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Cindy Mulonas

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Please welcome my guest Cindy Mulonas!  She lives outside of Detroit, Michigan, and is the mother of three children. In addition, she has coached many high-profile personalities in her work and has helped them overcome childhood abuse. Being Attracted to Toxic Relationships “For some reason, in the past, I was attracted to people who were not good for me.” She met her boyfriend in high school and was dating him for some time when they moved to Michigan together. He publicly ridiculed and mocked Cindy, including making fun of her when she gained weight. After three years, she left that relationship and entered into another more abusive one. Looking Back at her Journals When she looks back at her journals, she can see the patterns of abuse and what she lived through. At the age of 24, her boyfriend was gaslighting her and blaming her for all relationship issues. Cindy felt that she could change him and make him a different person. These are the moments she wants others to be aware of in relationships and how to avoid these types of people. Making Excuses to Stay in an Abusive Situation Cindy realized that she was making excuses about her relationship to stay married. “You stay in an abusive situation because you feel that you aren’t qualified to stand on your own.” Also, your self-esteem can become so low that you don’t believe you can accomplish what you set out to do.  She was the only income earner in the family; however, her husband spent money but refused to work. He took out multiple loans against their home and physically abused her daily. Cindy remembers patching up holes in their walls after he punched through them numerous times. Lastly, they took his dad in their home, who was dying of cancer, and he verbally abused his father on his deathbed.  Listen in to find out how Cindy broke the cycle of abuse and the importance of leaving an abusive relationship.  Resources Mentioned  Join Me on Speak Loud Platform Speak Loud Podcast on the web  Spread the message of Speak Loudly Podcast andshare this episode with a friend!  ***Disclaimer: All content found on Speak Loud Podcast, including text, images, audio, or other formats were created for informational purposes only. Material contained on Speak Loud Podcast website, podcast, and social media postings are not intended to be a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of your qualified healthcare provider with any questions you may have regarding a medical condition. Never disregard or delay seeking professional medical advice. Information on this podcast and guest comments, opinions, and content are solely for educational and entertainment purposes. Use of this information is at your own risk.***

Please welcome my guest Cindy Mulonas! She lives outside of Detroit, Michigan, and is the mother of three children. In addition, she has coached many high-profile personalities in her work and has helped them overcome childhood abuse. Being Attracted to Toxic Relationships “For some reason, in the past, I was attracted to people who were not good for me.” She met her boyfriend in high school and was dating him for some time when they moved to Michigan together. He publicly ridiculed and mocked Cindy, including making fun of her when she gained weight. After three years, she left that relationship and entered into another more abusive one. Looking Back at her Journals When she looks back at her journals, she can see the patterns of abuse and what she lived through. At the age of 24, her boyfriend was gaslighting her and blaming her for all relationship issues. Cindy felt that she could change him and make him a different person. These are the moments she wants others to be aware of in relationships and how to avoid these types of people. Making Excuses to Stay in an Abusive Situation Cindy realized that she was making excuses about her relationship to stay married. “You stay in an abusive situation because you feel that you aren’t qualified to stand on your own.” Also, your self-esteem can become so low that you don’t believe you can accomplish what you set out to do. She was the only income earner in the family; however, her husband spent money but refused to work. He took out multiple loans against their home and physically abused her daily. Cindy remembers patching up holes in their walls after he punched through them numerous times. Lastly, they took his dad in their home, who was dying of cancer, and he verbally abused his father on his deathbed. Listen in to find out how Cindy broke the cycle of abuse and the importance of leaving an abusive relationship. Resources Mentioned Join Me on Speak Loud Platform Speak Loud Podcast <a href="https://speakloudpodcast.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">on the web</a> Spread the message of Speak Loudly Podcast andshare this episode with a friend! ***Disclaimer: All content found on Speak Loud Podcast, including text, images, audio, or other formats were created for informational purposes only. Material contained on Speak Loud Podcast website, podcast, and social media postings are not intended to be a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of your qualified healthcare provider with any questions you may have regarding a medical condition. Never disregard or delay seeking professional medical advice. Information on this podcast and guest comments, opinions, and content are solely for educational and entertainment purposes. Use of this information is at your own risk.***

