Brandy Goebel's guest appearances

Brandy Goebel

Halfway There

Come to the Table

Grace Enough Podcast

Ordinary Women, Extraordinary God

Meg Glesener

Jennifer Eikenhorst

Amy Watson

Amber Cullum

Neil Matthews

Phil Gauthier

Misty Phillip

Jen Wilkin

Mike Savage

Eric Nevins

Joi Copeland

Chris Staron

Alicia Michelle

Mary DeMuth

Keith Giles

OwlTail

We are expanding ourselves this season and reaching out to do more interviews over the phone and internet.  Please forgive any audio issues we might have as we are learning this new way of recording.  We were so happy to talk to Brandy and we hope and pray you all are as blessed by the conversation as we were.     Click any of these links for find Brandy!! Facebook Instagram Podcast - The Road Home to You  Website

We are expanding ourselves this season and reaching out to do more interviews over the phone and internet.  Please forgive any audio issues we might have as we are learning this new way of recording.  We were so happy to talk to Brandy and we hope and pray you all are as blessed by the conversation as we were.   Click any of these links for find Brandy!! <a href="https://www.facebook.com/TheRoadHomeToYou/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Facebook</a> <a href="https://www.instagram.com/theroadhometoyou/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Instagram</a> Podcast - <a href="http://theroadhometoyou.libsyn.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">The Road Home to You </a> <a href="https://roadhometoyou.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Website</a>

S5E4 Brandy Goebel

Brandy and I chat about her extra marital affair and the work God has done in her life during the past 10 years since the affair ended. We chat about the unrealistic expectations we often put on our spouse, destructive behavior we use to numb ourselves, the Christlike invitation from her husband, and pressing in to recovery work. 6:08 Brandy shares how her faith journey with Jesus began 10:07 Brandy shares how she and Matt met.  She talks about the early years of their marriage Youth With a Mission (YWAM) Discipleship Training Course Year of Biblical Studies  "When God is pursuing you, you can not outrun Him...but I sure tried." "We got married in 1995 and I expected that everything from that point on was going to be exactly as I had planned...We're going to have 2 kids. We're going to have a cat and a dog. a white picket fence and he's going to be the spiritual leader and I'm going to be the Donna Reid type of wife....and that is 100% not what happened." 16:45 Brandy shares some of the warning signs in her personal life and in marriage that she can now see were precursors to her extramarital affair  It boils down to unrealistic expectations..."I had the notion somehow that Matt would be able to meet all my needs." Brandy is an enneagram 4- "I need a ton of validation."  Matt is anenneagram 5.  "He is very much a thinker." "I don't fault myself for having those needs, but I fault myself very much for where I was looking for those needs to be filled." 20:09 Brandy shares about how the affair began.  We chat a little about the danger of thinking, "It will never happen to me." Every Young Woman's Battle Every Young Man's Battle "One day a door opened and we both just decided to walk through it.  And it wasn't anything either of us had planned. It wasn't anything we had set out to do, but it was definitely something...we had both imagined or fancied or fantasized about for years."  23:55 Brandy shares her thought process and ideas about God while involved in the affair "I was running so far from God....Our marriage looked like it was doing fine. Anybody on the outside would have said our marriage was good. And the whole time I am thinking, 'I am living a complete double life, but if God didn't want this to be happening, then why would He allow all of these opportunities for us to keep getting together. He wouldn't allow it, if He didn't want it to be happening. 'So it was the most bizarre justification you can possibly imagine, because I knew God wasn't approving of this relationship, but it didn't seem like He was closing the doors to it either and for some reason that seemed logical to me." 27:30 Brandy shares about when the affair was exposed  SHOW NOTES continued ------------------------------------------- Listen to The Road Home To You Podcast with Brandy and Matt HERE. ------------------------------------------- Follow Grace Enough Podcast on IG and FB --------------------------------------------------------- The Root Collective Affiliate of the Month  Ethically made Shoes and Bags.  A free compliment every time you wear them.

