Joe Kort's guest appearances

Joe Kort

Strictly Anonymous Confessions

Family Affairs

House of Mystery Radio on NBC

Speaking of Partnership:  Personal Stories of the Power and Payoffs of Partnership

The Australia Counselling Podcast

Podcast Detroit - All Shows

Businesses in Bloom: Therapists & Wellness Businesses Stories of Success

Gayish Podcast

The Couples Therapist Couch

Let's Talk About It With Taylor Nolan

Better Sex

Inner Voice

Sex Talk with Erika Miley

The Divorce Survival Guide Podcast

Doing Relationships Right

Stan Tatkin

Susan Bratton

Jeff Abraham

Justin Lehmiller

Kate Anthony

Wendy Behary

Michael Daniels

Shadeen Francis

Harville Hendrix

Alexandra Solomon

Lee Phillips

Linda Weiner

Alexandra Katehakis

Rhonda Noordyk

Martha Kauppi

OwlTail

For the video version of this podcast, visit https://youtu.be/MZwyn82T7Kg. What is “erotic orientation,” and how is it different from sexual orientation? How can therapists help mixed-orientation couples? We talk about these and other fascinating sex-related topics with Dr. Joe Kort, a psychotherapist, presenter, and enormously popular TikTokker. You can find out more about Dr. Joe Kort’s work at https://joekort.com/. Do you have ideas for topics or guests for our podcast? Go to https://ctin7.com and send us a message. And you can also sign up for Dr. Chalmer’s newsletter right from our homepage. When you sign up for Dr. Chalmer’s newsletter, you’ll get a link for a free download of Dr. Chalmer’s booklet Seven Words to Jump-Start Your Love Life. You can also get the book on Amazon as an eBook, paperback, or audiobook. Find out more about Dr. Chalmer’s books at https://ctin7.com/books.

Couples Therapy In Seven Words

For the video version of this podcast, visit <a href="https://youtu.be/MZwyn82T7Kg" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://youtu.be/MZwyn82T7Kg</a>. What is “erotic orientation,” and how is it different from sexual orientation? How can therapists help mixed-orientation couples? We talk about these and other fascinating sex-related topics with Dr. Joe Kort, a psychotherapist, presenter, and enormously popular TikTokker. You can find out more about Dr. Joe Kort’s work at <a href="https://joekort.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://joekort.com/</a>. Do you have ideas for topics or guests for our podcast? Go to <a href="https://ctin7.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://ctin7.com</a> and send us a message. And you can also <a href="https://ctin7.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">sign up for Dr. Chalmer’s newsletter</a> right from our homepage. When you sign up for Dr. Chalmer’s newsletter, you’ll get a link for a free download of Dr. Chalmer’s booklet Seven Words to Jump-Start Your Love Life. You can also <a href="https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0BX1TH31F" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">get the book on Amazon</a> as an eBook, paperback, or audiobook. Find out more about Dr. Chalmer’s books at<a href="https://ctin7.com/books" rel="nofollow" target="_blank"> https://ctin7.com/books</a>.

Erotic Orientation and Your Relationship: An Interview with Dr. Joe Kort

A therapist who treats LGBTQ clients often must be more than “gay friendly.” Clinical experience, scientific research, and cultural understanding are advancing rapidly, and the task of being LGBTQ informed is ever-changing in today's world.This book covers topics such as how to avoid making the common mistake of believing that "a couple is a couple," thus treating LGBTQ couples the same as their heterosexual counterparts; how to treat clients struggling in "mixed" orientation marriages and relationships (straight and LGBTQ spouses in the same couple); and how to work with all clients who have non-heteronormative sexual behaviors and practices. Perhaps most importantly, the book discusses covert cultural sexual abuse (the trauma suffered from having to suppress one's own sexual and gender identity) as well as the difficult process of coming out to family and friends. A therapist's job is to help clients and their identities through their own lens and not anyone else's—especially the therapist's. The gay affirmative principles put forward in this book will help you build a stronger relationship with your LGBTQ clients and become the go-to therapist in your area.Support this show http://supporter.acast.com/houseofmysteryradio. Become a member at https://plus.acast.com/s/houseofmysteryradio.  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

