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Zach Spafford

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Whenever we discuss pornography use in the Church we often refer to it as an “addiction” but coach Zach Spafford thinks this is an innacurate description of what is happening and one that needs to change.    Zach feels the narrative around pornography use needs to change so that we can allow for agency and mistakes. When we can come to accept that all of us were sent to earth to use our agency and that mistakes are part of that agency, then we can come to view those who look at pornography in a much better way that can actually allow them to choose to not view it instead of being forced by fear to not view it. Which by the way, never works.    If you or someone you know is viewing pornography and wants to stop, this is a great episode to listen to.     For more information about Zach and for links to access all she has to offer, please click HERE! To watch this interview on YouTube, go HERE. For more information and available downloads, go to: https://ldslifecoaches.com/ All content is copyrighted to Heather Rackham and featured coaches. Do not use without permission.

Whenever we discuss pornography use in the Church we often refer to it as an “addiction” but coach Zach Spafford thinks this is an innacurate description of what is happening and one that needs to change.  Zach feels the narrative around pornography use needs to change so that we can allow for agency and mistakes. When we can come to accept that all of us were sent to earth to use our agency and that mistakes are part of that agency, then we can come to view those who look at pornography in a much better way that can actually allow them to choose to not view it instead of being forced by fear to not view it. Which by the way, never works.  If you or someone you know is viewing pornography and wants to stop, this is a great episode to listen to.   For more information about Zach and for links to access all she has to offer, please click <a href="https://ldslifecoaches.com/?s=zach+spafford" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">HERE</a>! To watch this interview on YouTube, go <a href="https://youtu.be/aMHVlwmcD2I" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">HERE</a>. For more information and available downloads, go to: <a href="https://ldslifecoaches.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://ldslifecoaches.com/</a> All content is copyrighted to Heather Rackham and featured coaches. Do not use without permission.

69. Changing Our Narrative About Pornography with Zach Spafford

Summary: Listen in on my conversation with Zach Spafford, a life coach dedicated to helping men overcome their addiction to pornography.  He became a life coach in 2019 and within a year made over $100k, all while being the father of 8 kids.  Zach’s story will help you see the importance of becoming highly uncomfortable to build a successful business. His story highlights the skills needed to get out there and make things happen.  What you’ll learn:The story behind his decision to become an entrepreneur Struggles he encountered on his way to becoming an entrepreneur The way to get clients The idea of building a business of porn coaching To become an entrepreneur you have to be highly willing to be uncomfortable Entrepreneurship is all about risk-taking Do your groundwork and ask Heavenly Father to help you. Mentioned on the show:ZachSpafford.com Zach’s Instagram Zach’s Facebook Profile The Self Mastery Podcast

Summary: Listen in on my conversation with Zach Spafford, a life coach dedicated to helping men overcome their addiction to pornography.  He became a life coach in 2019 and within a year made over $100k, all while being the father of 8 kids.  Zach’s story will help you see the importance of becoming highly uncomfortable to build a successful business. His story highlights the skills needed to get out there and make things happen.  What you’ll learn: <ul><li>The story behind his decision to become an entrepreneur</li> <li>Struggles he encountered on his way to becoming an entrepreneur</li> <li>The way to get clients</li> <li>The idea of building a business of porn coaching</li> <li>To become an entrepreneur you have to be highly willing to be uncomfortable</li> <li>Entrepreneurship is all about risk-taking</li> <li>Do your groundwork and ask Heavenly Father to help you.</li></ul>  Mentioned on the show: <ul><li><a href="https://www.zachspafford.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">ZachSpafford.com</a></li> <li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/zachspafford.selfmasterycoach/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Zach’s Instagram</a></li> <li><a href="https://www.facebook.com/zach.spafford" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Zach’s Facebook Profile</a></li> <li><a href="https://www.zachspafford.com/podcast" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">The Self Mastery Podcast</a></li></ul>

