Rafaella Fiallo's guest appearances

Rafaella Fiallo

Campfire

UNGENTRIFIED with Kent Johnson

The Campfire Storytelling Podcast

Carnal Theory

The Love Fix

Molly Pearson

Delores Martin

James Meinert

Regina Dennis

Cam Nelson

Kelsey Rightnowar

Wendy Buske

Jill Carnaghi

Jason Flamm

Deborah Taffa

Kim Kreitner-Riegerix

Liz Pund

Ryan Gist

Rachel Cherrick

Gabe Cotton

OwlTail

Sherry and Carla start with a Love Fix question from a listener wanting to know when the right time is to get a therapist, which leads to a discussion on the important things to note before jumping into couples therapy. They then welcome Rafaella Fiallo, Licensed Clinical Social Worker, Sexual Liberation Activist, Educator, and Therapist specializing in relationship, sex, and trauma therapy. Rafaella owns a therapy private practice, Healing Exchange LLC, and co-founded Afrosexology, a sex-positive pleasure-based sexuality education business. Rafaella talks about her guide to Sexual Self-Care, and group for Trauma Survivors, which is basically a sex-ed class with a trauma-informed lens to let people know they can take up space, in whatever sexual way feels good to them.   Want to work with Sherry and Carla together? Head to  www.thelovefix.com to sign up for the 6 Week Live Coaching Program.    Connect with Us!  The Love Fix | @thelovefixpodcast Get 1:1 Dating &amp; Relationship Coaching  The Love Fix Relationship Quiz    Sherry  Website | Sign up for your FREE strategy call for life coaching/psychotherapy with Sherry Sherry Gaba | Psychotherapist, Life Coach &amp; Author | Join Sherry’s Inner Circle for healing from Narcissistic Abuse, Codependency, and Love Addiction -($1 trial or 1/2 off 6 months free)   Carla Website | Instagram | Facebook |  Contagious Love | Online Dating Bootcamp   Rafaella Website | Instagram |  A Guide to Sexual Self-Care | Afrosexology | Group Therapy    Sign up to be in TDR database: https://www.threedayrule.com/CarlaRomo   Today’s episode is sponsored by Carla’s book  Contagious Love: Break Free from Codependency for Damn Good and Sherry’s book  Love Smacked: How To Stop the Cycle of Relationship Addiction and Codependency To Find Everlasting Love.   Thanks to Contagious Love and Love Smacked for sponsoring this episode.   What You’ll Hear In This Episode:    Why it’s important for couples to seek out support and coaching or therapy before things go wrong in a relationship.  In order for couples therapy to work, both people must be committed to making the relationship work. Otherwise, you’re just wasting your time.  Rafaella talks about what being sex-positive means to her.  Labels can be liberating, or they can be limiting.  How can a toxic relationship and even just trauma or stress affect our sex life?  We have stress and trauma every day, and then we can have it from childhood, PTSD, and other experiences that are going to trickle into our intimacy, our relationship, and just our overall body response.  Check out Rafaella’s guide to sexual self-care and community, along with how to work with Sherry and Carla on overcoming codependency, dating, break-ups, healing from toxic relationships, and gaining confidence. You don’t have to have sexual trauma, you don’t even have to have a big trauma. If you’ve just been under stress and duress and oppression like we all are, that can absolutely have an impact on different facets of our life and lived experience, especially our sexual one. How can we support consent culture and boundaries as a community?  Why is victim blaming so prevalent, and what can we do about it?  Rafaella discusses how our body and nervous system can confuse excitement for fear.     Disclaimer: The Love Fix Podcast content has been made available for informational, entertainment, and educational purposes only. The Love Fix Podcast is distinctly different from coaching, counseling, psychotherapy, or psychoanalysis and does not deal with the diagnosis or treatment of emotional problems. The Love Fix podcast does not constitute medical consultation or treatment, health insurance does not apply.