A therapist who treats LGBTQ clients often must be more than “gay friendly.” Clinical experience, scientific research, and cultural understanding are advancing rapidly, and the task of being LGBTQ informed is ever-changing in today's world.This book covers topics such as how to avoid making the common mistake of believing that "a couple is a couple," thus treating LGBTQ couples the same as their heterosexual counterparts; how to treat clients struggling in "mixed" orientation marriages and relationships (straight and LGBTQ spouses in the same couple); and how to work with all clients who have non-heteronormative sexual behaviors and practices. Perhaps most importantly, the book discusses covert cultural sexual abuse (the trauma suffered from having to suppress one's own sexual and gender identity) as well as the difficult process of coming out to family and friends. A therapist's job is to help clients and their identities through their own lens and not anyone else's—especially the therapist's. The gay affirmative principles put forward in this book will help you build a stronger relationship with your LGBTQ clients and become the go-to therapist in your area.Support this show <a href="http://supporter.acast.com/houseofmysteryradio" rel="payment nofollow" target="_blank">http://supporter.acast.com/houseofmysteryradio</a>. Become a member at <a href="https://plus.acast.com/s/houseofmysteryradio" rel="payment nofollow" target="_blank">https://plus.acast.com/s/houseofmysteryradio</a>. Hosted on Acast. See <a href="https://acast.com/privacy" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" target="_blank">acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.

Dr. Joe Kort - LGBTQ Clients in Therapy: Clinical Issues and Treatment Strategies

Ep 198: Sex is Messy, Dirty, &amp; Pleasurable, Understanding Our Sexuality with Dr. Joe Kort. "Sexuality and erotic interests are not clean. They are messy, nuanced, smelly, dirty, prideful, pleasurable, shameful, and we have to make room for all of that and not try to clean it up and try to make it a textbook thing," said Dr. Joe Kort. This is the last sentence he said in the interview and I think it's so very right, poignant, and definitely an accurate statement. Sex is all of those things, and even more! And it's certainly not cookie-cutter or so-called "normal". There is no normal. And why should there be? We are all individuals, as is each of our sexualities.Listen to and learn from our amazing discussion! He has years and years of experience, he's so knowledgeable about sex and relationships. We chatted about all things sexuality. He shared about his journey coming out as a gay man in the seventies, how his mom was enlightened enough to get him help, but how he also fell into the trap of being labeled with a sexual addiction, which he later learned was false as with time he learned more about sexual health and reframed his mindset to a much healthier one. He became a therapist in response to his journey.He counsels predominantly heterosexual couples, and he shared some very interesting stories from his practice.He talked about how our sexual orientation is not in the acts we do, but rather it's who we are. He talked about how we need to shed shame, and how the worldviews have changed regarding gay/lesbian people. We also chatted about how trans people are being stigmatized now.We talked about sexual orientation, masturbation, erotic compassion, cracking our erotic code, and how what's driving it isn't even about sex at all. He highlighted the importance of shedding shame for healthier sexuality and how couples really need to harness the mindset of having erotic compassion for one another, and not judge each other for their fantasies. Connect with Dr. Joe Kort for his website, books, and podcast here: https://joekort.com/Find all his links here: https://linktr.ee/drjoekortJoe's book Erotic Orientation (affiliate): https://amzn.to/3RT5v1mIs My Husband Gay, Straight, or Bi? https://amzn.to/3VkwJkl10 Smart Things Gay Men Can Do To Improve Their Lives https://amzn.to/3VfixcFThank you Joe for coming on my show! Check out his podcast  Smart Sex Smart Love on podcast apps.Learn more about the podcast host Ruan Willow: https://linktr.ee/RuanWillowRuan's anthology: Decadent Erotica An Anthology of 10 Tales of Extreme Sensuality, Indulgence, Dominance, &amp; Submission.Universal link to the book: https://storyoriginapp.com/universalbooklinks/f96fc8e4-338f-11ed-9399-3b82020d795fOnline sellers ebook: https://books2read.com/u/mZEQvJComing in paperback to online sellers 10/22/2022Welcome to my podcast! Leave  a vo Support the showSign up for Ruan's newsletters: https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillowhttps://linktr.ee/RuanWillowRuan is a Manscaped Ambassador get 20% OFF+Free Shipping with promo code RUANWILLOW20 at https://www.manscaped.com/ Ruan is a Kiirro Toys Ambassador get 10% OFF with code RUANWILLOW10 at https://www.kiiroo.com/Copyright 2021-2023 Pink Infinity Publishing LLC

