Kim Loh's guest appearances

Kim Loh

Inside Personal Growth with Greg Voisen

Love in Action

The Wonder Dome

Dorie Clark

Chester Elton

Ken Rusk

Wayne Baker

Raj Sisodia

Steve Farber

Whitney Johnson

Sabrina Horn

Dave McKeown

Ken Blanchard

Adrian Gostick

Jim Loehr

Moshe Engelberg

Marshall Goldsmith

Richard Barrett

OwlTail

Kim Loh is a conflict resolution and negotiation specialist, leadership coach, and co-author of the book Compassionate Conversations: How to Speak and Listen from the Heart. Her book is viewed as the definitive guide to learning effective strategies for engaging in open and honest conversations about divisive issues. Previously, she worked in peacebuilding and mediation research for the United Nations, as well as writing and advocacy for international NGOs and academic institutions. A lawyer by profession, she is an expert in international arbitration and litigation. Her work today centers on serving conscious leaders to up-level their human relationships and harness the true power of their teams. She joins Marcel Schwantes to discuss what drives conflict and share strategies for peaceful resolution.Marcel asks Kim to unpack the term “difference equals threat.” Humans are surrounded by similarities and differences, and are constantly balancing between the two, Kim explains. “If, through our own limitations, we cannot accommodate what’s happening [around us], we are likely to perceive it as a threat, which activates the flight or fight response,” she comments. [6:25]Kim shares tips for peaceful conflict resolution and reduction. The first thing you need to do when faced with conflict is to be aware of your role in it. You must take responsibility for yourself and your actions before analyzing the external factors of the conflict that need to change. [10:34]“All conversations about differences should begin and end with what we have in common,” Kim advises. She briefly describes strategies for eliminating division in conversation. [14:12]‘Talking straight’ is less about being blunt and more about having the courage to speak from the heart in goodwill and with good intentions, Marcel says. Kim believes that we are plagued by the things we don’t know how to say. When we listen well and talk straight, we create the freedom to be more truthful in conversation. [18:24]Though society as a whole is cognitively focused, our hearts are what will allow us to make sense of and peace with things that our minds cannot, Kim remarks. [20:34]ResourcesKimberly Loh on LinkedIn | TwitterKimberlyLoh.comCompassionate Conversations: How to Speak and Listen from the Heart

Cultivating Compassionate Conversations with Kim Loh

Kim Loh is a conflict resolution and negotiation specialist, leadership coach, and co-author of the book Compassionate Conversations: How to Speak and Listen from the Heart. Kim cut her teeth as a lawyer in London and Singapore, learning how to negotiate high stakes disputes in international and corporate fields. But she quickly realized that she wasn't satisfied with these ways of resolving conflict.A huge turning point came when she began to incorporate Integral Theory and Zen Buddhism into her conflict work, helping her understand that there is so much more available to us then the win/lose mentality that defines most conflict.She later went on to work with the UN in New York, researching peacebuilding, mediation, and gender issues with organizations from across the globe. As you'll hear, Kim is deeply attuned to the dynamics of group conflict. By making these relational dynamics visible, she helps seemingly opposing parties move towards healing, wholeness, and collective evolution.The Wonder Dome Newsletter http://bit.ly/3dTfdPi​Follow Andy on Twitter http://twitter.com/cahillaguerilla​Like us on Facebook http://facebook.com/mindfulcreative.coachEPISODE #25 NOTESCompassionate Conversations by Hamilton, Wilson, and LohIntegral TheoryJiddu Krishnamurti - “It is no measure of health to be well-adjusted to a profoundly sick society.”Bessel van der Kolk, MDJoanna MacyKimberlyLoh.comFacebook Instagram LinkedIn Twitter

