Sandra Speer's guest appearances

Sandra Speer

Saving Fatherhood Podcast

Slam the Gavel

Mark Ludwig

Gordon Miller

Barbara Schroeder

Melanie Davis

Rosalind Sedacca

Lisa Johnson

Bill Coleman

Lynn Steinberg

James Ryker

Judith M. Weigle

Petra Deeter

Deanna Kloostra

Carnell Smith

Colleen Murray

Mike Aikins

OwlTail

Slam the Gavel welcomes Sandra Speer, Ph.D. to the show. Her experience includes having a Ph.D. in Public Safety and 30+ years of experience in the Domestic Violence and Emergency Management industries with research concentrations in abuse, leadership, narcissism, parental Alienation, and interpersonal communication.  I am a published author of the book The Remains of Hurricane Katrina, a chapter in the textbook Terrorism Inside America's Borders, and various articles, coupled with having been a broadcaster for 20+ years       Her specialty is investigating CPS/ high conflict divorce cases for origins of abuse, what types are being committed, and communicating as a consultant or as an expert witness to sources within the system to send children to their safe homes.        She assists through every step of a case and have helped many leave wrongful placements, physically abusive situations, grooming to be trafficked, etc.       Our discussion defined Parental Alienation and talked about why it should be viewed as an abuse and what is Parental Alienation Language.  Also we discussed why do so many parents find that they are wrongfully accused of Parental Alienation and why Practitioners misunderstand Parental Alienation. It is important to allow yourself to go through recovery to become strong enough to fight the horrendous legal abuse many Narcissists commit.      In closing,  Sandra Speer, Ph.D.  wanted to say that she is proving that dreams can come true with what she is doing today.  As a Legal Advocate, not an attorney, she works with her clients throughout their cases doing whatever it takes to achieve their goals.  Because she is not an attorney, there are no legal limits to whom she can approach for assistance. Sandra also helps her clients emotionally become strong enough to fight their abuser without becoming accused of being a Narcissist or Parent Alienator.  ---   Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/maryann-petri/support

<p>Slam the Gavel welcomes Sandra Speer, Ph.D. to the show. Her experience includes having a Ph.D. in Public Safety and 30+ years of experience in the Domestic Violence and Emergency Management industries with research concentrations in abuse, leadership, narcissism, parental Alienation, and interpersonal communication.  I am a published author of the book <em>The Remains of Hurricane Katrina</em>, a chapter in the textbook <em>Terrorism Inside America's Borders</em>, and various articles, coupled with having been a broadcaster for 20+ years <br/>      Her specialty is investigating CPS/ high conflict divorce cases for origins of abuse, what types are being committed, and communicating as a consultant or as an expert witness to sources within the system to send children to their safe homes.  <br/>      She assists through every step of a case and have helped many leave wrongful placements, physically abusive situations, grooming to be trafficked, etc. <br/>      Our discussion defined Parental Alienation and talked about why it should be viewed as an abuse and what is Parental Alienation Language.  Also we discussed why do so many parents find that they are wrongfully accused of Parental Alienation and why Practitioners misunderstand Parental Alienation. It is important to allow yourself to go through recovery to become strong enough to fight the horrendous legal abuse many Narcissists commit.<br/>      In closing,  Sandra Speer, Ph.D.  wanted to say that she is proving that dreams can come true with what she is doing today.  As a Legal Advocate, not an attorney, she works with her clients throughout their cases doing whatever it takes to achieve their goals.  Because she is not an attorney, there are no legal limits to whom she can approach for assistance. Sandra also helps her clients emotionally become strong enough to fight their abuser without becoming accused of being a Narcissist or Parent Alienator.</p>  ---   Support this podcast: <a href="https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/maryann-petri/support" rel="payment nofollow" target="_blank">https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/maryann-petri/support</a>

