Jaki Griot's guest appearances

Jaki Griot

Black People Kink

Touch of Flavor | Relationships Outside the Box

American Sex

Kevin Patterson

Ashley Manta

Sunny Megatron

Sarah Sloane

Luna Matatas

Ruby Johnson

August McLaughlin

Wendy Williams

Callie Wright

Aida Manduley

Charlie Glickman

Chauntelle Tibbals

Dan Savage

Jimanekia Eborn

Tristan Taormino

OwlTail

Jaki Griot gives us the real talk on femme dominants on ep 169 of American Sex Podcast. In the kink world, they’re often disrespected, devalued, and held to higher standards than their masculine counterparts. Femme doms of color, even more so. This undercurrent is present in lifestyle play, sex work, and community leadership. Jaki talks about their experiences both in the lifestyle and in sex work, how default world misogyny skews these D/s dynamics, and the benefits and drawbacks of entitlement on both sides of the slash. Jaki also offers tips for femmes eager to explore their dominance—how to work past barriers and imposter syndrome, compromise on your own terms, and more!    _____ --Submit your BDSM &amp; sex advice questions by email to americansexpodcast@gmail.com --To support American Sex podcast, please visit http://patreon.com/americansex (plus you’ll get all episodes early, secret episodes, bonus stories from guests, on-air shout-outs, stuff in the mail &amp; more!) --Get friendly with us on Twitter at @AmericanSexPod or visit sunnymegatron.com or americansexpodcast.com --Join our mailing list by visiting http://sunnymegatron.com/newsletter                Sunny &amp; Ken, xo! ______ Episode 169 Links  Jaki Griot Instagram http://instagram.com/pervertsofcolor JK Toyz Instagram http://instagram.com/jk_toyz JK Toyz Twitter https://twitter.com/Jk_toyz Jaki Griot Twitter https://twitter.com/jakigriot Jaki Griot Tiktok http://tiktok.com/@jktoyz JK Toyz Store http://www.jktoyz.xyz Mean Mommy Kink Podcast https://anchor.fm/jaki8/support KPACT The Psychological Appeal of BDSM 10/15/2021 https://www.kpact.xyz/product/the-psychological-appeal-of-bdsm/ BDSM Strategy &amp; Soft Skills Chat with Erin Tillman for Sex Positive LA 9/29/21 7pm PT https://www.sexpositiveworld.org/event-details/spla-l1-lets-talk-about-sex-positivity-w-sunny-megatron-virtual Consent Dojo w/Midori &amp; Sunny Megatron (Free recorded replay available until mid/late October) https://shibaristudy.com/authors/midori Open Deeply Podcast http://opendeeplypodcast.com Ken’s charity DnD game Monday’s 4pm-7pm PT https://www.twitch.tv/thunderpantsacademy American Sex Podcast Discord Community http://bit.ly/discordasp American Sex Podcast subreddit: https://www.reddit.com/r/americansexpodcast American Sex Podcast Patreon http://patreon.com/americansex  Episode 169 Sponsor, Affiliate &amp; Giveaway Info  30% off ANY SATISFYER when you use this link  https://us.satisfyer.com/us/?utm_source=Podcast&amp;utm_medium=SUNNY&amp;utm_campaign=2H AND enter code SUNNY30 at checkout. 30 day free trial of Dipsea Stories when you use code SUNNY http://dipseastories.com/sunny Hot &amp; Healthy Erotic Humiliation recorded class https://gum.co/humiliationclass Prostate Play for Beginners (recorded class) from Sugar Baltimore https://www.sugartheshop.com/prostate-milking-for-beginners.html Sunny &amp; Ken’s classes on Kink Academy http://bit.ly/kinkacademyelectric &amp; http://bit.ly/kinkacademyhumiliation 10% off American Sex Podcast &amp; Sunny Megatron merch with code SUNNY (t-shirts, mugs, phone cases &amp; more) http://bit.ly/sunnyshirts 15% off your order at Lovehoney when you use this link http://bit.ly/lovehoney15 This link can be a little wonky and does not keep tracking cookies. If the discount does not show up in your cart (or disappears after you shop around on the site), access the site with that link again. Your items will still be in your cart &amp; the discount will appear) 15% off everything at Lelo.com with code SUNNY 10% off everything (with minor restrictions) online from woman-owned, feminist, trans &amp; queer-friendly Early To Bed http://bit.ly/sunnyetb with code SUNNY 10% off everything from Fun Factory using this link http://bit.ly/sunnyfunfactory and the code SUNNY at checkout At least 25% off BDSM gear &amp; sex toys with Stockroom’s daily deal (there’s a new product each day!) https://www.stockroom.com/dailydeal/?acc=7c590f01490190db0ed02a5070e20f01 15% off most items from Stockroom http://bit.ly/sunnystockroom with code SUNNY 

