Neil Howell's guest appearances

Neil Howell

Far Beyond Metal

The Skillful Podcast

The Digital Bulletin Podcast

Ben Saunders

Kelsey Harper

Cope Ahead

Sam Lloyd

Duncan Epping

Craig Palmer

Ahmed Hasan

Elle Michel

Jeremy Bristow

OwlTail

Nili Brosh

Matt Halpern from Periphery is on to talk about their new album Periphery V: Djent Is Not A Genre, cold plunging, the humor of Periphery, long-ass songs, and more. Shredder Nili Brosh (solo/Danny Elfman/Dethklok) discusses her first band. Then I recommend the one-man progressive mastermind Neil Howell. FarBeyondMetalPodcast.com PeripheryWebsite - Matt's Instagram Nili BroshWebsite - Instagram Neil HowellBandcamp - More

Matt Halpern from Periphery is on to talk about their new album Periphery V: Djent Is Not A Genre, cold plunging, the humor of Periphery, long-ass songs, and more. Shredder Nili Brosh (solo/Danny Elfman/Dethklok) discusses her first band. Then I recommend the one-man progressive mastermind Neil Howell. <a href="http://xn--https-rfa//www.farbeyondmetalpodcast.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">FarBeyondMetalPodcast.com</a> Periphery <a href="https://periphery.net/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Website</a> - <a href="https://www.instagram.com/mattperiphery/?hl=en" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Matt's Instagram</a> Nili Brosh <a href="https://www.nilibrosh.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Website</a> - <a href="https://www.instagram.com/nilibrosh/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Instagram</a> Neil Howell <a href="https://neilhowell.bandcamp.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Bandcamp</a> - <a href="https://linktr.ee/neil_howell" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">More</a>

122 - Periphery, Nili Brosh, & Neil Howell

In this episode recorded before the COVID-19 outbreak, AI specialists Martin Neale and Neil Howell discuss 'DevOps', 'customer centricity', 'augmented reality' and more.

Fragmented Reality: Martin Neale & Neil Howell

Are you someone who’s good at getting things done, following the rules and planning ahead? These can be wonderful traits to have but you may notice that focusing on doing everything right interferes with relaxing, enjoying life and connecting with others. This is known as “emotional over-control” or “OC” and today Marielle sits down with Neill Howell, MFT, to talk about it. Neil is a psychotherapist who specializes in treating those who are emotionally over-controlled. Neil and Marielle talk about RO-DBT, or Radically-Open Dialectical Behavior Therapy, and how it can help you learn to loosen the reigns of self-control and connect authentically to others. RO-DBT has been around for over 20 years and there’s clinical research behind this approach that’s really gaining a lot of momentum right now. It gets into the heart of things that other treatments haven’t been reaching. If you or a loved one are emotionally over-controlled, you don’t want to miss this fascinating discussion on how RO-DBT can be not only therapeutic, but a FUN treatment, as well. Listen in! Show Highlights:  Folks who are over-controlled or “OC” are very responsible  but sometimes responsibility can be too much of a good thing OC folks often compulsively strive to do more and get the next thing done but have a hard time slowing down, resting and being playful On the outside, OC folks look like they are doing everything “right” Hiding emotions and not letting people in is a big part of being over-controlled. Some people hide their emotions with a neutral facial expression and others mask their true feelings with inauthentic facial expressions, such as a fake smile. Being over-controlled has a biological component: it usually shows up at a young age with shyness and a heightened threat awareness, which leads to anxiety Over-control also has an environmental component: children learn that making mistakes is intolerable and that they should always strive to do better When you’re over-controlled, you don’t need more control, you need strategies to help address the underlying problem Emotional loneliness is a big part of being OC and many OC folks secretly worry that they are just not that likable Many OC folks live life in a rigid way which makes it hard to form genuine friendships, which require openness and flexibility Self-inquiry is the primary mindfulness practice in RO-DBT that starts with the premise that nobody knows everything and neither does anyone else, therefore, we all have something to learn The 2 rigid mindsets: fixed mind and fatalistic mind Approach coping and staying open to a better solution Emotional leakage and how to express emotion at an intensity that a person is comfortable with    Links &amp; Resources:  www.bayareadbtcc.com www.neilhowellpsychotherapy.com http://www.radicallyopen.net/about-ro-dbt/ Ask Us a Question! We’d love to hear from you! Where are you getting stuck with your skills application? Ask us a question for the chance to have it answered on the podcast. Submit your question here.  Please note that questions, and this podcast in general, are not a substitute for individual mental health treatment.

Are you someone who’s good at getting things done, following the rules and planning ahead? These can be wonderful traits to have but you may notice that focusing on doing everything right interferes with relaxing, enjoying life and connecting with others. This is known as “emotional over-control” or “OC” and today Marielle sits down with Neill Howell, MFT, to talk about it. Neil is a psychotherapist who specializes in treating those who are emotionally over-controlled. Neil and Marielle talk about RO-DBT, or Radically-Open Dialectical Behavior Therapy, and how it can help you learn to loosen the reigns of self-control and connect authentically to others. RO-DBT has been around for over 20 years and there’s clinical research behind this approach that’s really gaining a lot of momentum right now. It gets into the heart of things that other treatments haven’t been reaching. If you or a loved one are emotionally over-controlled, you don’t want to miss this fascinating discussion on how RO-DBT can be not only therapeutic, but a FUN treatment, as well. Listen in! Show Highlights: <ul> <li>Folks who are over-controlled or “OC” are very responsible  but sometimes responsibility can be too much of a good thing</li> <li>OC folks often compulsively strive to do more and get the next thing done but have a hard time slowing down, resting and being playful</li> <li>On the outside, OC folks look like they are doing everything “right”</li> <li>Hiding emotions and not letting people in is a big part of being over-controlled. Some people hide their emotions with a neutral facial expression and others mask their true feelings with inauthentic facial expressions, such as a fake smile.</li> <li>Being over-controlled has a biological component: it usually shows up at a young age with shyness and a heightened threat awareness, which leads to anxiety</li> <li>Over-control also has an environmental component: children learn that making mistakes is intolerable and that they should always strive to do better</li> <li>When you’re over-controlled, you don’t need more control, you need strategies to help address the underlying problem</li> <li>Emotional loneliness is a big part of being OC and many OC folks secretly worry that they are just not that likable</li> <li>Many OC folks live life in a rigid way which makes it hard to form genuine friendships, which require openness and flexibility</li> <li>Self-inquiry is the primary mindfulness practice in RO-DBT that starts with the premise that nobody knows everything and neither does anyone else, therefore, we all have something to learn</li> <li>The 2 rigid mindsets: fixed mind and fatalistic mind</li> <li>Approach coping and staying open to a better solution</li> <li>Emotional leakage and how to express emotion at an intensity that a person is comfortable with</li> </ul> Links &amp; Resources:  <a href="http://www.bayareadbtcc.com" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.bayareadbtcc.com</a> <a href="http://www.neilhowellpsychotherapy.com" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.neilhowellpsychotherapy.com</a> <a href="http://www.radicallyopen.net/about-ro-dbt/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">http://www.radicallyopen.net/about-ro-dbt/</a> Ask Us a Question! We’d love to hear from you! Where are you getting stuck with your skills application? Ask us a question for the chance to have it answered on the podcast. Submit your question <a href="https://bayareadbtcc.com/podcast-questions/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">here.</a> Please note that questions, and this podcast in general, are not a substitute for individual mental health treatment.