Dedeker Winston's guest appearances

Dedeker Winston

Life on the Swingset - The Swinging & Polyamory Podcast

The Manwhore Podcast: Sex-Positive Conversations

Secular Sexuality

Sex Out Loud with Tristan Taormino

Real Talk Radio with Nicole Antoinette

Kinda Dating

Humanize Me

Loving Without Boundaries

Doing It Different Podcast with Tyler Martina

Welcome To The Clambake

IDEK

Live Your F*ck Yes Life

The Relationships Show

Sex & Society with Valerie Baber

The Superhumanize Podcast

Rachel Krantz

Andre Shakti

Derek Gaunt

Kevin Patterson

Mindy Raf

Brian Howie

David Ley

Leah Vernon

Jamie Loftus

Claire Baker

Betty Dodson

Kate McCombs

Erika Heidewald

Tina Horn

Connell Barrett

OwlTail

In this episode, relationship coach and co-host of the Multiamory podcast, Dedeker Winston joins us to discuss her new book, “Multiamory: Essential Tools for Modern Relationships” that she wrote along with co-authors Jase Lindgren and Emily Sotelo Matlack. Dedeker unpacks some fascinating key concepts in her book, like RADAR check ins and the Triforce of Communication, that will be game changers for your relationships. We also get into vulnerabilities as she explains that writing has been emotionally harder for her than nude modeling and why. Then, we shift gears as she elucidates how the combination of being a digital nomad and being non-monogamous has been especially epic for her. Side note: I have to say, her goat story got me incredibly envious. She tells us how jealousy has been her teacher, why she loves relationship anarchy, and finally, why she now endeavors to live a “f*ckless life”. Please join us for this detailed look into the non-monogamous mind of Dedeker Winston as we once again dare to Open Deeply.Bio:Dedeker Winston is an educator, relationship coach, and co-host of the Multiamory podcast, a research-backed relationship advice show that centers non-traditional relationships. She is the author of The Smart Girl's Guide to Polyamory, which I personally love, and the newly published Multiamory: Essential Tools for Modern Relationships. How to find Dedeker Winston: IG and twitter: @dedekerwinstonWebsite: dedekerwinston.comHow to find Sunny Megatron: Website: http://sunnymegatron.com Facebook http://facebook.com/sunnymegatron Twitter http://twitter.com/sunnymegatron Instagram http://instagram.com/sunnymegatron Tiktok https://www.tiktok.com/@sunnymegatron YouTube https://www.youtube.com/sunnymegatron American Sex Podcast https://open.spotify.com/show/2HroMhWJnyZbMSsOBKwBnk How to find Kate Loree: Website http://kateloree.com Facebook http://instagram.com/opendeeplywithkateloree Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@opendeeplywithkateloree https://www.facebook.com/kateloreelmft Twitter http://twitter.com/kateloreelmft Instagram http://instagram.com/opendeeplywithKateLoree YouTube https://youtube.com/channel/UCSTFAqGYKW3sIUa0tKivbqQ Open Deeply podcast is not therapy or a replacement for therapy.

