Quandra Chaffers's guest appearances

Quandra Chaffers

Rebel Therapist

A Date With Darkness Podcast

Resilience and Resistance Podcast

Ernesto Segismundo

Holly Sawyer

Patricia Young

Sonalee Rashatwar

Montoyia McGowan

Melvin Varghese

Clay Cockrell

Kelly Diels

Hilary Kinavey

Christiane Northrup

John Edwards

Ali Shapiro

Maya Benattar

Tara McMullin

Janelle Allen

OwlTail

Color

 A Date With Darkness Podcast is hosted by Dr. Natalie Jones, Psyd, LPCC; and it's where we explore the effects of abuse and healing from relationship trauma through intimate discussions.    Quandra Chaffers, LCSW, CSE joins us today to discuss EMDR therapy for trauma, how it can be helpful when attempting to resolve traumatic experiences in relationships, and how EMDR can be used. Quandra specifically discusses the use of EMDR with therapists who are culturally sensitive to treat trauma for people of color around recent racially charged events. Lastly, Quandra discusses reasonable expectations for EMDR treatment, and how to find a qualified EMDR therapist.    *Please note: Information provided on this episode are general tips and suggestions. This episode may not be suitable for everyone, and the information provided should not be substituted for treatment with a licensed mental health practitioner. The opinions of the guests on A Date with Darkness Podcast are independent of the opinions of Dr. Natalie Jones, PsyD, LPCC.   Visit Quandra Chaffers, LCSW, CSE: www.sasstherapy.com  Resources Mentioned:  EMDRIA.org   MEND  Watch the video podcast on Youtube: https://youtu.be/Faw8WloiGTU  Email questions/comments/suggestions to Dr. Jones at adatewithdarkness@gmail.com   Visit the website for more information: https://www.adatewithdarkness.com   Let's keep the conversation going via social media:   Instagram: A Date With Darkness   Twitter: @Adatewdarkness   Facebook: A Date With Darkness   To connect with others who are seeking support from hurtful and abusive relationships please join the Facebook group: A Date With Darkness group

A Date With Darkness Podcast is hosted by Dr. Natalie Jones, Psyd, LPCC; and it's where we explore the effects of abuse and healing from relationship trauma through intimate discussions.  Quandra Chaffers, LCSW, CSE joins us today to discuss EMDR therapy for trauma, how it can be helpful when attempting to resolve traumatic experiences in relationships, and how EMDR can be used. Quandra specifically discusses the use of EMDR with therapists who are culturally sensitive to treat trauma for people of color around recent racially charged events. Lastly, Quandra discusses reasonable expectations for EMDR treatment, and how to find a qualified EMDR therapist.  *Please note: Information provided on this episode are general tips and suggestions. This episode may not be suitable for everyone, and the information provided should not be substituted for treatment with a licensed mental health practitioner. The opinions of the guests on A Date with Darkness Podcast are independent of the opinions of Dr. Natalie Jones, PsyD, LPCC.  Visit Quandra Chaffers, LCSW, CSE: <a href="https://www.sasstherapy.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.sasstherapy.com</a> Resources Mentioned: <a href="http://EMDRIA.org" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">EMDRIA.org</a> <a href="https://www.mendpsychotherapy.com/areas-of-practice/2020/4/26/emdr-and-af-emdr-treatment" rel="nofollow" target="_blank"> MEND</a> Watch the video podcast on Youtube: <a href="https://youtu.be/Faw8WloiGTU" rel="noopener nofollow" target="_blank">https://youtu.be/Faw8WloiGTU</a> Email questions/comments/suggestions to Dr. Jones at <a href="mailto:adatewithdarkness@gmail.com">adatewithdarkness@gmail.com</a> Visit the website for more information: <a href="https://www.adatewithdarkness.com/" rel="noopener nofollow" target="_blank">https://www.adatewithdarkness.com</a> Let's keep the conversation going via social media: Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/adatewithdarknesspodcast/" rel="noopener nofollow" target="_blank">A Date With Darkness</a> Twitter: <a href="https://twitter.com/ADateWDarkness" rel="noopener nofollow" target="_blank">@Adatewdarkness</a> Facebook: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/adatewithdarkness/" rel="noopener nofollow" target="_blank">A Date With Darkness</a> To connect with others who are seeking support from hurtful and abusive relationships please join the Facebook group: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/196036654267594/" rel="noopener nofollow" target="_blank">A Date With Darkness group</a>

Part 2: Healing People of Color Using EMDR Therapy, Featuring Quandra Chaffers, LCSW, CSE