Kim Loh is a conflict resolution and negotiation specialist, leadership coach, and co-author of the book <a href="https://www.compassionateconversations.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Compassionate Conversations: How to Speak and Listen from the Heart.</a> Kim cut her teeth as a lawyer in London and Singapore, learning how to negotiate high stakes disputes in international and corporate fields. But she quickly realized that she wasn't satisfied with these ways of resolving conflict. A huge turning point came when she began to incorporate Integral Theory and Zen Buddhism into her conflict work, helping her understand that there is so much more available to us then the win/lose mentality that defines most conflict. She later went on to work with the UN in New York, researching peacebuilding, mediation, and gender issues with organizations from across the globe. As you'll hear, Kim is deeply attuned to the dynamics of group conflict. By making these relational dynamics visible, she helps seemingly opposing parties move towards healing, wholeness, and collective evolution. The Wonder Dome Newsletter <a href="https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&amp;redir_token=QUFFLUhqbVJ5bjQtbEsxeWRFSTRZMTlVZ0JmcVF2R3R3Z3xBQ3Jtc0tueUxZX00td2gzcnIyRjFfMXZ4Y1B4VUFKR0ZPRngwTXlZM3lYVlRmOHM5bGxTUzNncU4yV2taNXZlRlpRdWVzWWtmbm9fYXAzTk9YU3Y1b3lSdmhfb1RQVU8wQ04xWEdKSkxtTUJzbDFkZ0VCY2hwaw&amp;q=http%3A%2F%2Fbit.ly%2F3dTfdPi" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">http://bit.ly/3dTfdPi</a>​ Follow Andy on Twitter <a href="https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&amp;redir_token=QUFFLUhqbjRYSEdHSWtyeTFmNDFuQzJUUkFXWWdDUVFNUXxBQ3Jtc0tsWnV5MlRJcWJROF9wUHJLeXNuRWMzRU5iTjNob0YyVXZVOWNfR0dDX0l4eFNnYkhPdkJ3a0J1bVFrX0d4bUF4Vmpxck53VkZRNi1YTzFNYWt3YTJJUzFDQlMyTFgwWmhQYnpHUmNlYkxLYjBZOEJmNA&amp;q=http%3A%2F%2Ftwitter.com%2Fcahillaguerilla" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">http://twitter.com/cahillaguerilla</a>​ Like us on Facebook <a href="http://facebook.com/mindfulcreative.coach" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">http://facebook.com/mindfulcreative.coach</a> EPISODE #25 NOTES <a href="https://www.compassionateconversations.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Compassionate Conversations</a> by Hamilton, Wilson, and Loh <a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Integral_theory_(Ken_Wilber)" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Integral Theory</a> <a href="https://jkrishnamurti.org/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Jiddu Krishnamurti</a> - “It is no measure of health to be well-adjusted to a profoundly sick society.” <a href="https://www.besselvanderkolk.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Bessel van der Kolk, MD</a> <a href="https://www.joannamacy.net/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Joanna Macy</a> <a href="https://kimberlyloh.com" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">KimberlyLoh.com</a><a href="https://www.facebook.com/thekimloh" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Facebook</a> <a href="https://www.instagram.com/thekimloh/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Instagram</a> <a href="https://www.linkedin.com/in/kimberly-loh/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">LinkedIn </a> <a href="https://twitter.com/thekimloh" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Twitter</a>

#25 Finding Intimacy at the Heart of Conflict (with Kim Loh)

In my interview with author Kim Loh, we speak about her new co-authored book entitled " Compassionate Conversations-How to Speak and Listen from the Heart"  In our world today what we speak about in this podcast is so very important and worth listening too.No matter who you are or in what position you might hold, it is challenging at best to understand how your biases are playing out in the way you communicate with others.

In my interview with author Kim Loh, we speak about her new co-authored book entitled " Compassionate Conversations-How to Speak and Listen from the Heart"  In our world today what we speak about in this podcast is so very important and worth listening too. No matter who you are or in what position you might hold, it is challenging at best to understand how your biases are playing out in the way you communicate with others.

Podcast 810: Compassionate Conversations with Kim Loh