<a href="http://theroadhometoyou.libsyn.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Brandy</a> and I chat about her extra marital affair and the work God has done in her life during the past 10 years since the affair ended. We chat about the unrealistic expectations we often put on our spouse, destructive behavior we use to numb ourselves, the Christlike invitation from her husband, and pressing in to recovery work. 6:08 Brandy shares how her faith journey with Jesus began 10:07 Brandy shares how she and Matt met.  She talks about the early years of their marriage <a href="https://www.ywam.org/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Youth With a Mission (YWAM)</a> <ul><li><a href="https://www.ywam.org/dts/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Discipleship Training Course</a></li> <li>Year of Biblical Studies</li> </ul> "When God is pursuing you, you can not outrun Him...but I sure tried." "We got married in 1995 and I expected that everything from that point on was going to be exactly as I had planned...We're going to have 2 kids. We're going to have a cat and a dog. a white picket fence and he's going to be the spiritual leader and I'm going to be the Donna Reid type of wife....and that is 100% not what happened." 16:45 Brandy shares some of the warning signs in her personal life and in marriage that she can now see were precursors to her extramarital affair  It boils down to unrealistic expectations..."I had the notion somehow that Matt would be able to meet all my needs." Brandy is an <a href="https://www.yourenneagramcoach.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">enneagram 4</a>- "I need a ton of validation."  Matt is an<a href="https://www.yourenneagramcoach.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">enneagram 5</a>.  "He is very much a thinker." "I don't fault myself for having those needs, but I fault myself very much for where I was looking for those needs to be filled." 20:09 Brandy shares about how the affair began.  We chat a little about the danger of thinking, "It will never happen to me." <a href="https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0307458008/ref=as_li_qf_asin_il_tl?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=ambo14-20&amp;creative=9325&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;creativeASIN=0307458008&amp;linkId=c78ff350a3ee8031eb16d0eff955803c" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Every Young Woman's Battle</a> <a href="https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0307457990/ref=as_li_qf_asin_il_tl?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=ambo14-20&amp;creative=9325&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;creativeASIN=0307457990&amp;linkId=2fb09c067fc025a3bbf2a296fadb8198" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Every Young Man's Battle</a> "One day a door opened and we both just decided to walk through it.  And it wasn't anything either of us had planned. It wasn't anything we had set out to do, but it was definitely something...we had both imagined or fancied or fantasized about for years."  23:55 Brandy shares her thought process and ideas about God while involved in the affair "I was running so far from God....Our marriage looked like it was doing fine. Anybody on the outside would have said our marriage was good. And the whole time I am thinking, 'I am living a complete double life, but if God didn't want this to be happening, then why would He allow all of these opportunities for us to keep getting together. He wouldn't allow it, if He didn't want it to be happening. 'So it was the most bizarre justification you can possibly imagine, because I knew God wasn't approving of this relationship, but it didn't seem like He was closing the doors to it either and for some reason that seemed logical to me." 27:30 Brandy shares about when the affair was exposed <a href="http://graceenoughpodcast.com/ep-42-brandy-goebel-hope-and-healing-after-marital-infidelity/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">SHOW NOTES</a> continued ------------------------------------------- Listen to The Road Home To You Podcast with Brandy and Matt <a href="http://theroadhometoyou.libsyn.com" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">HERE</a>. ------------------------------------------- Follow Grace Enough Podcast on<a href="https://www.instagram.com/graceenoughpodcast_amber/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank"> IG</a> and <a href="https://www.facebook.com/graceenoughpodcast/?modal=admin_todo_tour" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">FB</a> --------------------------------------------------------- <a href="https://therootcollective.com/?sscid=a1k3_541so" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">The Root Collective Affiliate </a>of the Month  Ethically made Shoes and Bags.  A free compliment every time you wear them.

42: Brandy Goebel | Hope and Healing After Marital Infidelity

Brandy Goebel is host of the Road Home to You podcast. Today she shares her story of healing and loss, humility and redemption and God’s plan through all of it.  After trauma and trials, she trusted God to hold her above the waves, even if she didn’t quite know how.  Those experiences put Brandy into a place to learn more about who he really is and what he wants for her life. Listen to Brandy’s story today! Stories Brandy shared:  Growing up in a church and giving her life to Christ at age 10 Rebelling when she got to college Joining Youth With a Mission (YWAM) so her parents wouldn’t cut her off How she came face to face with her pride in YWAM Forgiving a prisoner in Perth, Australia and how it helped her heal from her own trauma Marrying her high school sweetheart How her dad’s death rocked her world Learning that her secret affair became public How her husband’s response changed her understanding of Jesus Going to the “triage church” and her healing process Learning about her husband in a new way Starting her podcast The Road Home to You  Great quotes from Brandy: I’m going to travel the world, do theater, and ignore God. God had me there for a reason and he was not going to let go Instead of rejection, he just gave me love. Resources we mentioned:  The Road Home to You Podcast Brandy’s Instagram The Challenge of the Disciplined Life: Christian Reflections on Money, Sex, and Power by Richard Foster    The post Brandy Goebel and Running Back to You appeared first on Eric Nevins.