Jaki Griot gives us the real talk on femme dominants on ep 169 of American Sex Podcast. In the kink world, they’re often disrespected, devalued, and held to higher standards than their masculine counterparts. Femme doms of color, even more so. This undercurrent is present in lifestyle play, sex work, and community leadership. Jaki talks about their experiences both in the lifestyle and in sex work, how default world misogyny skews these D/s dynamics, and the benefits and drawbacks of entitlement on both sides of the slash. Jaki also offers tips for femmes eager to explore their dominance—how to work past barriers and imposter syndrome, compromise on your own terms, and more!    _____ --Submit your BDSM &amp; sex advice questions by email to americansexpodcast@gmail.com --To support American Sex podcast, please visit <a href="http://patreon.com/americansex" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">http://patreon.com/americansex</a> (plus you’ll get all episodes early, secret episodes, bonus stories from guests, on-air shout-outs, stuff in the mail &amp; more!) --Get friendly with us on Twitter at @AmericanSexPod or visit <a href="http://sunnymegatron.com" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">sunnymegatron.com</a> or <a href="http://americansexpodcast.com" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">americansexpodcast.com</a> --Join our mailing list by visiting <a href="http://sunnymegatron.com/newsletter" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">http://sunnymegatron.com/newsletter</a>               Sunny &amp; Ken, xo! ______ Episode 169 Links <ul> <li>Jaki Griot Instagram <a href="http://instagram.com/pervertsofcolor" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">http://instagram.com/pervertsofcolor</a></li> <li>JK Toyz Instagram <a href="http://instagram.com/jk_toyz" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">http://instagram.com/jk_toyz</a></li> <li>JK Toyz Twitter <a href="https://twitter.com/Jk_toyz" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://twitter.com/Jk_toyz</a></li> <li>Jaki Griot Twitter <a href="https://twitter.com/jakigriot" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://twitter.com/jakigriot</a></li> <li>Jaki Griot Tiktok <a href="http://tiktok.com/@jktoyz" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">http://tiktok.com/@jktoyz</a></li> <li>JK Toyz Store <a href="http://www.jktoyz.xyz" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">http://www.jktoyz.xyz</a></li> <li>Mean Mommy Kink Podcast <a href="https://anchor.fm/jaki8/support" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://anchor.fm/jaki8/support</a></li> <li>KPACT The Psychological Appeal of BDSM 10/15/2021 <a href="https://www.kpact.xyz/product/the-psychological-appeal-of-bdsm/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://www.kpact.xyz/product/the-psychological-appeal-of-bdsm/</a></li> <li>BDSM Strategy &amp; Soft Skills Chat with Erin Tillman for Sex Positive LA 9/29/21 7pm PT <a href="https://www.sexpositiveworld.org/event-details/spla-l1-lets-talk-about-sex-positivity-w-sunny-megatron-virtual" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://www.sexpositiveworld.org/event-details/spla-l1-lets-talk-about-sex-positivity-w-sunny-megatron-virtual</a></li> <li>Consent Dojo w/Midori &amp; Sunny Megatron (Free recorded replay available until mid/late October) <a href="https://shibaristudy.com/authors/midori" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://shibaristudy.com/authors/midori</a></li> <li>Open Deeply Podcast <a href="http://opendeeplypodcast.