Unchained with CINDY MULONAS

When David met Cindy she was destitute: bankrupt, in foreclosure and abused by her ex-husband; and she was paying him alimony! David was out of work and had to pretend to be the HR department at my former job to be able to refinance just before the financial crisis during my divorce. They both had custody of their kids and had a lot of "fixing" to do with their lives.They raised blended kids successfully, realigned their focus to be successful in their careers and live happily. Along the way they also survived the unexpected with Cindy being hit by a car walking across the street along with two bouts of COVID. Their story is a testament to hard work, success and patience. Having a reciprocal and rewarding relationship allows them to manage life's unexpected turns. https://www.somethingonmymind.net/about https://www.somethingonmymind.net/blog https://www.somethingonmymind.net/podcast https://www.tiktok.com/@somm.podcast?lang=en https://www.instagram.com/somm.podcast/ https://www.somethingonmymind.net/ https://www.youtube.com/channel/UChec5qcZBcGkIhUU3belNDw https://www.facebook.com/somm.podcast https://twitter.com/Somm_podcastSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dr-ds-social-network/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy &amp; Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/darian-parker/message

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326. David and Cindy Mulonas - First Date at Costco, Blending Families Together and Building a Solid Relationship

You don't need your kids. If it feels good, roll with it. If it doesn't make a difference to your marriage, who cares? You need breaks.  These are just some of the true facts husband and wife financial gurus David and Cindy share with us from their personal experience. They're funny, they're honest and they're oh so real! You'll love every moment of their crazy stories and in the face truths about life, marriage and I think we even forgot to talk about money. Oh well. For that we've got other episodes (see episodes 63 &amp; 107).   When David met Cindy she was destitute: bankrupt, in foreclosure and abused by her ex-husband; and she was paying him alimony! David was out of work and had to pretend to be the HR department at my former job to be able to refinance just before the financial crisis during my divorce.   They both had custody of their kids and had a lot of "fixing" to do with their lives.They raised blended kids successfully, realigned their focus to be successful in their careers and live happily.   Along the way they also survived the unexpected with Cindy being hit by a car walking across the street along with two bouts of COVID. Their story is a testament to hard work, success and patience. Having a reciprocal and rewarding relationship allows them to manage life's unexpected turns. Connect with David www.somethingonmymind.net  Connect with ST: https://lifepixrelationships.com/

You don't need your kids. If it feels good, roll with it. If it doesn't make a difference to your marriage, who cares? You need breaks. These are just some of the true facts husband and wife financial gurus David and Cindy share with us from their personal experience. They're funny, they're honest and they're oh so real! You'll love every moment of their crazy stories and in the face truths about life, marriage and I think we even forgot to talk about money. Oh well. For that we've got other episodes (see episodes 63 &amp; 107).  When David met Cindy she was destitute: bankrupt, in foreclosure and abused by her ex-husband; and she was paying him alimony! David was out of work and had to pretend to be the HR department at my former job to be able to refinance just before the financial crisis during my divorce.   They both had custody of their kids and had a lot of "fixing" to do with their lives.They raised blended kids successfully, realigned their focus to be successful in their careers and live happily.   Along the way they also survived the unexpected with Cindy being hit by a car walking across the street along with two bouts of COVID. Their story is a testament to hard work, success and patience. Having a reciprocal and rewarding relationship allows them to manage life's unexpected turns. Connect with David <a href="http://www.somethingonmymind.net/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.somethingonmymind.net</a> Connect with ST: <a href="https://lifepixrelationships.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://lifepixrelationships.com/</a>

151: Why You Don't Need Your Kids And Other True Facts with David and Cindy Mulonas