Oh F*ck Yeah with Ruan Willow

Ep 198: Sex is Messy, Dirty, &amp; Pleasurable, Understanding Our Sexuality with Dr. Joe Kort. "Sexuality and erotic interests are not clean. They are messy, nuanced, smelly, dirty, prideful, pleasurable, shameful, and we have to make room for all of that and not try to clean it up and try to make it a textbook thing," said Dr. Joe Kort. This is the last sentence he said in the interview and I think it's so very right, poignant, and definitely an accurate statement. Sex is all of those things, and even more! And it's certainly not cookie-cutter or so-called "normal". There is no normal. And why should there be? We are all individuals, as is each of our sexualities. Listen to and learn from our amazing discussion! He has years and years of experience, he's so knowledgeable about sex and relationships. We chatted about all things sexuality. He shared about his journey coming out as a gay man in the seventies, how his mom was enlightened enough to get him help, but how he also fell into the trap of being labeled with a sexual addiction, which he later learned was false as with time he learned more about sexual health and reframed his mindset to a much healthier one. He became a therapist in response to his journey. He counsels predominantly heterosexual couples, and he shared some very interesting stories from his practice. He talked about how our sexual orientation is not in the acts we do, but rather it's who we are. He talked about how we need to shed shame, and how the worldviews have changed regarding gay/lesbian people. We also chatted about how trans people are being stigmatized now. We talked about sexual orientation, masturbation, erotic compassion, cracking our erotic code, and how what's driving it isn't even about sex at all. He highlighted the importance of shedding shame for healthier sexuality and how couples really need to harness the mindset of having erotic compassion for one another, and not judge each other for their fantasies. Connect with Dr. Joe Kort for his website, books, and podcast here: <a href="https://joekort.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://joekort.com/</a> Find all his links here: <a href="https://linktr.ee/drjoekort" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://linktr.ee/drjoekort</a> Joe's book Erotic Orientation (affiliate): <a href="https://amzn.to/3RT5v1m" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://amzn.to/3RT5v1m</a> Is My Husband Gay, Straight, or Bi? <a href="https://amzn.to/3VkwJkl" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://amzn.to/3VkwJkl</a> 10 Smart Things Gay Men Can Do To Improve Their Lives <a href="https://amzn.to/3VfixcF" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://amzn.to/3VfixcF</a> Thank you Joe for coming on my show! Check out his podcast  Smart Sex Smart Love on podcast apps. Learn more about the podcast host Ruan Willow: <a href="https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow</a> Ruan's anthology: Decadent Erotica An Anthology of 10 Tales of Extreme Sensuality, Indulgence, Dominance, &amp; Submission. Universal link to the book: <a href="https://storyoriginapp.com/universalbooklinks/f96fc8e4-338f-11ed-9399-3b82020d795f" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://storyoriginapp.com/universalbooklinks/f96fc8e4-338f-11ed-9399-3b82020d795f</a> Online sellers ebook: <a href="https://books2read.com/u/mZEQvJ" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://books2read.com/u/mZEQvJ</a> Coming in paperback to online sellers 10/22/2022 Welcome to my podcast! Leave  a vo <a href="https://www.patreon.com/ruanwillow" rel="payment nofollow" target="_blank">Support the show</a>Sign up for Ruan's newsletters: <a href="https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://subscribepage.io/ruanwillow</a> <a href="https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://linktr.ee/RuanWillow</a> Ruan is a Manscaped Ambassador get 20% OFF+Free Shipping with promo code RUANWILLOW20 at <a href="https://www.manscaped.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://www.manscaped.com/</a> Ruan is a Kiirro Toys Ambassador get 10% OFF with code RUANWILLOW10 at <a href="https://www.kiiroo.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://www.kiiroo.com/</a> Copyright 2021-2023 Pink Infinity Publishing LLC

