Luke Fernandez's guest appearances

Luke Fernandez

Life Check Yourself

This Is Not A Pipe

Live On Air with Steven Cuoco

Alfie Bown

Amy Allen

Anne Beaulieu

Terri Cole

Rick Hanson

Ron Ehrlich

Meredith Broussard

Damona Hoffman

Arielle Ford

Peter Walsh

Sheri Salata

Gary John Bishop

Elle Russ

Paige Smathers

Robert Moses

OwlTail

MMA fighter Luke Fernandez is 27 years old.  He is an MMA fighter out of Dante Rivera BJJ in Freehold NJ. Luke is set to make his professional debut on April 1st, 2023 after putting together an undefeated 6-0 amateur career.--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/steven-cuoco/messageSupport this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/steven-cuoco/support

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Luke Fernandez - Professional MMA Fighter

Susan Matt

Marni welcomes the Authors of Bored, Lonely, Angry, Stupid: Changing Feelings About Technology from Telegraph to Twitter, Dr. Susan Matt, and Luke Fernandez into the Den. Luke is an Assistant Professor at Weber State School of Computing and Susan is a Professor of History at Weber State. Both have been published in the Washington Post.   Key takeaways from this episode:   Emotions are created by culture Effects of technology on expectations Reframing ideas and feelings Enjoying solitude versus fear of loneliness   How Technology is Changing People [2:08] Our personalities and emotions are changing due to social media. Past generations didn’t quantify their worth with how many friends they had. They didn’t get bored as easily because no one was pressuring them to use their time. Susan points out the word boredom didn’t exist until the 19th century. Luke encourages us to think of emotions and feelings as not just biological but as things that are shaped by the world around us. By technologies and language.  Technology companies lead us to believe that happiness is being connected all the time.   Unrealistic Expectations  [15:39] There is an entire 'loneliness' industry that touts the message that we need more friends. As advertisements began to saturate through new media outlets, people started believing the hype.  We may be more connected than our ancestors but the amount of loneliness we are prone to is the same.  Luke reminds us that in the past people would admit to being lonely and join loneliness clubs. In the current environment, many people feel shame due to not having the ‘right’ amount of friends or FOMO. But, it is all based on conditioning and language. Enjoying solitude connotes something different than suffering loneliness.   How Did the Pandemic Change Us? [25:36] During the pandemic, technology was extremely useful in keeping us connected with our loved ones and offered us a sense of community even though we were restricted to our homes. Luke is optimistic about how technology can help us in these ways and says it shouldn’t be vilified.    Change How We React [33:12] Luke and Susan didn’t intend for their book to be a self-help guide. But, Luke says just being aware of how we use technology and how we react to our feelings can shift our perspectives and remove the stigma of loneliness. Ultimately, it is up to us and the language we use with ourselves.   Emotions are not set in stone. We can change the way we feel about something.    Make a Connection: Visit Our Website Join Our Dating Den Facebook Community Here! Learn how to attract your perfect equal...watch our latest training here! Interested in working with us? Book a Breakthrough session at DWDVIP  Get a Free Coaching Session with Marni on Our Podcast - Sign up Here to Be a Guest On Our Show Download a Complimentary Copy of our Book - How to Find a Quality Guy Without Going on 200 Dates Luke Fernandez Dr. Susan Matt  Bored, Lonely, Angry, Stupid: Changing Feelings about Technology, from the Telegraph to Twitter

