Matie Fricker's guest appearances

Matie Fricker

Sex Out Loud with Tristan Taormino

Self-Employed Happy Hour

The Well Woman Show

Exxxxtraordinary Podcast

Miriam Ortiz y Pino

Antonia Montoya

Giovanna Rossi

Lauren Zander

Kristin Neff

Tara Brach

Jean Houston

Byron Katie

Katie Arnold

Lynn Marie Morski

Julia Cameron

Kate Kennedy

Amy Porterfield

Laila Ali

Laurie Gerber

OwlTail

I interview Mattie Fricker naked at Desire in Cancun! Sex-cation interview with Matie! This is a really fun episode with Matie Fricker of Self Serve Toys! It was recorded while we were at Desire Riviera Maya – a swinger resort. We were there on a takeover of the resort with The Swingset Takes Desire. We get deep in it and talk about so may sweet and sexy things. Self-Serve Toys was kind enough to give us a promo code: Exxxxtraordinary  and listeners will get 20% off!  Matie Fricker is a smut peddling sweetheart with a deep love for the odd and tender. She owns Albuquerque’s best sex shop, Self Serve Toys. Self Serve is a shiny bubble of love and safety for those seeking pleasure and joy in their lives. One of her proudest accomplishments was causing Rush Limbaugh to say “female orgasm” on-air multiple times. Matie has been awarded the 2008 Tough Cookie Award from the National Association for Women Business Owners, Best Sexy Shop in ABQ’s Alibi Weekly Newspaper for 13 years and Albuquerque Pride’s Outstanding Retail Store Award. http://selfservetoys.com   Here’s the highlights! In finding her fat identity:  Overcoming child sexual abuse Coming out as queer Touching a girl’s hand for the first time Learning to feel hunger for sex and eat again “I’m so sure that you’re wrong that you’re body is wrong. I am 100% confident that you’re wrong about hating your body” Mattie Fricker Virgie Tovar’s “You Have the Right to Remain Fat”  https://www.feministpress.org/books-n-z/you-have-the-right-to-remain-fat   “We deserve to be treated well” – Briana Cavanaugh The tension of “the good fatty role” v the “good activist role” Food is not poison. My relationship with my body has to be a practice. And my relationship with food has to be a practice. I love your feelings Secrets and being healthy or unhealthy Resources: The Body is Not An Apology by Sonya Renee Taylor https://www.sonyareneetaylor.com/books Not having to earn love.  About Fat SEX!  “Emergent Strategy: Shaping Change, Changing Worlds” by adrienne maree brown  “Pleasure Activism” also by adrienne maree brown  Standing up to a fat fetishist at sex party Mattie: I want somebody to tell me that I fucking love my fat pussy and they love my rolls. And they love how they love how heavy I am. They love how things feel. They love, they want to, they want to fuck me until I juggle… but respectfully. And I fuck feminists who won’t say things like that. Care about fucking fat people. Touch us and listen to us. Sex Out Loud podcast with Tristan Taormino http://tristantaormino.com/sex-out-loud/about/ All bodies are good bodies, deserving of love, exactly as they are. This is what my body looks like when it’s not aroused and you have to add arousal. It was so cool to use my body to teach. It was so cool to teach the whole time I was having an orgasm! We help each other feel safe. “Curvy Girl Sex” by Elle Chase (link on website) Matie is awesome! You can find Matie at https://www.selfservetoys.com/ 