Sherry and Carla start with a Love Fix question from a listener wanting to know when the right time is to get a therapist, which leads to a discussion on the important things to note before jumping into couples therapy. They then welcome Rafaella Fiallo, Licensed Clinical Social Worker, Sexual Liberation Activist, Educator, and Therapist specializing in relationship, sex, and trauma therapy. Rafaella owns a therapy private practice, Healing Exchange LLC, and co-founded Afrosexology, a sex-positive pleasure-based sexuality education business. Rafaella talks about her guide to Sexual Self-Care, and group for Trauma Survivors, which is basically a sex-ed class with a trauma-informed lens to let people know they can take up space, in whatever sexual way feels good to them. Want to work with Sherry and Carla together? Head to  <a href="http://www.thelovefix.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.thelovefix.com</a> to sign up for the 6 Week Live Coaching Program.  Connect with Us! <ul> <li><a href="http://www.thelovefix.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">The Love Fix</a> | <a href="https://www.instagram.com/thelovefixpodcast/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">@thelovefixpodcast</a></li> <li><a href="https://carlaromo.com/work-with-me/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Get 1:1 Dating &amp; Relationship Coaching</a> </li> <li><a href="https://thelovefix.com/relationship-quiz/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">The Love Fix Relationship Quiz</a></li> </ul> Sherry <a href="https://sherrygaba.com/addiction-recovery/sessions-psychotherapy/rates-insurance/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank"> Website</a> | Sign up for your FREE strategy call for life coaching/psychotherapy with Sherry <a href="https://sherrygaba.com/contact/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Sherry Gaba | Psychotherapist, Life Coach &amp; Author</a> | <a href="https://wakeuprecovery.com/lovefix1" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Join Sherry’s Inner Circle for healing from Narcissistic Abuse, Codependency, and Love Addiction -($1 trial or 1/2 off 6 months free)</a> Carla <a href="https://iamcarlaromo.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Website</a> | <a href="https://www.instagram.com/iamcarlaromo/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Instagram</a> | <a href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/lovelifecheerleader" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Facebook</a> | <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Contagious-Love-Break-Free-Codependency/dp/1689772239" rel="nofollow" target="_blank"> Contagious Love</a> | <a href="https://iamcarlaromo.com/dating-bootcamp/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Online Dating Bootcamp</a> Rafaella <a href="https://www.healingxchg.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Website</a> | <a href="https://www.instagram.com/healingxchg/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Instagram</a> | <a href="https://www.healingxchg.com/product-page/a-guide-to-sexual-self-care" rel="nofollow" target="_blank"> A Guide to Sexual Self-Care</a> | <a href="https://afrosexology.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Afrosexology</a> | <a href="https://www.healingxchg.com/group-therapy" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Group Therapy </a> Sign up to be in TDR database: <a href="https://www.threedayrule.com/CarlaRomo" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://www.threedayrule.com/CarlaRomo</a> Today’s episode is sponsored by Carla’s book <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Contagious-Love-Break-Free-Codependency/dp/1689772239" rel="nofollow" target="_blank"> Contagious Love: Break Free from Codependency for Damn Good</a> and Sherry’s book <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Love-Smacked-Relationship-Codependency-Everlasting/dp/1628657405" rel="nofollow" target="_blank"> Love Smacked: How To Stop the Cycle of Relationship Addiction and Codependency To Find Everlasting Love</a>. Thanks to Contagious Love and Love Smacked for sponsoring this episode. What You’ll Hear In This Episode: <ul> <li>Why it’s important for couples to seek out support and coaching or therapy before things go wrong in a relationship. </li> <li>In order for couples therapy to work, both people must be committed to making the relationship work. Otherwise, you’re just wasting your time. </li> <li>Rafaella talks about what being sex-positive means to her. </li> <li>Labels can be liberating, or they can be limiting. </li> <li>How can a toxic relationship and even just trauma or stress affect our sex life? </li> <li>We have stress and trauma every day, and then we can have it from childhood, PTSD, and other experiences that are going to trickle into our intimacy, our relationship, and just our overall body response. </li> <li>Check out Rafaella’s guide to <a href="https://www.healingxchg.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">sexual self-care</a> and community, along with how to work with <a href="https://wakeuprecovery.com/lovefix1" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Sherry</a> and <a href="https://iamcarlaromo.com/dating-bootcamp/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Carla</a> on overcoming codependency, dating, break-ups, healing from toxic relationships, and gaining confidence.</li> <li>You don’t have to have sexual trauma, you don’t even have to have a big trauma. If you’ve just been under stress and duress and oppression like we all are, that can absolutely have an impact on different facets of our life and lived experience, especially our sexual one.</li> <li>How can we support consent culture and boundaries as a community? </li> <li>Why is victim blaming so prevalent, and what can we do about it? </li> <li>Rafaella discusses how our body and nervous system can confuse excitement for fear. </li> </ul> Disclaimer: The Love Fix Podcast content has been made available for informational, entertainment, and educational purposes only. The Love Fix Podcast is distinctly different from coaching, counseling, psychotherapy, or psychoanalysis and does not deal with the diagnosis or treatment of emotional problems. The Love Fix podcast does not constitute medical consultation or treatment, health insurance does not apply.