Sex is Messy, Dirty, & Pleasurable, Understanding Our Sexuality with Dr. Joe Kort

In this episode, Cate and Diggory invite Dr Joe Kort to talk about the phenomenon of straight men who have sex with men. They discuss:Why some straight men have sex with menWhat defines someone's sexual orientationThe difference between your sexual and erotic orientationJoe's 4 questions he asks clients to help them understand their sexual orientation You can find Dr Joe Kort here: https://joekort.com/Did you enjoy this episode? Then do subscribe to this podcast and leave us a review wherever you're listening.Want your sex or relationship question answered by our accredited therapist Cate? You can send them into us via:-      Our anonymous Google Forms: https://forms.gle/HkCB68f11gDaCYLW7-      Our email: podcasts@hattrick.com-      DMing us on Instagram – we’re @realsexedpodAnd we'll do our best to answer them on the podcast.You can find Cate’s blog, going into more detail on what was discussed in today’s episode, here: https://catecampbell.wordpress.com/The Real Sex Education is a Hat Trick Podcast Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

THE REAL SEX EDUCATION

In this episode, Cate and Diggory invite Dr Joe Kort to talk about the phenomenon of straight men who have sex with men. They discuss: <ul><li>Why some straight men have sex with men</li><li>What defines someone's sexual orientation</li><li>The difference between your sexual and erotic orientation</li><li>Joe's 4 questions he asks clients to help them understand their sexual orientation </li></ul> You can find Dr Joe Kort here: <a href="https://joekort.com/" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" target="_blank">https://joekort.com/</a>Did you enjoy this episode? Then do subscribe to this podcast and leave us a review wherever you're listening.Want your sex or relationship question answered by our accredited therapist Cate? You can send them into us via:-      Our anonymous Google Forms: <a href="https://forms.gle/HkCB68f11gDaCYLW7" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" target="_blank">https://forms.gle/HkCB68f11gDaCYLW7</a>-      Our email: <a href="mailto:podcasts@hattrick.com" rel="noopener noreferrer">podcasts@hattrick.com</a>-      DMing us on Instagram – we’re <a href="https://www.instagram.com/realsexedpod/" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" target="_blank">@realsexedpod</a>And we'll do our best to answer them on the podcast.You can find Cate’s blog, going into more detail on what was discussed in today’s episode, here: <a href="https://catecampbell.wordpress.com/?fbclid=IwAR3iCh4i_vhjmdx_0VIADk3r65OpPHCgFWiGV4EJtpnNqSlvtkqr4uOMvBA" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" target="_blank">https://catecampbell.wordpress.com/</a>The Real Sex Education is a Hat Trick Podcast Hosted on Acast. See <a href="https://acast.com/privacy" rel="noopener noreferrer nofollow" target="_blank">acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.

