Nick Mazzeo's guest appearances

Nick Mazzeo

Inclusive Education Project (IEP) Podcast

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Michelle Sullivan

Ross Greene

Terry Brown

Betsy DeVos

Daniel Franklin

Jackie Wilson

Phyllis Fagell

Tina Bryson

Kara Ryska

Anna Jones

Tim Villegas

Genia Stephen

Caroline Maguire

Anne Fricke

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A father’s involvement is just as important in the lives and the outcome of his children as a mom’s involvement, yet there’s a big gap in services that target father participation. There is also the issue of why father involvement is such a problem in this country, in the first place. Nick Mazzeo joins Amanda and Vickie in today’s podcast to talk about a program called Dads Matter, under the Children’s Bureau in Orange County, California, which started about 4 years ago through federal funding. Nick helped write the grant for the funding so he’s been there from its inception.   Show Highlights:  Dads Matter serves about 300 families a year in Orange County “Going Mobile” - They have the ability to take the program, including food, childcare, and facilitators out to any other organizations if they have a group of fathers that they want to receive services. Nick discusses gender roles, assumptions about gender roles, and the 2 main stereotypes about father involvement:   Men are not biologically geared towards taking care of children Dads don’t want to be involved in hands-on parenting   A matter of economics is the main factor in a dad’s lack of involvement in their children’s lives. If you have more than one child, it makes more sense in Orange County to be a stay-at-home parent than to work a minimum-wage job, because child-care is so expensive. If dad works long hours and mom stays at home, it is often difficult for a dad to be more involved, although many times, he wants to be. Dads can get ridiculed or criticized by family and friends for wanting to be a whole parent. Across the country, the rate of non-resident fathers is about 25%. Nick goes over how father care is different than mother care. In the program, it’s important to value a dad’s contributions as equal to the contributions of mother’s. When a father is highly involved in his child’s life, the child is less likely to be a bully or to be bullied. Traditional father care is the opposite of “Helicopter Parenting”. Nick expounds on the importance of, and the differences between, father involvement and father engagement. The two evidenced-based curriculums at Dads Matter   “Supporting Father Involvement” - increases father involvement, but not necessarily used to increase parenting skills “Dads for Life” - more skilled-based, like coaching   Research shows that it’s more likely that Dads will make changes when it comes from a support group of other men.  Links/Resources:   Thank you for listening! Don’t forget to SUBSCRIBE to the show to receive every new episode delivered straight to your podcast player every Tuesday. If you enjoyed this episode and believe in our message, then please help us get the word out about this podcast. Rate and Review this show in Apple Podcasts, Stitcher Radio, or Google Play. It helps other listeners find this show. Be sure to connect with us and reach out with any questions/concerns: Facebook Instagram Twitter IEP website This podcast is for informational and educational purposes only. It is not to be construed as legal advice specific to your circumstances. If you need help with any legal matters, be sure to consult with an attorney regarding your specific needs.     YOU ARE INVITED!! 5th ANNUAL FUNDRAISING EVENT Building the Bridge Between Literacy and the Consequences of Falling Behind Thursday, October 24, 2019  5:30 PM - 7:30 PM Huntington Bay Club 4121 Warner Ave, Huntington Beach, CA FOR EARLY BIRD TICKETS ($25!!) &amp; MORE INFORMATION https://squareup.com/store/inclusive-education-project/     National Responsible Fatherhood Clearinghouse https://www.fatherhood.gov   Dads Matter! Father Involvement Program https://www.all4kids.org/dads Outreach Specialist Phone #: (714) 785-3244 Find Us on Facebook! https://www.facebook.com/DadsMatterOC/   Article Mentioned Regarding Time Off From Work for IEP Meetings:  https://www.disabilityscoop.com/2019/08/16/iep-meetings-warrant-time-off-work-labor-department-says/27027/