Episode 13: Interview with Zach Spafford

What Tough Parenting Moments DO &amp; DON'T Mean Becoming a Professional Parent No one shames professional athletes for working to improve themselves. We actually respect them for their dedication and hard work. Don't let others hold you back because of their thoughts or their shame. You can improve as a parent with dedication and hard work. I Should vs I Want vs I Will vs I AM!Should doesn't serve us. It holds us back.An up grade from "I should" is "I want." The next step is, "I will." But, the most powerful belief is "I AM!"When you go from thinking, "I should be better," to believing, "I AM a great parent," you will find that you have way more power than you realize. You will start to parent with confidence and purpose because you trust yourself. What are your "I" statements? What do you believe about who you are? What are your values? What are the "I" statements that you need to be the parent that you want to be?Your teens will pattern their personal beliefs off of your "I" and "you" statements. How to Practice for Tough Parenting MomentsIt's okay to want to be your best. The Wheel of Life is a visual concept that I teach to help parents and teens understand that life is 50/50. It’s 50% pleasant and 50% unpleasant. This is normal. Nothing has gone wrong.When things are going great in our lives, we are on the top of the wheel. When things kind of suck, or things aren’t going how we want them to, we are on the bottom of the wheel.Sometimes, when we are on the top of the wheel, we forget to enjoy where we are in life’s journey, and we forget that being on the top isn’t going to last forever. This leads us to think that something has gone wrong when we find ourselves on the bottom of the wheel.When we are on the top of the wheel is the best time to prepare for the inevitable times that are coming when we will be on the bottom of the wheel.When we practice when we are on the top of the wheel, when things are going well, we can prepare for future struggles. This is an opportunity to be intentional about who we are and how we want to live. This way, when things get tough, we are prepared to be who we want to be.This is how you can prepare yourself for tough parenting moments. When you're on the top of the wheel, identify "How can I use the to prepare for when I'm on the bottom of the wheel?"Then, when you're on the bottom of the wheel, realize that you have prepared for this. Trust yourself and show up with confidence as the best version of yourself as you can. How to Connect with Zach SpaffordZack and his wife are the hosts of The Self Mastery Podcast.You can check it out by clicking here:https://www.zachspafford.com/podcastYou can also connect with Zach on Instagram here:https://www.instagram.com/zachspafford.selfmasterycoach/Call to ACTION!Join our parenting membership. You can transform yourself as a parent, and we want to help. FREE Teen Relationship Tune-up If you want to take this to the next level, I'd like to give you my FREE Teen Relationship Tune-up training.  In only 15 minutes, you can completely fix your relationship with your teen.  Imagine enjoying your teen, laughing together and doing fun things together because you have an impactful relationship with them.  Teen Relationship Tune-Up FREE You can also join me for a free Live Parent Training /Coaching on August 9 @ 2pm MDTAugust 16 @ 2pm MDTAugust 23 @ 2pm MDTClick here to sign up!

What Tough Parenting Moments DO &amp; DON'T Mean Becoming a Professional Parent No one shames professional athletes for working to improve themselves. We actually respect them for their dedication and hard work. Don't let others hold you back because of their thoughts or their shame. You can improve as a parent with dedication and hard work. I Should vs I Want vs I Will vs I AM!Should doesn't serve us. It holds us back.An up grade from "I should" is "I want." The next step is, "I will." But, the most powerful belief is "I AM!"When you go from thinking, "I should be better," to believing, "I AM a great parent," you will find that you have way more power than you realize. You will start to parent with confidence and purpose because you trust yourself. What are your "I" statements? What do you believe about who you are? What are your values? What are the "I" statements that you need to be the parent that you want to be?Your teens will pattern their personal beliefs off of your "I" and "you" statements. How to Practice for Tough Parenting MomentsIt's okay to want to be your best. The Wheel of Life is a visual concept that I teach to help parents and teens understand that life is 50/50. It’s 50% pleasant and 50% unpleasant. This is normal. Nothing has gone wrong.When things are going great in our lives, we are on the top of the wheel. When things kind of suck, or things aren’t going how we want them to, we are on the bottom of the wheel.Sometimes, when we are on the top of the wheel, we forget to enjoy where we are in life’s journey, and we forget that being on the top isn’t going to last forever. This leads us to think that something has gone wrong when we find ourselves on the bottom of the wheel.When we are on the top of the wheel is the best time to prepare for the inevitable times that are coming when we will be on the bottom of the wheel.When we practice when we are on the top of the wheel, when things are going well, we can prepare for future struggles. This is an opportunity to be intentional about who we are and how we want to live. This way, when things get tough, we are prepared to be who we want to be.This is how you can prepare yourself for tough parenting moments. When you're on the top of the wheel, identify "How can I use the to prepare for when I'm on the bottom of the wheel?"Then, when you're on the bottom of the wheel, realize that you have prepared for this. Trust yourself and show up with confidence as the best version of yourself as you can. How to Connect with Zach SpaffordZack and his wife are the hosts of <a href="https://www.zachspafford.com/podcast" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">The Self Mastery Podcast</a>.You can check it out by clicking here: <a href="https://www.zachspafford.com/podcast" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://www.zachspafford.com/podcast</a>You can also connect with Zach on Instagram here: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/zachspafford.selfmasterycoach/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://www.instagram.com/zachspafford.selfmasterycoach/</a>Call to ACTION!Join our parenting membership. You can transform yourself as a parent, and we want to help. FREE Teen Relationship Tune-up If you want to take this to the next level, I'd like to give you my FREE Teen Relationship Tune-up training. In only 15 minutes, you can completely fix your relationship with your teen. Imagine enjoying your teen, laughing together and doing fun things together because you have an impactful relationship with them. <a href="https://benpughcoaching.com/relationship" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Teen Relationship Tune-Up FREE </a> You can also join me for a free Live Parent Training /Coaching on August 9 @ 2pm MDT August 16 @ 2pm MDT August 23 @ 2pm MDT <a href="https://calendly.com/benpugh/impact" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Click here to sign up!</a>