Open Deeply Podcast

In this episode, relationship coach and co-host of the Multiamory podcast, Dedeker Winston joins us to discuss her new book, “Multiamory: Essential Tools for Modern Relationships” that she wrote along with co-authors Jase Lindgren and Emily Sotelo Matlack. Dedeker unpacks some fascinating key concepts in her book, like RADAR check ins and the Triforce of Communication, that will be game changers for your relationships. We also get into vulnerabilities as she explains that writing has been emotionally harder for her than nude modeling and why. Then, we shift gears as she elucidates how the combination of being a digital nomad and being non-monogamous has been especially epic for her. Side note: I have to say, her goat story got me incredibly envious. She tells us how jealousy has been her teacher, why she loves relationship anarchy, and finally, why she now endeavors to live a “f*ckless life”. Please join us for this detailed look into the non-monogamous mind of Dedeker Winston as we once again dare to Open Deeply. Bio: Dedeker Winston is an educator, relationship coach, and co-host of the Multiamory podcast, a research-backed relationship advice show that centers non-traditional relationships. She is the author of The Smart Girl's Guide to Polyamory, which I personally love, and the newly published Multiamory: Essential Tools for Modern Relationships. How to find Dedeker Winston: IG and twitter: @dedekerwinston Website: <a href="http://dedekerwinston.com" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">dedekerwinston.com</a> How to find Sunny Megatron: Website: <a href="http://sunnymegatron.com" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">http://sunnymegatron.com</a> Facebook <a href="http://facebook.com/sunnymegatron" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">http://facebook.com/sunnymegatron</a> Twitter <a href="http://twitter.com/sunnymegatron" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">http://twitter.com/sunnymegatron</a> Instagram <a href="http://instagram.com/sunnymegatron" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">http://instagram.com/sunnymegatron</a> Tiktok <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@sunnymegatron" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://www.tiktok.com/@sunnymegatron</a> YouTube <a href="https://www.youtube.com/sunnymegatron" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://www.youtube.com/sunnymegatron</a> American Sex Podcast <a href="https://open.spotify.com/show/2HroMhWJnyZbMSsOBKwBnk" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://open.spotify.com/show/2HroMhWJnyZbMSsOBKwBnk</a> How to find Kate Loree: Website <a href="http://kateloree.com" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">http://kateloree.com</a> Facebook <a href="http://instagram.com/opendeeplywithkateloree" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">http://instagram.com/opendeeplywithkateloree</a> Tiktok: <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@opendeeplywithkateloree" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://www.tiktok.com/@opendeeplywithkateloree</a> <a href="https://www.facebook.com/kateloreelmft" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://www.facebook.com/kateloreelmft</a> Twitter <a href="http://twitter.com/kateloreelmft" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">http://twitter.com/kateloreelmft</a> Instagram <a href="http://instagram.com/opendeeplywithKateLoree" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">http://instagram.com/opendeeplywithKateLoree</a> YouTube <a href="https://youtube.com/channel/UCSTFAqGYKW3sIUa0tKivbqQ" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://youtube.com/channel/UCSTFAqGYKW3sIUa0tKivbqQ</a> Open Deeply podcast is not therapy or a replacement for therapy.

Tools for Non-Traditional Relationships with Dedeker Winston - Ep 43

How do you figure out what your boundaries are? How should you go about communicating boundaries in a way that is both firm and compassionate? How can you remain flexible and open to change without having porous boundaries? Do the same strategies apply to both familial and romantic relationships?  I knew just who to ask: Dedeker Winston, relationship coach, host of the Multiamory podcast, and author of The Smart Girl’s Guide to Polyamory, along with the excellent forthcoming communication guide Multiamory: Essential Tools for Modern Relationships.  Dedeker is one of the smartest, most articulate people I know, and this conversation was incredibly helpful to me on a practical, nitty-gritty-communication-tips level. I hope you find it useful as well!

Help Existing

How do you figure out what your boundaries are? How should you go about communicating boundaries in a way that is both firm and compassionate? How can you remain flexible and open to change without having porous boundaries? Do the same strategies apply to both familial and romantic relationships?  I knew just who to ask: Dedeker Winston, relationship coach, host of the <a href="https://www.multiamory.com/podcast" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Multiamory podcast</a>, and author of <a href="https://www.dedekerwinston.com/book.html" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">The Smart Girl’s Guide to Polyamory</a>, along with the excellent forthcoming communication guide <a href="https://www.multiamory.com/book" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Multiamory: Essential Tools for Modern Relationships.</a>  Dedeker is one of the smartest, most articulate people I know, and this conversation was incredibly helpful to me on a practical, nitty-gritty-communication-tips level. I hope you find it useful as well!

Help Identifying & Communicating Boundaries—Relationship Coach & Author Dedeker Winston