A father’s involvement is just as important in the lives and the outcome of his children as a mom’s involvement, yet there’s a big gap in services that target father participation. There is also the issue of why father involvement is such a problem in this country, in the first place. Nick Mazzeo joins Amanda and Vickie in today’s podcast to talk about a program called Dads Matter, under the Children’s Bureau in Orange County, California, which started about 4 years ago through federal funding. Nick helped write the grant for the funding so he’s been there from its inception. Show Highlights: <ul> <li>Dads Matter serves about 300 families a year in Orange County</li> <li>“Going Mobile” - They have the ability to take the program, including food, childcare, and facilitators out to any other organizations if they have a group of fathers that they want to receive services.</li> <li>Nick discusses gender roles, assumptions about gender roles, and the 2 main stereotypes about father involvement:</li> </ul> <ul> <li>Men are not biologically geared towards taking care of children</li> <li>Dads don’t want to be involved in hands-on parenting</li> </ul> <ul> <li>A matter of economics is the main factor in a dad’s lack of involvement in their children’s lives.</li> <li>If you have more than one child, it makes more sense in Orange County to be a stay-at-home parent than to work a minimum-wage job, because child-care is so expensive.</li> <li>If dad works long hours and mom stays at home, it is often difficult for a dad to be more involved, although many times, he wants to be.</li> <li>Dads can get ridiculed or criticized by family and friends for wanting to be a whole parent.</li> <li>Across the country, the rate of non-resident fathers is about 25%.</li> <li>Nick goes over how father care is different than mother care.</li> <li>In the program, it’s important to value a dad’s contributions as equal to the contributions of mother’s.</li> <li>When a father is highly involved in his child’s life, the child is less likely to be a bully or to be bullied.</li> <li>Traditional father care is the opposite of “Helicopter Parenting”.</li> <li>Nick expounds on the importance of, and the differences between, father involvement and father engagement.</li> <li>The two evidenced-based curriculums at Dads Matter</li> </ul> <ul> <li>“Supporting Father Involvement” - increases father involvement, but not necessarily used to increase parenting skills</li> <li>“Dads for Life” - more skilled-based, like coaching</li> </ul> <ul> <li>Research shows that it’s more likely that Dads will make changes when it comes from a support group of other men.</li> </ul> Links/Resources: Thank you for listening! Don’t forget to SUBSCRIBE to the show to receive every new episode delivered straight to your podcast player every Tuesday. If you enjoyed this episode and believe in our message, then please help us get the word out about this podcast. Rate and Review this show in <a href="https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/id1307157016" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Apple Podcasts</a>, <a href="https://www.stitcher.com/podcast/inclusive-education-project-podcast/inclusive-education-project" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Stitcher Radio</a>, or <a href="https://play.google.com/music/listen#/ps/I23ctmblttqsbc4kagaccwm453a" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Google Play.</a> It helps other listeners find this show. Be sure to connect with us and reach out with any questions/concerns: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/IEPcalifornia/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Facebook</a> <a href="https://www.instagram.com/iepcalifornia/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Instagram</a> <a href="https://twitter.com/iepcalifornia" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Twitter</a> <a href="http://www.inclusiveeducationproject.org/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">IEP website</a> This podcast is for informational and educational purposes only. It is not to be construed as legal advice specific to your circumstances. If you need help with any legal matters, be sure to consult with an attorney regarding your specific needs. YOU ARE INVITED!! 5th ANNUAL FUNDRAISING EVENT Building the Bridge Between Literacy and the Consequences of Falling Behind Thursday, October 24, 2019  5:30 PM - 7:30 PM Huntington Bay Club 4121 Warner Ave, Huntington Beach, CA FOR EARLY BIRD TICKETS ($25!!) &amp; MORE INFORMATION <a href="https://squareup.com/store/inclusive-education-project/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://squareup.com/store/inclusive-education-project/</a> National Responsible Fatherhood Clearinghouse <a href="https://www.fatherhood.gov" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://www.fatherhood.gov</a> Dads Matter! Father Involvement Program <a href="https://www.all4kids.org/dads" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://www.all4kids.org/dads</a> Outreach Specialist Phone #: (714) 785-3244 Find Us on Facebook! <a href="https://www.facebook.com/DadsMatterOC/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://www.facebook.com/DadsMatterOC/</a> Article Mentioned Regarding Time Off From Work for IEP Meetings: <a href="https://www.disabilityscoop.com/2019/08/16/iep-meetings-warrant-time-off-work-labor-department-says/27027/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank"> https://www.disabilityscoop.com/2019/08/16/iep-meetings-warrant-time-off-work-labor-department-says/27027/</a>

Dad's Matter with Nick Mazzeo [IEP 093]