GROWTH THROUGH TOUGH PARENTING MOMENTS WITH ZACH SPAFFORD

This is another fantastic episode in our Teen Series. Today, coach Zach Spafford joins us to talk about teens and pornography and how we can help our children embrace their agency and make choices that align with their values, rather then feeling inadequate and unable to handle pornography. More from Zach: To work with Zach: zachspafford.com/workwithme  Self Mastery Podcast: https://www.zachspafford.com/podcast Link to Zach’s free “Awesome Stuff”: https://www.zachspafford.com/thestuff All content is copyrighted to Heather Rackham and featured coaches. Do not use without permission.

This is another fantastic episode in our Teen Series. Today, coach Zach Spafford joins us to talk about teens and pornography and how we can help our children embrace their agency and make choices that align with their values, rather then feeling inadequate and unable to handle pornography. More from Zach: To work with Zach: <a href="http://zachspafford.com/workwithme" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" target="_blank">zachspafford.com/workwithme</a> Self Mastery Podcast: <a href="https://www.zachspafford.com/podcast" rel="noopener nofollow" target="_blank">https://www.zachspafford.com/podcast</a> Link to Zach’s free “Awesome Stuff”: <a href="https://www.zachspafford.com/thestuff" rel="noopener nofollow" target="_blank">https://www.zachspafford.com/thestuff</a> All content is copyrighted to Heather Rackham and featured coaches. Do not use without permission.

20. Hope: Overcoming the Teen Pornography Struggle with Zach Spafford

My friends Darcy and Zach Spafford, active LDS and parents of 8, join us to talk about Zach’s 25-year journey to solve porn.   Darcy and Zach, who has been clean for 5+ years and serves in his Bishopric, share how they solved unwanted pornography use in their marriage and how they help others do the same. If you would like to learn more about them and their journey check them out at the resources below.The Self Mastery Podcast ttps://self-mastery-podcast.captivate.fm/listenInstagram https://www.instagram.com/zachspafford.selfmasterycoach/Website https://www.zachspafford.com/Free Roadmap download https://www.zachspafford.com/roadmap Thank you for being on the podcast and your great efforts to give hope and healing to others!

My friends Darcy and Zach Spafford, active LDS and parents of 8, join us to talk about Zach’s 25-year journey to solve porn. Darcy and Zach, who has been clean for 5+ years and serves in his Bishopric, share how they solved unwanted pornography use in their marriage and how they help others do the same. If you would like to learn more about them and their journey check them out at the resources below. The Self Mastery Podcast ttps://<a href="http://self-mastery-podcast.captivate.fm/listen" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">self-mastery-podcast.captivate.fm/listen</a> Instagram <a href="https://www.instagram.com/zachspafford.selfmasterycoach/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://www.instagram.com/zachspafford.selfmasterycoach/</a> Website <a href="https://www.zachspafford.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://www.zachspafford.com/</a> Free Roadmap download <a href="https://www.zachspafford.com/roadmap" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://www.zachspafford.com/roadmap</a> Thank you for being on the podcast and your great efforts to give hope and healing to others!

Episode 376: Darcy and Zach Spafford, Zach’s 25+ Year Porn Struggles, Solved. Now Helping Others

Join me as I speak with behavior coach, Zach Spafford, about his personal journey with pornography and how he overcame a 25 year. habit. He shares important strategies on how to break the negative cycle and recognize our personal power as well as important advice for spouses, parents and friends on how to help someone who is struggling in a way that leads to lasting change. Zach also shares tips on how to communicate effectively with our loved ones who struggle to create a positive outcome, free from shame and guilt.