Sandra Speer, Ph.D. Explains Why Parental Alienation Could Be Your Worst Enemy

     Slam the Gavel welcomes Sandra Speer, Ph.D. to the show. Her experience includes having a Ph.D. in Public Safety and 30+ years of experience in the Domestic Violence and Emergency Management industries with research concentrations in abuse, leadership, narcissism, parental Alienation, and interpersonal communication.  I am a published author of the book The Remains of Hurricane Katrina, a chapter in the textbook Terrorism Inside America's Borders, and various articles, coupled with having been a broadcaster for 20+ years      Her specialty is investigating CPS/ high conflict divorce cases for origins of abuse, what types are being committed, and communicating as a consultant or as an expert witness to sources within the system to send children to their safe homes.       She assists through every step of a case and have helped many leave wrongful placements, physically abusive situations, grooming to be trafficked, etc.      Our discussion defined Parental Alienation and talked about why it should be viewed as an abuse and what is Parental Alienation Language.  Also we discussed why do so many parents find that they are wrongfully accused of Parental Alienation and why Practitioners misunderstand Parental Alienation. It is important to allow yourself to go through recovery to become strong enough to fight the horrendous legal abuse many Narcissists commit.     In closing,  Sandra Speer, Ph.D.  wanted to say that she is proving that dreams can come true with what she is doing today.  As a Legal Advocate, not an attorney, she works with her clients throughout their cases doing whatever it takes to achieve their goals.  Because she is not an attorney, there are no legal limits to whom she can approach for assistance. Sandra also helps her clients emotionally become strong enough to fight their abuser without becoming accused of being a Narcissist or Parent Alienator.To reach Sandra Speer, Ph.D. : http://www.lifesanswers.netHer  company website offers information about herself, her company, Legal Advocacy and Life Coaching packages that she offers. https://www.facebook.com/groups/abusemewhyhttps://www.facebook.com/groups/287113156545220This public Facebook group, “Legal Advocate for You, Not Family Court,” offers general information about legal issues that accompany leaving an abuser and 24/7 Legal Advocacy advice.Support the show(https://www.buymeacoffee.com/maryannpetri)https://monicaszymonik.mykajabi.com/Masterclass  USE CODE SLAM THE GAVEL PODCAST FOR 10% OFF THE COURSEhttp://www.dismantlingfamilycourtcorruption.com/Music by: mictechmusic@yahoo.comSupport the showSupportshow(https://www.buymeacoffee.com/maryannpetri)http://www.dismantlingfamilycourtcorruption.com/