I interview Mattie Fricker naked at Desire in Cancun! Sex-cation interview with Matie! This is a really fun episode with Matie Fricker of Self Serve Toys! It was recorded while we were at Desire Riviera Maya – a swinger resort. We were there on a takeover of the resort with The Swingset Takes Desire. We get deep in it and talk about so may sweet and sexy things. Self-Serve Toys was kind enough to give us a promo code: Exxxxtraordinary  and listeners will get 20% off!  Matie Fricker is a smut peddling sweetheart with a deep love for the odd and tender. She owns Albuquerque’s best sex shop, <a>Self Serve Toys</a>. Self Serve is a shiny bubble of love and safety for those seeking pleasure and joy in their lives. One of her proudest accomplishments was causing Rush Limbaugh to say “female orgasm” on-air multiple times. Matie has been awarded the 2008 Tough Cookie Award from the National Association for Women Business Owners, Best Sexy Shop in ABQ’s Alibi Weekly Newspaper for 13 years and Albuquerque Pride’s Outstanding Retail Store Award. <a href="http://selfservetoys.com/" rel="noopener nofollow" target="_blank">http://selfservetoys.com</a> Here’s the highlights! In finding her fat identity: <ul> <li>Overcoming child sexual abuse</li> <li>Coming out as queer</li> <li>Touching a girl’s hand for the first time</li> <li>Learning to feel hunger for sex and eat again</li> <li>“I’m so sure that you’re wrong that you’re body is wrong. I am 100% confident that you’re wrong about hating your body” Mattie Fricker</li> <li>Virgie Tovar’s “You Have the Right to Remain Fat” <a href="https://www.feministpress.org/books-n-z/you-have-the-right-to-remain-fat" rel="nofollow" target="_blank"> https://www.feministpress.org/books-n-z/you-have-the-right-to-remain-fat</a></li> </ul> <ul> <li>“We deserve to be treated well” – Briana Cavanaugh</li> <li>The tension of “the good fatty role” v the “good activist role”</li> <li>Food is not poison.</li> <li>My relationship with my body has to be a practice. And my relationship with food has to be a practice.</li> <li>I love your feelings</li> <li>Secrets and being healthy or unhealthy</li> <li>Resources: The Body is Not An Apology by Sonya Renee Taylor <a href="https://www.sonyareneetaylor.com/books" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://www.sonyareneetaylor.com/books</a></li> <li>Not having to earn love.</li> </ul> About Fat SEX! <ul> <li>“Emergent Strategy: Shaping Change, Changing Worlds” by adrienne maree brown </li> <li>“Pleasure Activism” also by adrienne maree brown </li> <li>Standing up to a fat fetishist at sex party</li> <li>Mattie: I want somebody to tell me that I fucking love my fat pussy and they love my rolls. And they love how they love how heavy I am. They love how things feel. They love, they want to, they want to fuck me until I juggle… but respectfully.</li> <li>And I fuck feminists who won’t say things like that.</li> <li>Care about fucking fat people. Touch us and listen to us.</li> <li>Sex Out Loud podcast with Tristan Taormino <a href="http://tristantaormino.com/sex-out-loud/about/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">http://tristantaormino.com/sex-out-loud/about/</a></li> <li>All bodies are good bodies, deserving of love, exactly as they are.</li> <li>This is what my body looks like when it’s not aroused and you have to add arousal.</li> <li>It was so cool to use my body to teach.</li> <li>It was so cool to teach the whole time I was having an orgasm!</li> <li>We help each other feel safe.</li> <li>“Curvy Girl Sex” by Elle Chase (link on website)</li> <li>Matie is awesome!</li> <li>You can find Matie at <a href="https://www.selfservetoys.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://www.selfservetoys.com/</a></li> </ul>

Fat Sex: Sex-cation with Matie Fricker

Self-love can take on many meanings. It can convey self care, nurturing self-confidence, embracing selfishness, or it can even taken on a sexual meaning. For Self Serve owner Matie Fricker, these meanings are fluid and interconnected. After ten years of owning and running a successful adult shop and resource center while always working to make… The post 058 How to Love Yourself When You Feel Unlovable with Matie Fricker appeared first on Well Woman Life.

Self-love can take on many meanings. It can convey self care, nurturing self-confidence, embracing selfishness, or it can even taken on a sexual meaning. For Self Serve owner Matie Fricker, these meanings are fluid and interconnected. After ten years of owning and running a successful adult shop and resource center while always working to make… The post <a href="https://wellwomanlife.com/058show/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">058 How to Love Yourself When You Feel Unlovable with Matie Fricker</a> appeared first on <a href="https://wellwomanlife.com" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Well Woman Life</a>.

058 How to Love Yourself When You Feel Unlovable with Matie Fricker

Keif Henley

Molly Adler

Sex shop talk! Owners of Self-Serve Toys/Sexuality Resource Center Molly Adler and Matie Fricker chat about starting and running a progressive, sex-positive adult business in Albuquerque. They also share the history of Pornotopia, the adult film festival they founded in 2007, and what's on the bill for this year's fest which starts Nov. 13! Keif Henley, owner of The Guild Cinema, also joins us to talk about hosting Pornotopia and the legal drama that went on for years — with a recent victory for Pornotopia in the New Mexico Supreme Court!  AND—as if that's not enough—Inga Muscio, author of Cunt: A Declaration of Independence, calls in to chat with Molly and Matie about sex ed and how to nurture healthier sexuality. Hot!

Sex shop talk! Owners of <a href="http://selfservetoys.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Self-Serve Toys/Sexuality Resource Center</a> Molly Adler and Matie Fricker chat about starting and running a progressive, sex-positive adult business in Albuquerque. They also share the history of <a href="http://selfservetoys.com/pornotopia/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Pornotopia</a>, the adult film festival they founded in 2007, and what's on the bill for this year's fest which starts Nov. 13! Keif Henley, owner of <a href="http://www.guildcinema.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">The Guild Cinema</a>, also joins us to talk about hosting Pornotopia and the legal drama that went on for years — with a recent victory for Pornotopia in the New Mexico Supreme Court!  AND—as if that's not enough—Inga Muscio, author of <a href="http://www.ingalagringa.com/books-writing/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Cunt: A Declaration of Independence</a>, calls in to chat with Molly and Matie about sex ed and how to nurture healthier sexuality. Hot!

Matie Fricker and Molly Adler of Self-Serve Toys, and Keif Henley of The Guild Cinema