Lois Bushong's guest appearances

Lois Bushong

Shrink On The Couch

Mindful Expat, with Dana Nelson, Ph.D.

Close the Chapter Podcast with Kristen Boice

Vasavi Kumar

Terri Cole

Nancy Levin

Sadie Lincoln

Benjamin Hardy

Heather Chauvin

Ashley Turner

Claire Handscombe

Sarah Jenks

Jonice Webb

Naomi Hattaway

Patricia Moreno

Nazanin Moali

Kate Eckman

Sherry Gaba

OwlTail

In this episode, Kristen interviews her former supervisor and dear friend, Lois Bushong, a licensed marriage and family therapist.  Lois shares how to deal with life transitions, especially with people who moved a lot growing up or lived overseas and transitioned to another country or back to the states. Be sure to subscribe, share with a friend, and visit www.kristendboice.com for more information.  For counseling services near Indianapolis, IN, visit www.pathwaystohealingcounseling.com. Pathways to Healing Counseling's vision is to provide warm, caring, compassionate and life-changing counseling services and educational programs to individuals, couples and families in order to create learning, healing and growth. This information is being provided to you for educational and informational purposes only. It is being provided to you to educate you about ideas on stress management and as a self-help tool for your own use. It is not psychotherapy/counseling in any form. This information is to be used at your own risk based on your own judgment.  For my full Disclaimer please to to www.kristendboice.com

In this episode, Kristen interviews her former supervisor and dear friend, Lois Bushong, a licensed marriage and family therapist.  Lois shares how to deal with life transitions, especially with people who moved a lot growing up or lived overseas and transitioned to another country or back to the states. Be sure to subscribe, share with a friend, and visit <a href="http://www.kristendboice.com" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.kristendboice.com</a> for more information.  For counseling services near Indianapolis, IN, visit <a href="http://www.pathwaystohealingcounseling.com" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.pathwaystohealingcounseling.com</a>. Pathways to Healing Counseling's vision is to provide warm, caring, compassionate and life-changing counseling services and educational programs to individuals, couples and families in order to create learning, healing and growth. This information is being provided to you for educational and informational purposes only. It is being provided to you to educate you about ideas on stress management and as a self-help tool for your own use. It is not psychotherapy/counseling in any form. This information is to be used at your own risk based on your own judgment.  For my full Disclaimer please to to <a href="http://www.kristendboice.com" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.kristendboice.com</a>

