chris' name: https://www.shatterproof5k.org/boston/theaddictionarypodcast Email us at theaddictionarypodcast@gmail.com Follow our show! Website: http://www.theaddictionarypodcast.com IG/FB: @theaddictionarypodcast Twitter: @addictionarypod YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCz8d73iH6MOZcTHQEXxTHlw Leave us a 5-minute voicemail with your questions/comments or share some of your story and we will play it on the show! Find the recording button by visiting www.theaddictionarypodcast.com now. The Addictionary podcast’s new intro song is called “Here We Are Again” from the album, Spare Change, by Stiz Grimey. Purchase a copy now at www.stizgrimey.com. The Addictionary podcast and related content shared by the hosts and guests is intended to provide information and/or entertainment only and is not a substitute for medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Seek the advice of your physician or another qualified health provider with any questions you may have regarding a medical condition. Do not delay medical consultation or substitute a medical professional’s opinion because of what you heard on this podcast. For questions or concerns about any medical conditions you may have, please contact your doctor. This podcast and its hosts do not provide crisis support for mental health or addiction. If you are in distress, visit your closest emergency room or call 911.  United States resources: National Suicide Prevention Lifeline 1-800-273-TALK (8255) for 24/7 free and confidential support for people in distress. PRESS 1 for the Veterans Crisis Line. SAMHSA's Crisis, Mental Health, Addiction Resource Center: https://www.samhsa.gov/find-treatment SAMHSA National Helpline 1-800-662-HELP (4357) for mental health and addiction treatment referral and information, 24/7. For a list of specific and comprehensive worldwide mental health and addiction resources, visit http://www.cocoonais.com/mental-health-hotlines-worldwide/

#137 The CRAFT Model in Clinical Practice with Erica Lubetkin. Erica is a Licensed Mental Health Counselor (LMHC) in New York and a National Certified Counselor (NCC) who specializes in providing therapy to families impacted by addiction and using the CRAFT (Community Reinforcement and Family Training) Model to help sustain long-lasting change. She is also a Village Coach for <a>https://wethevillage.co</a><a>,</a> an online support platform for loved ones of individuals struggling with addiction, which is where you can find the CRAFT Playbook and many other helpful tools including virtual support groups. Send Erica an email to find out how she can help your family at <a href="mailto:ejltherapist@gmail.com">ejltherapist@gmail.com</a>. The book we discuss in this episode is Beyond Addiction: How Science and Kindness Help People Change <a href="https://motivationandchange.com/beyond-addiction/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://motivationandchange.com/beyond-addiction/</a>. Learn more about the CRAFT Model here: <a href="https://www.robertjmeyersphd.com/craft.html" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://www.robertjmeyersphd.com/craft.html</a> Help us spread the word about our podcast and tell one friend to check us out! Walk with us on September 22nd in Boston for the Shatterproof Rise Up Against Addiction 5k! Maegan is speaking at the event and we are walking in honor of Chris O'Connor from Dopey podcast. Donate to our team in Chris' name: <a href="https://www.shatterproof5k.org/boston/theaddictionary" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://www.shatterproof5k.org/boston/theaddictionarypodcast</a> Email us at <a href="mailto:theaddictionarypodcast@gmail.com">theaddictionarypodcast@gmail.com</a> Follow our show! Website: <a href="http://www.theaddictionarypodcast.com" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">http://www.theaddictionarypodcast.com</a> IG/FB: @theaddictionarypodcast Twitter: @addictionarypod YouTube: <a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCz8d73iH6MOZcTHQEXxTHlw" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCz8d73iH6MOZcTHQEXxTHlw</a> Leave us a 5-minute voicemail with your questions/comments or share some of your story and we will play it on the show! Find the recording button by visiting <a href="http://www.theaddictionarypodcast.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.theaddictionarypodcast.com</a> now. The Addictionary podcast’s new intro song is called “Here We Are Again” from the album, Spare Change, by Stiz Grimey. Purchase a copy now at <a href="http://www.stizgrimey.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.stizgrimey.com</a>. The Addictionary podcast and related content shared by the hosts and guests is intended to provide information and/or entertainment only and is not a substitute for medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Seek the advice of your physician or another qualified health provider with any questions you may have regarding a medical condition. Do not delay medical consultation or substitute a medical professional’s opinion because of what you heard on this podcast. For questions or concerns about any medical conditions you may have, please contact your doctor. This podcast and its hosts do not provide crisis support for mental health or addiction. If you are in distress, visit your closest emergency room or call 911.  United States resources: National Suicide Prevention Lifeline 1-800-273-TALK (8255) for 24/7 free and confidential support for people in distress. PRESS 1 for the Veterans Crisis Line. SAMHSA's Crisis, Mental Health, Addiction Resource Center: <a href="https://www.samhsa.gov/find-treatment" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://www.samhsa.gov/find-treatment</a> SAMHSA National Helpline 1-800-662-HELP (4357) for mental health and addiction treatment referral and information, 24/7. For a list of specific and comprehensive worldwide mental health and addiction resources, visit <a href="http://www.cocoonais.com/mental-health-hotlines-worldwide/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">http://www.cocoonais.com/mental-health-hotlines-worldwide/</a>