Tony Fonderson's guest appearances

Tony Fonderson

Man Alive

Podcast for your Soul

Nicola Farmer

John Gottman

Ryan Michler

Dominick Quartuccio

Dan Doty

Richard Barrett

Lucas Mack

Robert Glover

Steve Olsher

Moe Carrick

Mike Robbins

Guy Finley

Jamie Wheal

Justin Long

Matt Lauer

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It’s not easy to bring up struggles, disappointments or frustrations in relationships. But have you noticed that when you don’t say anything, resentment can build while spark and trust fades? In today’s episode Tony Fonderson and I discuss how to communicate in a way that creates connection rather than breaks it.    http://traffic.libsyn.com/manalive/communication-tony.mp3Show notes Are there topics of conversation that you find challenging to bring up?Do you put off having these conversations, or not have them at all?What do you find scariest to talk about? Money? Sex? Desires? How you are treated?Many people don’t have the tools to make these conversations go well. But that doesn’t mean the tools don’t exist!On today’s Man Alive podcast I was joined by author and coach Tony Fonderson. We talked about how to communicate in a way that creates connection rather than breaks it.  We give you tools to turn struggles, disappointments and frustrations into connection!We discussed: How to create the safety to say what you want and ask for what you needWhere the courage to speak about challenging subjects comes from How to take things your partner says less personallyReorienting around beliefs and perspectives that create a lot of pain for couplesPowerful ways to notice when you’re squashing intimacy and start creating it If you haven’t listened to the other Man Alive episode with Tony, Honest Sex, you can check it out here.Both of these are powerful conversations about how to share your truth in a way that creates more connection and passion! Links:Connect with Tony Fonderson Curious what you’d need to become a better leader and lover? Take the quiz For Women: Modern dating doesn’t have to be a nightmare for womenBio:Tony Fonderson is a father, friend and valued guide whose natural talent is interacting with people in ways that they get the insights they need to solve deep personal problems. The son of an African diplomat, Tony grew up in multicultural environments and by the time he was 22, he’d lived in 6 different countries, had two engineering degrees, and spoke 4 languages fluently.Tony was first introduced to the world of personal development after walking away unscathed from a near-fatal car crash with his two-year-old daughter. Although physically unharmed, he was deeply troubled by what was revealed to him during his brush with death, and this emerged to be a pivotal moment in his life.His cosmic wake-up call led him to embark on a 20-year quest studying how life, love and relationships work, so that the next time he faced Death he could look back on a deep, rich, and meaningful life. His journey of self-discovery led him to understand that to create powerful, intimate partnerships, you must first understand who you are, and also understand what’s really going on behind the scenes. The way Tony blends science, languages, psychology and culture makes him a sought-after source of guidance, wisdom and expert advice in matters of the heart, mind and soul.  The post #120: To Say or Not to Say: Communication that Creates Closeness – Tony Fonderson appeared first on Shana James Coaching.

It’s not easy to bring up struggles, disappointments or frustrations in relationships. But have you noticed that when you don’t say anything, resentment can build while spark and trust fades? In today’s episode Tony Fonderson and I discuss how to communicate in a way that creates connection rather than breaks it.    <a href="http://traffic.libsyn.com/manalive/communication-tony.mp3" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">http://traffic.libsyn.com/manalive/communication-tony.mp3</a><h2>Show notes </h2>Are there topics of conversation that you find challenging to bring up?Do you put off having these conversations, or not have them at all?What do you find scariest to talk about? Money? Sex? Desires? How you are treated?Many people don’t have the tools to make these conversations go well. But that doesn’t mean the tools don’t exist!On today’s Man Alive podcast I was joined by author and coach Tony Fonderson. We talked about how to communicate in a way that creates connection rather than breaks it.  We give you tools to turn struggles, disappointments and frustrations into connection!We discussed: <ul><li>How to create the safety to say what you want and ask for what you need</li><li>Where the courage to speak about challenging subjects comes from </li><li>How to take things your partner says less personally</li><li>Reorienting around beliefs and perspectives that create a lot of pain for couples</li><li>Powerful ways to notice when you’re squashing intimacy and start creating it </li></ul>If you haven’t listened to the other Man Alive episode with Tony, Honest Sex, you can<a href="https://shanajamescoaching.com/tony-fonderson/" rel="noreferrer noopener nofollow" target="_blank"> check it out here</a>.Both of these are powerful conversations about how to share your truth in a way that creates more connection and passion! <h2>Links:</h2>Connect with <a href="https://tonyfonderson.com/" rel="noreferrer noopener nofollow" target="_blank">Tony Fonderson</a> Curious what you’d need to become a better leader and lover? <a href="https://shanajamescoaching.com/quiz/" rel="noreferrer noopener nofollow" target="_blank">Take the quiz</a> For Women: <a href="https://shanajamescoaching.com/dating-guide" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Modern dating doesn’t have to be a nightmare for women</a><h2>Bio:</h2>Tony Fonderson is a father, friend and valued guide whose natural talent is interacting with people in ways that they get the insights they need to solve deep personal problems. The son of an African diplomat, Tony grew up in multicultural environments and by the time he was 22, he’d lived in 6 different countries, had two engineering degrees, and spoke 4 languages fluently.Tony was first introduced to the world of personal development after walking away unscathed from a near-fatal car crash with his two-year-old daughter. Although physically unharmed, he was deeply troubled by what was revealed to him during his brush with death, and this emerged to be a pivotal moment in his life.His cosmic wake-up call led him to embark on a 20-year quest studying how life, love and relationships work, so that the next time he faced Death he could look back on a deep, rich, and meaningful life. His journey of self-discovery led him to understand that to create powerful, intimate partnerships, you must first understand who you are, and also understand what’s really going on behind the scenes. The way Tony blends science, languages, psychology and culture makes him a sought-after source of guidance, wisdom and expert advice in matters of the heart, mind and soul. <a href="https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/id1253614865" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" target="_blank"></a>The post <a href="https://shanajamescoaching.com/difficult-conversations/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">#120: To Say or Not to Say: Communication that Creates Closeness – Tony Fonderson</a> appeared first on <a href="https://shanajamescoaching.com" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Shana James Coaching</a>.