Brandy Goebel is host of the Road Home to You podcast. Today she shares her story of healing and loss, humility and redemption and God’s plan through all of it.  After trauma and trials, she trusted God to hold her above the waves, even if she didn’t quite know how.  Those experiences put Brandy into a place to learn more about who he really is and what he wants for her life. Listen to Brandy’s story today! Stories Brandy shared: <ul> <li>Growing up in a church and giving her life to Christ at age 10</li> <li>Rebelling when she got to college</li> <li>Joining Youth With a Mission (YWAM) so her parents wouldn’t cut her off</li> <li>How she came face to face with her pride in YWAM</li> <li>Forgiving a prisoner in Perth, Australia and how it helped her heal from her own trauma</li> <li>Marrying her high school sweetheart</li> <li>How her dad’s death rocked her world</li> <li>Learning that her secret affair became public</li> <li>How her husband’s response changed her understanding of Jesus</li> <li>Going to the “triage church” and her healing process</li> <li>Learning about her husband in a new way</li> <li>Starting her podcast The Road Home to You</li> </ul> Great quotes from Brandy: <blockquote>I’m going to travel the world, do theater, and ignore God. God had me there for a reason and he was not going to let go Instead of rejection, he just gave me love.</blockquote> Resources we mentioned: <ul> <li><a href="http://www.roadhometoyou.com" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">The Road Home to You Podcast</a></li> <li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/theroadhometoyou/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Brandy’s Instagram</a></li> <li><a href="https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0060628286/ref=as_li_tl?ie=UTF8&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=9325&amp;creativeASIN=0060628286&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;tag=ericn05-20&amp;linkId=2ab2a10a4c18c0f0c578f8c5dafabed0" rel="noopener nofollow" target="_blank">The Challenge of the Disciplined Life: Christian Reflections on Money, Sex, and Power</a> by Richard Foster</li> </ul> The post <a href="https://ericnevins.com/podcast/halfwaythere/136/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Brandy Goebel and Running Back to You</a> appeared first on <a href="https://ericnevins.com" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Eric Nevins</a>.

136: Brandy Goebel and Running Back to You

Brandy and her husband Matt experienced the ultimate threat to their marriage: infidelity. When I first heard their story on their podcast The Road Home to You like many I initially listened with an ear for who had been unfaithful. It's a shame that we tend to start there but with the courage of Brandy and her husband, we get the chance to hear another voice. The one of grace, humility and forgiveness. Love in action is listening to understand, not to react. You can find us on different mediums to listen and subscribe such as iTunes, Spotify, Google Play Music, TuneIn,  iHeart Radio, PodBean, Cast Box and more by clicking here. We are very anxious to hear YOUR feedback at our first jump into this and want to hear the good and bad so we can keep doing the right things correctly and correct the things we are not. Please contact us at sean@thecometothetablepodcast.com for any and all feedback, comments, show suggestions and the like.  You can also like our Facebook Page  as well as follow us on Instagram &amp; Twitter  A special thanks to the musical talent of our friend and guest of the show David HaLevy for writing and performing the sound to our intro and outgoing music.  Check out the Ruach Guitar Facebook Page he makes by hand and plays as well as on Instagram.   We are very humbled and grateful for this personal touch to the show and cherish it greatly.   תודה David!

Brandy and her husband Matt experienced the ultimate threat to their marriage: infidelity. When I first heard their story on their podcast <a href="http://theroadhometoyou.libsyn.com/" rel="noopener nofollow" target="_blank">The Road Home to You</a> like many I initially listened with an ear for who had been unfaithful. It's a shame that we tend to start there but with the courage of Brandy and her husband, we get the chance to hear another voice. The one of grace, humility and forgiveness. Love in action is listening to understand, not to react. You can find us on different mediums to listen and subscribe such as iTunes, Spotify, Google Play Music, TuneIn,  iHeart Radio, PodBean, Cast Box and more by clicking <a href="https://thecometothetablepodcast.com/podcast-mediums/" rel="noopener nofollow" target="_blank">here</a>. We are very anxious to hear YOUR feedback at our first jump into this and want to hear the good and bad so we can keep doing the right things correctly and correct the things we are not. Please contact us at <a href="mailto:sean@thecometothetablepodcast.com" rel="noopener">sean@thecometothetablepodcast.com</a> for any and all feedback, comments, show suggestions and the like.  You can also like our <a href="https://www.facebook.com/thecometothetablepodcast/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Facebook Page</a>  as well as follow us on <a href="https://www.instagram.com/come_to_the_table_podcast/?hl=en" rel="noopener nofollow" target="_blank">Instagram</a> &amp; <a href="https://twitter.com/2tablepodcast" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Twitter </a> A special thanks to the musical talent of our friend and guest of the show David HaLevy for writing and performing the sound to our intro and outgoing music.  Check out the <a href="https://www.facebook.com/ruachguitars/" rel="noopener nofollow" target="_blank">Ruach Guitar Facebook Page</a> he makes by hand and plays as well as on <a href="https://www.instagram.com/ruachguitars/?hl=en" rel="noopener nofollow" target="_blank">Instagram</a>.   We are very humbled and grateful for this personal touch to the show and cherish it greatly.   תודה David!