Close the Chapter Episode 6 - Life Transitions with Lois Bushong

Today’s Mindful Expat Guest is Lois Bushong! Lois is a licensed marriage and family therapist living in the state of Indiana in the United States. She is originally from the US, but grew up in Central America (mainly in Honduras) as part of a missionary family, and she also spent 10 years working in Honduras as an adult. Having grown up as a Third Culture Kid (or TCK) herself, Lois has specialized in working with TCKs, adult TCKs, and intercultural couples.  Lois is also the author of the book, Belonging Everywhere and Nowhere: Insights into Counseling the Globally Mobile, which is how I first came across her work. In addition to her therapy practice, she also offers services as a consultant and coach for TCKs and others navigating this intercultural space. What you’ll hear in this episode: • About Lois' experiences growing up as a TCK missionary kid in Central America and how she came to want to help other TCKs find their true sense of belonging. • How frequent moves can lead some TCKs to experience unresolved grief, which can lead to some difficulties as they get older.  • How parents and other adults can help TCKs make room for both positive and negative emotional reactions to their experiences growing up abroad and allow them to work through and process grief.  • How many TCKs find their true sense of belonging with other TCKs.  Resources mentioned in this episode: • To learn more about TCKs, check out episode 8 for my conversation with Josh Sandoz (who we mention in the podcast). • Lois mentioned a number of great resource books: • Emotional Resilience and the Expat Child: Practical Storytelling Techniques That Will Strengthen the Global Family, by Julia Simens • The new edition of Ruth Van Reken &amp; David Pollock's book, Third Culture Kids 3rd Edition: Growing Up Among Worlds. • Writing Out of Limbo: International Childhoods, Global Nomads and Third Culture Kids, edited by by Gene Bell-Villada, Nina Sichel,‎ Faith Eidse, and‎ Elaine Neil Orr. • Pico Iyer's book, The Global Soul: Jet Lag, Shopping Malls, and the Search for Home (and his TED Talk entitled, "Where Is Home?"). • We also briefly mentioned Lois's blog post, "TCKs Make Great Therapists."  More about Lois and how to follow up with her: To learn more about Lois' work as a counselor, coach, speaker, and writer, you can visit her website www.loisbushong.com. To read some of her blog articles, you can also visit her blog, mangotreereflections.com (the contents of which will be transferred over to her main website in the next few months). Lois' book, Belonging Everywhere and Nowhere: Insights into Counseling the Globally Mobile, is a fantastic resource especially for therapists and counselors, but really for anyone working with TCKs. To learn more about the book, you can also visit this page of her website.  You can also find Lois on Twitter, and you can email by going to this page of her website. Stay in Touch! To make sure you don’t miss future episodes of Mindful Expat, you can subscribe to the podcast through iTunes, Stitcher, or your favorite podcasting app. To receive monthly summaries of podcast episodes and stay up to date on other announcements and resources, sign up for the Mindful Expat Podcast Newsletter! (When you sign up, you’ll also receive a free mp3 guided mindfulness exercise to practice on your own!) And, finally, if you’d like to get in touch and leave me a voice message with a question or comment that may be played in a future episode, you can do so here!

