Rebecca K. Tan's guest appearances

Rebecca K. Tan

Canadian Asian Missional Podcast

Lost and Found Podcast

The Sarah Show

Lorraine Lam

Sarah Bessey

Gary Chapman

Gene Luen Yang

Kevin Lee

James Yang

Christine Lee

Austin Fischer

Alan Hirsch

James Robertson

Scott Wall

Milissa Ewing

Kevin White

Marion Taylor

Jeff Christopherson

OwlTail

On the sixth episode of season two of The Sarah Show podcast, Sarah Chew talks to author Rebecca K. Tan about how she escaped an abusive relationship.*TRIGGER WARNING: this episode talks about emotional, physical, sexual and spiritual abuse. Listener discretion is advised. Additional note: In order to protect the privacy of all the individuals involved, Rebecca K. Tan operates under a pseudonym; all names have been changed in the interview and her book; and her voice has been digitally altered. Rebecca met her first boyfriend through a Christian fellowship in university. In the beginning stages of dating, Tony seemed perfect. He seemed to be a man of God, everyone loved him, and he knew the Bible really well. But after a few weeks, Tony started to change. He became emotionally, physically and sexually abusive to Rebecca, all while twisting Scripture to reason with her. Listen to the episode to find out how Rebecca ended the toxic relationship, and how she eventually found freedom through Jesus Christ. Throughout the whole ordeal, Rebecca kept a journal full of her raw thoughts and prayers. In 2020, she published a book containing these accounts titled, "But He Said He Is A Christian." You can find Rebecca's book on Amazon or on her website (linked below). Rebecca's links:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/rebecca.k.tan/Website (for her book and merch): https://www.rebeccaktan.com/Amazon (to order the book): https://www.amazon.ca/But-He-Said-Christian-Relationship-ebook/dp/B08BWW4L1JStatistics and surveys referenced in the episode:https://canadianwomen.org/the-facts/gender-based-violence/https://www150.statcan.gc.ca/n1/pub/85-002-x/2019001/article/00018/tbl/tbl02-2-eng.htmhttps://www150.statcan.gc.ca/n1/pub/85-002-x/2013001/article/11805/11805-3-eng.htmhttps://endingviolencecanada.org/wp-content/uploads/2020/08/FINAL.pdfCanadian hotlines for survivors of gendered assault or abuse (by province):https://cfc-swc.gc.ca/violence/knowledge-connaissance/info-en.htmlhttps://www.dawncanada.net/issues/crisis-hotlines/Question(s) of the episode:What is something new that you've learned today? How can you use that information to help others?We're so glad you could join our podcast family. Please leave a kind rating and review, and subscribe so you won't miss an episode! You are welcome here. DM Sarah on Instagram at: @the_sarahshow with your response!

On the sixth episode of season two of The Sarah Show podcast, Sarah Chew talks to author Rebecca K. Tan about how she escaped an abusive relationship. *TRIGGER WARNING: this episode talks about emotional, physical, sexual and spiritual abuse. Listener discretion is advised. Additional note: In order to protect the privacy of all the individuals involved, Rebecca K. Tan operates under a pseudonym; all names have been changed in the interview and her book; and her voice has been digitally altered. Rebecca met her first boyfriend through a Christian fellowship in university. In the beginning stages of dating, Tony seemed perfect. He seemed to be a man of God, everyone loved him, and he knew the Bible really well. But after a few weeks, Tony started to change. He became emotionally, physically and sexually abusive to Rebecca, all while twisting Scripture to reason with her. Listen to the episode to find out how Rebecca ended the toxic relationship, and how she eventually found freedom through Jesus Christ. Throughout the whole ordeal, Rebecca kept a journal full of her raw thoughts and prayers. In 2020, she published a book containing these accounts titled, "But He Said He Is A Christian." You can find Rebecca's book on Amazon or on her website (linked below). Rebecca's links: Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/rebecca.k.tan/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://www.instagram.com/rebecca.k.tan/</a> Website (for her book and merch): <a href="https://www.rebeccaktan.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://www.rebeccaktan.com/</a> Amazon (to order the book): <a href="https://www.amazon.ca/But-He-Said-Christian-Relationship-ebook/dp/B08BWW4L1J" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://www.amazon.ca/But-He-Said-Christian-Relationship-ebook/dp/B08BWW4L1J</a> Statistics and surveys referenced in the episode: <a href="https://canadianwomen.org/the-facts/gender-based-violence/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://canadianwomen.org/the-facts/gender-based-violence/</a> <a href="https://www150.statcan.gc.ca/n1/pub/85-002-x/2019001/article/00018/tbl/tbl02-2-eng.htm" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://www150.statcan.gc.ca/n1/pub/85-002-x/2019001/article/00018/tbl/tbl02-2-eng.htm</a> <a href="https://www150.statcan.gc.ca/n1/pub/85-002-x/2013001/article/11805/11805-3-eng.htm" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://www150.statcan.gc.ca/n1/pub/85-002-x/2013001/article/11805/11805-3-eng.htm</a> <a href="https://endingviolencecanada.org/wp-content/uploads/2020/08/FINAL.pdf" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://endingviolencecanada.org/wp-content/uploads/2020/08/FINAL.pdf</a> Canadian hotlines for survivors of gendered assault or abuse (by province): <a href="https://cfc-swc.gc.ca/violence/knowledge-connaissance/info-en.html" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://cfc-swc.gc.ca/violence/knowledge-connaissance/info-en.html</a> <a href="https://www.dawncanada.net/issues/crisis-hotlines/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://www.dawncanada.net/issues/crisis-hotlines/</a> Question(s) of the episode: What is something new that you've learned today? How can you use that information to help others? We're so glad you could join our podcast family. Please leave a kind rating and review, and subscribe so you won't miss an episode! You are welcome here. DM Sarah on Instagram at: @the_sarahshow with your response!