 A Date With Darkness Podcast is hosted by Dr. Natalie Jones, Psyd, LPCC; and it's where we explore the effects of abuse and healing from relationship trauma through intimate discussions.    Quandra Chaffers, LCSW, CSE joins us today to discuss BDSM, kink, sexual fantasies, and trauma. Quandra and discuss the difference between a healthy sex-based lifestyle vs a life-style based in trauma. Quandra also discussed how to determine if a partner is abusive and not respectful of boundaries. She also shares why it's important to explore therapy if you are a trauma survivor and how trauma/abuse may show up for you in the bedroom.    *Please note: Information provided on this episode are general tips and suggestions. This episode may not be suitable for everyone, and the information provided should not be substituted for treatment with a licensed mental health practitioner. The opinions of the guests on A Date with Darkness Podcast are independent of the opinions of Dr. Natalie Jones, PsyD, LPCC.   Visit Quandra Chaffers, LCSW, CSE: www.sasstherapy.com  Resources Mentioned:  Fetlife   Tashra   Kink Aware Therapists: here  Watch the video podcast on Youtube: https://youtu.be/gOI0fW-FGQo  Email questions/comments/suggestions to Dr. Jones at adatewithdarkness@gmail.com   Visit the website for more information: https://www.adatewithdarkness.com   Let's keep the conversation going via social media:   Instagram: A Date With Darkness   Twitter: @Adatewdarkness   Facebook: A Date With Darkness   To connect with others who are seeking support from hurtful and abusive relationships please join the Facebook group: A Date With Darkness group

A Date With Darkness Podcast is hosted by Dr. Natalie Jones, Psyd, LPCC; and it's where we explore the effects of abuse and healing from relationship trauma through intimate discussions.  Quandra Chaffers, LCSW, CSE joins us today to discuss BDSM, kink, sexual fantasies, and trauma. Quandra and discuss the difference between a healthy sex-based lifestyle vs a life-style based in trauma. Quandra also discussed how to determine if a partner is abusive and not respectful of boundaries. She also shares why it's important to explore therapy if you are a trauma survivor and how trauma/abuse may show up for you in the bedroom.  *Please note: Information provided on this episode are general tips and suggestions. This episode may not be suitable for everyone, and the information provided should not be substituted for treatment with a licensed mental health practitioner. The opinions of the guests on A Date with Darkness Podcast are independent of the opinions of Dr. Natalie Jones, PsyD, LPCC.  Visit Quandra Chaffers, LCSW, CSE: <a href="https://www.sasstherapy.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.sasstherapy.com</a> Resources Mentioned: <a href="https://fetlife.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Fetlife</a> <a href="https://www.tashra.org/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Tashra</a> Kink Aware Therapists: <a href="https://www.kapprofessionals.org/business-directory-2/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">here</a> Watch the video podcast on Youtube: <a href="https://youtu.be/gOI0fW-FGQo" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://youtu.be/gOI0fW-FGQo</a> Email questions/comments/suggestions to Dr. Jones at <a href="mailto:adatewithdarkness@gmail.com">adatewithdarkness@gmail.com</a> Visit the website for more information: <a href="https://www.adatewithdarkness.com/" rel="noopener nofollow" target="_blank">https://www.adatewithdarkness.com</a> Let's keep the conversation going via social media: Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/adatewithdarknesspodcast/" rel="noopener nofollow" target="_blank">A Date With Darkness</a> Twitter: <a href="https://twitter.com/ADateWDarkness" rel="noopener nofollow" target="_blank">@Adatewdarkness</a> Facebook: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/adatewithdarkness/" rel="noopener nofollow" target="_blank">A Date With Darkness</a> To connect with others who are seeking support from hurtful and abusive relationships please join the Facebook group: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/196036654267594/" rel="noopener nofollow" target="_blank">A Date With Darkness group</a>

BDSM, Kink, Sexual Fantasies, and Trauma; Featuring Quandra Chaffers, LCSW, CSE

Quandra Chaffers created Sexual Abuse and Sex Solutions less than a year ago. She’s surrounded herself with people she can grow with and moved away from those who might have held her back. Listen as she dives into her thoughts on reaching her right fit clients, networking, marketing, and money mindset.   Topics Discussed In This Episode:  How she wrote her About page Reaching out to clients who are marginalized Why she loved writing her copy Why she almost didn’t continue in this profession a year ago Working through money mindset issues in order to embrace earning Getting advice from many different sources to start her business Stepping into networking with “nerdy” curiosity. Taking steps to create a future business model that can run even when she isn’t working Her fees (real numbers as usual) Public speaking and writing about consent     Show notes at http://coachingwithannie.com/podcast/61

Quandra Chaffers created Sexual Abuse and Sex Solutions less than a year ago. She’s surrounded herself with people she can grow with and moved away from those who might have held her back. Listen as she dives into her thoughts on reaching her right fit clients, networking, marketing, and money mindset. Topics Discussed In This Episode: <ul> <li>How she wrote her About page</li> <li>Reaching out to clients who are marginalized</li> <li>Why she loved writing her copy</li> <li>Why she almost didn’t continue in this profession a year ago</li> <li>Working through money mindset issues in order to embrace earning</li> <li>Getting advice from many different sources to start her business</li> <li>Stepping into networking with “nerdy” curiosity.</li> <li>Taking steps to create a future business model that can run even when she isn’t working</li> <li>Her fees (real numbers as usual)</li> <li>Public speaking and writing about consent  </li> </ul> Show notes at <a href="http://coachingwithannie.com/podcast" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">http://coachingwithannie.com/podcast</a>/61

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