<p>     Slam the Gavel welcomes Sandra Speer, Ph.D. to the show. Her experience includes having a Ph.D. in Public Safety and 30+ years of experience in the Domestic Violence and Emergency Management industries with research concentrations in abuse, leadership, narcissism, parental Alienation, and interpersonal communication.  I am a published author of the book <em>The Remains of Hurricane Katrina</em>, a chapter in the textbook <em>Terrorism Inside America's Borders</em>, and various articles, coupled with having been a broadcaster for 20+ years <br/>     Her specialty is investigating CPS/ high conflict divorce cases for origins of abuse, what types are being committed, and communicating as a consultant or as an expert witness to sources within the system to send children to their safe homes.  <br/>     She assists through every step of a case and have helped many leave wrongful placements, physically abusive situations, grooming to be trafficked, etc. <br/>     Our discussion defined Parental Alienation and talked about why it should be viewed as an abuse and what is Parental Alienation Language.  Also we discussed why do so many parents find that they are wrongfully accused of Parental Alienation and why Practitioners misunderstand Parental Alienation. It is important to allow yourself to go through recovery to become strong enough to fight the horrendous legal abuse many Narcissists commit.<br/>     In closing,  Sandra Speer, Ph.D.  wanted to say that she is proving that dreams can come true with what she is doing today.  As a Legal Advocate, not an attorney, she works with her clients throughout their cases doing whatever it takes to achieve their goals.  Because she is not an attorney, there are no legal limits to whom she can approach for assistance. Sandra also helps her clients emotionally become strong enough to fight their abuser without becoming accused of being a Narcissist or Parent Alienator.</p><p>To reach Sandra Speer, Ph.D. : <a href="http://www.lifesanswers.net/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">http://www.lifesanswers.net</a></p><p>Her  company website offers information about herself, her company, Legal Advocacy and Life Coaching packages that she offers.</p><p> <a href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/abusemewhy" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://www.facebook.com/groups/abusemewhy</a></p><p><a href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/287113156545220" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://www.facebook.com/groups/287113156545220</a></p><p>This public Facebook group, “Legal Advocate for You, Not Family Court,” offers general information about legal issues that accompany leaving an abuser and 24/7 Legal Advocacy advice.</p><p><a href="https://www.buymeacoffee.com/maryannpetri" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Support the show</a>(<a href="https://www.buymeacoffee.com/maryannpetri" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://www.buymeacoffee.com/maryannpetri</a>)<br/><a href="https://monicaszymonik.mykajabi.com/Masterclass" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://monicaszymonik.mykajabi.com/Masterclass</a>  USE CODE SLAM THE GAVEL PODCAST FOR 10% OFF THE COURSE<br/><a href="http://www.dismantlingfamilycourtcorruption.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">http://www.dismantlingfamilycourtcorruption.com/</a><br/>Music by: mictechmusic@yahoo.com</p><a href="https://www.buymeacoffee.com/maryannpetri" rel="payment nofollow" target="_blank">Support the show</a><p><a href="https://www.buymeacoffee.com/maryannpetri" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Supportshow</a>(<a href="https://www.buymeacoffee.com/maryannpetri" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://www.buymeacoffee.com/maryannpetri</a>)<br/><br/><a href="http://www.dismantlingfamilycourtcorruption.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">http://www.dismantlingfamilycourtcorruption.com/</a></p>