How I Left My Abusive Boyfriend feat. author Rebecca K. Tan

Episode 58 - #ChurchToo Movement, Part 3: A Survivor's Story (feat. Rebecca K. Tan) TRIGGER WARNING: In these episodes, we discuss the subject matter of relational and sexual abuse and assault. Please exercise discretion and wisdom in listening as the nature of the topic may trigger some individuals. In the third part of our continuing conversation, we sit down with Rebecca K. Tan, author of But He Said He Is A Christian, to hear her story of surviving relational abuse and assault. In what is often taboo or difficult to talk about, we discuss the importance of bringing to light what is happening in our proximity, becoming more aware of the signs, and what it means for churches and communities to support and walk alongside those being abused and survivors. Note: Our guest's voice has been altered to protect her identity. -------------------------- Please remember to subscribe to our podcast to join the conversation as we regularly discuss all things related to being Canadian, Asian, and missional. Leave us your comments and feedback and let's do this together! Music Credits: aKu – The Final Blow © 2018 aKu All Rights Reserved, Used With Permission

Episode 58 - #ChurchToo Movement, Part 3: A Survivor's Story (feat. Rebecca K. Tan) TRIGGER WARNING: In these episodes, we discuss the subject matter of relational and sexual abuse and assault. Please exercise discretion and wisdom in listening as the nature of the topic may trigger some individuals. In the third part of our continuing conversation, we sit down with Rebecca K. Tan, author of But He Said He Is A Christian, to hear her story of surviving relational abuse and assault. In what is often taboo or difficult to talk about, we discuss the importance of bringing to light what is happening in our proximity, becoming more aware of the signs, and what it means for churches and communities to support and walk alongside those being abused and survivors. Note: Our guest's voice has been altered to protect her identity. -------------------------- Please remember to subscribe to our podcast to join the conversation as we regularly discuss all things related to being Canadian, Asian, and missional. Leave us your comments and feedback and let's do this together! Music Credits: aKu – The Final Blow © 2018 aKu All Rights Reserved, Used With Permission

Episode 58 - #ChurchToo Movement, Part 3: A Survivor's Story (feat. Rebecca K. Tan)

My guest today is a survivor.  She is a vibrant young woman who makes her faith in Jesus the priority of her life.  She is the author of a book that I will recommend during this episode.  Yet, in her college years she was drawn into an abusive relationship with a young man who said he was a Christian.  In today’s episode Rebecca K.  Tan tells her story of deception, abuse, deliverance and healing.   So pull up a chair and sit with me for a bit as we explore issues around abusive relationships and how we ought to respond to those who are the victims and the perpetrators of abuse.ResourcesRebecca has written a wonderful book about her journey through and from abuse in a dating relationship.  We highly recommend her book to you.  He Said He is a Christian - Rebecca K TanAvailable only in Canada   - click hereSupport the show (https://lostandfoundpodcast.ca/donate)

My guest today is a survivor.  She is a vibrant young woman who makes her faith in Jesus the priority of her life.  She is the author of a book that I will recommend during this episode.  Yet, in her college years she was drawn into an abusive relationship with a young man who said he was a Christian.  In today’s episode Rebecca K.  Tan tells her story of deception, abuse, deliverance and healing.   So pull up a chair and sit with me for a bit as we explore issues around abusive relationships and how we ought to respond to those who are the victims and the perpetrators of abuse. Resources Rebecca has written a wonderful book about her journey through and from abuse in a dating relationship.  We highly recommend her book to you.  <ol><li>He Said He is a Christian - Rebecca K Tan Available only in Canada   - <a href="https://amzn.to/3jI9RI5" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">click here</a></li></ol><a href="https://lostandfoundpodcast.ca/donate" rel="payment nofollow" target="_blank">Support the show</a> (<a href="https://lostandfoundpodcast.ca/donate" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://lostandfoundpodcast.ca/donate</a>)

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