Getting to Congruence
Getting to Congruence
How to add "peripheral vision" to your elicitations to get the full picture of your date.
21 Jun 2022
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4mins
Chunking Down
Chunking Down
Here's a tool by which to clarify what your date - and you - really mean, so that you avoid assumptions that can create ... Read more
18 May 2022
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5mins
Questioning: The ”how’s” and ”why’s”
Questioning: The ”how’s” and ”why’s”
Safely cut to the core of character with "why" and "how" questions - even from the first date.
3 May 2022
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6mins
Listening
Listening
Hear how good listening encourages your date to share, and sets the tone for the questions that follow.
3 May 2022
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3mins
The Goal of the First Date
The Goal of the First Date
Is the first date just about seeing how well you get along?
24 Feb 2022
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2mins
Checking out Dates
Checking out Dates
Here are some character-centered strategies for checking out dates.
24 Feb 2022
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Welcoming Questions
Welcoming Questions
Hear why the level of willingness to answer questions may very well correlate with the level of readiness to date
24 Feb 2022
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3mins
Your Elevator Pitch
Your Elevator Pitch
Here's a way to give a grounded response to the shadchan's question, "So, what are you looking for?"
7 Dec 2021
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4mins
Personality vs. character traits... what‘s the difference?
Personality vs. character traits... what‘s the difference?
Hear why it's challenging to distinguish between personality and character traits, and why it makes such a difference.
29 Oct 2021
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3mins
Intro to the Series (with a focus on mindset)
Intro to the Series (with a focus on mindset)
This introduction lays out the goal of this series, while emphasizing the importance of maintaining an empowered mindset... Read more
27 Apr 2021
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2mins