Kara Rubinstein Deyerin's guest appearances

Kara Rubinstein Deyerin

I Want to Put a Baby in You!

Our Voices Matter Podcast

Pulled By The Root - Amplifying Adoption Issues

Joan Blades

John Gable

Jessica Green

Sarah Harmeyer

Steve Snyder

Jacqueline Mroz

Karen Walrond

Sandra Bland

Michael Barnett

John Martin

Scott Hamilton

Mathew Knowles

Lauren Anderson

Rebekah Clark

Jennifer Nelson

OwlTail

We all have a right to know who we are and where we come from.  And in this day of over-the-counter DNA tests, it's easier than ever to find out.But what happens when your DNA discovery reveals secrets that rewrite the story of your life?In the case of Kara Rubinstein Deyerin, it shattered her identity and sent her on a quest to answer a simple, yet complex question:  "Who am I?"Life Changes with the Click of a Mouse Kara reached out to share her most extraordinary story that strikes at the very core of our humanity.  It begins with a desire to visit the part of Africa where her paternal family tree traced back to three enslaved brothers. But when the test results from Ancestry.com came in, Kara's life changed with the click of a mouse. She is not half Black.  She is half Jewish.The same questions you are asking yourself right now, I ask Kara in our conversation that is at once painful, enlightening, humorous and hopeful.In the beginning, she thought she was alone.  As she wrote in her note to me, "I mean who else grows up half Black, only to learn they're half Jewish?"Well, it turns out an estimated 1 in 20 people will learn they have misattributed parents.  That percentage will, no doubt, increase as the over-the-counter DNA testing industry booms.Turning Pain Into PowerAfter realizing she is not alone in her shattered identity, Kara set out to turn her pain into power.  She co-founded the non-profit, Right To Know, to advocate for people impacted by DNA surprises and misattributed parentage experiences (MPE).Kara and her colleagues work to promote understanding of the complex intersection of genetic information, identity and family dynamics.Repercussions Across GenerationsAnd speaking of those family dynamics, Kara is candid in sharing the repercussions across generations of her own family, including the impact on her husband and three sons.She is also candid about race and the role it plays in her story -- and ours as a nation.Yes, we all have a right to know who we are and where we come from.  We also have a right to be accepted and respected simply as human beings, DNA be damned.www.ourvoicesmatterpodcast.comwww.lorellemedia.comThis podcast is devoted to empowering us all to better understand each other's differences...one story at a time.  Emmy Award-winning journalist, Linda Lorelle, guides guests through insightful, unexpected conversations that reveal our common humanity.  This show is not about politics per se; it is about finding a way to reclaim civility in the context of the contentious times in which we live, by sharing our personal and professional stories, in hopes that others might find a glimpse of themselves.Support the show

We all have a right to know who we are and where we come from.  And in this day of over-the-counter DNA tests, it's easier than ever to find out. But what happens when your DNA discovery reveals secrets that rewrite the story of your life? In the case of Kara Rubinstein Deyerin, it shattered her identity and sent her on a quest to answer a simple, yet complex question:  "Who am I?" Life Changes with the Click of a Mouse  Kara reached out to share her most extraordinary story that strikes at the very core of our humanity.   It begins with a desire to visit the part of Africa where her paternal family tree traced back to three enslaved brothers.  But when the test results from <a href="http://Ancestry.com" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Ancestry.com</a> came in, Kara's life changed with the click of a mouse.  She is not half Black.  She is half Jewish. The same questions you are asking yourself right now, I ask Kara in our conversation that is at once painful, enlightening, humorous and hopeful. In the beginning, she thought she was alone.  As she wrote in her note to me, "I mean who else grows up half Black, only to learn they're half Jewish?" Well, it turns out an estimated 1 in 20 people will learn they have misattributed parents.  That percentage will, no doubt, increase as the over-the-counter DNA testing industry booms. Turning Pain Into Power After realizing she is not alone in her shattered identity, Kara set out to turn her pain into power.   She co-founded the non-profit, Right To Know, to advocate for people impacted by DNA surprises and misattributed parentage experiences (MPE). Kara and her colleagues work to promote understanding of the complex intersection of genetic information, identity and family dynamics. Repercussions Across Generations And speaking of those family dynamics, Kara is candid in sharing the repercussions across generations of her own family, including the impact on her husband and three sons. She is also candid about race and the role it plays in her story -- and ours as a nation. Yes, we all have a right to know who we are and where we come from.   We also have a right to be accepted and respected simply as human beings, DNA be damned. <a href="http://www.ourvoicesmatterpodcast.com" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.ourvoicesmatterpodcast.com</a> <a href="http://www.lorellemedia.com" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.lorellemedia.com</a> This podcast is devoted to empowering us all to better understand each other's differences...one story at a time.  Emmy Award-winning journalist, Linda Lorelle, guides guests through insightful, unexpected conversations that reveal our common humanity.  This show is not about politics per se; it is about finding a way to reclaim civility in the context of the contentious times in which we live, by sharing our personal and professional stories, in hopes that others might find a glimpse of themselves.<a href="http://patreon.com/OurVoicesMatterPodcast" rel="payment nofollow" target="_blank">Support the show</a>