How toxic relationships, trauma, and stress can affect our sex life with Rafaella Fiallo

“Do We Choose Responsibility?” - Story from Rafaella Fiallo Original air date: October 17th, 2018 Podcast Producer: Andrew Warshauer

“Do We Choose Responsibility?” - Story from Rafaella Fiallo Original air date: October 17th, 2018 Podcast Producer: Andrew Warshauer

Campfire Episode 20 - Rafaella Fiallo

This episode features Rafaella Fiallo, one of Campfire’s Fellows. Rafafella Fiallo as he provides his answer to the Season 20 question, “Do We Choose Responsibility?”.  A Fellow’s Campfire can best be described as TED without the data, The Moth but interactive, and a sermon but without the religion. You can learn more about Rafaella Fiallo on the Campfire website, https://cmpfr.com/events/rafaella-fiallo/.The Campfire Fellows go through rigorous training and coaching provided by Campfire Faculty so they can share their wisdom through story for you. Our Fellows are the people next to you at stoplights or walking by on the street. These Fellows apply or are nominated by people like you, who know interesting and introspective people with some wisdom to share. The Fellows go through a unique process with our team to discover a wealth of wisdom inside themselves and then are trained on how to share the origin stories of their wisdom. This episode was originally performed in October 2018, produced by Andrew Warshauer, and recorded live at The Stage at KDHX.

This episode features Rafaella Fiallo, one of Campfire’s Fellows. Rafafella Fiallo as he provides his answer to the Season 20 question, “Do We Choose Responsibility?”.  A Fellow’s Campfire can best be described as TED without the data, The Moth but interactive, and a sermon but without the religion. You can learn more about Rafaella Fiallo on the Campfire website, <a href="https://cmpfr.com/events/rafaella-fiallo/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://cmpfr.com/events/rafaella-fiallo/</a>.The Campfire Fellows go through rigorous training and coaching provided by Campfire Faculty so they can share their wisdom through story for you. Our Fellows are the people next to you at stoplights or walking by on the street. These Fellows apply or are nominated by people like you, who know interesting and introspective people with some wisdom to share. The Fellows go through a unique process with our team to discover a wealth of wisdom inside themselves and then are trained on how to share the origin stories of their wisdom.  This episode was originally performed in October 2018, produced by Andrew Warshauer, and recorded live at The Stage at KDHX.

"Do we choose responsibility?" featuring Rafaella Fiallo

Dalychia Saah

On this episode of UNGENTRIFIED, I am joined by Dalychia Saah &amp; Rafaella Fiallo of Afrosexology () to chat about maintaining your sexual health in the currently stressful climate for the black community. We discuss how history plays a role in our community’s approach to sex, why reclaiming your personal sexual agency is needed, and whether masturbation is affirmation. Listen and give us your opinion!   Guests: Dalychia Saah &amp; Rafaella Fiallo of Afrosexology () Website:    Follow the conversation: @ungentrifiedpod on / @kentwjohnson on /   Email us at  #ungentrifiedpod   Resources/People/Articles Mentioned in Podcast:   To learn more about O School, visit . To learn more about Afrosexology’s Erotic Care Plan, click . Theme Music by Nas550 () Podcast Sponsors:

010: Afrosexology with Dalychia Saah & Rafaella Fiallo of Afrosexology