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Maryam Afnan Ahmad

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Maryam Afnan Ahmad shares her insights and lessons learned on balancing family and career.She is originally from Pakistan and holds an MBA from Pakistan's Lahore University of Management Sciences.  She was living in Pakistan, she teaching at NUST Business School in Islamabad when she and her husband started their nomadic journey to China. Maryam conducted corporate and personal development programs in Pakistan and China and served in a variety of volunteer roles in the expat community.Today she teaches full time at the Edlin School in Reston, Virginia, USA.  She has served on the board of the FIGT organization (Families in Global Transition) for nearly 3 years.  On top of that, Maryam is also a writer. She co-wrote the book Slurping Soup and Other Confusions, a story and activity book for children between 3 and 12 years old. "Motherhood is a great opportunity to know yourself and grow."Some of Maryam’s insights in this episode: How to compromise career and motherhood. How to express your needs to your partner. How to involve your family in your career development.  Resources shared to learn how to communicate with your family in an effective way:  Gordon Training. 7 Habits of Happy Kids. SCHUITMA method by Etsko Schuitema for Care and Growth.   "Involve your family in your career reinvention journey." Find Maryam Afnan Ahmed and her book:  Slurping Soup and Other Confusions. LinkedIn. Facebook.  What did you think of this episode? Leave your comment below!

Maryam Afnan Ahmad shares her insights and lessons learned on balancing family and career.She is originally from Pakistan and holds an MBA from Pakistan's Lahore University of Management Sciences.  She was living in Pakistan, she teaching at NUST Business School in Islamabad when she and her husband started their nomadic journey to China. Maryam conducted corporate and personal development programs in Pakistan and China and served in a variety of volunteer roles in the expat community.Today she teaches full time at the Edlin School in Reston, Virginia, USA.  She has served on the board of the FIGT organization (Families in Global Transition) for nearly 3 years.  On top of that, Maryam is also a writer. She co-wrote the book <a href="http://www.slurpingsoup.com" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Slurping Soup and Other Confusions,</a> a story and activity book for children between 3 and 12 years old.<a href="http://www.slurpingsoup.com" rel="nofollow" target="_blank"> </a><blockquote>"Motherhood is a great opportunity to know yourself and grow."</blockquote><h3>Some of Maryam’s insights in this episode:</h3><ul> <li>How to compromise career and motherhood.</li> <li>How to express your needs to your partner.</li> <li>How to involve your family in your career development.</li> </ul> <h3>Resources shared to learn how to communicate with your family in an effective way:</h3> <ul> <li><a href="http://www.gordontraining.com" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Gordon Training</a>.</li> <li><a href="https://www.amazon.com/7-Habits-Happy-Kids/dp/0743574672" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">7 Habits of Happy Kids</a>.</li> <li><a href="http://www.careandgrowth.com" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">SCHUITMA method by Etsko Schuitema for Care and Growth. </a></li> </ul> <blockquote>"Involve your family in your career reinvention journey."</blockquote> <h3>Find Maryam Afnan Ahmed and her book:</h3> <ul> <li><a href="http://www.slurpingsoup.com" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Slurping Soup and Other Confusions.</a></li> <li><a href="https://www.linkedin.com/in/maryam-afnan-ahmad-a052352" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">LinkedIn.</a></li> <li><a href="https://www.facebook.com/mafnanahmad?fref=ts" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Facebook.</a></li> </ul> <h3>What did you think of this episode? Leave your comment below!</h3>

TN63: Balancing family and career – Maryam Afnan Ahmad

What does Slurping Soup have to do with being an expat? Well, it’s one of those confusing cultural differences that expats face everyday, wherever they live. Expat life can be wonderful, but it can also be challenging–especially for children. But having the right outlook and attitude can certainly help one adjust to a new place and new people. And, having some real tools at your fingertips can be helpful as well. My guest today, Maryam Afnan Ahmad discovered the need for such tools when she was living in Beijing with her family several years ago. Her children both dealt with challenges differently, and she knew that being able to pinpoint their true feelings would help them understand the problems they might be experiencing. She attended a Parent Effectiveness Training course with other expat moms, and together, the six of them decided to write a book. Slurping Soup and Other Confusions is their story and activity book for kids in transition, and it helps children identify what they are experiencing and find ways to handle their confusion. In our conversation, Maryam and I talk about her family’s experience as expats from Pakistan living in both Beijing and the U.S.  Her family loves to travel, loves airports, and she loves seeing how her kids have transformed into open-minded people, willing to try new things (including different foods) and meet new people. Maryam and her family have really enjoyed their travels and life abroad, and she offers insight into why. She believes certain strengths help families adjust more easily: curiosity, with holding judgement, not having expectations from people, and flexibility to deal with whatever comes their way are a few of the strengths she talks about. In addition to being a writer, Maryam is on the board of the Families in Global Transition (FIGT) Organization, which she explains more about in our talk. The annual conference they hold took place in Amsterdam this year, and Maryam shares about some of the great talks she heard while there.   Links from the show:  Parent Effectiveness Training– Dr. Thomas Gordon Gordon Training International is the headquarters for information on Parent Effectiveness Training Slurping Soup and Other Confusions FIGT – Families in Global Transition TCKs – Third Culture Kids Third Culture Kids:Growing Up Among Worlds by David C. Pollack and Ruth Van Reeken Melissa Dalton Bradford – Global Mom: A Memoir Allama Iqbal What can we learn from Maryam’s story?  Well, if you are an expat, then you may want to check out some of the books she suggests (including her own!). You may also identify with many of the things she talks about. I’m curious what you feel some of the strengths are that are needed for living a global life abroad? If you are not an expat, maybe you can more easily understand some of the simple joys and challenges they face. Maybe you know a family from another part of the world that needs a little hospitality. Take some of Maryam’s advice, and invite them over for a meal, or a family activity. Do you identify with being a global nomad or a TCK? I’d love to hear about it below. Sign up for my weekly newsletter to get more behind the scene details of what’s going on at The Global Mom Show, what Mary Grace is up to, and what new places you should check out on the web. You can sign up here.    The post TGMS #010 Slurping Soup and Other Confusions with expat Maryam Afnan Ahmad appeared first on The Global Mom Show.