S4 19. Why Straight Men Have Sex with Men (with Dr Joe Kort)

Dr. Joe Kort explains all about heteroflexibility in men. That is, straight men who have sex with men...but aren't necessarily gay or bi! We dive deep in this one - as usual. Dr. Joe and I discuss the "hamburger eating brain" vs. the "ass eating" brain (super clinical right?). We also talk about anal and nipple play on straight men. Oh - I can't forget when time stood still and Dr. Joe anointed me as something other than a straight woman (don't ask...just listen to the episode).  Dr. Joe's info: IG: @drjoekort Podcast: https://joekort.com/podcast Website: www.joekort.com

Real Talk With Nina

Dr. Joe Kort explains all about heteroflexibility in men. That is, straight men who have sex with men...but aren't necessarily gay or bi! We dive deep in this one - as usual. Dr. Joe and I discuss the "hamburger eating brain" vs. the "ass eating" brain (super clinical right?). We also talk about anal and nipple play on straight men. Oh - I can't forget when time stood still and Dr. Joe anointed me as something other than a straight woman (don't ask...just listen to the episode).  Dr. Joe's info: IG: @drjoekort Podcast: <a href="https://joekort.com/podcast" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://joekort.com/podcast</a> Website: <a href="http://www.joekort.com" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.joekort.com</a>

Real Talk With Nina - Season 2 Episode 1: Dr Joe Kort and Heteroflexibility in Men

Anal schmanal. Sexologist, psychotherapist, and host of the podcast “Smart Sex, Smart Love” Dr. Joe Kort joins us to talk about sides, the term he coined in 2013 to describe gay men who don’t have anal sex. We also dip into straight guys, MSM (men who have sex with men), and Mike gets a little therapy about demisexuality. In this episode: News- 1:53 || Main Topic (Sides)- 16:56 || Guest (Dr. Joe Kort)- 21:02 || Gayest &amp; Straightest- 52:10 Links: Dr. Kort's 2013 Huffington Post article about sides: https://www.huffpost.com/entry/guys-on-the-side-looking-beyond-gay-tops-and-bottoms_b_3082484 Podcast episode about asexuality referenced in the show: https://joekort.com/cody-daigle-orians-talks-about-asexuality/  On the Patreon bonus segment, Mike and Kyle explore other ways your preconceived ideas of sex are wrong, based on an article by Dr. Joe Kort. Get bonus content by joining our Patreon at patreon.com/gayishpodcast.

Anal schmanal. Sexologist, psychotherapist, and host of the podcast “Smart Sex, Smart Love” Dr. Joe Kort joins us to talk about sides, the term he coined in 2013 to describe gay men who don’t have anal sex. We also dip into straight guys, MSM (men who have sex with men), and Mike gets a little therapy about demisexuality. In this episode: News- 1:53 || Main Topic (Sides)- 16:56 || Guest (Dr. Joe Kort)- 21:02 || Gayest &amp; Straightest- 52:10 Links: <ul><li>Dr. Kort's 2013 Huffington Post article about sides: <a href="https://www.huffpost.com/entry/guys-on-the-side-looking-beyond-gay-tops-and-bottoms_b_3082484" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://www.huffpost.com/entry/guys-on-the-side-looking-beyond-gay-tops-and-bottoms_b_3082484</a></li> <li>Podcast episode about asexuality referenced in the show: <a href="https://joekort.com/cody-daigle-orians-talks-about-asexuality/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://joekort.com/cody-daigle-orians-talks-about-asexuality/</a></li> </ul> On the Patreon bonus segment, Mike and Kyle explore other ways your preconceived ideas of sex are wrong, based on an article by Dr. Joe Kort. Get bonus content by joining our Patreon at <a href="http://www.patreon.com/gayishpodcast" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">patreon.com/gayishpodcast</a>.