Author &amp; Podcaster Dedeker Winston!Mentioned:Politico:  Supreme Court has voted to overturn abortion rights, draft opinion showsNational Network of Abortion FundsGet involved! Polyamory (Korean Edition)Introduce yourself in The Champagne Room at http://manwhorepod.com/discord!Follow Dedeker Winston!Instagram: @dedekerwinstonTwitter: @dedekerwinstonThe Smart Girl’s Guide to PolyamoryMultiamoryDrunk Bible StudyFollow Billy!TikTok: @thebillyprocidaTwitter: @TheBillyProcidaInstagram: @billyisprocida0nlyFans: @callmebillyVenmo: @BillyProcidaCash App: $manwhorepodAmazon Wish ListBoost your sexual performance naturally with Joymode! Get 20% off with code MANWHORE at usejoymode.com!Smut just got super aural. Get 50% off an Audiodesires membership with code MANWHORE at sign-up!Get $50 off your very own Motorbunny with promo code MANWHORE!Support The Manwhore Podcast on Patreon! Become a member at patreon.com/manwhorepodcast!Email your comments, questions, and criticisms to manwhorepod@gmail.com.Ethernight Club Kevin MacLeod (incompetech.com)Licensed under Creative Commons: By Attribution 3.0 Licensehttp://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/3.0/Wholesome by Kevin MacLeodLink: https://incompetech.filmmusic.io/song/5050-wholesomeLicense: https://filmmusic.io/standard-licensewww.ManwhorePod.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Author &amp; Podcaster Dedeker Winston! Mentioned:Politico: <a href="https://www.politico.com/news/2022/05/02/supreme-court-abortion-draft-opinion-00029473" rel="nofollow" target="_blank"> Supreme Court has voted to overturn abortion rights, draft opinion shows</a><a href="http://abortionfunds.org" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">National Network of Abortion Funds</a><a href="https://votesaveamerica.com/midterm-madness/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Get involved!</a><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Polyamory-Korean-Fukamigikue/dp/8998079275" rel="nofollow" target="_blank"> Polyamory (Korean Edition)</a>Introduce yourself in The Champagne Room at <a href="http://manwhorepod.com/discord" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">http://manwhorepod.com/discord</a>! Follow Dedeker Winston!Instagram: <a href="http://instagram.com/dedekerwinston" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">@dedekerwinston</a>Twitter: <a href="http://twitter.com/dedekerwinston" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">@dedekerwinston</a><a href="https://www.indiebound.org/book/9781510712089" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">The Smart Girl’s Guide to Polyamory</a><a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/se/podcast/multiamory/id913403767" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Multiamory</a><a href="https://open.spotify.com/show/5WJ8ysUiLteC3PSJGN2Nv2" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Drunk Bible Study</a> Follow Billy!TikTok: <a href="http://tiktok.com/@thebillyprocida" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">@thebillyprocida</a>Twitter: <a href="http://twitter.com/thebillyprocida" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">@TheBillyProcida</a>Instagram: <a href="http://instagram.com/billyisprocida" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">@billyisprocida</a>0nlyFans: <a href="http://onlyfans.com/callmebilly" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">@callmebilly</a> Venmo: @BillyProcidaCash App: $manwhorepod<a href="http://manwhorepod.com/thankyou" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Amazon Wish List</a> Boost your sexual performance naturally with <a href="http://usejoymode.com/manwhore" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Joymode</a>! Get 20% off with code MANWHORE at <a href="http://usejoymode.com" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">usejoymode.com</a>! Smut just got super aural. Get 50% off an <a href="http://audiodesires.com" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Audiodesires</a> membership with code MANWHORE at sign-up! Get $50 off your very own <a href="http://manwhorepod.com/motorbunny" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Motorbunny</a> with promo code MANWHORE! Support The Manwhore Podcast on Patreon! Become a member at <a href="http://patreon.com/manwhorepodcast" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">patreon.com/manwhorepodcast</a>! Email your comments, questions, and criticisms to manwhorepod@gmail.com. Ethernight Club Kevin MacLeod (<a href="http://incompetech.com" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">incompetech.com</a>)Licensed under Creative Commons: By Attribution 3.0 License<a href="http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/3.0/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/3.0/</a> Wholesome by Kevin MacLeodLink: <a href="https://incompetech.filmmusic.io/song/5050-wholesome" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://incompetech.filmmusic.io/song/5050-wholesome</a>License: <a href="https://filmmusic.io/standard-license" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://filmmusic.io/standard-license</a> <a href="http://www.ManwhorePod.com" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.ManwhorePod.com</a> Learn more about your ad choices. Visit <a href="https://megaphone.fm/adchoices" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">megaphone.fm/adchoices</a>

Ep. 434: Japanese Love Hotels and International Dating with Dedeker Winston (Multiamory)