21. Breaking Free From Pornography I Zach Spafford, shares how to break the vicious cycle

In  this episode I talk to Zach Spafford about his pornography use, that started when he was just 8 years old and accidentally exposed to a magazine at a playground.  Zach tells us of his own experiences, but also shares insightful thoughts and tools he has learned along the way that can help us in many areas of our lives.  Zach is a veteran life coach with years of experience helping others improve their lives, their businesses and their families.  As a Certified Life Coach through The Life Coach School, a Be Bold Masters Trained and Coach Incubator inaugural class coach Zach has been able to help thousands find their way past pornography use, create the healthy relationship they want and build the confidence in his clients that they have worked for their whole lives.  Born in Boise, ID, Zach is a lifelong member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints who served a two year mission in the Rome Italy Mission. Zach is married to Darcy, an amazing women’s coach in her own right and together they have eight beautiful children.   Currently living near Milwaukee, WI, Zach coaches clients all over the world. You can set up a consult with him by going to zachspafford.com/workwithme to see how coaching can change your life.   To read the article Zach talked about, discussing the Atonement, and get a handout about how to discuss pornography with your kids, go to my website here: https://carlyrobison.org/2020/10/28/1713/   Find out more about Zach's coaching a program, get some free tools, and even find extra support for wives who are dealing with a husband who is overcoming pornography use, click here: https://www.zachspafford.com   Listen to Zach's Podcast here: https://www.zachspafford.com/podcast

In  this episode I talk to Zach Spafford about his pornography use, that started when he was just 8 years old and accidentally exposed to a magazine at a playground.  Zach tells us of his own experiences, but also shares insightful thoughts and tools he has learned along the way that can help us in many areas of our lives.  Zach is a veteran life coach with years of experience helping others improve their lives, their businesses and their families.    As a Certified Life Coach through The Life Coach School, a Be Bold Masters Trained and Coach Incubator inaugural class coach Zach has been able to help thousands find their way past pornography use, create the healthy relationship they want and build the confidence in his clients that they have worked for their whole lives.    Born in Boise, ID, Zach is a lifelong member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints who served a two year mission in the Rome Italy Mission. Zach is married to Darcy, an amazing women’s coach in her own right and together they have eight beautiful children.     Currently living near Milwaukee, WI, Zach coaches clients all over the world. You can set up a consult with him by going to <a href="http://zachspafford.com/workwithme" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">zachspafford.com/workwithme</a> to see how coaching can change your life.  To read the article Zach talked about, discussing the Atonement, and get a handout about how to discuss pornography with your kids, go to my website here: <a href="https://carlyrobison.org/2020/10/28/1713/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://carlyrobison.org/2020/10/28/1713/</a> Find out more about Zach's coaching a program, get some free tools, and even find extra support for wives who are dealing with a husband who is overcoming pornography use, click here: <a href="https://www.zachspafford.com" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://www.zachspafford.com</a> Listen to Zach's Podcast here: <a href="https://www.zachspafford.com/podcast" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://www.zachspafford.com/podcast</a>

A Light In the Darkness Episode 19 - Zach Spafford

Pornography is very accessible to our teens and we need to have the tools to talk to them about it.  Heidi interviews certified life coach Zach Spafford, who specializes in helping men overcome addictive behaviors, for insight into having conversations with our teens.  Zach gives incredibly useful tools on what to say, what NOT to say or do (freak out!), why our brains like pornography and hope if anyone you know struggles with this over-desire.

Pornography is very accessible to our teens and we need to have the tools to talk to them about it.  Heidi interviews certified life coach Zach Spafford, who specializes in helping men overcome addictive behaviors, for insight into having conversations with our teens.  Zach gives incredibly useful tools on what to say, what NOT to say or do (freak out!), why our brains like pornography and hope if anyone you know struggles with this over-desire.

Ep. 56 Talking To Teens about Pornography: Interview with Zach Spafford

Pornography myths in the LDS Culture with Zach Spafford. Zachspafford.com--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/becky-smith0/message

Pornography myths in the LDS Culture with Zach Spafford. <a href="http://Zachspafford.com" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Zachspafford.com</a> --- Send in a voice message: <a href="https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/becky-smith0/message" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/becky-smith0/message</a>

76. Pornography Myths with Zach Spafford

 Zach Spafford  discusses the topic of self mastery and how it can help you be happy with yourself.   Zach specializes in how to break through barriers holding you back from becoming who you want to be.   If  you want to stop being controlled by the urges in your life.  Reach out on  zachspafford.com  or @zachspafford.selfmasterycoach--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/becky-smith0/message

Zach Spafford  discusses the topic of self mastery and how it can help you be happy with yourself.   Zach specializes in how to break through barriers holding you back from becoming who you want to be.   If  you want to stop being controlled by the urges in your life.  Reach out on  <a href="http://zachspafford.com" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">zachspafford.com</a>  or @zachspafford.selfmasterycoach--- Send in a voice message: <a href="https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/becky-smith0/message" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/becky-smith0/message</a>