ANNOUNCMENTS FAN-PAC EVENT – HELP IS HERE! MORE SUCCESS STORIES AND SOLUTION-BASED INTERVENTIONS TO MEND BROKEN FAMILY BONDS  Thursday, September 23, 2021 6:30 PM  9:00 PM Zoom (map) Google CalendarICS LINK TO REGISTER LINK TO ASK QUESTIONS OF PRESENTER   NEW MERCHANDISE – CLICK ON HOODIE TO SEE MORE STYLES    DR SANDRA SPEER  As a survivor of almost a lifetime of most forms of abuse, I pledged to use all that I learn in life to help others one day.  At that time, I was 17 with little knowledge of who my actual abusers were or how severely they had hurt me.  At that time, I only thought I was suffering from childhood rape. With God as my only guide, I survived the many threats to my life and physical health.  Today, as a survivor, I ask God to continue to watch over me and give me the strength to continue overcoming chronic illnesses and injuries to reach my life’s goal of helping survivors of trauma.  On February 20, 2018, I was thrown out of my protected world to realize that my mother had emotionally and physically abused me since birth.  I had dissociated most of my life.  I will define dissociation and explain why it protects many victims.    On that day in 2018, she chose to beat me with no mercy.  Again, God was guiding my way because I knew not to retaliate.  Often, reactive abuse causes many victims to become blamed for the abuse.  No abuser is worth a jail sentence or further injury of any type.  Today, I share with survivors valuable recovery techniques that help them become strong enough within themselves to not react to their abusers.  Because I was also emotionally abused and neglected by my father, a Child/Family Psychologist(Therapist), I understand how abusive practitioners can be toward victims and survivors.  The practitioners who I am referring to include attorneys, judges, medical doctors, etc.  There is such a thing as Legal/System Abuse Syndrome, which exhibits the same symptoms as PTSD, which develops from being abused by practitioners that a survivor turns to for assistance. A) Initially, I will talk about the symptoms and why the syndrome occurs B) The talk regarding the syndrome will lead into the discussion of Parental Alienation (PA).  I will:  define PA talk about the symptoms of PA in children why PA is misinterpreted why so many high conflict divorces that include children are intertwined with PA what tends to cause wrong PA rulings in the courts Yes, it is possible to win, and I will discuss some of the ways of winning The next segment of my discussion will detail how people are treated if they fall under review of a Department of Children &amp; Families (DCF) Why are so many children wrongly taken from their parents Yes, the system can be coped with-Parents can be reunited with their children Last but not least, I will talk about what a person, even if they are a survivor, can do to ensure not partnering with an abuser. What are the red flags How do you become strong enough to cope if you do have to walk away from an abuser Anyone can become brainwashed by an abuser, which is why you should educate yourself  In closing, I want to say that I am living the dreams that carried me through the years.  As a Legal Advocate, not an attorney, I work with my clients throughout their cases until they win.   I assist with whatever it takes to achieve our goals.  Because I am not an attorney, there are no legal limits to whom I can approach for assistance.  I also help my clients emotionally become strong enough to fight their abuser without becoming accused of being a Narcissist or Parent Alienator. As a Life Coach, I offer “Unstick Yourself” seminars, workshops, and individual coaching.  I have 30+ years working with Domestic Violence (DV) coupled with a Ph.D., being a published author, motivational speaker, and ex broadcaster.  And, possibly the most important part of my past is that I am a survivor of almost all forms of abuse from birth. I understand what my clients are experiencing. I am honored that you asked me to be a guest speaker on your Saving Fatherhood Podcast.  All of your ideas and questions are welcomed.   Below are my links, and attached is my headshot. My company website offers information about me, my company, and Legal Advocacy and Life Coaching packages that I offer. In this private Facebook group, I offer 24/7 live Trauma Recovery Support, including a live support group.  All past live support group sessions are recorded for members to listen to in announcements. This public Facebook group, “Legal Advocate for You, Not Family Court,” offers general information about legal issues that accompany leaving an abuser and 24/7 Legal Advocacy advice.