Marni welcomes the Authors of Bored, Lonely, Angry, Stupid: Changing Feelings About Technology from Telegraph to Twitter, Dr. Susan Matt, and Luke Fernandez into the Den. Luke is an Assistant Professor at Weber State School of Computing and Susan is a Professor of History at Weber State. Both have been published in the Washington Post. Key takeaways from this episode:  <ul> <li>Emotions are created by culture</li> <li>Effects of technology on expectations</li> <li>Reframing ideas and feelings</li> <li>Enjoying solitude versus fear of loneliness </li> </ul> How Technology is Changing People [2:08] Our personalities and emotions are changing due to social media. Past generations didn’t quantify their worth with how many friends they had. They didn’t get bored as easily because no one was pressuring them to use their time. Susan points out the word boredom didn’t exist until the 19th century. Luke encourages us to think of emotions and feelings as not just biological but as things that are shaped by the world around us. By technologies and language.  Technology companies lead us to believe that happiness is being connected all the time. Unrealistic Expectations  [15:39] There is an entire 'loneliness' industry that touts the message that we need more friends. As advertisements began to saturate through new media outlets, people started believing the hype.  We may be more connected than our ancestors but the amount of loneliness we are prone to is the same.  Luke reminds us that in the past people would admit to being lonely and join loneliness clubs. In the current environment, many people feel shame due to not having the ‘right’ amount of friends or FOMO. But, it is all based on conditioning and language. Enjoying solitude connotes something different than suffering loneliness. How Did the Pandemic Change Us? [25:36] During the pandemic, technology was extremely useful in keeping us connected with our loved ones and offered us a sense of community even though we were restricted to our homes. Luke is optimistic about how technology can help us in these ways and says it shouldn’t be vilified.  Change How We React [33:12] Luke and Susan didn’t intend for their book to be a self-help guide. But, Luke says just being aware of how we use technology and how we react to our feelings can shift our perspectives and remove the stigma of loneliness. Ultimately, it is up to us and the language we use with ourselves. Emotions are not set in stone. We can change the way we feel about something.  Make a Connection: <a href="http://datingwithdignity.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Visit Our Website</a> <a href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/506287890073492/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Join Our Dating Den Facebook Community Here!</a> <a href="https://joinnow.live/s/phaC0j" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Learn how to attract your perfect equal...watch our latest training here!</a> Interested in working with us? Book a Breakthrough session at <a href="http://dwdvip.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">DWDVIP</a> <a href="https://marni-battista.squarespace.com/podcast-application" rel="nofollow" target="_blank"> Get a Free Coaching Session with Marni on Our Podcast - Sign up Here to Be a Guest On Our Show</a> <a href="https://datingwithdignity.com/book/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Download a Complimentary Copy of our Book - How to Find a Quality Guy Without Going on 200 Dates</a> <a href="https://lfernandez.org/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Luke Fernandez</a> <a href="https://www.weber.edu/History/susanmatt.html" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Dr. Susan Matt</a> <a href="https://www.hup.harvard.edu/catalog.php?isbn=9780674983700" rel="nofollow" target="_blank"> Bored, Lonely, Angry, Stupid: Changing Feelings about Technology, from the Telegraph to Twitter</a>

With Drs. Susan Matt & Luke Fernandez: What Social Media and Technology Might Be Doing to Undermine Your Love Life

Susan J Matt

Luke Fernandez and Susan Matt discuss their book Bored, Lonely, Angry, Stupid: Changing Feelings about Technology, from the Telegraph to Twitter with Chris Richardson. Luke Fernandez is Asst. Prof. in the School of Computing at Weber State University. He holds a Ph.D. in Political Theory from Cornell University. He also is a software developer. His writing has appeared in a range of publications, including the Washington Post, Slate, Lapham's Quarterly, and the Chronicle of Higher Education.Susan J. Matt is an historian of the emotions and Presidential Distinguished Professor of History at Weber State University. She is author of Homesickness: An American History (Oxford University Press, 2011), and Keeping Up with the Joneses: Envy in American Consumer Society, 1890-1930 (University of Pennsylvania Press, 2003). Her writing has appeared in the New York Times, the Wall Street Journal, and the Journal of American History, among other places.

Luke Fernandez and Susan Matt discuss their book Bored, Lonely, Angry, Stupid: Changing Feelings about Technology, from the Telegraph to Twitter with Chris Richardson. Luke Fernandez is Asst. Prof. in the School of Computing at Weber State University. He holds a Ph.D. in Political Theory from Cornell University. He also is a software developer. His writing has appeared in a range of publications, including the Washington Post, Slate, Lapham's Quarterly, and the Chronicle of Higher Education.Susan J. Matt is an historian of the emotions and Presidential Distinguished Professor of History at Weber State University. She is author of Homesickness: An American History (Oxford University Press, 2011), and Keeping Up with the Joneses: Envy in American Consumer Society, 1890-1930 (University of Pennsylvania Press, 2003). Her writing has appeared in the New York Times, the Wall Street Journal, and the Journal of American History, among other places.

Luke Fernandez and Susan J Matt: Bored, Lonely, Angry, Stupid