On today's episode I interview Dedeker Winston, cohost of the Mutliamory podcast.  Dedeker is also a relationship coach specializing in non-traditional relationships and the author of The Smart Girl's Guide to Polyamory. We dig into the process of deciding what kind of relationship you REALLY want, not just what you think you're supposed to want. We also discuss the similarities between monogamous and polyamorous relationships and what each can learn from the other.  Even if you're committed to being monogamous forever, this episode will help you explore other areas of your relationship and your life to decide what it is is you REALLY want.  CLICK HERE to find out more about Dedeker and how to work with her!Also mentioned in this episode:  What Love Is And What It Could Be by Carrie JenkinsThe Love Starts Here Facebook Group

Love Starts Here with Love and Life Coach Melissa Snow 

On today's episode I interview Dedeker Winston, cohost of the <a href="https://www.multiamory.com/podcast" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Mutliamory podcast</a>.  Dedeker is also a relationship coach specializing in non-traditional relationships and the author of <a href="https://www.dedekerwinston.com/book.html" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">The Smart Girl's Guide to Polyamory</a>. We dig into the process of deciding what kind of relationship you REALLY want, not just what you think you're supposed to want. We also discuss the similarities between monogamous and polyamorous relationships and what each can learn from the other. Even if you're committed to being monogamous forever, this episode will help you explore other areas of your relationship and your life to decide what it is is you REALLY want.  <a href="https://www.dedekerwinston.com/coaching.html" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">CLICK HERE</a> to find out more about Dedeker and how to work with her! Also mentioned in this episode:   <ul><li><a href="https://www.amazon.com/What-Love-Could-Be/dp/0465098851" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">What Love Is And What It Could Be by Carrie Jenkins</a></li><li>The <a href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovestartshere" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Love Starts Here Facebook Group</a></li></ul>

Deciding What You REALLY Want w/Multiamory's Dedeker Winston 

Dedeker Winston is a relationship coach, writer, podcast host, and advocate for polyamory. She is a somatic-practitioner-in-training, and joins us to introduce another therapeutic intervention method for you to consider on your recovery journey. Somatic experiencing is all about bodily sensations. It ties together both our physical and psychological experiences to guide our nervous system through its trauma response and into healing. Not all practitioners come from psychiatry, with some having backgrounds in physical therapy, dance, or being a chiropractor. One of the things that draws people — including myself — to this method of intervention is that you do not have to talk about your trauma. Instead, its main focus is understanding what it means to feel things in our bodies, and to stop the feedback loop of body sensations triggering trauma responses that then trigger body sensations. Topics/Triggers:  What somatic experiencing is based on, as per its creator Peter A. Levine, PhD How Dedeker's experience with PTSD led her to somatic experiencing + why "talk therapy" wasn't the solution for her A breakdown of Dedeker's 1st session of somatic experiencing, including how she finally started to feel good in her body again Why embodiment leads us back into being a whole being connected to nature in a way that psychotherapy does not What capitalism's influence on therapy has done + the reason it keeps us from knowing ourselves Christianity/Catholicism's influence on our western cultural  ideology that being in tune with our flesh is bad A step-by-step of what somatic experiencing is, why it could work for you, personal experiences from our own sessions, and what you can expect from a session of your own Dedeker's personal word of advice for survivors, especially those that are LGBTQ+ and/or in nontraditional relationships Multiamory Podcast Dedeker's book: The Smart Girl's Guide to Polyamory  Peter A. Levine's website, Ergos Institute of Somatic Education  Peter's books: In An Unspoken Voice + Waking the Tiger  ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ If you took anything away from today’s podcast, please share it with someone who may need to hear it. And if you really want to support the podcast please give us a rate/review. If you or anyone you know is suffering through trauma contact the National Sexual Assault hotline at 1-800-656-4673 or online for 24/7 support. (This podcast is not a replacement for psychotherapy or mental health care. You can obtain a referral for mental health care provider from your primary care physician, or search on Psychology Today’s Find a Therapist directory) Find more Initiated Survivor content here and on Instagram!