Gayish: 263 Sides (w/ Dr. Joe Kort)

How has divorce impacted your sex life? Have you noticed a difference in intimacy as you move through your separation, dating, and even sex in your subsequent marriages? How has your experience communicating about your sexual interests and experience changed through divorce? Dr. Joe Kort is a psychotherapist and founder of The Center for Relationship and Sexual Health and a board certified clinical sexologist. He’s here today to help us navigate the uncertain waters of your post divorce sex life. Links &amp; Notes Follow Joe Kort on TikTok The Center for Relationship and Sexual Health

How to Split a Toaster: A Divorce Podcast About Saving Your Relationships

How has divorce impacted your sex life? Have you noticed a difference in intimacy as you move through your separation, dating, and even sex in your subsequent marriages? How has your experience communicating about your sexual interests and experience changed through divorce? Dr. Joe Kort is a psychotherapist and founder of The Center for Relationship and Sexual Health and a board certified clinical sexologist. He’s here today to help us navigate the uncertain waters of your post divorce sex life. <h3>Links &amp; Notes</h3> <ul><li><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@drjoekort?lang=en" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">Follow Joe Kort on TikTok</a></li> <li><a href="https://crsh.com" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">The Center for Relationship and Sexual Health</a></li></ul>

Exploring Yourself through Sex After Divorce with Sexologist Dr. Joe Kort

Dr. Joe Kort believes straight men can have gay sex and still be straight and he calls in to talk all about it. Why aren't guys who fool around with other guys gay or bi? What's the difference between sexual orientation and erotic orientation? And how does it pertain to this scenario? Tune in to find out plus hear him talk about how whether you're born with your fetish and kinks or are they a part of your sexual orientation, trauma re-enactment and how our childhood can change your erotic narrative, cross-dressing and gender play, toxic masculinity, how the acts that turn you on don't have to be labeled, how unique everyone's erotic footprint is, the younger generation and identity politics, why he doesn't believe in sexual addiction and how he deals with it in his practice, how his video went viral in TikTok, his relationship history and how he identifies himself and a whole lot more. Follow him on all social media @drjoekortFor more info on his group practice, books and blog, visit his website https://joekort.com Want to have better S-E-X?! Who doesn't?! Use Promescent! promescent.com/strictlyanon **NEW FEATURE!! To see anonymous pics of my guests + get early access to all episodes, join my Patreon. It's only $3 a month. You can sign up here: https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast Youtube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UClVFROTaiguy_FSB1L_v8hwInstagram https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/ Twitter https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en Facebook https://www.facebook.com/strictlyanonymouspodcast/Everything else https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dr. Joe Kort believes straight men can have gay sex and still be straight and he calls in to talk all about it. Why aren't guys who fool around with other guys gay or bi? What's the difference between sexual orientation and erotic orientation? And how does it pertain to this scenario? Tune in to find out plus hear him talk about how whether you're born with your fetish and kinks or are they a part of your sexual orientation, trauma re-enactment and how our childhood can change your erotic narrative, cross-dressing and gender play, toxic masculinity, how the acts that turn you on don't have to be labeled, how unique everyone's erotic footprint is, the younger generation and identity politics, why he doesn't believe in sexual addiction and how he deals with it in his practice, how his video went viral in TikTok, his relationship history and how he identifies himself and a whole lot more. Follow him on all social media @drjoekortFor more info on his group practice, books and blog, visit his website <a href="https://joekort.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://joekort.com</a> Want to have better S-E-X?! Who doesn't?! Use Promescent! <a href="http://promescent.com/strictlyanon" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">promescent.com/strictlyanon</a> **NEW FEATURE!! To see anonymous pics of my guests + get early access to all episodes, join my Patreon. It's only $3 a month. You can sign up here: <a href="https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast</a> Youtube <a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UClVFROTaiguy_FSB1L_v8hw" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://www.youtube.com/channel/UClVFROTaiguy_FSB1L_v8hw</a>Instagram <a href="https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/</a> Twitter <a href="https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en</a> Facebook <a href="https://www.facebook.com/strictlyanonymouspodcast/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://www.facebook.com/strictlyanonymouspodcast/</a>Everything else <a href="https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcast" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcast</a> Learn more about your ad choices. Visit <a href="https://megaphone.fm/adchoices" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">megaphone.fm/adchoices</a>

