Brandon Cardenaz's guest appearances

Brandon Cardenaz

Listen, Learn & Love Hosted by Richard Ostler

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Elizabeth Cardenaz

My friends Brandon and Elizabeth Cardenaz (mid 30s, active LDS, married 12 years, 4 children with twins on the way) join us to share their story.   Brandon talks about growing up in conservative communities with unkind and unhelpful things said about gay people and learning to separate that from the gospel of Jesus Christ.   Brandon talks about how there were really no resources for a gay Latter-day Saint and doing the best he could to make his way forward concurrent with feelings a deep shame for his sexual orientation. Brandon talks about his decision to serve a mission and his deep testimony of our restored Church.   Brandon talks about returning how from his mission and dating women.  Brandon talks about coming out to his girlfriend (now his wife Elizabeth) as gay and her prayer to Heavenly Father on if she should marry Brandon.   Elizabeth shares her answer to prayer to marry Brandon. Brandon and talk about an “intervention” to call off their marriage—the day before their temple marriage—as some family members became aware of Brandon’s sexual orientation.   They share their decision to get married and how we should learn to honor individual personal revelation.   They share how they later reconciled with these family members. This is a powerful podcast from a couple in a wonderful, sustainable, and healthy marriage—with a foundation of honestly, communication, and deep peace/no shame around Brandon’s sexuality.   It is story that provides principles to help strengthen other marriages. Thank you, Brandon, and Elizabeth, for being on the podcast.   I was deeply moved listening to your story.   You are both so brave.   You have a beautiful family, and your story will help so many!Links: Ministering to LGBTQ Latter-day Saints Facebook Group:www.facebook.com/groups/1433556613672143 Richard Ostler Book:  Embracing LGBTQ Latter-day Saints: Deseret Book: deseretbook.com/p/listen-learn-and-love-embracing-lgbtq-latter-day-saints?variant_id=189035-paperback Amazon: amazon.com/dp/1462135773 Index of Podcasts:  listenlearnandlove.org/podcasts

My friends Brandon and Elizabeth Cardenaz (mid 30s, active LDS, married 12 years, 4 children with twins on the way) join us to share their story. Brandon talks about growing up in conservative communities with unkind and unhelpful things said about gay people and learning to separate that from the gospel of Jesus Christ. Brandon talks about how there were really no resources for a gay Latter-day Saint and doing the best he could to make his way forward concurrent with feelings a deep shame for his sexual orientation. Brandon talks about his decision to serve a mission and his deep testimony of our restored Church. Brandon talks about returning how from his mission and dating women. Brandon talks about coming out to his girlfriend (now his wife Elizabeth) as gay and her prayer to Heavenly Father on if she should marry Brandon. Elizabeth shares her answer to prayer to marry Brandon. Brandon and talk about an “intervention” to call off their marriage—the day before their temple marriage—as some family members became aware of Brandon’s sexual orientation. They share their decision to get married and how we should learn to honor individual personal revelation. They share how they later reconciled with these family members. This is a powerful podcast from a couple in a wonderful, sustainable, and healthy marriage—with a foundation of honestly, communication, and deep peace/no shame around Brandon’s sexuality. It is story that provides principles to help strengthen other marriages. Thank you, Brandon, and Elizabeth, for being on the podcast. I was deeply moved listening to your story. You are both so brave. You have a beautiful family, and your story will help so many! Links: Ministering to LGBTQ Latter-day Saints Facebook Group: <a href="http://www.facebook.com/groups/1433556613672143" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.facebook.com/groups/1433556613672143</a> Richard Ostler Book: Embracing LGBTQ Latter-day Saints: Deseret Book: <a href="http://deseretbook.com/p/listen-learn-and-love-embracing-lgbtq-latter-day-saints?variant_id=189035-paperback" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">deseretbook.com/p/listen-learn-and-love-embracing-lgbtq-latter-day-saints?variant_id=189035-paperback</a> Amazon: <a href="http://amazon.com/dp/1462135773" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">amazon.com/dp/1462135773</a> Index of Podcasts: <a href="http://listenlearnandlove.org/podcasts" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">listenlearnandlove.org/podcasts</a>