Initiated Survivor

Dedeker Winston is a relationship coach, writer, podcast host, and advocate for polyamory. She is a somatic-practitioner-in-training, and joins us to introduce another therapeutic intervention method for you to consider on your recovery journey. Somatic experiencing is all about bodily sensations. It ties together both our physical and psychological experiences to guide our nervous system through its trauma response and into healing. Not all practitioners come from psychiatry, with some having backgrounds in physical therapy, dance, or being a chiropractor. One of the things that draws people — including myself — to this method of intervention is that you do not have to talk about your trauma. Instead, its main focus is understanding what it means to feel things in our bodies, and to stop the feedback loop of body sensations triggering trauma responses that then trigger body sensations. Topics/Triggers: <ul> <li>What somatic experiencing is based on, as per its creator Peter A. Levine, PhD</li> <li>How Dedeker's experience with PTSD led her to somatic experiencing + why "talk therapy" wasn't the solution for her</li> <li>A breakdown of Dedeker's 1st session of somatic experiencing, including how she finally started to feel good in her body again</li> <li>Why embodiment leads us back into being a whole being connected to nature in a way that psychotherapy does not</li> <li>What capitalism's influence on therapy has done + the reason it keeps us from knowing ourselves</li> <li>Christianity/Catholicism's influence on our western cultural  ideology that being in tune with our flesh is bad</li> <li>A step-by-step of what somatic experiencing is, why it could work for you, personal experiences from our own sessions, and what you can expect from a session of your own</li> <li>Dedeker's personal word of advice for survivors, especially those that are LGBTQ+ and/or in nontraditional relationships</li> <li><a href="https://www.multiamory.com/podcast" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Multiamory Podcast</a></li> <li>Dedeker's book: <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Smart-Girls-Guide-Polyamory-Relationships/dp/1510712089" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">The Smart Girl's Guide to Polyamory </a></li> <li>Peter A. Levine's website,<a href="https://www.somaticexperiencing.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank"> Ergos Institute of Somatic Education </a></li> <li>Peter's books: <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Unspoken-Voice-Releases-Restores-Goodness/dp/1556439431" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">In An Unspoken Voice</a> + <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Waking-Tiger-Healing-Peter-Levine/dp/155643233X/ref=pd_lpo_1?pd_rd_i=155643233X&amp;psc=1" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Waking the Tiger</a></li> </ul> ━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━ If you took anything away from today’s podcast, please share it with someone who may need to hear it. And if you really want to support the podcast please give us a rate/review. If you or anyone you know is suffering through trauma contact the National Sexual Assault hotline at 1-800-656-4673 or <a href="https://hotline.rainn.org/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">online</a> for 24/7 support. (This podcast is not a replacement for psychotherapy or mental health care. You can obtain a referral for mental health care provider from your primary care physician, or search on <a href="https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/therapists" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Psychology Today’s Find a Therapist directory</a>) Find more <a href="https://www.initiatedsurvivor.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Initiated Survivor content here</a> and on <a href="https://www.instagram.com/initiatedsurvivor/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Instagram</a>!

Somatic Experiencing with Dedeker Winston

EP 88 - POLYAMORY &amp; OPEN RELATING WITH DEDEKER WINSTONOMG we are that excited about this episode! The author of ‘Smart Girls Guide To Polyamory’ and co-host of the excellent podcast Multiamory joins us for a chat about all things poly and open relating.We were lucky to catch the gorgeous Dedeker whilst she is in the country and enjoyed every minute of this juicy episode. We talk about our open relationship and about ethical non-monogamy quite a lot - You can check our previous episodes - However it was great to have an expert in this field on so we could dive in deeper.In this episode, we talked about:public opinion (judgement) about open relationships and polyamorywhat monogamous folks can learn from poly relationshipswhy it’s useful to have unbiased support in relationshipsSome of the highs and lows of open relatingHow self awareness trumps even communication when it comes to relatingAnd so much more! We share some of our personal experiences as always and Dedeker provides us with plenty of solid advice, anecdotes and info about polyamory and open relating.This episode is not just for ethical non-monogamous peeps! We encourage everyone to open your ears and minds and tune in to this episode, we actually talk a lot about monogamy so give it a whirl.Dedeker shared these useful links with us too - Research studies (not comprehensive): https://www.multiamory.com/sourcesDatabases for finding polyamory friendly professionals:  polyfriendly.org and kapprofessionals.org  And you can follow her @dedekerwinston on Insta and find Multiamory @multiamory_podcast Find her coaching and more at dedekerwinston.comBe our patrons over on Patreon! We’d love you to support us and in return, get access to all of our juicy and bonus content, from secret podcasts, to chats, workshops, discounts and so much more. From just $11.11 AUD per month, get on the Patreon train - patron.com/thehotshitOf course, find us on IG @consciouscouplescoaching and check out our website conscious-couples.com You can also find us individually @cindrabanks and @lukeskewesPlease do share with anyone you think may benefit from hearing this episode, spread the love and let's change the world together. If you have a moment and are listening on Apple Podcasts, we’d love if you could rate and review our podcast so more people can find it and subscribe so you never miss an episode.We’re always open to feedback and suggestions, so connect with us on IG, we love hearing from you all.Thanks as always for listening, we love you xx