Bonus episode! 395 - Dr. Joe Kort on How Straight Men Can Have Gay Sex and Still Be Straight

Dr. Joe Kort is a leading expert on sex and relationships. He is author of 4 books on male sexuality and fluidity. He specializes in Out-of-Control Sexual Behaviors (OCSB)/“sex addiction”, Relationship Problems and Marital Conflict, Sex Therapy, and Sexual Identity Concerns, Depression, Anxiety and Post Traumatic Stress Disorder.  Today we’re chatting about:   Is porn destroying relationships? The issues with porn and vibrators. Implicit versus explicit contracts in a relationship. Having empathy for your partner’s erotic interests.    Connect with Dr. Joe Kort:   Website: JoeKort.com Twitter: twitter.com/drjoekort https://www.linkedin.com/in/joekort His podcast: https://smartsexsmartlove.com/  Here's the link to get started: DOING DATING RIGHT VIDEO COURSE!     Join the Facebook Group and leave a question for a future episode: https://www.facebook.com/groups/doingdivorcerightpodcast Where to find me: Website: https://jenniferhurvitz.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jenniferhurvitzbiz/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/doingrelationshipsright/   You can connect with my editor, Next Level Podcast Solutions at https://nextleveluniverse.com/   Get a copy of Jen’s book, “Woulda, Coulda, Shoulda: A Divorce Coach’s Guide to Staying Married” here.

Dr. Joe Kort is a leading expert on sex and relationships. He is author of 4 books on male sexuality and fluidity. He specializes in Out-of-Control Sexual Behaviors (OCSB)/“sex addiction”, Relationship Problems and Marital Conflict, Sex Therapy, and Sexual Identity Concerns, Depression, Anxiety and Post Traumatic Stress Disorder.  Today we’re chatting about:  <ul> <li>Is porn destroying relationships?</li> <li>The issues with porn and vibrators.</li> <li>Implicit versus explicit contracts in a relationship.</li> <li>Having empathy for your partner’s erotic interests.</li> </ul> Connect with Dr. Joe Kort:  <ul> <li>Website: <a href="http://www.joekort.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">JoeKort.com</a></li> <li>Twitter: <a href="http://www.twitter.com/drjoekort" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">twitter.com/drjoekort</a></li> <li><a href="https://www.linkedin.com/in/joekort" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://www.linkedin.com/in/joekort</a></li> <li>His podcast: <a href="https://smartsexsmartlove.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://smartsexsmartlove.com/</a></li> </ul> Here's the link to get started: <a href="https://jenniferhurvitz.lpages.co/onlinedatingminicourse/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">DOING DATING RIGHT VIDEO COURSE!</a> Join the Facebook Group and leave a question for a future episode: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/doingdivorcerightpodcast" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://www.facebook.com/groups/doingdivorcerightpodcast</a> Where to find me: Website: <a href="https://jenniferhurvitz.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://jenniferhurvitz.com/</a> Facebook: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/jenniferhurvitzbiz/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://www.facebook.com/jenniferhurvitzbiz/</a> Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/doingrelationshipsright/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://www.instagram.com/doingrelationshipsright/</a> You can connect with my editor, Next Level Podcast Solutions at <a href="https://nextleveluniverse.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://nextleveluniverse.com/</a> Get a copy of Jen’s book, “Woulda, Coulda, Shoulda: A Divorce Coach’s Guide to Staying Married” <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Woulda-Coulda-Shoulda-Divorce-Staying/dp/1733615822/ref=sr_1_10?ie=UTF8&amp;qid=1549833049&amp;sr=8-10&amp;keywords=shoulda+woulda+coulda" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">here</a>.

Safe & SEXY Summer! Dr. Joe Kort: Is Porn Ruining Your Relationship?