What does Slurping Soup have to do with being an expat? Well, it’s one of those confusing cultural differences that expats face everyday, wherever they live. Expat life can be wonderful, but it can also be challenging–especially for children. But having the right outlook and attitude can certainly help one adjust to a new place and new people. And, having some real tools at your fingertips can be helpful as well. My guest today, Maryam Afnan Ahmad discovered the need for such tools when she was living in Beijing with her family several years ago. Her children both dealt with challenges differently, and she knew that being able to pinpoint their true feelings would help them understand the problems they might be experiencing. She attended a Parent Effectiveness Training course with other expat moms, and together, the six of them decided to write a <a href="https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1909193224/ref=as_li_tl?ie=UTF8&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=9325&amp;creativeASIN=1909193224&amp;linkCode={{linkCode}}&amp;tag=theglobalmom-20&amp;linkId={{link_id}}" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">book</a>. <a href="https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1909193224/ref=as_li_tl?ie=UTF8&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=9325&amp;creativeASIN=1909193224&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;tag=theglobalmom-20&amp;linkId=43ecb2235435df262a01e0cf9d1bfe89" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Slurping Soup and Other Confusions</a> is their story and activity book for kids in transition, and it helps children identify what they are experiencing and find ways to handle their confusion. In our conversation, Maryam and I talk about her family’s experience as expats from Pakistan living in both Beijing and the U.S.  Her family loves to travel, loves airports, and she loves seeing how her kids have transformed into open-minded people, willing to try new things (including different foods) and meet new people. Maryam and her family have really enjoyed their travels and life abroad, and she offers insight into why. She believes certain strengths help families adjust more easily: curiosity, with holding judgement, not having expectations from people, and flexibility to deal with whatever comes their way are a few of the strengths she talks about. In addition to being a writer, Maryam is on the board of the <a href="http://www.figt.org/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Families in Global Transition</a> (FIGT) Organization, which she explains more about in our talk. The annual conference they hold took place in Amsterdam this year, and Maryam shares about some of the great talks she heard while there. Links from the show:  <a href="https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0609806939/ref=as_li_tl?ie=UTF8&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=9325&amp;creativeASIN=0609806939&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;tag=theglobalmom-20&amp;linkId=30d7b162ec2474871992896a186e10f1" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Parent Effectiveness Training</a>– Dr. Thomas Gordon <a href="http://www.gordontraining.com/parent-programs/parent-effectiveness-training-p-e-t/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Gordon Training International</a> is the headquarters for information on Parent Effectiveness Training <a href="http://www.slurpingsoup.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Slurping Soup and Other Confusions</a> <a href="http://www.figt.org/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">FIGT – Families in Global Transition</a> <a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Third_culture_kid" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">TCKs</a> – Third Culture Kids <a href="https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1857885252/ref=as_li_tl?ie=UTF8&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=9325&amp;creativeASIN=1857885252&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;tag=theglobalmom-20&amp;linkId=7e91f6e713e1a3a25e9379fd6584e457" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Third Culture Kids:Growing Up Among Worlds</a> by David C. Pollack and Ruth Van Reeken <a href="https://melissadaltonbradford.wordpress.com/about/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Melissa Dalton Bradford</a> – <a href="https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/193830134X/ref=as_li_tl?ie=UTF8&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=9325&amp;creativeASIN=193830134X&amp;linkCode={{linkCode}}&amp;tag=theglobalmom-20&amp;linkId={{link_id}}" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Global Mom: A Memoir</a> <a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Muhammad_Iqbal" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Allama Iqbal</a> What can we learn from Maryam’s story?  Well, if you are an expat, then you may want to check out some of the books she suggests (including her own!). You may also identify with many of the things she talks about. I’m curious what you feel some of the strengths are that are needed for living a global life abroad? If you are not an expat, maybe you can more easily understand some of the simple joys and challenges they face. Maybe you know a family from another part of the world that needs a little hospitality. Take some of Maryam’s advice, and invite them over for a meal, or a family activity. Do you identify with being a global nomad or a TCK? I’d love to hear about it below. Sign up for my weekly newsletter to get more behind the scene details of what’s going on at The Global Mom Show, what Mary Grace is up to, and what new places you should check out on the web. You can sign up <a href="https://app.convertkit.com/landing_pages/32023" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">here. </a> The post <a href="http://www.theglobalmom.com/tgms-010-slurping-soup-confessions-maryam-afnan-ahmad/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">TGMS #010 Slurping Soup and Other Confusions with expat Maryam Afnan Ahmad</a> appeared first on <a href="http://www.theglobalmom.com" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">The Global Mom Show</a>.

TGMS #010 Slurping Soup and Other Confusions with expat Maryam Afnan Ahmad