EP 88 - POLYAMORY &amp; OPEN RELATING WITH DEDEKER WINSTON OMG we are that excited about this episode! The author of ‘Smart Girls Guide To Polyamory’ and co-host of the excellent podcast Multiamory joins us for a chat about all things poly and open relating. We were lucky to catch the gorgeous Dedeker whilst she is in the country and enjoyed every minute of this juicy episode. We talk about our open relationship and about ethical non-monogamy quite a lot - You can check our previous episodes - However it was great to have an expert in this field on so we could dive in deeper. In this episode, we talked about: public opinion (judgement) about open relationships and polyamory what monogamous folks can learn from poly relationships why it’s useful to have unbiased support in relationships Some of the highs and lows of open relating How self awareness trumps even communication when it comes to relating And so much more! We share some of our personal experiences as always and Dedeker provides us with plenty of solid advice, anecdotes and info about polyamory and open relating. This episode is not just for ethical non-monogamous peeps! We encourage everyone to open your ears and minds and tune in to this episode, we actually talk a lot about monogamy so give it a whirl. Dedeker shared these useful links with us too - Research studies (not comprehensive): <a href="https://www.multiamory.com/sources" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://www.multiamory.com/sources</a> Databases for finding polyamory friendly professionals:  <a href="http://polyfriendly.org" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">polyfriendly.org</a> and <a href="http://kapprofessionals.org" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">kapprofessionals.org</a>  And you can follow her @dedekerwinston on Insta and find Multiamory @multiamory_podcast Find her coaching and more at <a href="http://dedekerwinston.com" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">dedekerwinston.com</a> Be our patrons over on Patreon! We’d love you to support us and in return, get access to all of our juicy and bonus content, from secret podcasts, to chats, workshops, discounts and so much more. From just $11.11 AUD per month, get on the Patreon train - <a href="http://patron.com/thehotshit" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">patron.com/thehotshit</a> Of course, find us on IG @consciouscouplescoaching and check out our website <a href="http://conscious-couples.com" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">conscious-couples.com</a> You can also find us individually @cindrabanks and @lukeskewes Please do share with anyone you think may benefit from hearing this episode, spread the love and let's change the world together. If you have a moment and are listening on Apple Podcasts, we’d love if you could rate and review our podcast so more people can find it and subscribe so you never miss an episode. We’re always open to feedback and suggestions, so connect with us on IG, we love hearing from you all. Thanks as always for listening, we love you xx

Ep 88: Polyamory & Open Relating with Dedeker Winston

Polyamory Demystified

From June 2017: Ever thought maybe you were meant to be with more than one person? As times change, so do the way relationships look, which is why host Natasha Chandel and author (“The Smart Girl’s Guide to Polyamory”) Dedeker Winston discuss polyamory. Dedeker helps us better understand this specific type of ethical non-monogamy. Are poly peeps just closet commitment-phobes? Do they ever get jealous? Is it an actual lifestyle? Dedeker breaks down the myths and facts in this uber interesting episode of Kinda Dating!Kinda Dating is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at Frolic.media/podcasts! GET EXCLUSIVE KINDA DATING MERCH HERE:https://www.teepublic.com/stores/kinda-dating?ref_id=15658Email us your thoughts at kindadating@gmail.comFollow Kinda Dating:www.instagram.com/kindadatingwww.facebook.com/kindadatingwww.twitter.com/kindadatingFollow Natasha Chandel:www.instagram.com/natashachandelwww.facebook.com/natashachandelofficialwww.twitter.com/natashachandelofficialFollow Aisha Holden:www.instagram.com/aishasaysdancewww.facebook.com/aishasaysdancewww.twitter.com/aishasaysdanceFollow Dedeker Winston:https://www.dedekerwinston.com/https://twitter.com/dedekerwinstonFollow Adam Pineless:https://www.instagram.com/adampineless Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