On today’s episode of the #mensexpleasure podcast, I chat with Dr. Joe Kort, a Licensed Sex and Relationship Therapist. Dr. Kort specializes in working with male sexual dysfunction, infidelity, relationship concerns, and with individuals identifying as LGBTQ, and presenting issues. He is the author of four books: 10 Smart Things Gay Men Can Do To Improve Their Lives, 10 Smart Things Gay Men Can Do To Find Real Love, LGBTQ Clients in Therapy: Clinical Issues and Treatment Strategies, and Is My Husband Gay, Straight, or Bi?: A Guide for Women Concerned about Their Men. Dr. Kort is a blogger for Psychology Today. He is founder and director of The Center for Relationship and Sexual Health, overseeing a group of therapists who provide outpatient psychotherapy services to clients. Dr. Kort is also Co-Director of Modern Sex Therapy Institutes running a Ph.D. program in Clinical Sexology and provides LGBTQIA Affirmative Therapy Certification, Couples and Sex Therapy Certification and Sex Therapy Certification and continuing education to mental health and medical professionals around the world. Dr. Kort and I talk about the rigid parameters of sexual orientation and why it can be beneficial to lean into fluidity. We also discuss how this impacts men, women and couples. Key Points: - Dr. Kort shares about his practice as a therapist - Heteroflexible and homoflexible - Discussing Jane Ward’s book, Not Gay - Bisexual erasure - Queering heterosexuality - “Your anus doesn’t have a sexual orientation” - Fragile masculinity - Working with couples in therapy - Wives’ experiences with heteroflexible men - Sexual fluidity for men and women - Practical advice for men Relevant links: Dr. Joe Kort’s Instagram/Tiktok/Twitter: @drjoekort Dr. Joe Kort’s podcast: www.SmartSexSmartLove.com Dr. Joe Kort’s website: www.JoeKort.com--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/cam-fraser/message

Men, Sex & Pleasure with Cam Fraser

On today’s episode of the #mensexpleasure podcast, I chat with Dr. Joe Kort, a Licensed Sex and Relationship Therapist. Dr. Kort specializes in working with male sexual dysfunction, infidelity, relationship concerns, and with individuals identifying as LGBTQ, and presenting issues. He is the author of four books: 10 Smart Things Gay Men Can Do To Improve Their Lives, 10 Smart Things Gay Men Can Do To Find Real Love, LGBTQ Clients in Therapy: Clinical Issues and Treatment Strategies, and Is My Husband Gay, Straight, or Bi?: A Guide for Women Concerned about Their Men. Dr. Kort is a blogger for Psychology Today. He is founder and director of The Center for Relationship and Sexual Health, overseeing a group of therapists who provide outpatient psychotherapy services to clients. Dr. Kort is also Co-Director of Modern Sex Therapy Institutes running a Ph.D. program in Clinical Sexology and provides LGBTQIA Affirmative Therapy Certification, Couples and Sex Therapy Certification and Sex Therapy Certification and continuing education to mental health and medical professionals around the world. Dr. Kort and I talk about the rigid parameters of sexual orientation and why it can be beneficial to lean into fluidity. We also discuss how this impacts men, women and couples. Key Points: - Dr. Kort shares about his practice as a therapist - Heteroflexible and homoflexible - Discussing Jane Ward’s book, Not Gay - Bisexual erasure - Queering heterosexuality - “Your anus doesn’t have a sexual orientation” - Fragile masculinity - Working with couples in therapy - Wives’ experiences with heteroflexible men - Sexual fluidity for men and women - Practical advice for men Relevant links: Dr. Joe Kort’s Instagram/Tiktok/Twitter: @drjoekort Dr. Joe Kort’s podcast: <a href="http://www.smartsexsmartlove.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.SmartSexSmartLove.com</a> Dr. Joe Kort’s website: <a href="http://www.joekort.com/" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">www.JoeKort.com</a>--- Send in a voice message: <a href="https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/cam-fraser/message" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/cam-fraser/message</a>