Right To Know - Kara Rubinstein Deyerin

Alesia and Kara created the organization called Right to Know. They believe laws related to genetic information, identity and family dynamics need to be updated to reflect the changing technology and social dynamics of the times. Both of these incredible women have experienced something called an MPE- Misattributed Parentage Experience-the discovery of a change in a person's perceived parental genealogy from a previously unknown or undisclosed assisted conception, adoption or Non Paternity Event. It is disorienting to discover your identity is not what you thought it was. The MPE and Adoption communities support the fundamental right to know your genetic heritage. By collaborating with like minded groups we can begin to change the laws that stand in our way. This episode is a rich conversation about how we can connect and empower each other.https://www.pulledbytheroot.com/

Alesia and Kara created the organization called Right to Know. They believe laws related to genetic information, identity and family dynamics need to be updated to reflect the changing technology and social dynamics of the times. Both of these incredible women have experienced something called an MPE- Misattributed Parentage Experience-the discovery of a change in a person's perceived parental genealogy from a previously unknown or undisclosed assisted conception, adoption or Non Paternity Event. It is disorienting to discover your identity is not what you thought it was. The MPE and Adoption communities support the fundamental right to know your genetic heritage. By collaborating with like minded groups we can begin to change the laws that stand in our way. This episode is a rich conversation about how we can connect and empower each other.<a href="https://www.pulledbytheroot.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://www.pulledbytheroot.com/</a>

Ep36: Alesia Cohen Weiss & Kara Rubinstein Deyerin "Right To Know"

Kara Rubinstein Deyerin is an NPE (not parent expected), mom, wife, Jew, writer, cook, knitter, and connoisseur of all things human. Two years ago she wanted to see where in Africa her father's family came from. Her over-the-counter DNA test revealed she was 50% something, but it wasn't from any African ethnicity. This meant the man on her birth certificate couldn't be her genetic father. She lost her bi-racial identity with the click of a mouse. Kara discovered she was 50% Ashkenazi Jew. The DNA pandora's box she opened led to an identity crisis. She's a passionate advocate for genetic identity rights. Read her blog about being Unexpectedly Jewish (www.UnexpectedlyJewish.com) in Seattle. Kara also co-founded the non-profit organization Right To Know which helps to educate the public and professionals on the complexities of the intersection of genetic information, identity, and family dynamics. Visit www.RightToKnow.us to learn more.Listen to Kara as she discusses with Ellen and Jenn:•	The definition of NPE.•	Her family history and upbringing.•	The culture shock when moving to live with her grandparents. •	Deciding to take a DNA Ancestry test. •	Coping with the shock of learning she is not who she thought she was. •	Talking with her mother about the results and learning of her conception. •	The journey of trying to find her genetic father and his side of the family. •	The touching reaction of her non biological father. •	What she is doing to help fellow NPEs. •	Her thoughts on anonymous donations. •	How you can help support her non-profit, “Right To Know” and other NPE’s. Want to share your story or ask a question? Call and leave us a message on our hotline: 303-997-1903.Learn more about our podcast: https://iwanttoputababyinyou.com/ Learn more about our surrogacy agencies: https://www.brightfuturesfamilies.com/ Learn more about Ellen’s law firm: http://trachmanlawcenter.com/ Learn more about Kara’s non-profit: www.RightToKnow.us

Kara Rubinstein Deyerin is an NPE (not parent expected), mom, wife, Jew, writer, cook, knitter, and connoisseur of all things human. Two years ago she wanted to see where in Africa her father's family came from. Her over-the-counter DNA test revealed she was 50% something, but it wasn't from any African ethnicity. This meant the man on her birth certificate couldn't be her genetic father. She lost her bi-racial identity with the click of a mouse. Kara discovered she was 50% Ashkenazi Jew. The DNA pandora's box she opened led to an identity crisis. She's a passionate advocate for genetic identity rights. Read her blog about being Unexpectedly Jewish (<a href="http://www.UnexpectedlyJewish.com" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.UnexpectedlyJewish.com</a>) in Seattle. Kara also co-founded the non-profit organization Right To Know which helps to educate the public and professionals on the complexities of the intersection of genetic information, identity, and family dynamics. Visit <a href="http://www.RightToKnow.us" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.RightToKnow.us</a> to learn more. Listen to Kara as she discusses with Ellen and Jenn: •	The definition of NPE. •	Her family history and upbringing. •	The culture shock when moving to live with her grandparents. •	Deciding to take a DNA Ancestry test. •	Coping with the shock of learning she is not who she thought she was. •	Talking with her mother about the results and learning of her conception. •	The journey of trying to find her genetic father and his side of the family. •	The touching reaction of her non biological father. •	What she is doing to help fellow NPEs. •	Her thoughts on anonymous donations. •	How you can help support her non-profit, “Right To Know” and other NPE’s. Want to share your story or ask a question? Call and leave us a message on our hotline: 303-997-1903. Learn more about our podcast: <a href="https://iwanttoputababyinyou.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://iwanttoputababyinyou.com/</a> Learn more about our surrogacy agencies: <a href="https://www.brightfuturesfamilies.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://www.brightfuturesfamilies.com/</a> Learn more about Ellen’s law firm: <a href="http://trachmanlawcenter.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">http://trachmanlawcenter.com/</a> Learn more about Kara’s non-profit: <a href="http://www.RightToKnow.us" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.RightToKnow.us</a>

Episode 86: NPE (Not Parent Expected) - Kara Rubinstein Deyerin