From June 2017: Ever thought maybe you were meant to be with more than one person? As times change, so do the way relationships look, which is why host Natasha Chandel and author (“The Smart Girl’s Guide to Polyamory”) Dedeker Winston discuss polyamory. Dedeker helps us better understand this specific type of ethical non-monogamy. Are poly peeps just closet commitment-phobes? Do they ever get jealous? Is it an actual lifestyle? Dedeker breaks down the myths and facts in this uber interesting episode of Kinda Dating! Kinda Dating is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at Frolic.media/podcasts! GET EXCLUSIVE KINDA DATING MERCH HERE:<a href="https://www.teepublic.com/stores/kinda-dating?ref_id=15658" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://www.teepublic.com/stores/kinda-dating?ref_id=15658</a> Email us your thoughts at kindadating@gmail.com Follow Kinda Dating:<a href="http://www.instagram.com/kindadating" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.instagram.com/kindadating</a><a href="http://www.facebook.com/kindadating" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.facebook.com/kindadating</a><a href="http://www.twitter.com/kindadating" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.twitter.com/kindadating</a> Follow Natasha Chandel:<a href="http://www.instagram.com/natashachandel" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.instagram.com/natashachandel</a><a href="http://www.facebook.com/natashachandelofficial" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.facebook.com/natashachandelofficial</a><a href="http://www.twitter.com/natashachandelofficial" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.twitter.com/natashachandelofficial</a> Follow Aisha Holden:<a href="http://www.instagram.com/aishasaysdance" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.instagram.com/aishasaysdance</a><a href="http://www.facebook.com/aishasaysdance" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.facebook.com/aishasaysdance</a><a href="http://www.twitter.com/aishasaysdance" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.twitter.com/aishasaysdance</a> Follow Dedeker Winston:<a href="https://www.dedekerwinston.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://www.dedekerwinston.com/</a><a href="https://twitter.com/dedekerwinston" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://twitter.com/dedekerwinston</a> Follow Adam Pineless:<a href="https://www.instagram.com/adampineless" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://www.instagram.com/adampineless</a> Learn more about your ad choices. Visit <a href="https://megaphone.fm/adchoices" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">megaphone.fm/adchoices</a>

Polyamory Demystified (with Dedeker Winston)

What is love?More books, songs and movies have been written about the topic than any other combined. And yet we still have that one answer.What we do know is love is the greatest human experience of all. And with regards to relationship models and recent years, some of us have become aware that the one-size-fits-all is not the solution for everyone, and that monogamy is not the only way to successfully conduct a relationship. In fact, growing numbers of people are living non-monogamous lifestyles. A 2017 study found at least one in five people have engaged in some form of consensual non-monogamy before.One approach to living a non-monogamous lifestyle could be to adopt a philosophy and lifestyle of polyamory. And this is what I will discuss with today's guest. Dedeker Winston is a relationship coach, writer and co-creator of the Multiamory podcast.And she is the author of The Smart Girls Guide to Polyamory: Everything You Need to Know About Open Relationships, Non-Monogamy, and Alternative Love.02:40...What polyamory is03:47...Dedeker‘s own journey into polyamory11:19...The number of people that are openly living non-monogamous relationships currently in the US13:57...Why polyamory is still stigmatized in the West18:21...The different relationship structures and practices that fall under the term consensual non-monogamy23:16...Pop culture and cultural narratives vs the reality of alternative relationship models27:10...The concept of Relationship Anarchy30:21...Love is not a limited resource: Operating from fear and lack and what the industrial revolution has to do with it34:42...The most common misconceptions about polyamory37:05...People who identify as asexual in the polyamorous community39:24...Dedeker‘s advice for people interested in polyamory who want to take the first steps44:26...How to keep polyamorous relationships happy and successful vs monogamous relationships46:19...Jealousy and how to handle it and what it can teach us51:05...Coloring outside of the lines: the judgements one can be faced with with when choosing to live differently and how to counter them with grace54:50...The things that would fundamentally change in society if we opened up to accept all kinds of different relationship models56:24...Dedeker‘s practicesResources mentioned:-Multiamory website-Dedeker's website-The Smart Girls Guide to Polyamory: Everything You Need to Know About Open Relationships, Non-Monogamy, and Alternative Love-Dedeker's InstagramMultiamory Podcast on Instagram