#120: To Say or Not to Say: Communication that Creates Closeness – Tony Fonderson

It’s easy to overlook honesty as one of the ways to best generate hotter and more connected s*x, but it’s one of the fastest and most powerful paths I know of. Today’s guest, Tony Fonderson, confirms this! http://traffic.libsyn.com/manalive/honest-sx-tony.mp3Show notes Wow, today’s podcast is one you don’t want to miss! How can I communicate the power of today’s conversation on combining honesty with sex?Imagine that all the ways you’ve attempted to create passion and romance (for many of us this includes games, withholding, big and small lies, etc.) pale in comparison to the explosive pleasure that happens when you bring honesty into the bedroom!When you start to honestly share your needs and desires, and receive a partner’s desires, not only does the heat get turned up, it also deepens the intimacy and sense of meaning.Today’s Man Alive podcast conversation was with Tony Fonderson, coach and author of From Struggling to Cuddling: 5 Steps to Your Best Relationship Ever. We discussed:  How to have more meaningful and passionate sex What you miss out on when you withhold honesty in your sex lifeTony’s 5 principles to go from struggling to cuddling What to do with the parts of us that are afraid of being rejectedHow to communicate intentionally to be met more fully and better understood If you’ve ever experienced emptiness or dissatisfaction, even though sex felt physically great, honesty is going to be important to pay attention to.  We’d love to know what you take away from this conversation and we recognize this is a vulnerable topic, so feel free to let us know privately over email or with a Facebook message.Here’s to you embracing the risk to be more honest, so you can have more love and passion!Links:Tony Fonderson Shana’s Guide for you: 3 Ways Men Lose Influence at Work and With Women For Women : 5 Ways for Smart, Soulful Women to Avoid Nightmare Dates and Call in Emotionally Available, Commitment-Ready MenBio:Tony Fonderson is a father, a friend, and a valued guide who is naturally talented at leading people to the insights they need to solve deeply personal problems. He grew up in multicultural environment, and by the time he was 22 he’d lived in 6 different countries, had two engineering degrees, and spoke 4 languages fluently.Tony got a cosmic wake-up call after walking away unharmed from a near-fatal car crash in 1998. His brush with death led him to embark on a 20-year quest studying how life, love and relationships work, so that the next time he faced Death, he could look back on a deep, rich, and meaningful life.Today, Tony blends science, languages, psychology and culture to provide expert advice and guidance in matters of the heart, mind and soul. He is a the author of a book on relationships called “From Struggling to Cuddling: 5 Steps to Your Best Relationship Ever”, which will be released in 2019.   The post #97: Honest S*X-  Tony Fonderson appeared first on Shana James Coaching.