<h1>ANNOUNCMENTS</h1> <h3>FAN-PAC EVENT –</h3> <h2><a href="https://www.fanpacnj.org/events/2021/9/23/more-success-stories-and-solutions-to-mend-broken-family-bonds" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">HELP IS HERE! MORE SUCCESS STORIES AND SOLUTION-BASED INTERVENTIONS TO MEND BROKEN FAMILY BONDS</a></h2> <ul> <li>Thursday, September 23, 2021</li> <li>6:30 PM  9:00 PM</li> <li>Zoom <a href="http://maps.google.com/?q=Zoom" rel="noopener nofollow" target="_blank">(map)</a></li> <li><a href="http://www.google.com/calendar/event?action=TEMPLATE&amp;text=HELP%20IS%20HERE%21%20MORE%20SUCCESS%20STORIES%20AND%20SOLUTION-BASED%20INTERVENTIONS%20TO%20MEND%20BROKEN%20FAMILY%20BONDS&amp;dates=20210923T223000Z/20210924T010000Z" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Google Calendar</a><a href="https://www.fanpacnj.org/events/2021/9/23/more-success-stories-and-solutions-to-mend-broken-family-bonds?format=ical" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">ICS</a></li> <li><a href="https://us02web.zoom.us/meeting/register/tZEkcempqj4jGtf7ORGJbdyZsyDI6LF8xPFJ" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">LINK TO REGISTER</a></li> <li><a href="MAILTO:FANPACOFNJ@GMAIL.COM" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">LINK TO ASK QUESTIONS OF PRESENTER</a></li> </ul> <h3></h3> <h3>NEW MERCHANDISE – CLICK ON HOODIE TO SEE MORE STYLES</h3> <p> </p> <h1><a href="https://saving-fatherhood.creator-spring.com/?" rel="attachment wp-att-1382 nofollow" target="_blank"></a></h1> <h1>DR SANDRA SPEER</h1> <ol> <li>As a survivor of almost a lifetime of most forms of abuse, I pledged to use all that I learn in life to help others one day.  At that time, I was 17 with little knowledge of who my actual abusers were or how severely they had hurt me.  At that time, I only thought I was suffering from childhood rape. With God as my only guide, I survived the many threats to my life and physical health.  Today, as a survivor, I ask God to continue to watch over me and give me the strength to continue overcoming chronic illnesses and injuries to reach my life’s goal of helping survivors of trauma.</li> </ol> <p>On February 20, 2018, I was thrown out of my protected world to realize that my mother had emotionally and physically abused me since birth.  I had dissociated most of my life.  I will define dissociation and explain why it protects many victims.    On that day in 2018, she chose to beat me with no mercy.  Again, God was guiding my way because I knew not to retaliate.  Often, reactive abuse causes many victims to become blamed for the abuse.  No abuser is worth a jail sentence or further injury of any type.  Today, I share with survivors valuable recovery techniques that help them become strong enough within themselves to not react to their abusers.</p> <ol> <li>Because I was also emotionally abused and neglected by my father, a Child/Family Psychologist(Therapist), I understand how abusive practitioners can be toward victims and survivors.  The practitioners who I am referring to include attorneys, judges, medical doctors, etc.  There is such a thing as Legal/System Abuse Syndrome, which exhibits the same symptoms as PTSD, which develops from being abused by practitioners that a survivor turns to for assistance.</li> <li>A) Initially, I will talk about the symptoms and why the syndrome occurs</li> <li>B) The talk regarding the syndrome will lead into the discussion of Parental Alienation (PA).</li> </ol> <p>I will:</p> <ol> <li>define PA</li> <li>talk about the symptoms of PA in children</li> <li>why PA is misinterpreted</li> <li>why so many high conflict divorces that include children are intertwined with PA</li> <li>what tends to cause wrong PA rulings in the courts</li> <li>Yes, it is possible to win, and I will discuss some of the ways of winning</li> <li>The next segment of my discussion will detail how people are treated if they fall under review of a Department of Children &amp; Families (DCF)</li> <li>Why are so many children wrongly taken from their parents</li> <li>Yes, the system can be coped with-Parents can be reunited with their children</li> <li>Last but not least, I will talk about what a person, even if they are a survivor, can do to ensure not partnering with an abuser.</li> <li>What are the red flags</li> <li>How do you become strong enough to cope if you do have to walk away from an abuser</li> <li>Anyone can become brainwashed by an abuser, which is why you should educate yourself</li> </ol> <p>In closing, I want to say that I am living the dreams that carried me through the years.  As a Legal Advocate, not an attorney, I work with my clients throughout their cases until they win.   I assist with whatever it takes to achieve our goals.  Because I am not an attorney, there are no legal limits to whom I can approach for assistance.  I also help my clients emotionally become strong enough to fight their abuser without becoming accused of being a Narcissist or Parent Alienator.</p> <p>As a Life Coach, I offer “Unstick Yourself” seminars, workshops, and individual coaching.  I have 30+ years working with Domestic Violence (DV) coupled with a Ph.D., being a published author, motivational speaker, and ex broadcaster.  And, possibly the most important part of my past is that I am a survivor of almost all forms of abuse from birth. I understand what my clients are experiencing.</p> <p>I am honored that you asked me to be a guest speaker on your Saving Fatherhood Podcast.  All of your ideas and questions are welcomed.</p> <p> </p> <p>Below are my links, and attached is my headshot.</p> <p>My company website offers information about me, my company, and Legal Advocacy and Life Coaching packages that I offer.</p> <p>In this private Facebook group, I offer 24/7 live Trauma Recovery Support, including a live support group.  All past live support group sessions are recorded for members to listen to in announcements.</p> <p>This public Facebook group, “Legal Advocate for You, Not Family Court,” offers general information about legal issues that accompany leaving an abuser and 24/7 Legal Advocacy advice.</p>