What is love?More books, songs and movies have been written about the topic than any other combined. And yet we still have that one answer.What we do know is love is the greatest human experience of all. And with regards to relationship models and recent years, some of us have become aware that the one-size-fits-all is not the solution for everyone, and that monogamy is not the only way to successfully conduct a relationship. In fact, growing numbers of people are living non-monogamous lifestyles. A 2017 study found at least one in five people have engaged in some form of consensual non-monogamy before.One approach to living a non-monogamous lifestyle could be to adopt a philosophy and lifestyle of polyamory. And this is what I will discuss with today's guest. Dedeker Winston is a relationship coach, writer and co-creator of the Multiamory podcast.And she is the author of <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Smart-Girls-Guide-Polyamory-Relationships/dp/1510712089" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">The Smart Girls Guide to Polyamory: Everything You Need to Know About Open Relationships, Non-Monogamy, and Alternative Love</a>.02:40...What polyamory is03:47...Dedeker‘s own journey into polyamory11:19...The number of people that are openly living non-monogamous relationships currently in the US13:57...Why polyamory is still stigmatized in the West18:21...The different relationship structures and practices that fall under the term consensual non-monogamy23:16...Pop culture and cultural narratives vs the reality of alternative relationship models27:10...The concept of Relationship Anarchy30:21...Love is not a limited resource: Operating from fear and lack and what the industrial revolution has to do with it34:42...The most common misconceptions about polyamory37:05...People who identify as asexual in the polyamorous community39:24...Dedeker‘s advice for people interested in polyamory who want to take the first steps44:26...How to keep polyamorous relationships happy and successful vs monogamous relationships46:19...Jealousy and how to handle it and what it can teach us51:05...Coloring outside of the lines: the judgements one can be faced with with when choosing to live differently and how to counter them with grace54:50...The things that would fundamentally change in society if we opened up to accept all kinds of different relationship models56:24...Dedeker‘s practices<h3>Resources mentioned:</h3>-<a href="http://www.multiamory.com" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Multiamory website</a>-<a href="http://www.dedekerwinston.com" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Dedeker's website</a>-<a href="https://www.amazon.com/Smart-Girls-Guide-Polyamory-Relationships/dp/1510712089" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">The Smart Girls Guide to Polyamory: Everything You Need to Know About Open Relationships, Non-Monogamy, and Alternative Love</a>-<a href="http://www.instagram.com/dedekerwinston" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Dedeker's Instagram</a><a href="http://www.instagram.com/multiamory_podcast" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Multiamory Podcast on Instagram</a>

Polyamory, Love Without Limits: Dedeker Winston On Consensual Non-Monogamy, Why Monogamy Is Not For Everyone, How To Keep Poly Relationships Happy and Healthy, Managing Jealousy and Much More!

Author and podcaster, Dedeker Winston, discusses the importance of battling stigma against relationship nonconformity. We cover those pesky labels and assumptions, childrearing, swinging, Christians and the APA's "push for polyamory". I question cultural "whys and what ifs" and she shares her wealth of well-researched knowledge.

Author and podcaster, Dedeker Winston, discusses the importance of battling stigma against relationship nonconformity. We cover those pesky labels and assumptions, childrearing, swinging, Christians and the APA's "push for polyamory". I question cultural "whys and what ifs" and she shares her wealth of well-researched knowledge.

Fighting Stigma & Finding Your Format - With Dedeker Winston

Polyamorous author and podcaster, Dedeker Winston, talks about growing up in the church and her transition into living her own truth. We talk about celebrities who openly explore non-monogamous relationships, why consensual non-monogamy might appeal to "freaks and geeks", the true meaning of monogamy, and how thoughtful communication is essential for surviving in any kind of relationship structure.

Polyamorous author and podcaster, Dedeker Winston, talks about growing up in the church and her transition into living her own truth. We talk about celebrities who openly explore non-monogamous relationships, why consensual non-monogamy might appeal to "freaks and geeks", the true meaning of monogamy, and how thoughtful communication is essential for surviving in any kind of relationship structure.