Today’s Mindful Expat Guest is Lois Bushong! Lois is a licensed marriage and family therapist living in the state of Indiana in the United States. She is originally from the US, but grew up in Central America (mainly in Honduras) as part of a missionary family, and she also spent 10 years working in Honduras as an adult. Having grown up as a Third Culture Kid (or TCK) herself, Lois has specialized in working with TCKs, adult TCKs, and intercultural couples.  Lois is also the author of the book, <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Belonging-Everywhere-Nowhere-Insights-Counseling/dp/0615696066/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&amp;ie=UTF8&amp;qid=1513879855&amp;sr=1-1&amp;keywords=belonging+everywhere+and+nowhere" rel="noopener nofollow" target="_blank">Belonging Everywhere and Nowhere: Insights into Counseling the Globally Mobile</a>, which is how I first came across her work. In addition to her therapy practice, she also offers services as a consultant and coach for TCKs and others navigating this intercultural space. What you’ll hear in this episode: • About Lois' experiences growing up as a TCK missionary kid in Central America and how she came to want to help other TCKs find their true sense of belonging. • How frequent moves can lead some TCKs to experience unresolved grief, which can lead to some difficulties as they get older.  • How parents and other adults can help TCKs make room for both positive and negative emotional reactions to their experiences growing up abroad and allow them to work through and process grief.  • How many TCKs find their true sense of belonging with other TCKs.  Resources mentioned in this episode: • To learn more about TCKs, check out <a href="http://www.mindfulexpat.com/episode8" rel="noopener nofollow" target="_blank">episode 8</a> for my conversation with Josh Sandoz (who we mention in the podcast). • Lois mentioned a number of great resource books: <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Emotional-Resilience-Expat-Child-Storytelling/dp/1904881343/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&amp;qid=1513815108&amp;sr=8-1&amp;keywords=Julia+Simens" rel="noopener nofollow" target="_blank">• Emotional Resilience and the Expat Child: Practical Storytelling Techniques That Will Strengthen the Global Family</a>, by Julia Simens • The new edition of Ruth Van Reken &amp; David Pollock's book, <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Third-Culture-Kids-3rd-Growing/dp/1473657660/ref=pd_bxgy_14_img_2?_encoding=UTF8&amp;pd_rd_i=1473657660&amp;pd_rd_r=XBKW3PDVG8E3YBKEPYYB&amp;pd_rd_w=L5JXx&amp;pd_rd_wg=e5sjK&amp;psc=1&amp;refRID=XBKW3PDVG8E3YBKEPYYB" rel="noopener nofollow" target="_blank">Third Culture Kids 3rd Edition: Growing Up Among Worlds</a>. • <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Writing-Out-Limbo-International-Childhoods/dp/1443841439/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&amp;qid=1513804036&amp;sr=8-1&amp;keywords=writing+out+of+limbo" rel="noopener nofollow" target="_blank">Writing Out of Limbo: International Childhoods, Global Nomads and Third Culture Kids</a>, edited by by Gene Bell-Villada, Nina Sichel,‎ Faith Eidse, and‎ Elaine Neil Orr. • Pico Iyer's book, <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Global-Soul-Shopping-Malls-Search/dp/0679776117/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&amp;ie=UTF8&amp;qid=1513804278&amp;sr=1-1&amp;keywords=the+global+soul" rel="noopener nofollow" target="_blank">The Global Soul: Jet Lag, Shopping Malls, and the Search for Home</a> (and his TED Talk entitled, "<a href="https://www.ted.com/talks/pico_iyer_where_is_home" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Where Is Home</a>?"). • We also briefly mentioned Lois's blog post, "<a href="https://mangotreereflections.com/tcks-make-great-therapists/" rel="noopener nofollow" target="_blank">TCKs Make Great Therapists</a>."  More about Lois and how to follow up with her: To learn more about Lois' work as a counselor, coach, speaker, and writer, you can visit her website <a href="https://www.loisbushong.com/" rel="noopener nofollow" target="_blank">www.loisbushong.com</a>. To read some of her blog articles, you can also visit her blog, <a href="https://mangotreereflections.com/" rel="noopener nofollow" target="_blank">mangotreereflections.com</a> (the contents of which will be transferred over to her main website in the next few months). Lois' book, <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Belonging-Everywhere-Nowhere-Insights-Counseling/dp/0615696066/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&amp;ie=UTF8&amp;qid=1513879855&amp;sr=1-1&amp;keywords=belonging+everywhere+and+nowhere" rel="noopener nofollow" target="_blank">Belonging Everywhere and Nowhere: Insights into Counseling the Globally Mobile</a>, is a fantastic resource especially for therapists and counselors, but really for anyone working with TCKs. To learn more about the book, you can also visit <a href="https://www.loisbushong.com/belonging-everywhere-and-nowhere-lois-bushong/" rel="noopener nofollow" target="_blank">this page</a> of her website.  You can also find Lois on <a href="https://twitter.com/loisbushong" rel="noopener nofollow" target="_blank">Twitter</a>, and you can email by going to <a href="https://www.loisbushong.com/contact/" rel="noopener nofollow" target="_blank">this page</a> of her website. Stay in Touch! To make sure you don’t miss future episodes of Mindful Expat, you can subscribe to the podcast through <a href="https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/mindful-expat-with-dana-nelson-ph-d/id1206735105?l=en%20" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" target="_blank">iTunes</a>, <a href="http://www.stitcher.com/podcast/dana-nelson-phd/mindful-expat?refid=stpr" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" target="_blank">Stitcher</a>, or your favorite podcasting app. <a href="https://www.speakpipe.com/mindfulexpat" rel="noopener nofollow" target="_blank"></a>To receive monthly summaries of podcast episodes and stay up to date on other announcements and resources, sign up for the <a href="http://mindfulexpat.us11.list-manage.com/subscribe?u=c30810ecece3dd0370c0f69d4&amp;id=1faaec70c0" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" target="_blank">Mindful Expat Podcast Newsletter</a>! (When you sign up, you’ll also receive a free mp3 guided mindfulness exercise to practice on your own!) And, finally, if you’d like to get in touch and leave me a voice message with a question or comment that may be played in a future episode, you can do so <a href="http://www.mindfulexpat.com/speakpipe" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" target="_blank">here</a>!

ME36: Helping TCKs Make Room for Mixed Emotions & Find Their Sense of True Belonging (With Guest: Lois Bushong)