It’s easy to overlook honesty as one of the ways to best generate hotter and more connected s*x, but it’s one of the fastest and most powerful paths I know of. Today’s guest, Tony Fonderson, confirms this! <a href="http://traffic.libsyn.com/manalive/honest-sx-tony.mp3" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">http://traffic.libsyn.com/manalive/honest-sx-tony.mp3</a><h2>Show notes </h2>Wow, today’s podcast is one you don’t want to miss! How can I communicate the power of today’s conversation on combining honesty with sex? Imagine that all the ways you’ve attempted to create passion and romance (for many of us this includes games, withholding, big and small lies, etc.) pale in comparison to the explosive pleasure that happens when you bring honesty into the bedroom!When you start to honestly share your needs and desires, and receive a partner’s desires, not only does the heat get turned up, it also deepens the intimacy and sense of meaning.Today’s Man Alive podcast conversation was with Tony Fonderson, coach and author of From Struggling to Cuddling: 5 Steps to Your Best Relationship Ever. We discussed: <ul><li>How to have more meaningful and passionate sex </li><li>What you miss out on when you withhold honesty in your sex life</li><li>Tony’s 5 principles to go from struggling to cuddling </li><li>What to do with the parts of us that are afraid of being rejected </li><li>How to communicate intentionally to be met more fully and better understood </li></ul>If you’ve ever experienced emptiness or dissatisfaction, even though sex felt physically great, honesty is going to be important to pay attention to.  We’d love to know what you take away from this conversation and we recognize this is a vulnerable topic, so feel free to let us know privately over email or with a Facebook message. Here’s to you embracing the risk to be more honest, so you can have more love and passion! <h2>Links:</h2><a href="http://www.tonyfonderson.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Tony Fonderson</a> Shana’s Guide for you: <a href="https://shanajamescoaching.com/3ways/" rel="noreferrer noopener nofollow" target="_blank">3 Ways Men Lose Influence at Work and With Women</a> For Women : <a href="https://shanajamescoaching.com/dating-guide" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">5 Ways for Smart, Soulful Women to Avoid Nightmare Dates and Call in Emotionally Available, Commitment-Ready Men</a><h2>Bio:</h2>Tony Fonderson is a father, a friend, and a valued guide who is naturally talented at leading people to the insights they need to solve deeply personal problems. He grew up in multicultural environment, and by the time he was 22 he’d lived in 6 different countries, had two engineering degrees, and spoke 4 languages fluently.Tony got a cosmic wake-up call after walking away unharmed from a near-fatal car crash in 1998. His brush with death led him to embark on a 20-year quest studying how life, love and relationships work, so that the next time he faced Death, he could look back on a deep, rich, and meaningful life.Today, Tony blends science, languages, psychology and culture to provide expert advice and guidance in matters of the heart, mind and soul. He is a the author of a book on relationships called “From Struggling to Cuddling: 5 Steps to Your Best Relationship Ever”, which will be released in 2019.  <a href="https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/id1253614865" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" target="_blank"></a>The post <a href="https://shanajamescoaching.com/tony-fonderson/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">#97: Honest S*X- Tony Fonderson</a> appeared first on <a href="https://shanajamescoaching.com" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Shana James Coaching</a>.

#97: Honest S*X-  Tony Fonderson

Tony Fonderson is a father, a friend, and a valued guide who is naturally talented at leading people to the insights they need to solve deeply personal problems.Tony grew up in multicultural environment, and by the time he was 22, he’d lived in 6 different countries, had two engineering degrees, and spoke 4 languages fluently.Tony got a cosmic wake-up call after walking away unharmed from a near-fatal car crash in 1988.His brush with death led him to embark on a 20-year quest studying how life, love and relationships work, so that the next time he faced death, he could look back on a deep, rich and meaningful life.Today, Tony blends science, languages, psychology and culture to provide expert advice and guidance in matters of the heart, mind and soul. He is the author of a book on relationships called "From Struggling to Cuddling", which will be released in the next months.He shares with us five essential pillars which will help you to create the meaningful relationship you are longing for.You can connect with Tony via Facebook at:  https://www.facebook.com/TonyFonderson/ Please go to http://www.the-light-house.de/podcast-for-your-soul.html to download other free episodes

Tony Fonderson is a father, a friend, and a valued guide who is naturally talented at leading people to the insights they need to solve deeply personal problems. Tony grew up in multicultural environment, and by the time he was 22, he’d lived in 6 different countries, had two engineering degrees, and spoke 4 languages fluently.Tony got a cosmic wake-up call after walking away unharmed from a near-fatal car crash in 1988. His brush with death led him to embark on a 20-year quest studying how life, love and relationships work, so that the next time he faced death, he could look back on a deep, rich and meaningful life.Today, Tony blends science, languages, psychology and culture to provide expert advice and guidance in matters of the heart, mind and soul. He is the author of a book on relationships called "From Struggling to Cuddling", which will be released in the next months. He shares with us five essential pillars which will help you to create the meaningful relationship you are longing for.You can connect with Tony via Facebook at:  <a href="https://www.facebook.com/TonyFonderson/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://www.facebook.com/TonyFonderson/</a> Please go to <a href="http://www.the-light-house.de/podcast-for-your-soul.html" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">http://www.the-light-house.de/podcast-for-your-soul.html</a> to download other free episodes