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">http://opendeeplypodcast.com</a></li> <li>Ken’s charity DnD game Monday’s 4pm-7pm PT <a href="https://www.twitch.tv/thunderpantsacademy" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://www.twitch.tv/thunderpantsacademy</a></li> <li>American Sex Podcast Discord Community <a href="http://bit.ly/discordasp" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">http://bit.ly/discordasp</a></li> <li>American Sex Podcast subreddit: <a href="https://www.reddit.com/r/americansexpodcast" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://www.reddit.com/r/americansexpodcast</a></li> <li>American Sex Podcast Patreon <a href="http://patreon.com/americansex" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">http://patreon.com/americansex</a></li> </ul> Episode 169 Sponsor, Affiliate &amp; Giveaway Info <ul> <li>30% off ANY SATISFYER when you use this link <a href="https://us.satisfyer.com/us/?utm_source=Podcast&amp;utm_medium=SUNNY&amp;utm_campaign=2H" rel="nofollow" target="_blank"> https://us.satisfyer.com/us/?utm_source=Podcast&amp;utm_medium=SUNNY&amp;utm_campaign=2H</a> AND enter code SUNNY30 at checkout.</li> <li>30 day free trial of Dipsea Stories when you use code SUNNY <a href="http://dipseastories.com/sunny" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">http://dipseastories.com/sunny</a></li> <li>Hot &amp; Healthy Erotic Humiliation recorded class <a href="https://gum.co/humiliationclass" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://gum.co/humiliationclass</a></li> <li>Prostate Play for Beginners (recorded class) from Sugar Baltimore <a href="https://www.sugartheshop.com/prostate-milking-for-beginners.html" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://www.sugartheshop.com/prostate-milking-for-beginners.html</a></li> <li>Sunny &amp; Ken’s classes on Kink Academy <a href="http://bit.ly/kinkacademyelectric" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">http://bit.ly/kinkacademyelectric</a></li> <li>&amp; <a href="http://bit.ly/kinkacademyhumiliation" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">http://bit.ly/kinkacademyhumiliation</a></li> <li>10% off American Sex Podcast &amp; Sunny Megatron merch with code SUNNY (t-shirts, mugs, phone cases &amp; more) <a href="http://bit.ly/sunnyshirts" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">http://bit.ly/sunnyshirts</a></li> <li>15% off your order at Lovehoney when you use this link <a href="http://bit.ly/lovehoney15" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">http://bit.ly/lovehoney15</a> This link can be a little wonky and does not keep tracking cookies. If the discount does not show up in your cart (or disappears after you shop around on the site), access the site with that link again. Your items will still be in your cart &amp; the discount will appear)</li> <li>15% off everything at <a href="http://Lelo.com" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Lelo.com</a> with code SUNNY</li> <li>10% off everything (with minor restrictions) online from woman-owned, feminist, trans &amp; queer-friendly Early To Bed <a href="http://bit.ly/sunnyetb" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">http://bit.ly/sunnyetb</a> with code SUNNY</li> <li>10% off everything from Fun Factory using this link <a href="http://bit.ly/sunnyfunfactory" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">http://bit.ly/sunnyfunfactory</a> and the code SUNNY at checkout</li> <li>At least 25% off BDSM gear &amp; sex toys with Stockroom’s daily deal (there’s a new product each day!) <a href="https://www.stockroom.com/dailydeal/?acc=7c590f01490190db0ed02a5070e20f01" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://www.stockroom.com/dailydeal/?acc=7c590f01490190db0ed02a5070e20f01</a></li> <li>15% off most items from Stockroom <a href="http://bit.ly/sunnystockroom" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">http://bit.ly/sunnystockroom</a> with code SUNNY</li> </ul>

Femme Dominance with Jaki Griot - Ep 169

Today Cassie and the fabulous Jaki Griot talk about one of their favorite topics... strap-ons! As a 101 guide to strap-ons, this episode covers everything from how to choose dongs and harnesses, to how to wear a strap on, to scene prep, to tips for utilizing different holes, to aftercare and clean-up.

#018: Strap-On 101 with Jaki Griot